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A woman's ultimate weapon: "I don't feel comfortable around you anymore"
12-01-2016, 10:46 PM
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You gotta go on the offensive before hand.
Tell her "you're scaring me" or "You're making me uncomfortable"
It means when she tries to pull it on you it's not as powerful, also might make them reconsider pulling it on you cause you're already aware.
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Tell her "you're scaring me" or "You're making me uncomfortable"
It means when she tries to pull it on you it's not as powerful, also might make them reconsider pulling it on you cause you're already aware.
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12-01-2016, 11:13 PM
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Response= "good you shouldn't "
12-05-2016, 05:12 AM
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Bump
12-05-2016, 05:19 AM
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"perfect me2, bye"
and then wait for the text/calls coming in, and then you hit her with "Why are you contacting me? Its making you and me comfortable, bye"
and then wait for the text/calls coming in, and then you hit her with "Why are you contacting me? Its making you and me comfortable, bye"
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12-05-2016, 05:40 AM
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Originally Posted By Ashfrolicious⏩
sense has been spokenYep, female coworkers can be hell to be around at times, which is why you need to be smart about things.
1) Go to work
2) Do all your tasks quietly and efficiently
3) GET ALONG with everyone, despite how chit some of them may be... give them a fake smile at least
4) Minimize too much social interaction around the chit-stirrers and STAY OUT of politics
5) Go home
Anyway, you make a BAD call in calling her out publicly, OP. These kind of things need to be dealt with in a respectful, private manner.
1) Go to work
2) Do all your tasks quietly and efficiently
3) GET ALONG with everyone, despite how chit some of them may be... give them a fake smile at least
4) Minimize too much social interaction around the chit-stirrers and STAY OUT of politics
5) Go home
Anyway, you make a BAD call in calling her out publicly, OP. These kind of things need to be dealt with in a respectful, private manner.
don't get pally with anyone at work. Everyone is ready to throw anybody else under a bus for the smallest incentive.
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12-05-2016, 05:52 AM
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Originally Posted By OnePostPony⏩
He husband/boyfriend was there. Are you retarded?Oh God. I nearly made a thread about this very thing happening to me because I was so confused.
- Was on a date, all was going well, talking about sex
- She pulls me to leave the bar
- We walk towards my train station, she says "I think I'll come with you
", gets on train
- Grabs me and makes out on train, is very cuddly
- Her stop is 5 minutes away, mine is 45 so I say lets get off at your stop, she is a bit hesitant but says "fine"
- 5 minutes in to walking to her house she says "you are not coming in, I don't know you" - I'm like "do you want to hang out longer?" She says "why are you stalking me?". I apologise and leave.
- I am so confused. I guess I shouldn't have invited myself over, but she was already coming to mine I just though it was more convenient to go to hers. Didn't realise she would completely change her mind if we did it at her house.
- Never see her again.
- Was on a date, all was going well, talking about sex
- She pulls me to leave the bar
- We walk towards my train station, she says "I think I'll come with you
", gets on train- Grabs me and makes out on train, is very cuddly
- Her stop is 5 minutes away, mine is 45 so I say lets get off at your stop, she is a bit hesitant but says "fine"
- 5 minutes in to walking to her house she says "you are not coming in, I don't know you" - I'm like "do you want to hang out longer?" She says "why are you stalking me?". I apologise and leave.
- I am so confused. I guess I shouldn't have invited myself over, but she was already coming to mine I just though it was more convenient to go to hers. Didn't realise she would completely change her mind if we did it at her house.
- Never see her again.
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12-05-2016, 06:05 AM
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Anyone can use it, it's very powerful if you pull it out every now and again when you just straight do not want to do some chit.
"I'm not comfortable with that". What are they gonna say? Get comfortable? And nobody wants to ask why because fuk knows what might come as the answer. I've used it every now and again for years, it always works. Official-type people especially freak out.
"I'm not comfortable with that". What are they gonna say? Get comfortable? And nobody wants to ask why because fuk knows what might come as the answer. I've used it every now and again for years, it always works. Official-type people especially freak out.
Originally Posted By samsbolton⏩
So this. Either that or she lives like a pig, that was I was thinking until your post. Scandalous chit.He husband/boyfriend was there. Are you retarded?
12-05-2016, 06:48 AM
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I had this happen to me in a Uni class, except she very loudly said it infront of the whole class to a lecturer.
"We don't feel comfortable around him". (pointing to the 2 other females in class)
All I had done at this point was reply to a comment from her which was "How can fat people be tolerated by anyone" and I snickered and said "How can ugly women be tolerated by anyone" so obviously she couldn't take being offended.
The other 2 women told him that they felt comfortable around me and not to listen to the woman...
Guy sent me out and made me do all the work without going to class for the rest of the year. I should have sued.
Also, I got an official warning for the following which proves women have all the power in professional situations even when they are in the wrong.
- woman in class telling people she liked me for a few weeks
- me not rly fancying her
- eventually I thought "**** it"
- she sent me nudes, I didn't send any back
- lots of promiscious texts from her
- went on date
- next thing I know I am being done for harrasment. I take in phone and show all the texts she sent me, they tell me that because she is a woman they have to take the allegation very seriously, and because I don't have her permission, they can't use her text msgs and dirty pics as evidence that I have done nothing wrong. I get official warning for harrasment, she gets to go round class boasting about it. Turns out her boyfriend found out and instead of admitting an affair to him she made out I was stalking and harrasing her.
"We don't feel comfortable around him". (pointing to the 2 other females in class)
All I had done at this point was reply to a comment from her which was "How can fat people be tolerated by anyone" and I snickered and said "How can ugly women be tolerated by anyone" so obviously she couldn't take being offended.
The other 2 women told him that they felt comfortable around me and not to listen to the woman...
Guy sent me out and made me do all the work without going to class for the rest of the year. I should have sued.
Also, I got an official warning for the following which proves women have all the power in professional situations even when they are in the wrong.
- woman in class telling people she liked me for a few weeks
- me not rly fancying her
- eventually I thought "**** it"
- she sent me nudes, I didn't send any back
- lots of promiscious texts from her
- went on date
- next thing I know I am being done for harrasment. I take in phone and show all the texts she sent me, they tell me that because she is a woman they have to take the allegation very seriously, and because I don't have her permission, they can't use her text msgs and dirty pics as evidence that I have done nothing wrong. I get official warning for harrasment, she gets to go round class boasting about it. Turns out her boyfriend found out and instead of admitting an affair to him she made out I was stalking and harrasing her.
12-05-2016, 06:55 AM
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For those unaware of OP, He threatened his daughters school teachers because he came in through the wrong school door.
Guys legit got psychopathic tendencies and that's why his girl said she doesn't feel safe around him
http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showth...hp?t=172330363
Check out the thread, no self control from this grown man, even in front of his daughter.
OP was probably threatening this girl just like he threatened his daughters school teachers
Guys legit got psychopathic tendencies and that's why his girl said she doesn't feel safe around him
http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showth...hp?t=172330363
Check out the thread, no self control from this grown man, even in front of his daughter.
OP was probably threatening this girl just like he threatened his daughters school teachers
12-05-2016, 07:03 AM
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Originally Posted By BieberFeverBrah⏩
"Really? No example? Not a single one? Anything? Hello?"

I think I see why she isn't comfortable around you.
Nah, fukk that. I’m not doing that.
12-05-2016, 07:08 AM
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12-05-2016, 07:57 AM
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Originally Posted By FannySkelper⏩
Plot twistFor those unaware of OP, He threatened his daughters school teachers because he came in through the wrong school door.
Guys legit got psychopathic tendencies and that's why his girl said she doesn't feel safe around him
http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showth...hp?t=172330363
Check out the thread, no self control from this grown man, even in front of his daughter.
OP was probably threatening his gf just like he threatened his daughters school teachers
Guys legit got psychopathic tendencies and that's why his girl said she doesn't feel safe around him
http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showth...hp?t=172330363
Check out the thread, no self control from this grown man, even in front of his daughter.
OP was probably threatening his gf just like he threatened his daughters school teachers
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12-05-2016, 08:14 AM
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Should have asked her to explain herself, where if you aren't in the wrong she would have either done insane mental gymnastics or stumbled all over herself, either way she'd come off as the sore loser and you could just call her out on her drivel .
12-05-2016, 08:28 AM
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I just see work as removed from real life, and idgaf what most people think about me. After all, I can always get a new job.
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12-05-2016, 08:37 AM
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Originally Posted By PeteJonesHTX⏩
I used to feel more optimistic about work but more and more I work, the more and more I get this way. Think a younger workforce is usually better as they arn't jaded by the work world yet. Noticed this with my previous company.I just see work as removed from real life, and idgaf what most people think about me. After all, I can always get a new job.
That said, about 75% of the time when I've tried to work with people and get stuff done correctly, I get burned. They phuk stuff up then when you call them out to their boss, you get blamed for being negative. And women are giant passive aggressive chitstorms...like walking on eggshells.
Is it time to get paid yet?? DAM
To the actual OP:It is a passive aggressive, critical play to undermine your confidence. Used to let it get to me.
Now I stay away from them or report it to their manage they are making me feel isolated and left out.
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