Smart people aren't having kids anymore

12-10-2018, 10:44 AM

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Originally Posted By NWA19⏩

If my math serves me correctly.....

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Birthdays, I was 20 and she was 16 when we first met

12-10-2018, 10:44 AM

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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩

I agree with this, but I think you have it backwards.

There's no such thing as "the state" because it's a revolving door of new people coming and going. I believe it's driven by the psychology of people.

Anyway, I work with criminals and have noticed a huge change in women since I was a kid. When I was a kid women would get angry at a guy and call their dad, brother, etc to talk to the guy. Now, they call the cops if they're angry at a guy, make stuff up, file charges, and get PFAs against men who made them angry.

Daily, I meet guys who did nothing and get serious charges filed against them, and will spend time in jail, only to have the charges dropped by the woman. Nothing happens to the women. The guys being "in love" will do nothing and go back to the woman, mostly, and so it's like a giant family argument with the woman pulling the government into the situation like a standin dad.

I believe the media, in the 70s and 80s, had a plot to destroy families by promoting a negative type of feminism. That then created an increased demand for government to take over the role of family.

If you look at the black community in the US, it's pretty clear. The psychology of that is that black families got destroyed by slavery. Women hated the men for not protecting them, that made women chase away men, and caused families to disappear. So, all food, healthcare, housing, etc is provided by the government.

The above is official stuff I've read about the psychology of minorities, not something I made up.

Absolutely!

When i was in highschool back in the 90's, if you pissed a girl off, she would get either her brother, brothers friend, uncle, dad, or some other male figure to put you in your place.

Just a year a go, a girl i was dating called the police on me because we had a argument.

Didnt even know she called them until i heard a knock on her door. I thought the argument was over and was just sitting on the couch looking at my phone at the time.

3 cop cars showed up, 5 officers shining flashlights in my face asking what i did.

In the end they told me to leave, i was like WTF just happened?

12-10-2018, 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩

I used to think that way.

Many humans are degenerates and just take a look back at Roman times. However, there's always good people and that will continue.

The media pushes depression and I don't know if it's a plot to demoralize people or just because it's run by perverts, but it affected me and made me not want a family and kids.

Don't let that happen to you.

I agree with this post 100%.

Watching the media (and reading the 'red pill' worldview commonly promoted on the misc), can possibly encourage a person to hate or fear humanity in general.

Nothing but narratives of violence, corruption, and manipulation.

Especially if they are also dealing with unresolved trauma (which is IMO normally created due to bad experiences with people).

There are good hearted people in the world, but they require learning discernment to find IME.

12-10-2018, 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted By Destor⏩

Can confirm. I’m 33, been with my woman for 13 years, she is 28. Household income $150k last year, have a 1,600 sqft new build house, both in stable careers with strong future prospects. Both of our credit scores are 820+, both graduated college, no bad debt, etc etc

Still don’t have kids

12-10-2018, 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted By quadfecta⏩

Maybe I'm reaching, but imo smart/successful people realize there's more personal satisfaction in doing your own chit than spending 50-80% of your time and resources to raise a child in your 20s/30s

I think they've convinced themselves thats the case.

12-10-2018, 03:42 PM

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Lmao just came across this on ******** and immediately thought "these are the types of people having lots of kids nowadays"

12-10-2018, 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted By quadfecta⏩

Maybe I'm reaching, but imo smart/successful people realize there's more personal satisfaction in doing your own chit than spending 50-80% of your time and resources to raise a child in your 20s/30s

That's due to kinda stupid short term thinking.

I have a friend in his 60s and now his sons are getting older, getting married, will be having kids, there will be fun with that, holidays, and lots of important things.

When you get old and NO ONE is around and all of your relatives will be dead, what then? What will you be doing?

12-10-2018, 07:51 PM

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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩

It's the reverse.

People on welfare have big families, enjoy time off, are around their kids if they choose, and don't spend all day working for rich overlords. They a;so get others to pay for almost everything.

They are sly.

I'm a workaholic and am very respected in my career. However, I have ZERO family and now really, really, miss it. I'd do almost anything to have kids with a woman I loved. I'd even raise another guy's child, and I swore I'd never, ever, do that. But, I now love children and family probably more than others because I have none.

Ironically, all I do all day is try to save people and make them feel better. Many women, all married of course, tell me I'd make an ideal father.

Well, have you ever thought about finding a woman and impregnating her? Don't over-complicate it, dick goes in baby comes out.

12-10-2018, 08:02 PM

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kids are awesome.

u'll change your opinion when u hit 40.

12-11-2018, 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted By Blazenwave⏩

Well, have you ever thought about finding a woman and impregnating her? Don't over-complicate it, dick goes in baby comes out.

I would love to!

However, women and me don't always get along. I attract women and even have a 23 year old girl that likes me, but I can't see it.

I'm a very logical person and have noticed this syndrome. Most women will become oppositional to me in the end. I'm nearly always nice, kind, and know what I'm talking about. Most I've met hate this and like beta males, which I'm not. Most women I know have an inferior guy they love like a wounded bird, which of course puts the female in the superior position.

I've, had women tell me I'm like "a god" "and angel" and Superman. In my opinion, those aren't compliments but rather insults because it means I'm like a person who isn't human. An angel isn't someone you sit and have coffee with or snuggle with. You can't talk to an angel or get drunk with one, so see what I mean?

So, I wouldn't get just any woman pregnant because it would lead to a break up and then harm the child.

I need to find a woman that doesn't resent me for being nice, is able to vent if she gets mad about it, and has bonded with me. I'm dating someone now who seems like that, so we shall see, but she's getting older.

12-11-2018, 07:20 PM

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Originally Posted By RocknRollMuscle⏩

kids are awesome.

u'll change your opinion when u hit 40.

Kids renew life.

I've traveled all over, I have an exciting career, I have had ever type of girl I've wanted, I've done everything sexually I've wanted, and it's old. I would LOVE to see some excited Christmas behavior. I would LOVE to have to put up a tree. I would LOVE to watch cartoons or talk about superheroes, it would be awesome to feel that kind of stuff again.

I currently own zero Christmas decorations and just do not care about any of that stuff. The only thing that really gets me going is work, and that's about it.

I would like to marry my girlfriend when we move closer together next year, but she could screw that up. The only thing I have to count on is work, which I'm great at, and the people who run the institution think I'm awesome. I'd rather have a little kid think it.

12-11-2018, 08:04 PM

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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩

Kids renew life.

I've traveled all over, I have an exciting career, I have had ever type of girl I've wanted, I've done everything sexually I've wanted, and it's old. I would LOVE to see some excited Christmas behavior. I would LOVE to have to put up a tree. I would LOVE to watch cartoons or talk about superheroes, it would be awesome to feel that kind of stuff again.

I currently own zero Christmas decorations and just do not care about any of that stuff. The only thing that really gets me going is work, and that's about it.

I would like to marry my girlfriend when we move closer together next year, but she could screw that up. The only thing I have to count on is work, which I'm great at, and the people who run the institution think I'm awesome. I'd rather have a little kid think it.

So just have a kid then man, you sound dead set on it. Sounds to me like you’re not gonna be happy unless you have one which is strange

12-13-2018, 09:16 AM

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Originally Posted By DPeezy13⏩

So just have a kid then man, you sound dead set on it. Sounds to me like you’re not gonna be happy unless you have one which is strange

I need me and my girl in the same location!

I'm trying.

12-13-2018, 09:41 AM

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12-13-2018, 09:54 AM

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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩

When you get old and NO ONE is around and all of your relatives will be dead, what then? What will you be doing?

I imagine the same things people do before they have kids. If you think having kids is necessary for the enjoyment of life then you're as dumb as you sound.

12-14-2018, 09:44 AM

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Originally Posted By gibbypoo⏩

I imagine the same things people do before they have kids. If you think having kids is necessary for the enjoyment of life then you're as dumb as you sound.

I'm the opposite of dumb.

I get tired of doing the same things over and over and if you don't, that means you're probably dumb with an autistic streak.

12-14-2018, 02:15 PM

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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩

I'm the opposite of dumb.

I get tired of doing the same things over and over and if you don't, that means you're probably dumb with an autistic streak.

Your problem is doing the same thing over and over like some program stuck in an infinite loop, and just like the program, you can't figure out how to escape. Grab some sack and some courage and dare to do something different.

12-14-2018, 10:40 PM

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Originally Posted By gibbypoo⏩

Your problem is doing the same thing over and over like some program stuck in an infinite loop, and just like the program, you can't figure out how to escape. Grab some sack and some courage and dare to do something different.

I've had an extremely adventurous life. I could probably write books about it.

Family fun and togetherness cannot be bought or sought out.