repped...

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people date nowadays for more than a few years. If you aren't compatible and not into it as much you'd know by then.
A lot of people are fine with that though and get married anyway, but those aren't the kind of people to be concerned about it getting boring.

this is pure theory: the same thing u do to get her in is the same thing u do to keep her


so, maybe going NC, or switching dates, or planning a new date to where she discovers the premeditation u put in


but Im sure its still lesser no matter what

This. It's practically 2nd base these days.

It’s not the sex you have to worry about. It’s the growing apart.

I have been with my wife for 8 years. I would be lying if I said the man in me didnt think about satiating some primal desire to have sex with another woman.

However it stays just that, a fleeting desire that never materializes.

Once you have a woman you can count on, whom you know loves you, the sex never gets old.

I won't trade the loyal, caring woman I have for a piece of trim. I did my thing when I was younger, and it wasn't worth it then and definitely isn't now.

You may disagree and that's fine, to each his own.

No, it's likely due to the Coolidge effect...

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effect

Familiarity developing a diminished physical attraction, to you partner. It's rare that people feel as much sexual desire to their partner 10 years into a relationship, on the same level that they did 1 year into a relationship.

There is a form of sex that seeks to try to diminish of the ability of the coolidge effect, to affect us...

https://www.reuniting.info/wisdom/what_is_karezza

I agree with this.

Agree with all the LTR / Married guys view on it. Still attracted to my gf (7.5 years), still have great sex life etc.

I'd say what changes (at least in my case) is the regularity of it decreases. When we first got together we were fukin like 4-5 times a day/night (srs), now its like 2-3 times a week.

But when we got together we were 18-19 years old, so your stresses are much lower, younger, newer in relationship (dat honeymoon phase) and so on.

Now when you've got responsibilities, work stress, personal life stress and all that chit it can turn off the mood.

I mean, I'm up for sex anytime, anywhere. I had a really nasty motorbike crash (almost died), had like 25 stitches, bruises everywhere, big lacerations over my legs/back and just got out of hospital pumped up on tons of morphine and I was still initiating sex with her like less than 12 hours after the bike crash.

If she has a chitty customer at her work talk to her badly, or if there is like something wrong with her car thats bugging her - then she wont be in the mood. Or if she comes home and I've made the house a complete mess and not tidied up - she wont be in the mood etc.

Alcohol and smoking (not tobacco) always dramatically improves the chances of getting laid and also exponentially improves the kinkiness of said sex.

Apart from pooing on her or beating the crap out of her, or blood play etc - we've pretty much done everything you can think of, so not really anywhere 'to go' from there.

I probs have a different view on the sex aspect of our relationship though due to having a 'non natty' libido.

Be rich, get a supper hottie that is 10+ years younger than you with an awesome little tight pu$$y and big titties who can suck the chrome off a bumper and never says no to any kind of sex with her. I can attest that you dont get tired of that, ever.

Always wonder this. I root a girl for a few months and get bored. Maybe it's me or maybe haven't met the right girl IDK but I just get sick of people easily