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Thread: Why in the fuk would anyone want kids?

post 1569422411 12-24-2018, 05:41 AM
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Deciding not to have kids seems like it's only a few steps away from suicide in a logic chain.

You don't really want unwilling parents with unwanted kids in the world, so at least the no kids crew are honest with themselves.
post 1569422651 12-24-2018, 05:57 AM
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Damn, OP is a real miserable fuk.
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post 1569422701 12-24-2018, 05:58 AM
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Originally Posted By AlwaysFocus⏩
Someone had you.

Personally the biggest reason i will have kids is so my family legacy carries on, and someone can take care of me when i am old like my great grand parents, grand parents, parents, and me do for their parents.

I guess if your selfish and think dying alone is alpha then no kids is a good idea.
These are the worst reasons to have kids. Extremely selfish to want a kid so he/she can take care of you when you're old. Trust me if your kid moves to another state for a career, or is just career focused in general, you'll be in a nursing home. And you'll be a douche for even expecting your child in the prime of their life, to completely shift all of their life goals and dreams to take care of you. Get real.

And the "legacy" idea is even dumber to me. Most of us are mediocre, and our kids will also be that. You aren't Bill Gates or Jeff Bezos, or even a professional athlete. It's not going to be a great tragedy if your genes don't get passed on.
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Originally Posted By PermaBulk610⏩
And the "legacy" idea is even dumber to me. Most of us are mediocre, and our kids will also be that. You aren't Bill Gates or Jeff Bezos, or even a professional athlete. It's not going to be a great tragedy if your genes don't get passed on.
...meanwhile a 70 IQ woman somewhere in Africa is giving birth to her 8th child



post 1569423541 12-24-2018, 06:29 AM
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This is what I tell people that ask what it's like having kids,

It's 51% the most amazing thing you'll ever do in your life
It's 49% hell on earth
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post 1569423601 12-24-2018, 06:31 AM
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post 1569423661 12-24-2018, 06:32 AM
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What a new and exciting thread topic.
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post 1569423731 12-24-2018, 06:34 AM
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i always mired the people with big families. with big family christmas dinners. bunch of cousins, brothers, sisters etc
looks really fun. i want 2

im going to discipline the fk out of them though. they will be alphas..inb4 2 daughters
going to teach them how to read, math, lift, cook, drive a car
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post 1569425821 12-24-2018, 07:16 AM
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Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis⏩
No kids crew .

Went out with to many sloots that had kids . Grew a real hate on for kids after that.

I do however buy Christmas and birthday gifts for my neighbors kids .
Lmao @ basing your opinion off of children raised by single mothers
post 1569426071 12-24-2018, 07:20 AM
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Never wanted kids. Got married and made sure wife was ok with not having kids. ****ed up and got her preggo, didn’t have it in me to abort.

Love the **** out of my boy can’t imagine life without him
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post 1569426121 12-24-2018, 07:21 AM
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Don't want kids, never had, never will.

I'm going for my vasectomy next month. Wish me luck boyos.
post 1569426341 12-24-2018, 07:25 AM
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The usual misc anti kids banter lol. Having kids is torture some days and the best thing another day. Most people have kids by accident and chalk it up to "omg I am so glad I had kids by accident, they're my little blessing!"

I cwnt type out smother huge response for kid threads. If you're financial stable in a serious relationship then consider having kids. If you're in a fuking terrible relationship and you know for a fact you're not spending the rest of your life with that psycho bish then get out of that relationship before the inevitable happens. Once you have a kid with someone, that person is going to always be in your life one way or another.
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post 1569426791 12-24-2018, 07:33 AM
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Because that’s how humanity is continued, lovemy boys to death.

But if you wanna cope that’s fine.
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Having a child can be my biggest headache some days, and other days it's amazing. Such is life with most things.
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Originally Posted By jwarrenfit⏩
Never wanted kids. Got married and made sure wife was ok with not having kids. ****ed up and got her preggo, didn’t have it in me to abort.

Love the **** out of my boy can’t imagine life without him
I can see how some parents could end up miserable in that situation. Eternally. The product of that kind of environment is often a degenerate child.

I've wanted a child ever since I was around 20. Of course I always wanted a boy, luckily my first born was a boy. So it's literally been a dream come true for me, which makes things that much sweeter.
post 1569434151 12-24-2018, 09:35 AM
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Originally Posted By 128⏩
"muh legacy" - worker drone nobody
Lol
post 1569434431 12-24-2018, 09:38 AM
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Having kids fukcing sucks
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post 1569434931 12-24-2018, 09:46 AM
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post 1569435601 12-24-2018, 09:54 AM
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know how I know you dont have kids?

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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
This

All the dads in here saying it’s not that much work probably just aren’t doing most of it. In nearly all families the mom does the bulk of the work and gives the most attention to the kids. I see all around me how much work it is and how tired the moms are. Kids need constant care and attention if you want to raise them right.
some of us do our part and aren't whiny little *******s about it
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Not going to lie, life does seem like it would get super lame and lonely if you're 40+ without a family. Still don't think it's good to just selfishly pop out kids because you don't want to be lonely though.

All the my bloodline, my legacy reasons are dumb too. There's 7 billion of the species in the World, legacies and bloodlines are straight delusional.
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ITT: People without kids talk about how hard it is to have kids.
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post 1569437171 12-24-2018, 10:15 AM
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Friend who has a two year old is constantly exhausted and says if she gets out of the house without some kind of kid bodily fluid on her that is a win (medic too). All friends who have kids have a house that looks like a bomb has gone off and look like they have aged about 5 years in 1 year with zero time with their wives. Husbands on dat job lock time due to schools. This is all before their kids are teenagers that say they hate them while treating them like an atm and taxi service before



Looks like hell on earth. Meanwhile gf and I on dat dual income no kids time, further careers and having holidays out of azzrape price periods.
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post 1569437311 12-24-2018, 10:16 AM
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Originally Posted By SteadyWayfarer⏩
Not going to lie, life does seem like it would get super lame and lonely if you're 40+ without a family. Still don't think it's good to just selfishly pop out kids because you don't want to be lonely though.

All the my bloodline, my legacy reasons are dumb too. There's 7 billion of the species in the World, legacies and bloodlines are straight delusional.
Just because you think it's dumb doesn't mean it is. I quite like the idea of my ancestors living on through me, and through my offspring.

What is life without some romanticism my guy?
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Originally Posted By harmsxwhey⏩
ITT: People without kids talk about how hard it is to have kids.
They make it sound like the worst chit on earth I swear. I feel like I'm doing it wrong not being miserable when I come in these threads.
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
They make it sound like the worst chit on earth I swear. I feel like I'm doing it wrong not being miserable when I come in these threads.
Same here. It takes effort, but it’s not a “fuk, I have to go do something” effort. I want to do things with my sons, I want to be involved in their lives. I enjoy my time with them. It gets hectic at times, but life gets hectic without kids. Not saying that everyone should have kids by any means, but chitting on people who choose to is pathetic.
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Originally Posted By Chipatty⏩
once you're dead, you won't be able to enjoy the fact that your ancestors are living through you because you won't be conscious anymore. this is absolutely a dumb reason to have kids.
I can and will enjoy the fuk out of it while I'm alive though.
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Don't you live in a trailer? What's your mortgage like $434/month?
no, i live in a house and it's 870 for mortgage/tax/insurance, thank you very much lol
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Most people's kids end up as wagecels. It's funny how people talk so good about their kid, yet their kid is average at best.

99% of your legacies aren't legacies. This is huge, huge, cope being the simple fact you will never be the 1%. You couldn't hack it in sports. You couldn't last in politics. You couldn't better humanity. Etc. You're all disposable along with your kids so no one cares about your legacy. The Walmart family is leaving behind a legacy. The Rothchilds are leaving behind a legacy. Everything ITT is cope.


If my kids aren't dominating the world I'll be very disappointed. Fuk....I gotta start preparing
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The only thing worse than people who talk/post about their kids on social media are people without them who talk/post on social media as if they've somehow won at the game of life by not having them.
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