This is such a loser mindset - plus I think you are missing the point.


What so many of the young men of the last 2 generations don't understand, is that when you focus ONLY on hedonistic pleasure, "YOLO" type thinking, you will ALWAYS be unfulfilled.

What you need to realize is, meaning in life comes from FIRST establishing yourself as a man, building yourself up, building your career (career, not JOB), and not just being 100% self-sustaining, but having EXCESS resources that you can eventually share with a woman/family. You MUST be in this position before you can be a leader....and for a woman to follow your authority. The vast majority of you don't even meet this most basic pre-requite and wonder why nobody takes you seriously. Hell just today I my lunch break I walked into a Philz coffee and a group of 4 girls (maybe 19-20 years old) hit on me, and then after they left another girl 18-19 years old hit on me....BOTH groups approached me, and I'm 39. Girls are thirsty AF for MEN who have their chit together, and who have a presence when they walk into a room. This isn't a brag, I already have a GF, and I have a side girl in Chicago....the point is to illustrate how thirsty girls 18-25years old are for actual, competent, men.

Once you've established yourself the purpose then becomes SERVING SOMETHING GREATER THAN YOURSELF. Living this fake flashy lifestyle you guys see all over Social Media is FAKE, the people who flex the most are completely fake....or they are SELLING you something.

Get yourself out of the house, get plugged into the community, do some charity work, volunteer on the weekends to referee kids sports, work the snack bar.....serve a cause greater than yourself. Then keep building up from there, network with other volunteers, go to city council meetings, rotary club meetings, you will meet local business leaders.....this is literally how you become a successful pillar of the community - you don't need to buy "self help books" or "how to be a millionaire" overnight get rich quick scheme nonsense. You build yourself up over years, you establish a good track record, good reputation, and you'll meet great people (including women) along the way.

So many great men have built this society, and shaped the future, some people call it "making a dent in the universe". This is what you need to do, have a purpose. What so many of you fail to understand.....is if you do this....you don't have to CHASE girls anymore....you should NEVER be chasing girls, you will simply come across them, girls are VERY AGGRESSIVE when they find a man attractive, they purposefully put themselves in close proximity to you, to be near you, so you notice them. The more you demonstrate you are a competent man, with skills, with drive, with structure, the more they want to be in your proximity. As always, this doesn't mean you can be some out-of-shape dork - you have to get your ass in the gym, be fit & healthy, dress well, etc. It's a marathon, not a sprint - you will develop all the "attractive" qualities if you do what I've outlined above. There are no shortcuts to life.

So, decide to do something with your life....or keep complaining and play video games pretending like you are "striking a blow against the system" by being a loser. Yeah....you sure showed them.

chads are happy because they're banging a ton of chicks.

women are happy when they're in their prime but then get mad post wall

Incels are mad but still at least they're starting to impact society by dropping out

The fact you're saying men need to do all this just to get an average woman in 2022 says it all

Not worth it when the average woman is overweight

I think the quality of (the Average 5'3.7" 171lbs/1 meal from being literally obese, tatted up, bodycount higher than prostitutes from just a 50 years ago, feminist mindset woman) is WAY WAY too low for even a homeless man.
I think the US will have a very tough time competing against countries like China in the future because good looking, young, compliant, virtuous, virginal, high quality women is one of the biggest motivating factor for great men throughout history.
Those type of women are rarer than hen's teeth in the US.

No, he is trying to tell you how to attract better quality women, not "average" women.



Aware that China doesn't have enough available women and that they have their own Lying Flat movement right?

Yeah loved that game in 2012 when I was 15. Played the **** out of it then got my actual drivers license and was never home.



The wife bought it. It's alright but you're not actually doing anything your just moving pixels around.

I thought it was pretty universal that you outgrow video games in favor of the real world but I guess not.

No, he is trying to tell you how to attract better quality women, not "average" women.

This is such a loser mindset - plus I think you are missing the point.


What so many of the young men of the last 2 generations don't understand, is that when you focus ONLY on hedonistic pleasure, "YOLO" type thinking, you will ALWAYS be unfulfilled.

What you need to realize is, meaning in life comes from FIRST establishing yourself as a man, building yourself up, building your career (career, not JOB), and not just being 100% self-sustaining, but having EXCESS resources that you can eventually share with a woman/family. You MUST be in this position before you can be a leader....and for a woman to follow your authority. The vast majority of you don't even meet this most basic pre-requite and wonder why nobody takes you seriously. Hell just today I my lunch break I walked into a Philz coffee and a group of 4 girls (maybe 19-20 years old) hit on me, and then after they left another girl 18-19 years old hit on me....BOTH groups approached me, and I'm 39. Girls are thirsty AF for MEN who have their chit together, and who have a presence when they walk into a room. This isn't a brag, I already have a GF, and I have a side girl in Chicago....the point is to illustrate how thirsty girls 18-25years old are for actual, competent, men.

Once you've established yourself the purpose then becomes SERVING SOMETHING GREATER THAN YOURSELF. Living this fake flashy lifestyle you guys see all over Social Media is FAKE, the people who flex the most are completely fake....or they are SELLING you something.

Get yourself out of the house, get plugged into the community, do some charity work, volunteer on the weekends to referee kids sports, work the snack bar.....serve a cause greater than yourself. Then keep building up from there, network with other volunteers, go to city council meetings, rotary club meetings, you will meet local business leaders.....this is literally how you become a successful pillar of the community - you don't need to buy "self help books" or "how to be a millionaire" overnight get rich quick scheme nonsense. You build yourself up over years, you establish a good track record, good reputation, and you'll meet great people (including women) along the way.

So many great men have built this society, and shaped the future, some people call it "making a dent in the universe". This is what you need to do, have a purpose. What so many of you fail to understand.....is if you do this....you don't have to CHASE girls anymore....you should NEVER be chasing girls, you will simply come across them, girls are VERY AGGRESSIVE when they find a man attractive, they purposefully put themselves in close proximity to you, to be near you, so you notice them. The more you demonstrate you are a competent man, with skills, with drive, with structure, the more they want to be in your proximity. As always, this doesn't mean you can be some out-of-shape dork - you have to get your ass in the gym, be fit & healthy, dress well, etc. It's a marathon, not a sprint - you will develop all the "attractive" qualities if you do what I've outlined above. There are no shortcuts to life.

So, decide to do something with your life....or keep complaining and play video games pretending like you are "striking a blow against the system" by being a loser. Yeah....you sure showed them.

Can't blame them. Why bust your ass working a job you hate, just to be incel or get an obese tatted up single mom at best? The juice ain't worth the squeeze for a lot of guys nowadays

I think this is why they invented religion. To make people get married, so every man has a woman/family to come home to so he has an incentive to work. Society functions much better this way

Except the men struggling can't get any women basically. You think an incel is going to start getting bad bs?


The reality is most men are average and at best will get average women if any women at all.

No, he is trying to tell you how to attract better quality women, not "average" women.



Aware that China doesn't have enough available women and that they have their own Lying Flat movement right?

If you are referring to average looks or averages finances, sure. You could say the same thing about average women [at best will get average men].

Those aren't the only qualities that matter though. Health, humor, conscientiousness, loyalty, agreeableness, resilience, morality, and so on, and so on, and so on...

There are just as many overweight/obese men as there are women so it isn't like females aren't also having to settle for fat men.

Just lol if you think a lot of guys attract even average bloatlordesses.
I haven't even had a date in around 6 years. Dating is for good looking people, rich people, or both.

Women are all sleeping around with men above their league and refuse to settle for their equal

Grinding in videogames is much like grinding in life though, and in both cases you're grinding to do/be something better

Would say videogames expedite the reward though compared to real life, and of course opens you up to things you just can't do in reality

I do feel sorry for dudes in their 20's.
a lot of women just look at men as ATM's or sperm donors to help kick off their multiple baby-daddy plans.

see, in NY for example having 2 kids with the same guy is an exercise in diminishing returns.
17% of his income for one child.
25% of income for two children.

it's far more profitable to have one child with multiple baby-daddy's.

Women do prefer to date "across and up".

IDK about the "all sleeping around" part. Misc says so. Most other sources say people are having less sex than ever.

This is such a loser mindset - plus I think you are missing the point.


What so many of the young men of the last 2 generations don't understand, is that when you focus ONLY on hedonistic pleasure, "YOLO" type thinking, you will ALWAYS be unfulfilled.

What you need to realize is, meaning in life comes from FIRST establishing yourself as a man, building yourself up, building your career (career, not JOB), and not just being 100% self-sustaining, but having EXCESS resources that you can eventually share with a woman/family. You MUST be in this position before you can be a leader....and for a woman to follow your authority. The vast majority of you don't even meet this most basic pre-requite and wonder why nobody takes you seriously. Hell just today I my lunch break I walked into a Philz coffee and a group of 4 girls (maybe 19-20 years old) hit on me, and then after they left another girl 18-19 years old hit on me....BOTH groups approached me, and I'm 39. Girls are thirsty AF for MEN who have their chit together, and who have a presence when they walk into a room. This isn't a brag, I already have a GF, and I have a side girl in Chicago....the point is to illustrate how thirsty girls 18-25years old are for actual, competent, men.

Once you've established yourself the purpose then becomes SERVING SOMETHING GREATER THAN YOURSELF. Living this fake flashy lifestyle you guys see all over Social Media is FAKE, the people who flex the most are completely fake....or they are SELLING you something.

Get yourself out of the house, get plugged into the community, do some charity work, volunteer on the weekends to referee kids sports, work the snack bar.....serve a cause greater than yourself. Then keep building up from there, network with other volunteers, go to city council meetings, rotary club meetings, you will meet local business leaders.....this is literally how you become a successful pillar of the community - you don't need to buy "self help books" or "how to be a millionaire" overnight get rich quick scheme nonsense. You build yourself up over years, you establish a good track record, good reputation, and you'll meet great people (including women) along the way.

So many great men have built this society, and shaped the future, some people call it "making a dent in the universe". This is what you need to do, have a purpose. What so many of you fail to understand.....is if you do this....you don't have to CHASE girls anymore....you should NEVER be chasing girls, you will simply come across them, girls are VERY AGGRESSIVE when they find a man attractive, they purposefully put themselves in close proximity to you, to be near you, so you notice them. The more you demonstrate you are a competent man, with skills, with drive, with structure, the more they want to be in your proximity. As always, this doesn't mean you can be some out-of-shape dork - you have to get your ass in the gym, be fit & healthy, dress well, etc. It's a marathon, not a sprint - you will develop all the "attractive" qualities if you do what I've outlined above. There are no shortcuts to life.

So, decide to do something with your life....or keep complaining and play video games pretending like you are "striking a blow against the system" by being a loser. Yeah....you sure showed them.

I haven't even had a date in around 6 years. Dating is for good looking people, rich people, or both.

I chose to put in over 150 hours into Elden ring than go on dates. I'm on Hinge and tinder and just don't care to put in any effort. Some sloot gave me her number and Immediately I lost interest because she's now expecting me to plan the date, wow her, and really put on a show to win her over. Nobody wants to do that chit anymore. plus she probably makes more money than me so it's not like she's going crazy over me because I can add financial stability.

I still put in 40 hours a week at my job and study the market on my off time. Video games will never impact me not working. that's just crazy talk. they will and have impacted me dating. They are simply more fun than going on a date with a sloot now and days. It's just that simple.

and I have a side girl in Chicago