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post 1611371011 07-22-2020, 03:07 PM
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What the heck happens to those lonely people who already were alone before the lockup? Now they don't have anywhere to go to, especially if they were laid off so they don't even have their jobs to go to. Probably applies more to older population.

Even my local Starbucks was always full of lonely people that were just hanging out. Now you can't hang out anywhere. No gyms, no restaurants, nowhere to go.

What if you don't have family or friends or if you're from a different country? I'm sure I would've gone to Finland if I were single.

Probably still better to be alone than with some wife beater.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Thanks

Yeah I agree with that in theory and I’ve tried dating guys my age but I just don’t like them and am not attracted to them and can’t deal with them.

I think I’m still mentally 23 years old myself because I can talk for hours with a 23 year old and not get bored. But after 5 min talking with a boomer I just want to run away.

Wut do
I think you need therapy. I don't think the guys you're dating will fill the void of your marriage, albeit fleetingly.

You need to figure out how to date someone closer to your own age who you could actually have a real companionship with. And sounds like that requires therapy.
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post 1611372691 07-22-2020, 03:22 PM
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I know a woman who I went to high school with who's 35 and still single.

She says she's waiting "on God to send her the perfect partner, and trust God's timing"

Super conservative too, pro Trump -- but I think she's obviously clingy -- probably borderline crazy and probably has unrealistic standards too.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah I was too. I was lonely before I got married. Even though I had boyfriends. Now after divorce I’m lonely again. Marriage is the best really but obv only if it’s a good marriage.

And like someone else said a lot of older people who are alone were married but they got divorced or their spouse passed away. Marriage doesn’t guarantee anything really.
Ask Nicklol to keep you company if you're lonely.
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post 1611373591 07-22-2020, 03:30 PM
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Cliffs:

Don’t be single, old or in the UK

Gotcha
I probably banged your mom.

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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Well I’ve done extensive therapy already. Therapy helps you understand what happened and understand yourself and it helps with grief because you can repeat your story as much as you want.

Don’t see how therapy could make me attracted to older men though. I mean do you think therapy could make you attracted to older women? I don’t think it works for that purpose lol.
You're attracted to immaturity though. I'm not. In fact one of the drawbacks for me dating young is the immaturity: snapchat etc. - the stuff you like.

So therapy might help your brain catch up on maturity. Maybe the first step is recognizing maturity =/= no fun.
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post 1611375371 07-22-2020, 03:45 PM
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Originally Posted By OT2000⏩
Cliffs:

Don’t be single, old or in the UK

Gotcha
Or live in Florida punk
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post 1611375971 07-22-2020, 03:50 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Thanks

Yeah I agree with that in theory and I’ve tried dating guys my age but I just don’t like them and am not attracted to them and can’t deal with them.

I think I’m still mentally 23 years old myself because I can talk for hours with a 23 year old and not get bored. But after 5 min talking with a boomer I just want to run away.

Wut do
If I can play armchair psychologist for a min, have you ever considered that maybe that liking only young guys is a defense mechanism? You know that it can't be serious with someone that young and if it isn't serious you can't be hurt again. Maybe you're scared of age appropriate men because you feel like it could develop into a LTR and your scared that you'll get close and something like your marriage could happen to you again
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post 1611376341 07-22-2020, 03:54 PM
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Lifting decreases the chance of getting dementia by 30 percent, so that negates the 30 percent living alone in the 50's and 60s.https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/about-...0%20per%20cent.
Pair that with supplementation in general and certain ones like Taurine which could protect against boomer brainhttps://www.lifeextension.com/magazi...s-aging-brains

Exercise alone has a buffet of benefits to the body we know this, so that further guillotines the chit out of the "Im single at 50 imma wither away cause i don't have a girl."
If anyone is marrying just for the sake of not being alone, you on that dum dum energy. There's waaay too much bullchit in marriage. Many men have died in their marriage they just haven't been buried yet. Have a social circle, have hobbies, have something to live for, keep working on your game with bitches, and rest easy with the fact that we're gonna die alone and you'll be straight.
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post 1611376671 07-22-2020, 03:58 PM
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Marxism has ruined marriage and the idea of marriage for a lot of people. These young generations don’t realize how miserable they’ll be when they’re old with no children and a spouse that they love.

Fuk feminism for making hoes
Fuk commies for convincing young men that marriage is awful
Fuk boomers for everything else
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i dont stick my dick in anything i wouldnt want to get preggo.

Thanks, peanut butter jar.
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post 1611379851 07-22-2020, 04:28 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Whereas in my marriage I was a Disney princess floating around in fantasy land thinking nothing could go wrong and all you need is love. So I was extremely vulnerable.
My armchair psychology is that you never emotionally matured within that marriage.

You engaged the fantasy, for better or worse, and maintained that dynamic with your husband. Likely so you wouldn't need to really face the obvious reality that something was going on, and could maintain that amazing feeling.
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post 1611380341 07-22-2020, 04:34 PM
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Strong marriedcel cope

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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Well I’ve done extensive therapy already. Therapy helps you understand what happened and understand yourself and it helps with grief because you can repeat your story as much as you want.

Don’t see how therapy could make me attracted to older men though. I mean do you think therapy could make you attracted to older women? I don’t think it works for that purpose lol.
In all seriousness, I wonder what sort of therapy you have undergone which (in your own words) has left you still "not over" your previous marriage from 8 years ago. Terrible things happen in this life, and it is a permanent detriment to yourself if you "carry" them with you. Like astainon your ability to be a happy person.

I'm not suggesting that you simply "accept" or "get over it", but I don't believe that therapy has really done right by you if this is your final state.
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Originally Posted By TBO1313⏩
I might have a spot in my harem opening up. Got some questions though...

Are you of child bearing age?

How's your cooking?

What specific type of Slav are you descended from? East, west or south?
- technically possible, but highly unlikely
- fair to good cook; crummy menu planner
- not Slavic; ex was Czech/Prussian

Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
When you are alone and completely free to do anything, it can be overwhelming. Whereas the structure and responsibilities of a family life (or even to another person) can set some direction.

I've thought about this a lot. Complete freedom is the best option if you don't desire companionship; but limiting that freedom through responsibility is typically better for the human condition.

I also believe humans are bigger slaves to our genes than we recognize. We desire certain roles innately.
Repped.
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i dont stick my dick in anything i wouldnt want to get preggo.

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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yep I think so too. I was not in touch with reality. Because the fantasy was just too sweet.
It's almost a rational decision when you think about it, that sweet blue pill. But my dignity or pride wouldn't let me swallow it.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes well I think a big part of it is just loneliness. Eight years is a long time to be alone. If I had met someone new along the way then it would’ve been easier to find peace.

I’m not sure how much of it is loneliness but maybe say 75%. That means I would be doing a whole lot better if I had a new companion.

Plus I’d be able to tell myself the breakup happened for a good reason because it let me find someone healthier and more compatible with me. Which I fully expected to find by now but I guess that expectation was another Disney fantasy.
Damn.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Plus I’d be able to tell myself the breakup happened for a good reason because itlet me find someone healthier and more compatible with me. Which I fully expected to find by now but I guess that expectation was another Disney fantasy.
People always say this... maybe most people do I guess because they learn from their past one.

I still think it's a lot of luck, with some good decisions and exposure thrown in.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes well I think a big part of it is just loneliness. Eight years is a long time to be alone. If I had met someone new along the way then it would’ve been easier to find peace.

I’m not sure how much of it is loneliness but maybe say 75%. That means I would be doing a whole lot better if I had a new companion.

Plus I’d be able to tell myself the breakup happened for a good reason because it let me find someone healthier and more compatible with me. Which I fully expected to find by now but I guess that expectation was another Disney fantasy.
Have you actually "felt" alone, in the way you describe here? You've told us quite a few times that you find it very easy to attract partners, at least for sex. And of those, some want relationships with you - though you have brushed off the guys you feel are too young for a relationship.

So if you clearly attract male attention like that, it's not like you're in an abject lonely state. Rather, you're looking for what you say is a "new companion".

The thing is, your breakup did "happen for a good reason" - you have said yourself that (in hindsight) the marriage was fairly toxic/co-dependent. Aren't you better off without him? I hope, after 8 years, you think so.

I don't actually think you miss "him" anyway - more you miss "having a partner". But the story there doesn't have to be a Disney fantasy, and I think - deep down - you know that. I admit it can be hard - I had "given up" until I stumbled across my (now) wife at a work event. It ain't over 'till it's over, you know.
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you have to be a real savage to be ok with being alone its not for everyone
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yeah I don’t even know where I got that belief from. Maybe from books or movies or some general idea of karma.

Idk but I was 100% assuming that I’d find somebody better for me. And that the “reward” for grieving and working through everything and letting go and finalizing the divorce etc would be that I would find someone better and new happiness. But I guess that is just a platitude that people say like “everything happens for a reason.” And a fantasy plot for books and movies.
I found women that are better in some ways, but not in other ways. I don't want to live under a delusion that I'll find someone with all the positive traits and compatibility and none of the bad traits that resulted in our issues.

Life owes us nothing, even though we like to imagine there's some dream/fate fulfillment. Gotta just find someone with enough good traits and get on with it.
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