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Thread: Required reading on the problem with modern dating

post 1642853343 07-14-2021, 04:40 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yea for me online dating has been amazing because that is the only way I can talk to young guys. My social circle is all married middle aged people so I won’t meet anyone there. And yeah I would not cold approach these young guys so without online dating I would just never interact with them.

Idk what I would do otherwise at this age. The last time I dated round 1 I was early twenties so I could pretty much get any hot guy for a relationship. Now in round 2 I’m late forties so I don’t have those same options anymore. Now it’s either settle or stay single with fwb only.
or do chit people in your city your age do and possibly run across someone from there

Inb4 "eww boomer chit"
post 1642853413 07-14-2021, 04:41 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Single lonely men are more likely to be at home
Makes sense. That’s where I am lol
post 1642853633 07-14-2021, 04:44 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
lmao hes not a normie on his height and physique alone, but this is proof that girl ratings for men (SS: 10/10) and the way guys rate women arent the same
looks are highly subjective. when I say women want "attractive men" that doesnt meant they have to check off all the archetypal features of a "chad" or male model


theres studies out there showing sloots are most attracted to guys with the most similar genetic phenotype to their own for example. hence why SS - overweight HTC - goes for big boned, high bodyfat males of her own race with an athletic gift (football "chads")
post 1642854413 07-14-2021, 04:56 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Experiment can be easily done on tinder. Putting 6’4 in bio compared to 5’4 in bio with same pics.

Someone should make a thread with screenshots.
Would be a massacre
post 1642854433 07-14-2021, 04:56 PM
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post 1642854553 07-14-2021, 04:58 PM
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post 1642860233 07-14-2021, 06:18 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Was expecting a college pic lmao

But he still looks good.

Repped
Nah, you'd be able to figure out a name if I put up a college pic. Only 125 teams in d1 Foosball.
post 1642868543 07-14-2021, 08:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
Because said "obvious reality" only applies to the hook up culture.

If you want to surround yourself with trash, be my guest.

But please don't whine about it.
More and more Women spend their 20s not seeking relationships but instead banging the top 20%. Then they end up alone or scrambling to find a beta provider. More and more men are overlooked until at least that phase which doesn't start until men are into their 30s.
post 1642868703 07-14-2021, 08:09 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
More and more Women spend their 20s not seeking relationships but instead banging the top 20%. Then they end up alone or scrambling to find a beta provider. More and more men are overlooked until at least that phase which doesn't start until men are into their 30s.
What's it like to spend life thinking like this? Sounds awful.
post 1642869393 07-14-2021, 08:16 PM
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Originally Posted By soaponarope1⏩
What's it like to spend life thinking like this? Sounds awful.
If you think that sounds awful, try living as an incel. You'd kill yourself
post 1642869813 07-14-2021, 08:23 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
More and more Women spend their 20s not seeking relationships but instead banging the top 20%. Then they end up alone or scrambling to find a beta provider. More and more men are overlooked until at least that phase which doesn't start until men are into their 30s.
The worst part is they get fat and undesirable around the same time that they finally decide to be serious (there might be a causation there).
See SuperHercules' sig
post 1642870203 07-14-2021, 08:29 PM
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
The thing is, we don't live like incels, because we don't subscribe to the same "theories" that you actively research online to cope with the fact that you are too lazy to do anything about your situation.
You don't live like incels because you are attractive enough to not live like incels.
post 1642870433 07-14-2021, 08:31 PM
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im going insane srs. cuz no pussy
post 1642870763 07-14-2021, 08:37 PM
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
That's what you assume.

Tell me, what have you done in the last two years to improve your situation?
I know that if you looked like me you'd either be an incel or have already killed yourself.


One thing I did was have a few of my girl friends redo my entire bumble profile.
post 1642870893 07-14-2021, 08:39 PM
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Originally Posted By fishnbrah⏩
im going insane srs. cuz no pussy
Join the club man. I started fapping into banana peels again just to feel something
post 1642871113 07-14-2021, 08:42 PM
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
So you have not done anything to improve your situation?

Got it.
.....I just told you one thing is I revamped my bumble profile which started getting me dates and got me a gf. That alone improved my situation
post 1642871263 07-14-2021, 08:45 PM
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post 1642871303 07-14-2021, 08:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
So you didn't do anything to improve your situation, you just put lipstick on a pig.

Again, you're a victim of your own doing.
That did improve my situation.
post 1642871323 07-14-2021, 08:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yea for me online dating has been amazing because that is the only way I can talk to young guys. My social circle is all married middle aged people so I won’t meet anyone there. And yeah I would not cold approach these young guys so without online dating I would just never interact with them.

Idk what I would do otherwise at this age. The last time I dated round 1 I was early twenties so I could pretty much get any hot guy for a relationship. Now in round 2 I’m late forties so I don’t have those same options anymore. Now it’s either settle or stay single with fwb only.
So you pretty much rode the dick carousel in your 20's. Chads would hump and dump you. Now you're in your 40's and the guys you actually are sexually attracted to want nothing to do with you. Now you're stalking a guy at your gym. Just lol. Sounds about right. You're a perfect example of the modern superficial woman.
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post 1642871403 07-14-2021, 08:47 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
OML lmao

Why don’t you get a sugar baby? That’s prob what I would do if I were a guy and couldn’t get laid.
A sugar baby? Lol who you think I am that I could afford that
post 1642871633 07-14-2021, 08:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
But it didn't change anything - just put a different spin on it.

So you're telling me that something that took 15 minutes, was all that you did to improve your situation in the last two years?
It helped me get matches and go on some dates..which is an improvement over zero.

My situation still sucks overall but its better than literally nothing like it was.
post 1642871673 07-14-2021, 08:54 PM
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post 1642871763 07-14-2021, 08:56 PM
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
It's almost like you're not even reading my posts...

In the past two years, the only thing you did to improve your situation, was to get someone else to redo your bumble profile?

And you're complaining about what?
Where did I say that was the only thing I did? That was an example.

But honestly besides growing 12 inches there's not much more I can do that would make a difference.
post 1642871933 07-14-2021, 09:00 PM
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
Keep thinking that. As I said, you're a victim of your own doing.
Its a fact. The reason I'm an incel is that I'm too short. The solution is to be taller or get very rich or famous which is never going to happen
post 1642871953 07-14-2021, 09:01 PM
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Was curious why this thread was so long.
Originally Posted By Jimmehhh⏩
brah it comes down to hypergamy

from the article:

Premised on sex ratios, a surplus of women in education and economic groups caters to men’s desire for multiple partners. The relative rarity of men within these groups means that women, in competition with other females, are more likely to conform to the sexual strategy of males.

there is a shortage of high value men whom women view as optimal for their mating strategy; thus, those that meet this criteria can live like harem kings

cliffs:

women would rather share a high value man than have you all to themselves
I mean it works so long as no one wants to have kids and everyone involved is aware and okay with it. Unless you want to go full sister wives.
Originally Posted By Jimmehhh⏩
women take aholisticapprove to male attractiveness, in that they consider a whole bunch of chit like looks, social/ dominance status, wealth, intelligence, humor etc

meaning if you're lacking in one (looks for example) you can compensate in others (social/dominance status and humor for instance) and be perfectly adept and banging hot sloots.
Don't agree with most of your posts ITT, but yeah, most women don't select for just one characteristic.
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post 1642872413 07-14-2021, 09:11 PM
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
Or not kick your looksmatch GF to the curb because you think you deserve a supermodel.
I didn't do that either
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Originally Posted By soaponarope1⏩


Me (left) and him (middle obviously) at a wedding a few years back. Thank god I lost 20 pounds and lifted a bit I looked like chit. Still had 0 problems with women though.
Above average in the face
Beard
White
Top 10 percent of male height

Lmao
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BBM

Women will increasingly become more selective.

My question is why do care about society?

You already have money.
Just whoremax.
Come to acceptance with the fact that nature is set up so that only a small group of males get the majority of females.
The weakening of societal constraint has allowed women be more truthful to their nature. I'm all for it. I'm all for feminism

I've only banged 2 girls in the last 12 months whereas my Tyrone and frauding friends are banging 2 girls per week.
It is what it is
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post 1642874813 07-14-2021, 10:03 PM
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post 1642874943 07-14-2021, 10:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Here is the video but the quality is potato lmao

https://streamable.com/chtejd
thats a chad but where the fuk are the pics/vids proving you're a "stacy" as you claim?
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