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Originally Posted By TrotonKat⏩
I need drama bored at work cotdayum public holidays.Cliffs be boring. I thought maybe some drama had happened being 6 pages and all LOL
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Originally Posted By DirtyTorque⏩
Same. I'm at work and it is super boring.I need drama bored at work cotdayum public holidays.
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The last 12 girls I smashed going back to december of last year, and their age at the time/random thoughts about em
23yo - Was all about that social media lifestyle. So I just couldn't get into the conversations about ******** this, twitter that, likes this, follows that
19yo - Was all about that struggling artist lifestyle. So I couldn't get into the conversations about musicals, and shows, and dancing, and struggling to pay the bills
23yo - Very chill stoner. We barely talked, very superficial conversation. Within 1 hour of meeting her at the restaurant, she was drinking out of my glass
25yo - Talked too much about a whole lot of nothing. So I couldn't get into the conversations. Also spent alot of the night dancing and making out, and not talking
24yo - Decent conversations. Talked about work, hobbies, upbringings
29yo - First night had awesome talk about sports, music. Then second date she's interrogating about my work and family and stuff
22yo - Decent conversations. Talked about work and hobbies
21yo - Awesome conversations. Talked about some deep stuff like upbringing, but also kept it light by cracking jokes and being cheeky
22yo - Pretty bad conversations. Talked about her school stuff and my work stuff
24yo - Awesome conversations. We were cracking jokes and mixing in some flirty stuff. Also she was very direct
29yo - Decent conversation. Was chitty at first bc she went on and on about herself, but then we got more drunk and started talking deep stuff like dreams and aspirations. Second time we met, downhill fast, it was all about her problems
23yo - Intellectual. Kind of all over the place, but in a good way
Weirdly, both over 29 women were cool the first time, but not so cool the 2nd time; whereas with the younger girls, what you see is basically what you get
23yo - Was all about that social media lifestyle. So I just couldn't get into the conversations about ******** this, twitter that, likes this, follows that
19yo - Was all about that struggling artist lifestyle. So I couldn't get into the conversations about musicals, and shows, and dancing, and struggling to pay the bills
23yo - Very chill stoner. We barely talked, very superficial conversation. Within 1 hour of meeting her at the restaurant, she was drinking out of my glass
25yo - Talked too much about a whole lot of nothing. So I couldn't get into the conversations. Also spent alot of the night dancing and making out, and not talking
24yo - Decent conversations. Talked about work, hobbies, upbringings
29yo - First night had awesome talk about sports, music. Then second date she's interrogating about my work and family and stuff
22yo - Decent conversations. Talked about work and hobbies
21yo - Awesome conversations. Talked about some deep stuff like upbringing, but also kept it light by cracking jokes and being cheeky
22yo - Pretty bad conversations. Talked about her school stuff and my work stuff
24yo - Awesome conversations. We were cracking jokes and mixing in some flirty stuff. Also she was very direct
29yo - Decent conversation. Was chitty at first bc she went on and on about herself, but then we got more drunk and started talking deep stuff like dreams and aspirations. Second time we met, downhill fast, it was all about her problems
23yo - Intellectual. Kind of all over the place, but in a good way
Weirdly, both over 29 women were cool the first time, but not so cool the 2nd time; whereas with the younger girls, what you see is basically what you get
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Originally Posted By LisaSkinnoble⏩
is he autisticI had my son at 31,
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Originally Posted By TrotonKat⏩
All us women folks need to just get 30 cats cuz we ain't nevah gonna find a man with our lack of glow. lolzcliffs?
Originally Posted By LisaSkinnoble⏩
25 was rough for me too! I haven't dreaded a bday like I did 25. You are looking fabulous womane, totally rocking the 50's!Turning 30 didn't bother me a bit. Turning 25 did. I was married, but only a few years into my career. When my mother turned 25, she had 4 children and had been teaching for 8 years already. Seriously.
I had my son at 31,
Honestly, not a single birthday has bothered me since that gloomy 25th. 40 was awesome, 50 was too. I'm staring down the barrel of fiddy-tree in January and still having a grand time!
I had my son at 31,
Honestly, not a single birthday has bothered me since that gloomy 25th. 40 was awesome, 50 was too. I'm staring down the barrel of fiddy-tree in January and still having a grand time!
Originally Posted By VoxExMachina⏩
I think my cliffs was better.Put on your apron and bake some pies for your cats, grandma.
At least, I'm guessing this would be the cliffs. TS;DNR
At least, I'm guessing this would be the cliffs. TS;DNR
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and Chadettes will always slay!\The Chad's will always slay.
Chads will continue to slay regardless.
Chads will continue to slay regardless.

Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck⏩
So I'm curious why a guy read that book? Not dissing the fact you did, just wonder why. I don't typically go past the first meet (online dating) without feeling some attraction, no. I know myself and I know if it's not there it's not going to be there. I also stated in my last post that it's not a crazy spark/chemistry that I'm looking for. Just general overall attraction. Both the mental and physical have to be there for me. It's not all one or the other.Lori talks about how chasing that 'spark' leads to many women being perpetually single or chasing after 'bad boys' who they feel the 'spark' with but just want to pump and dump, or have a casual relationship. Literally the same arguments you've just made, are the same objections I've read in the book, it's actually uncanny.
From what it sounds like you tried to go beyond the 'spark test' only once.
Also if those very pretty girl's in their 20s and 30s can't find a man who they have something in common with, and are attracted to, then their standards are probably way too high. Lori talks about 'the list' in the book, and the petty reasons that women no longer date men.(In an article she spoke about a married friend who was telling her a story about a conversation she was having with a single friend. The married friend was complaining about her husband leaving his worn socks around the house, and the single friend said that she was seriously dump a guy who had that habit. Her married friend realized that was why she was - unhappily - single, connection and companionship was thrown away because she was so petty.)
Just admit I'm right.
From what it sounds like you tried to go beyond the 'spark test' only once.
Also if those very pretty girl's in their 20s and 30s can't find a man who they have something in common with, and are attracted to, then their standards are probably way too high. Lori talks about 'the list' in the book, and the petty reasons that women no longer date men.(In an article she spoke about a married friend who was telling her a story about a conversation she was having with a single friend. The married friend was complaining about her husband leaving his worn socks around the house, and the single friend said that she was seriously dump a guy who had that habit. Her married friend realized that was why she was - unhappily - single, connection and companionship was thrown away because she was so petty.)
Just admit I'm right.
That example from the book to me is ridiculous. I do not have unrealistic or crazy expectations. We are all human and we all have flaws and I'm not looking for a perfect person. I don't believe that the younger girls I know having the same issues with dating that I've had are looking for perfection or ridiculous standards either.
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Originally Posted By BigPoopyDumpin⏩
And by smashed ofc you mean bought them drinks, went home alone and never heard from them again rightThe last 12 girls I smashed going back to december of last year, and their age at the time/random thoughts about em
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Originally Posted By TinySquats⏩
I'm 26 now. This was a hard birthday. After 25 I'm already fearing the big 30. It's depressing as ****, and I know I'm not ready for marriage at all. Modern dating is difficult in a big city too. I've uninstalled all the apps etc and decided to work on myself for a year staying single because I need it.
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Last chick I dated was 29-30 and she constantly talked about “wasting time” and chit like that.
She was the typical story of riding the cock carousel and wanting to find a beta provider after getting worn out in her 20’s. She realized I had no intention of wifing her after she ****ed up more than a few times, along with admitting her subpar history to me.
At age 20 she dated a 40 year old chiropractor. He ended up dying from cancer sadly. She got a tattoo with his name on her arm and brought him up a few times during our relationship to compare me...lol, disgusting. She lost her $200k a year sugar daddy, it was downhill from there.
She was the typical story of riding the cock carousel and wanting to find a beta provider after getting worn out in her 20’s. She realized I had no intention of wifing her after she ****ed up more than a few times, along with admitting her subpar history to me.
At age 20 she dated a 40 year old chiropractor. He ended up dying from cancer sadly. She got a tattoo with his name on her arm and brought him up a few times during our relationship to compare me...lol, disgusting. She lost her $200k a year sugar daddy, it was downhill from there.
12-31-2017, 06:48 PM
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Originally Posted By melDorado⏩
I relate to this post. FWIW I was married @ 30 and @ 40. Just found 30 to be mentally tougher because you can't even pretend you are kind of young anymore. At work you stop being a part of the in college/just out of college crowd.I remember being absolutely fukin devastated when i turned 30
Weirdly when i turned 40 i loved it
Idk about 50 that might really suck actually
Weirdly when i turned 40 i loved it
Idk about 50 that might really suck actually
Originally Posted By LisaSkinnoble⏩
Glad to hear it.Turning 30 didn't bother me a bit. Turning 25 did. I was married, but only a few years into my career. When my mother turned 25, she had 4 children and had been teaching for 8 years already. Seriously.
I had my son at 31,
Honestly, not a single birthday has bothered me since that gloomy 25th. 40 was awesome, 50 was too. I'm staring down the barrel of fiddy-tree in January and still having a grand time!
I had my son at 31,
Honestly, not a single birthday has bothered me since that gloomy 25th. 40 was awesome, 50 was too. I'm staring down the barrel of fiddy-tree in January and still having a grand time!

I've read that age 46 is when we are on average the least happy and that it get better in the late 50s. So past the worst maybe. If everything falls in to place I could be starting a new career around 50. By my late 50s I could happily be a grandma.
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If a woman has been looking after herself in her 20s then hitting 30 should not be a big deal....while she's not in her prime looks wise anymore she should still be looking near that peak (again, only if she's looked after herself). The problem is, most women now a days spend their 20s partying, drinking, doing drugs, eating like chit and getting diked down by several guys. They are worn out as fuk and when they hit 30 they realise this and get depressed because they know it shows and come to the conclusion they wasted their 20s. Oh and lets not forget most will have had at least 1 kid and are now a single mother.
There is but one path....we kill them all.
12-31-2017, 06:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I totally agree with you on this. So many people have told me to give it more than one meet, but see what happens when I do? Nothing changed, except then we were a couple weeks and 3 dates in and I felt even worse telling him I wasn't interested.Yeah I'm on the same page. My friend always advises me to "give people a chance" but I think one date is enough to determine if you're physically attracted to someone and want to see them again. Forcing a second date with someone you're not attracted to is wasting both your time.
Not saying that a first date is enough to determine other important things like compatibility and character etc but it's enough to determine physical attraction imo.
Not saying that a first date is enough to determine other important things like compatibility and character etc but it's enough to determine physical attraction imo.
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I am a 36 single woman, soon be 37. I have always feel good about my age because I don't take my life for granted.
I know life is very fragile, and one can die from cancer or from car accident. So I am always happy when I celebrate my birthday knowing that I have lived one year longer.
When you live longer, you get to try more things. You can read more books and try more hobbies. In the book of Principles by Ray Dalio, the author said it takes 18 months for people to change a habit, and 7 years for someone to be expert in one area. So you see, everything takes time.
About looks, when you are 20th, people say wow, you look 10 years younger, well, that is more an insult.
But when you are 30th and 40th, people say wow, you look 10 years younger, that is a compliment. Sometimes I imagine what if I am 50 year old and I still look like 30th, what would that be like? What is more exciting than you race with time?
Have you heard Time = Money? If you are interested in investment, you will know if you invest at an earlier age, you will be rich much earlier because the rich formula has time factor in it. So in your 30th, you are likely be more financial stable than in your 20th. You can worry less about money, and put your focus on other things that is more interesting.
I have recently developed reading hobby thanks to the 52 books in 52 weeks thread. I love it so much that I am kicking myself for not starting earlier because it takes time to read a book. Do you know Thomas Jefferson donated more than 6000 books from his library? 6000 books! Assume one reads 100 books a year, that takes 60 years to finish.
Now you see why I think it is a great thing to be older, right?. Time grows wrinkles on me, but I trade it with life experience.
She should not feel insecure or bad, but be proud and grateful.
Just my 2 cents since you said you wanted to hear from female perspective =)
I know life is very fragile, and one can die from cancer or from car accident. So I am always happy when I celebrate my birthday knowing that I have lived one year longer.
When you live longer, you get to try more things. You can read more books and try more hobbies. In the book of Principles by Ray Dalio, the author said it takes 18 months for people to change a habit, and 7 years for someone to be expert in one area. So you see, everything takes time.
About looks, when you are 20th, people say wow, you look 10 years younger, well, that is more an insult.
But when you are 30th and 40th, people say wow, you look 10 years younger, that is a compliment. Sometimes I imagine what if I am 50 year old and I still look like 30th, what would that be like? What is more exciting than you race with time?
Have you heard Time = Money? If you are interested in investment, you will know if you invest at an earlier age, you will be rich much earlier because the rich formula has time factor in it. So in your 30th, you are likely be more financial stable than in your 20th. You can worry less about money, and put your focus on other things that is more interesting.
I have recently developed reading hobby thanks to the 52 books in 52 weeks thread. I love it so much that I am kicking myself for not starting earlier because it takes time to read a book. Do you know Thomas Jefferson donated more than 6000 books from his library? 6000 books! Assume one reads 100 books a year, that takes 60 years to finish.
Now you see why I think it is a great thing to be older, right?. Time grows wrinkles on me, but I trade it with life experience.
She should not feel insecure or bad, but be proud and grateful.
Just my 2 cents since you said you wanted to hear from female perspective =)
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It only depends if they lost their attractiveness. Reason why most women try to get married in their 20's.
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
I dunno, Norwood is likely way worse. Women can look great into thier 50’s if they take great care of themselves. If you lose your hair, you just look old, no matter how great you take care of yourself.I'd imagine it feels about 100x worse than how a man feels when the Norwood reaper pays him a visit.
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Originally Posted By write2staceyz⏩
Inb4 White Knights respond to her.I am a 36 single woman, soon be 37. I have always feel good about my age because I don't take my life for granted.
I know life is very fragile, and one can die from cancer or from car accident. So I am always happy when I celebrate my birthday knowing that I have lived one year longer.
When you live longer, you get to try more things. You can read more books and try more hobbies. In the book of Principles by Ray Dalio, the author said it takes 18 months for people to change a habit, and 7 years for someone to be expert in one area. So you see, everything takes time.
About looks, when you are 20th, people say wow, you look 10 years younger, well, that is more an insult.
But when you are 30th and 40th, people say wow, you look 10 years younger, that is a compliment. Sometimes I imagine what if I am 50 year old and I still look like 30th, what would that be like? What is more exciting than you race with time?
Have you heard Time = Money? If you are interested in investment, you will know if you invest at an earlier age, you will be rich much earlier because the rich formula has time factor in it. So in your 30th, you are likely be more financial stable than in your 20th. You can worry less about money, and put your focus on other things that is more interesting.
I have recently developed reading hobby thanks to the 52 books in 52 weeks thread. I love it so much that I am kicking myself for not starting earlier because it takes time to read a book. Do you know Thomas Jefferson donated more than 6000 books from his library? 6000 books! Assume one reads 100 books a year, that takes 60 years to finish.
Now you see why I think it is a great thing to be older, right?. Time grows wrinkles on me, but I trade it with life experience.
She should not feel insecure or bad, but be proud and grateful.
Just my 2 cents since you said you wanted to hear from female perspective =)
I know life is very fragile, and one can die from cancer or from car accident. So I am always happy when I celebrate my birthday knowing that I have lived one year longer.
When you live longer, you get to try more things. You can read more books and try more hobbies. In the book of Principles by Ray Dalio, the author said it takes 18 months for people to change a habit, and 7 years for someone to be expert in one area. So you see, everything takes time.
About looks, when you are 20th, people say wow, you look 10 years younger, well, that is more an insult.
But when you are 30th and 40th, people say wow, you look 10 years younger, that is a compliment. Sometimes I imagine what if I am 50 year old and I still look like 30th, what would that be like? What is more exciting than you race with time?
Have you heard Time = Money? If you are interested in investment, you will know if you invest at an earlier age, you will be rich much earlier because the rich formula has time factor in it. So in your 30th, you are likely be more financial stable than in your 20th. You can worry less about money, and put your focus on other things that is more interesting.
I have recently developed reading hobby thanks to the 52 books in 52 weeks thread. I love it so much that I am kicking myself for not starting earlier because it takes time to read a book. Do you know Thomas Jefferson donated more than 6000 books from his library? 6000 books! Assume one reads 100 books a year, that takes 60 years to finish.
Now you see why I think it is a great thing to be older, right?. Time grows wrinkles on me, but I trade it with life experience.
She should not feel insecure or bad, but be proud and grateful.
Just my 2 cents since you said you wanted to hear from female perspective =)
All you're doing is reading books from an obscure author. Granted I have obscure interests too but everyone probably thinks you're just the book version of a Cat Lady (the old female Librarian or something).
You probably have way more fun in your early 20s when Chad was pounding you and you went out in night clubs. In your 25-30 when rich Timothies were still willing to buy you dinners, vacations and cars. Life must be bad or boring now for you.
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Originally Posted By TheRougarou646⏩
OP is talking about attractive women that had glow. If you never had glow then you cant know what its like to lose it.Turning 30 didn’t bother me a bit I’m 37 now and I’m not worried in the least at 40 being right around the corner.
Edit* I guess I should mention I had been married for over a decade had two children and was running a successful business when I turned 30
Edit* I guess I should mention I had been married for over a decade had two children and was running a successful business when I turned 30
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Originally Posted By WeDoPullups⏩
lolLast chick I dated was 29-30 and she constantly talked about “wasting time” and chit like that.
She was the typical story of riding the cock carousel and wanting to find a beta provider after getting worn out in her 20’s. She realized I had no intention of wifing her after she ****ed up more than a few times, along with admitting her subpar history to me.
At age 20 she dated a 40 year old chiropractor. He ended up dying from cancer sadly. She got a tattoo with his name on her arm and brought him up a few times during our relationship to compare me...lol, disgusting. She lost her $200k a year sugar daddy, it was downhill from there.
She was the typical story of riding the cock carousel and wanting to find a beta provider after getting worn out in her 20’s. She realized I had no intention of wifing her after she ****ed up more than a few times, along with admitting her subpar history to me.
At age 20 she dated a 40 year old chiropractor. He ended up dying from cancer sadly. She got a tattoo with his name on her arm and brought him up a few times during our relationship to compare me...lol, disgusting. She lost her $200k a year sugar daddy, it was downhill from there.
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Originally Posted By gwg77⏩
Strong cope. I can ask 1,000 people at the train station who Ray Dalio is and none would have a clue. Probably most would fail that pop quiz even in New York. He's not JK Rowling.ray dalio is not an obscure author. he runs one of the largest hedge funds in the world
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Originally Posted By WeDoPullups⏩
Holy crap here’s a blast from the pastLast chick I dated was 29-30 and she constantly talked about “wasting time” and chit like that.
She was the typical story of riding the cock carousel and wanting to find a beta provider after getting worn out in her 20’s. She realized I had no intention of wifing her after she ****ed up more than a few times, along with admitting her subpar history to me.
At age 20 she dated a 40 year old chiropractor. He ended up dying from cancer sadly. She got a tattoo with his name on her arm and brought him up a few times during our relationship to compare me...lol, disgusting. She lost her $200k a year sugar daddy, it was downhill from there.
She was the typical story of riding the cock carousel and wanting to find a beta provider after getting worn out in her 20’s. She realized I had no intention of wifing her after she ****ed up more than a few times, along with admitting her subpar history to me.
At age 20 she dated a 40 year old chiropractor. He ended up dying from cancer sadly. She got a tattoo with his name on her arm and brought him up a few times during our relationship to compare me...lol, disgusting. She lost her $200k a year sugar daddy, it was downhill from there.
Remember reading your cold approach thread with”and your surname?”
What happened to that South American seniorita you were bangin out a while back?
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
Lol at a tradie making $200K. Gross revenue of a self-employed tradesmen =/= net profit or spending money.Holy crap here’s a blast from the past
Remember reading your cold approach thread with”and your surname?”
What happened to that South American seniority you were bangin out a while back?
Remember reading your cold approach thread with”and your surname?”
What happened to that South American seniority you were bangin out a while back?
That tradie was probably making a strong $80,000 after he paid for licenses, tools, permits, supplies and other things. Then taxes. That old 20s woman is probably a Walmart worker or something.
01-01-2018, 05:41 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
I have an obsessive personality (when it comes to researching outlier thought and culture), and at the time I was looking into non-mainstream advice on dating. I wanted to see the female side.So I'm curious why a guy read that book? Not dissing the fact you did, just wonder why
I don't typically go past the first meet (online dating) without feeling some attraction, no. I know myself and I know if it's not there it's not going to be there.I also stated in my last post that it's not a crazy spark/chemistry that I'm looking for. Just general overall attraction. Both the mental and physical have to be there for me. It's not all one or the other.
I don't know you personally, so your intuition could be very accurate but that's a very common sentiment from unhappily unmarried women, according to the book.The basic advise she gives is to be more traditional, meaning... Having the belief that connection can develop over time. The modern belief is that strong feelings (eg. strong attraction, the 'spark', 'chemistry', etc), needs to be established from the first meeting/date. The idea that it's 'inauthentic' if it develops over time.
Not directly related, but IMO a brilliant break down of how toxic movies and TV shows are for our dating culture...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eMsp9O0E_jE
I do not have unrealistic or crazy expectations. We are all human and we all have flaws and I'm not looking for a perfect person. I don't believe that the younger girls I know having the same issues with dating that I've had are looking for perfection or ridiculous standards either.
I don't know about you, because I don't know you but... Very pretty women in their 20s who can't find a decent guy? I'd bet money they are looking for Christian Grey and not just a decent guy. Very pretty women in their 20s have an abundance of men wanting to date them, and if they can't find a single decent guy from that abundance, whereas friends, family and coworkers are happily married or have started a family, then I would be skeptical that they have reasonable standards.I can't admit that you're right, because you're not.
You're just being stubborn.
If You Don't Like To Talk About Your Feelings, This Might Help...
https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=178926621
The Most Heartbreaking Thing That I've Learned About 'The Elite'.
https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=178536851
Bitcoin And 'The Elite' - Why Bitcoin Is Not Revolutionary
https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=179820783
01-01-2018, 06:07 AM
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Attraction on first meeting is simply lust
Attraction can indeed grow over time where there was none. What? You’ve never seen Beauty and the Beast or read any traditional fairy tale romance?
Leggz I find it odd that any woman, least of all woman of your experience would consign people to the no relationship pile because of lack of instant attraction ...knowing full well that attraction can also be directly proportional to the amount of alcohol you’ve drunk or the situation or your hormonal or emotional state
Also Beta...not sure why you’re continually holding up Christian Grey as some kind of women’s ideal? He’s a really poorly written one dimensional character who didn’t even make for a decent Dominant ...he’s just a Mills & Boon rich man good looking crappy Mr Darcy character
Attraction can indeed grow over time where there was none. What? You’ve never seen Beauty and the Beast or read any traditional fairy tale romance?
Leggz I find it odd that any woman, least of all woman of your experience would consign people to the no relationship pile because of lack of instant attraction ...knowing full well that attraction can also be directly proportional to the amount of alcohol you’ve drunk or the situation or your hormonal or emotional state
Also Beta...not sure why you’re continually holding up Christian Grey as some kind of women’s ideal? He’s a really poorly written one dimensional character who didn’t even make for a decent Dominant ...he’s just a Mills & Boon rich man good looking crappy Mr Darcy character
01-01-2018, 06:09 AM
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Originally Posted By TheRougarou646⏩
cope x1000Turning 30 didn’t bother me a bit I’m 37 now and I’m not worried in the least at 40 being right around the corner.
Edit* I guess I should mention I had been married for over a decade had two children and was running a successful business when I turned 30
Edit* I guess I should mention I had been married for over a decade had two children and was running a successful business when I turned 30
all your options have dried up now if hubby fails to deliver. smv is at an all time low
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01-01-2018, 06:23 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
I'm take your word on that, I've never read the books or seen the films. I just know that millions of women loved the books, and high status alpha males seem to be universally desired by women.Also Beta...not sure why you’re continually holding up Christian Grey as some kind of women’s ideal? He’s a really poorly written one dimensional character who didn’t even make for a decent Dominant ...he’s just a Mills & Boon rich man good looking crappy Mr Darcy character
If You Don't Like To Talk About Your Feelings, This Might Help...
https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=178926621
The Most Heartbreaking Thing That I've Learned About 'The Elite'.
https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=178536851
Bitcoin And 'The Elite' - Why Bitcoin Is Not Revolutionary
https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=179820783
01-01-2018, 06:29 AM
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Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck⏩
Don’t ..lol...I downloaded one on holiday once to see what the fuss was about and it was embarrassing to think an adult with that level of literary talent could make money from writing such crapI'm take your word on that, I've never read the books or seen the films. I just know that millions of women loved the books, and high status alpha males seem to be universally desired by women.
01-01-2018, 07:11 AM
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No idea srs probably same as a dude if he has his schit together it's good, if not you're fuked
When it all comes down
There'll be nothing left to catch you but ground
It's calling your name and filling your head
With delusions of glory
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