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06-14-2026, 10:28 AM
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I went out last night to hang out with a girl who brought a male friend. I even paid for his drink - thoughts?
It's the same girl from here: https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=1000013084&post_id=10000191578#post_id-10000191578 where I felt I paid money for random strangers.
We met up again to go clubbing and she told me she's bringing a male classmate. I showed up alone.
I could tell they're completely platonic and he looked gay to me at first, but later found out he does like women.
Anyway, I barely go out so I don't mind covering the girl's drinks, but when we first met in the bar area of the nightclub, I bought the girl a drink and decided to include her friend as well. Ended up spending $36 for them. I felt it was kind of awkward if I only bought the girl a drink and gave the guy a cold shoulder from the start. Thoughts?
We then went to another club and I got myself a beer + drink for the girl. Bartender made a wrong drink so let me keep that one and made another. I walked back to the girl to give her 2 drinks. It was $32 for a beer and a rum and coke? Felt completely ripped off and bartender seems to have overcharged me on purpose but I paid only because I got that 1 extra drink. I'm going to ask for specific prices before I even buy from now on.
Because her guy friend was there, nothing could really be done. I couldn't invite the girl back to my place or anything.
So for the night, my spending was:
$20 for 2 beers for myself
$36 for drinks for that girl and her male friend
$32 for a beer for myself and drink for girl
$15 cover charge at one place we walked to (we all paid this)
Back to back, my spending exceeded $100/night. Going out is expensive these days.
Now I go to my weekend job and try to make some of this money back.
We met up again to go clubbing and she told me she's bringing a male classmate. I showed up alone.
I could tell they're completely platonic and he looked gay to me at first, but later found out he does like women.
Anyway, I barely go out so I don't mind covering the girl's drinks, but when we first met in the bar area of the nightclub, I bought the girl a drink and decided to include her friend as well. Ended up spending $36 for them. I felt it was kind of awkward if I only bought the girl a drink and gave the guy a cold shoulder from the start. Thoughts?
We then went to another club and I got myself a beer + drink for the girl. Bartender made a wrong drink so let me keep that one and made another. I walked back to the girl to give her 2 drinks. It was $32 for a beer and a rum and coke? Felt completely ripped off and bartender seems to have overcharged me on purpose but I paid only because I got that 1 extra drink. I'm going to ask for specific prices before I even buy from now on.
Because her guy friend was there, nothing could really be done. I couldn't invite the girl back to my place or anything.
So for the night, my spending was:
$20 for 2 beers for myself
$36 for drinks for that girl and her male friend
$32 for a beer for myself and drink for girl
$15 cover charge at one place we walked to (we all paid this)
Back to back, my spending exceeded $100/night. Going out is expensive these days.
Now I go to my weekend job and try to make some of this money back.
06-14-2026, 10:30 AM
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Hopefully he was able to get her home safe?
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06-14-2026, 10:31 AM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
They came in separate cars and he lives in opposite direction of her
Hopefully he was able to get her home safe?
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I think this is why you will never make it (with her) if the "friend" wasn't an obvious fggt with a lisp ur a cuck who just paid for her FWB's drinks. Might even be her boyfriend and this is how he gets free drinks and meals from beta orbiters, in which case he's trained her well.
06-14-2026, 10:35 AM
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Originally Posted By explosiveMidget⏩
I felt like a cuck
I think this is why you will never make it (with her) if the "friend" wasn't an obvious fggt with a lisp ur a cuck who just paid for her FWB's drinks. Might even be her boyfriend and this is how he gets free drinks and meals from beta orbiters, in which case he's trained her well.
But that guy seems deeply in the friendzone
06-14-2026, 10:36 AM
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I showed up not knowing what to expect. Maybe some hope that night would end well.
Was hoping that I could pull her to my place, but with her male friend there, there was no way I could make it happen
Was hoping that I could pull her to my place, but with her male friend there, there was no way I could make it happen
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Aren't you like 40 or something?
Lol at going out to shitty nightclubs and buying watered down expensive drinks while everyone there laughs at the old loser
Lol at going out to shitty nightclubs and buying watered down expensive drinks while everyone there laughs at the old loser
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Originally Posted By nevermadeit⏩
it's possible you are BOTH her beta orbiters that she uses for free meals and drinks. She'll call you next time she needs a tyre changed or her toilet unclogged or maybe she wants her house painted etc
I felt like a cuck
But that guy seems deeply in the friendzone
But that guy seems deeply in the friendzone
06-14-2026, 10:39 AM
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Originally Posted By SuperHercules⏩
Ngl, I feel pretty pathetic
Aren't you like 40 or something?
Lol at going out to shitty nightclubs and buying watered down expensive drinks while everyone there laughs at the old loser
Lol at going out to shitty nightclubs and buying watered down expensive drinks while everyone there laughs at the old loser
But I only go if there's a girl I'm going with like in this case
Otherwise I would've stayed home
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Originally Posted By nevermadeit⏩
100 dollars is not expensive
It's the same girl from here: https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=1000013084&post_id=10000191578#post_id-10000191578 where I felt I paid money for random strangers.
We met up again to go clubbing and she told me she's bringing a male classmate. I showed up alone.
I could tell they're completely platonic and he looked gay to me at first, but later found out he does like women.
Anyway, I barely go out so I don't mind covering the girl's drinks, but when we first met in the bar area of the nightclub, I bought the girl a drink and decided to include her friend as well. Ended up spending $36 for them. I felt it was kind of awkward if I only bought the girl a drink and gave the guy a cold shoulder from the start. Thoughts?
We then went to another club and I got myself a beer + drink for the girl. Bartender made a wrong drink so let me keep that one and made another. I walked back to the girl to give her 2 drinks. It was $32 for a beer and a rum and coke? Felt completely ripped off and bartender seems to have overcharged me on purpose but I paid only because I got that 1 extra drink. I'm going to ask for specific prices before I even buy from now on.
Because her guy friend was there, nothing could really be done. I couldn't invite the girl back to my place or anything.
So for the night, my spending was:
$20 for 2 beers for myself
$36 for drinks for that girl and her male friend
$32 for a beer for myself and drink for girl
$15 cover charge at one place we walked to (we all paid this)
Back to back, my spending exceeded $100/night. Going out is expensive these days.
Now I go to my weekend job and try to make some of this money back.
We met up again to go clubbing and she told me she's bringing a male classmate. I showed up alone.
I could tell they're completely platonic and he looked gay to me at first, but later found out he does like women.
Anyway, I barely go out so I don't mind covering the girl's drinks, but when we first met in the bar area of the nightclub, I bought the girl a drink and decided to include her friend as well. Ended up spending $36 for them. I felt it was kind of awkward if I only bought the girl a drink and gave the guy a cold shoulder from the start. Thoughts?
We then went to another club and I got myself a beer + drink for the girl. Bartender made a wrong drink so let me keep that one and made another. I walked back to the girl to give her 2 drinks. It was $32 for a beer and a rum and coke? Felt completely ripped off and bartender seems to have overcharged me on purpose but I paid only because I got that 1 extra drink. I'm going to ask for specific prices before I even buy from now on.
Because her guy friend was there, nothing could really be done. I couldn't invite the girl back to my place or anything.
So for the night, my spending was:
$20 for 2 beers for myself
$36 for drinks for that girl and her male friend
$32 for a beer for myself and drink for girl
$15 cover charge at one place we walked to (we all paid this)
Back to back, my spending exceeded $100/night. Going out is expensive these days.
Now I go to my weekend job and try to make some of this money back.
Buying drinks for a dude is gay asf
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06-14-2026, 10:54 AM
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Originally Posted By SiIverBack⏩
Agree it's gay that I did
dollars is not expensive
Buying drinks for a dude is gay
Buying drinks for a dude is gay
But what was I supposed to do, just buy the girl a drink and ignore the guy?
I only bought that guy 1 drink at very early initial meeting but nothing after
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
Oh I'm sure he took good care of her.
Hopefully he was able to get her home safe?
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06-14-2026, 11:03 AM
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Originally Posted By nevermadeit⏩
If a sloot doesn't want to drink at any random location you choose, she's not into you
Ngl, I feel pretty pathetic
But I only go if there's a girl I'm going with like in this case
Otherwise I would've stayed home
But I only go if there's a girl I'm going with like in this case
Otherwise I would've stayed home
Try picking somehwere cheap or just invite her over and see what she says
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Originally Posted By SuperHercules⏩
I went into the first event where I met her with the intention to meet more friends - either guys or girls
If a sloot doesn't want to drink at any random location you choose, she's not into you
Try picking somehwere cheap or just invite her over and see what she says
Try picking somehwere cheap or just invite her over and see what she says
I went into this second outing just to have some girl to go out with. I'm still confused myself what I'm doing. Do I want an attractive female friend to go out with or am I looking for more or what.
06-14-2026, 11:08 AM
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Originally Posted By Pats2022SBwin⏩
That's good girls can never be too careful now. Especially after a night of drinks paid for by a strange man like OP. You never know what he might feel entitled to for $30 of drinks.
Oh I'm sure he took good care of her.
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Originally Posted By nevermadeit⏩
I wouldn't pay a cent for a girl who brings a "guy friend" somewhere to go out with me
I went into the first event where I met her with the intention to meet more friends - either guys or girls
I went into this second outing just to have some girl to go out with. I'm still confused myself what I'm doing. Do I want an attractive female friend to go out with or am I looking for more or what.
I went into this second outing just to have some girl to go out with. I'm still confused myself what I'm doing. Do I want an attractive female friend to go out with or am I looking for more or what.
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I think this sounds like something you would do.
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Originally Posted By nevermadeit⏩
It's the same girl from here: https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=1000013084&post_id=10000191578#post_id-10000191578 where I felt I paid money for random strangers.
We met up again to go clubbing and she told me she's bringing a male classmate. I showed up alone.
I could tell they're completely platonic and he looked gay to me at first, but later found out he does like women.
Anyway, I barely go out so I don't mind covering the girl's drinks, but when we first met in the bar area of the nightclub, I bought the girl a drink and decided to include her friend as well. Ended up spending $36 for them. I felt it was kind of awkward if I only bought the girl a drink and gave the guy a cold shoulder from the start. Thoughts?
We then went to another club and I got myself a beer + drink for the girl. Bartender made a wrong drink so let me keep that one and made another. I walked back to the girl to give her 2 drinks. It was $32 for a beer and a rum and coke? Felt completely ripped off and bartender seems to have overcharged me on purpose but I paid only because I got that 1 extra drink. I'm going to ask for specific prices before I even buy from now on.
Because her guy friend was there, nothing could really be done. I couldn't invite the girl back to my place or anything.
So for the night, my spending was:
$20 for 2 beers for myself
$36 for drinks for that girl and her male friend
$32 for a beer for myself and drink for girl
$15 cover charge at one place we walked to (we all paid this)
Back to back, my spending exceeded $100/night. Going out is expensive these days.
Now I go to my weekend job and try to make some of this money back.
We met up again to go clubbing and she told me she's bringing a male classmate. I showed up alone.
I could tell they're completely platonic and he looked gay to me at first, but later found out he does like women.
Anyway, I barely go out so I don't mind covering the girl's drinks, but when we first met in the bar area of the nightclub, I bought the girl a drink and decided to include her friend as well. Ended up spending $36 for them. I felt it was kind of awkward if I only bought the girl a drink and gave the guy a cold shoulder from the start. Thoughts?
We then went to another club and I got myself a beer + drink for the girl. Bartender made a wrong drink so let me keep that one and made another. I walked back to the girl to give her 2 drinks. It was $32 for a beer and a rum and coke? Felt completely ripped off and bartender seems to have overcharged me on purpose but I paid only because I got that 1 extra drink. I'm going to ask for specific prices before I even buy from now on.
Because her guy friend was there, nothing could really be done. I couldn't invite the girl back to my place or anything.
So for the night, my spending was:
$20 for 2 beers for myself
$36 for drinks for that girl and her male friend
$32 for a beer for myself and drink for girl
$15 cover charge at one place we walked to (we all paid this)
Back to back, my spending exceeded $100/night. Going out is expensive these days.
Now I go to my weekend job and try to make some of this money back.
u can't be serious
why would u do this
also shame on her for bringing a MALE FRIEND wtf
u are friend zoned ok u are never leaving the friend zone u need to STOP spending money on this woman and her male friend wtf what is that about ?
u have a lot to learn about women son u should never ever go about it like this know u feel like shit hopefully learned ur lesson
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Didn’t read all that but I can tell you probably sucked the cum out of her vagina.
Good for the other guy.
Good for the other guy.
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
I can tell you probably sucked the cum out of her vagina.
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Originally Posted By nevermadeit⏩
Yes only buy it for her?
Agree it's gay that I did
But what was I supposed to do, just buy the girl a drink and ignore the guy?
I only bought that guy 1 drink at very early initial meeting but nothing after
But what was I supposed to do, just buy the girl a drink and ignore the guy?
I only bought that guy 1 drink at very early initial meeting but nothing after
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
Lmfao
Hopefully he was able to get her home safe?
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Didnt read.
But thats either extremely beta, or extremely alpha.
The normal thing to do would be out of the situation ASAP, fuck hanging out with a guy and a girl together.
But thats either extremely beta, or extremely alpha.
The normal thing to do would be out of the situation ASAP, fuck hanging out with a guy and a girl together.
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why pay for anyone's food (gals included)?
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