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post 10000024399 01-25-2026, 03:32 PM
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Is it alpha to be 42 with zero loyalty or obligation to anyone else?

Most guys my age have families, careers, and all the responsibilities that go with them

Meanwhile I slept until 1 PM and my biggest decision today will be if I should get takeout for dinner or if I'm not in the mood to go pick it up and instead get it delivered
post 10000024411 01-25-2026, 03:38 PM
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post 10000024429 01-25-2026, 03:49 PM
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Originally Posted By GMiscer⏩
Most guys my age have families, careers, and all the responsibilities that go with them

Meanwhile I slept until 1 PM and my biggest decision today will be if I should get takeout for dinner or if I'm not in the mood to go pick it up and instead get it delivered
this is called clinical depression srs
I put effort in all my threads srs

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post 10000024461 01-25-2026, 04:02 PM
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Originally Posted By LAHipster1⏩
this is called clinical depression srs
OP would be boozing if he was truly depressed
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post 10000024478 01-25-2026, 04:12 PM
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So you got no friends and family like parents or brothers, sisters, cousins? You're life sounds more depressing than GuineaDago585 life
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post 10000024502 01-25-2026, 04:26 PM
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Repost

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Fuck off

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post 10000024587 01-25-2026, 05:02 PM
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ITT a bunch of seething haters probably had to wake up at 5am and go to work in a blizzard storm to keep there obese wife’s from dumping than wand taking half of there worth.

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post 10000024592 01-25-2026, 05:04 PM
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I also do what i want...you just get used to it and it becomes normal life
post 10000024595 01-25-2026, 05:07 PM
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It's alpha if you're rich, successful, and attractive

It's beta if you're OP
"One day I won't be able to lift any more. Not I won't want to lift. I mean physically unable. That day could be decades from now or it could be tomorrow. All I know is that's the day I'll wish I could lift more than ever. The day I'd give anything for one more workout, one more set, or one more cardio session. So go hard and enjoy every workout, every set, every rep. Because one day you will wake up and you will never get it back."
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post 10000024602 01-25-2026, 05:11 PM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
It's alpha if you're rich, successful, and attractive

It's beta if you're OP
so it would be more alpha to be poor/not successful/unattractive while ALSO having endless obligation. sounds like a slave essentially.
post 10000024603 01-25-2026, 05:12 PM
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Originally Posted By edwardhaskell⏩
so it would be more alpha to be poor/not successful/unattractive while ALSO having endless obligation. sounds like a slave essentially.
If you're not rich, successful, and attractive you're beta no matter what you do
"One day I won't be able to lift any more. Not I won't want to lift. I mean physically unable. That day could be decades from now or it could be tomorrow. All I know is that's the day I'll wish I could lift more than ever. The day I'd give anything for one more workout, one more set, or one more cardio session. So go hard and enjoy every workout, every set, every rep. Because one day you will wake up and you will never get it back."
-SoutheastBeast1
post 10000024609 01-25-2026, 05:16 PM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
If you're not rich, successful, and attractive you're beta no matter what you do
99% of the population don't have the trifecta of rich/successful/objectively attractive so wouldn't a low obligation life be of the biggest benefit to those people?

if you have the trifecta endless obligations are easier to deal with. 🤷‍♂️

You essentially have a female perspective in that life isn't worth living unless you're a 1% man (or in a woman's case with a 1% man).
post 10000024614 01-25-2026, 05:25 PM
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Originally Posted By edwardhaskell⏩
99% of the population don't have the trifecta of rich/successful/objectively attractive so wouldn't a low obligation life be of the biggest benefit to those people?

if you have the trifecta endless obligations are easier to deal with. 🤷‍♂️

You essentially have a female perspective in that life isn't worth living unless you're a 1% man (or in a woman's case with a 1% man).
I don't know what you're going on about. He asked if it was alpha. I told him what would be alpha and reiterated he is not alpha based on what is required to be alpha.

I don't know who you are but can I answer any of your other questions?
"One day I won't be able to lift any more. Not I won't want to lift. I mean physically unable. That day could be decades from now or it could be tomorrow. All I know is that's the day I'll wish I could lift more than ever. The day I'd give anything for one more workout, one more set, or one more cardio session. So go hard and enjoy every workout, every set, every rep. Because one day you will wake up and you will never get it back."
-SoutheastBeast1
post 10000024624 01-25-2026, 05:31 PM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
I don't know what you're going on about. He asked if it was alpha. I told him what would be alpha and reiterated he is not alpha based on what is required to be alpha.

I don't know who you are but can I answer any of your other questions?
So essentially 1% of the population is alpha and 99% are beta. Kinda autistic take.
post 10000024675 01-25-2026, 05:50 PM
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Sounds horrible. As long you enjoy it, no one cares..
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post 10000024709 01-25-2026, 06:04 PM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
Repost

https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=185409821

Fuck off

@LargePeter
lol at this 65 yr old aussie incel
post 10000024803 01-25-2026, 06:34 PM
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bump
post 10000024935 01-25-2026, 08:01 PM
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Originally Posted By PrimarisIn⏩
lol at this 65 yr old aussie incel
Did you enjoy your trip to the Krasnaya Ploshad
post 10000024938 01-25-2026, 08:03 PM
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Being single and middle aged is GOAT. Did you eat cereal for lunch today?
post 10000024955 01-25-2026, 08:08 PM
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Originally Posted By PrimarisIn⏩
lol at this 65 yr old aussie incel
lol at this mentally damaged 36 year old beachball head cuck who sleeps in a study while his wife fucks her tinder bulls in her own bed
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post 10000024966 01-25-2026, 08:11 PM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
It's alpha if you're rich, successful, and attractive

It's beta if you're OP
Gerald is as alpha as it gets
post 10000024973 01-25-2026, 08:14 PM
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Originally Posted By Basedbabyy⏩
ITT a bunch of seething haters probably had to wake up at 5am and go to work in a blizzard storm to keep there obese wife’s from dumping than wand taking half of there worth.

Feelssmug
keep there obese wife's

there worth
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post 10000024988 01-25-2026, 08:19 PM
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Originally Posted By edwardhaskell⏩
So essentially 1% of the population is alpha and 99% are beta. Kinda autistic take.
More like 99.99% and 0.01% but yes that's about right
"One day I won't be able to lift any more. Not I won't want to lift. I mean physically unable. That day could be decades from now or it could be tomorrow. All I know is that's the day I'll wish I could lift more than ever. The day I'd give anything for one more workout, one more set, or one more cardio session. So go hard and enjoy every workout, every set, every rep. Because one day you will wake up and you will never get it back."
-SoutheastBeast1
post 10000024993 01-25-2026, 08:21 PM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
More like 99.99% and 0.01% but yes that's about right
tell us what makes you alpha because you sound more autistic.
post 10000025015 01-25-2026, 08:42 PM
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Originally Posted By edwardhaskell⏩
tell us what makes you alpha because you sound more autistic.
You sound like you're coping trying to lower the standards cause you can't meet the requirements of rich, successful, and attractive to be alpha


b-b-but that's only like 1% of the population

"One day I won't be able to lift any more. Not I won't want to lift. I mean physically unable. That day could be decades from now or it could be tomorrow. All I know is that's the day I'll wish I could lift more than ever. The day I'd give anything for one more workout, one more set, or one more cardio session. So go hard and enjoy every workout, every set, every rep. Because one day you will wake up and you will never get it back."
-SoutheastBeast1
post 10000025017 01-25-2026, 08:45 PM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
You sound like you're coping trying to lower the standards cause you can't meet the requirements of rich, successful, and attractive to be alpha


b-b-but that's only like 1% of the population


you just wrote this on a random indian internet forum with a straight face.
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Originally Posted By LargePeter⏩
lol at this mentally damaged 36 year old beachball head cuck who sleeps in a study while his wife fucks her tinder bulls in her own bed
you have no balls and will die of a heart attack ****** aussie cel

dead father too lol
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Originally Posted By edwardhaskell⏩
99% of the population don't have the trifecta of rich/successful/objectively attractive so wouldn't a low obligation life be of the biggest benefit to those people?

if you have the trifecta endless obligations are easier to deal with. 🤷‍♂️

You essentially have a female perspective in that life isn't worth living unless you're a 1% man (or in a woman's case with a 1% man).
Doesn’t matter if you are. My friend is all 3. Runs his own dermatology practice with about 4 different locations. Probably makes a million a year. His wife of 2 years who was a gf of 7 years still left him bc she wasn’t happy (lol she met somebody else in law school is my guess).

Now he’s 43 and wants a family and kids and just lives all alone in his empire he built and is quite sad about it. Goes on dates all the time but has no connection with any of them. Lol one Persian girl went over to his house and they started talking fetishes. She said her’s was when guys spit in her mouth and piss on her. Lol she had just gotten back from Dubai so go figure.
post 10000025021 01-25-2026, 08:50 PM
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Originally Posted By edwardhaskell⏩
you just wrote this on a random indian internet forum with a straight face.
Wait you're Indian? It's definitely over for you
"One day I won't be able to lift any more. Not I won't want to lift. I mean physically unable. That day could be decades from now or it could be tomorrow. All I know is that's the day I'll wish I could lift more than ever. The day I'd give anything for one more workout, one more set, or one more cardio session. So go hard and enjoy every workout, every set, every rep. Because one day you will wake up and you will never get it back."
-SoutheastBeast1
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