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Thread: Have You Ever Fallen Out of Love/Lost Interest After A long Relationship?

post 1519220671 09-12-2017, 05:03 PM
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Originally Posted By jim-double-b⏩
Oh boy,the similarities...
I'm on the same boat as you OP, and she is expecting the same things from me but I can't see myself spending the rest of my life with her without cheating.Many times,I had thoughts of doing something behind her back in order to get those sloot urges out of my system but that would be very disrespectful to myself but also her,considering she's been loyal to me.

For some reason I can't cut her off of my life,she has become family and she has all the wifey values someone could ask for.
So what do?leave her to satisfy my biology needs and regret it down the road or stick with her and wonder what if?
Double edged sword...
sounds like it's threesome time
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
sounds like it's threesome time
LOL,actually she has recommended a 3some once just to chit test me.I jokingly said yes but had to take it back as a chitstorm was surely on my way.Thing is even if she was down,I would still not do it;you can't see your significant other the same after something like this.gnomesaying?
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Wow, some of you are completely clueless... falling in and out of love.... lol

Love is a verb, it is something you do, not feel.

All I see in this thread among the voices of wisdom are uneducated delinquents, a sociopathic chick, and a few red pillers.
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Originally Posted By doughnutking⏩
Wow, some of you are completely clueless... falling in and out of love.... lol

Love is a verb, it is something you do, not feel.

All I see in this thread among the voices of wisdom are uneducated delinquents, a sociopathic chick, and a few red pillers.


Strong vocabulary.

Am I sociopathic chick? If so, what did I win?
They said she's gone too far this time

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post 1519224051 09-12-2017, 05:41 PM
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Originally Posted By jim-double-b⏩
Oh boy,the similarities...
I'm on the same boat as you OP, and she is expecting the same things from me but I can't see myself spending the rest of my life with her without cheating.Many times,I had thoughts of doing something behind her back in order to get those sloot urges out of my system but that would be very disrespectful to myself but also her,considering she's been loyal to me.

For some reason I can't cut her off of my life,she has become family and she has all the wifey values someone could ask for.
So what do?leave her to satisfy my biology needs and regret it down the road or stick with her and wonder what if?
Double edged sword...
Exactly! That's crazy how similair our situations are. She has become almost like family to my family as well. She's has met everyone in my family and I take her to family events. My mom even framed a pic of us.
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post 1519224561 09-12-2017, 05:46 PM
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
So on the one hand you're telling someone to stay with their cheating gf because it's not like they're married, and on the other you are negging someone for being a whore for breaking up with people?

Your priorities are all fked up.
Yes. She's a broken woman.

A woman doesn't owe a man her loyalty unless he's willing to marry her and kick down some coin.
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Originally Posted By jim-double-b⏩
LOL,actually she has recommended a 3some once just to chit test me.I jokingly said yes but had to take it back as a chitstorm was surely on my way.Thing is even if she was down,I would still not do it;you can't see your significant other the same after something like this.gnomesaying?
A MMF threesome or a FFM threesome?
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post 1519225101 09-12-2017, 05:53 PM
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Originally Posted By chickenbroc****⏩
Negged whore
Originally Posted By chickenbroc****⏩
Yes, good observation. You are a POS.
Lol this guy. Such a black knight.
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post 1519226791 09-12-2017, 06:10 PM
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Originally Posted By SicilianPower⏩
A MMF threesome or a FFM threesome?
MMF?im not on that ****gy time cuzzzz
generally speaking 3somes are reserved for fwb's and sloots you have no connection with.

Talking about that pic your mom framed for you,made me think of how she is the only girl I brought home and my mom got close with,before passing...This hits me right in the fukin feels
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post 1519228471 09-12-2017, 06:29 PM
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The new generations need so much and such constant stimulation how do you ever expect it to work? Read what the sloots wrote, it's not going to get better. Most people are selfish and self-serving unfortunately.

All my male relatives are divorced and one uncle told me something that resonated. He said "you need to be true to yourself" meaning be honest with yourself and don't damage someone else's life if you don't love them or aren't the LTR type. That was the end of my engagement.
post 1519228681 09-12-2017, 06:32 PM
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Originally Posted By jim-double-b⏩
MMF?im not on that ****gy time cuzzzz
generally speaking 3somes are reserved for fwb's and sloots you have no connection with.

Talking about that pic your mom framed for you,made me think of how she is the only girl I brought home and my mom got close with,before passing...This hits me right in the fukin feels
Oh I just thought maybe because you said you wouldn't be able to see her the same after you were talking about a mmf like maybe you had a thing were you wanted to see her to be really slooty and get double dominated, I was thinking definitely gross and weird but not ****gy, no dink touching.


Also yeah my mom framed a pic as a surprise. It's a pretty good picture but still. My family have all become quite fond of her.
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post 1519228781 09-12-2017, 06:33 PM
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Originally Posted By Theanine⏩
The new generations need so much and such constant stimulation how do you ever expect it to work? Read what the sloots wrote, it's not going to get better. Most people are selfish and self-serving unfortunately.

All my male relatives are divorced and one uncle told me something that resonated. He said "you need to be true to yourself" meaning be honest with yourself and don't damage someone else's life if you don't love them or aren't the LTR type. That was the end of my engagement.
Yeah basically put your self first, we only have one life to live that we know for sure of.
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post 1519229021 09-12-2017, 06:36 PM
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I´ve lost interest after four or five months, so until now i haven´t a long relationship
post 1519229641 09-12-2017, 06:43 PM
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Originally Posted By chickenbroc****⏩
Yes. She's a broken woman.

A woman doesn't owe a man her loyalty unless he's willing to marry her and kick down some coin.
So by those standards trinnie didn't owe any of her exes chit because they weren't married either.

Your logic:
Girl cheats, not a whore, she's a keeper!
Girl breaks up with someone, whore!
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post 1519230671 09-12-2017, 06:55 PM
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Originally Posted By SicilianPower⏩
What's FA's?
Forever alones. People who never had a partner.

You're not alone though bro it happens to most of us atleast once in life.
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Originally Posted By ecs33⏩
Forever alones. People who never had a partner.

You're not alone though bro it happens to most of us atleast once in life.
I see.
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Originally Posted By SicilianPower⏩
Sure she probably will, but this a girl who wants me as a life partner, she wants to marrry me, have my children, gave me her everything. For me to drop her, would crush her. It would probably take years to get over. She even said she would never feel like she could give herself to anyone else, she could never feel the same about someone else. Now in time I'm sure that could change, but just knowing the amount of emotional damage that would inflict on someone I care so much about truly feels terrible to think about.
Not to sound harsh, but this is what they all say. And then they'll say it to the next one.
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Originally Posted By sean67⏩
I think I fell out of love with the relationship and what we were doing. But by all means, even after a year, I still love my ex gf. I think to me, she was an amazing person, and we grew a lot together. I met her at 16 and were broken up by 21. I guess we came to a realization that the relationship was not working anymore. I do still love her though, I genuinely care about her well being and happiness more than most other people, but we are just not together and NC.
going through the same feels bruh. It's even worse when you know you fuked it up.
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The worst are breakups that come out of outfield (no where). My last breakup was like that. She would buy me gifts and spoil me. I honestly saw no red flags.. but what do I know. Until I got the call.. it sucks when especially when you care about somebody. Hardest part was going to her crib and getting my sht back. Havent talked to her in months. Nothing much you can do except move on. I've been talking to other girls and putting myself out there.. meantime I'm grinding and studying.

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Originally Posted By enzo818⏩
going through the same feels bruh. It's even worse when you know you fuked it up.
feels. too many feels.
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Originally Posted By Arthax⏩
Not to sound harsh, but this is what they all say. And then they'll say it to the next one.
I'm aware of that it's just since I'm her first boyfriend, and she believes in only being with one person forever. She doesn't really understand that if we separate, she can still be happy. It may take a long time but she can be, and I'm sure she will always have love for me and I can say the same. I think she deserves to be happy, and she deserves someone who wants all the same things she wants, someone who comes from a similair background as her, someone who isn't quite like me.
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Originally Posted By SicilianPower⏩
I'm aware of that it's just since I'm her first boyfriend, and she believes in only being with one person forever. She doesn't really understand that if we separate, she can still be happy. It may take a long time but she can be, and I'm sure she will always have love for me and I can say the same. I think she deserves to be happy, and she deserves someone who wants all the same things she wants, someone who comes from a similair background as her, someone who isn't quite like me.
Does she know that you're going to marry me?
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Originally Posted By SicilianPower⏩
I'm aware of that it's just since I'm her first boyfriend, and she believes in only being with one person forever. She doesn't really understand that if we separate, she can still be happy. It may take a long time but she can be, and I'm sure she will always have love for me and I can say the same. I think she deserves to be happy, and she deserves someone who wants all the same things she wants, someone who comes from a similair background as her, someone who isn't quite like me.
stop deluding yourself, the second she moves on she wont remember your name.

when you start believing a woman's bull**** like what you mentioned thats when you lose. Thats how she keeps a hold of you, but the second she finds someone new, you are gone
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Falling out of love while in a relationship with someone is the WOAT, because no one actually cuts it off right away. They stay in it months, even years longer because the person typically "didn't do anything wrong". You slowly emotionally begin to checkout and then it's all down hill from there.

On the opposite side of the coin, getting over someone who broke up with you, or finally having that "last straw" incident occur that makes you lose all fuks given for someone who was a bad match for you anyway? most liberating feeling on earth.
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Originally Posted By dimassive⏩
stop deluding yourself, the second she moves on she wont remember your name.

when you start believing a woman's bull**** like what you mentioned thats when you lose. Thats how she keeps a hold of you, but the second she finds someone new, you are gone
I'm not deluding my self I have told her she can find happiness if we don't work out, it's her mindset that thinks otherwise. I just know that for a good amount of time she will be quite crushed, like I said I'm her first love, she gave her self to me, she believes in only one person for a lifetime, she wants to marry, me and have kids, plus she is only 18. So I'm aware that if we were to separate however painful it would be for her (and me as well) eventually she would be ok.
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Originally Posted By W1LLW⏩
Falling out of love while in a relationship with someone is the WOAT, because no one actually cuts it off right away. They stay in it months, even years longer because the person typically "didn't do anything wrong". You slowly emotionally begin to checkout and then it's all down hill from there.

On the opposite side of the coin, getting over someone who broke up with you, or finally having that "last straw" incident occur that makes you lose all fuks given for someone who was a bad match for you anyway? most liberating feeling on earth.
Interesting input thank you.
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
Does she know that you're going to marry me?
Oh Cass, I thought you might have forgotten about me. You said you can't marry me though, and you crushed my dreams haha. I still have hope for us yet.
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Originally Posted By dimassive⏩
stop deluding yourself, the second she moves on she wont remember your name.

when you start believing a woman's bull**** like what you mentioned thats when you lose. Thats how she keeps a hold of you, but the second she finds someone new, you are gone
Just an fyi, that can go a different direction boyo. My EX-ex definitely monkey branched to someone else and peaced out never to be seen or heard from again in over 5 years. But my EX, she tried to monkey branch and "upgrade" but soon realized I was the best complete package she was gonna get. It's been a year of no contact from me but every 2 to 3 months i'll get an "I just wanted to say i'm thinking of you", "I miss what we used to be", "no matter what the future holds i just wanted to say i love you" email. Hard as fuk to read to be honest, but i know we'll never work so i stay nc.
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