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post 10000224635 4 days ago, 12:53 AM
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what's the psychology of men who date/marry ugly women?

Did they just give up? Are they even attracted to their wives? I just don't understand how it's possible. :(
post 10000224636 4 days ago, 12:59 AM
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Ask your father
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they probably just taking what they can get in today's female standards marketplace. average looking women will always know they can catch a chad once in a while (with hope the right one will stay) so they might treat an average range man badly/eventually cheat.

from a personality standpoint, women in that 2.5 to 3.5 range might be the sweet spot for men anywhere around average lol. somewhat sheltered from what modern day female privilege has to offer and not on the radar for chad even at the peak of a slow/boring night.
post 10000224652 4 days ago, 02:54 AM
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post 10000224663 4 days ago, 03:46 AM
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No clue, never had to stoop to that level

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Personality type

Some men care about looks ,some dont ,nothing more than that

Thats the main driver ,but then you have other variables like not having the ability to pull class in the first place

Homeless ,addict ,etc
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most of the time it's just low self-esteem, cope and thinking you won't be able to do better
You can't fight fate
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Marry for dat money/status.

Have you seed Prince Andrew's daughters? Eurgh. Married to some chads though.

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Whatever it is they are 1000% more stable than OP dead fkn srs

Imagine this fkn lunatic deadbeat oxygen thief questioning anyone else's though process.
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Originally Posted By LargePeter⏩
No clue, never had to stoop to that level

Fuck and chuck? Sure. Date? Hell no, you can't be seen in public with a horrordog
Originally Posted By Mulloway69⏩
Imagine this fkn lunatic deadbeat oxygen thief questioning anyone else's th

post 10000225743 3 days ago, 08:45 PM
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90% of the time when you see a chad with an ugly wife, it's because chad has a small pen-is.

That's the only chance most fugly wwomen have.
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Originally Posted By EctoCanuck⏩
90% of the time when you see a chad with an ugly wife, it's because chad has a small pen-is.

That's the only chance most fugly wwomen have.
could be or chad picked a woman that got lazy after conquering him/didn't age as well.
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I really don't think many men see their ugly gfs wives as being ugly. I mean i'm like WTF? but somehow someway they look at them and see beauty.

I'm seen some ugly wives and I've been told my look of disgust is so palpable that its rude. therein lies the problem. its that these guys want you to play along with their delusion. NOPE.
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my buddy from college was a legit chad. 6'0'', 200lbs lean, guy was like an nlf linebacker. banged the hottest women

he's a chad in life in general, guy has venture capital funding for his startup and reached the top of corporate america by 35

he ended up marrying a pretty average looking girl.

the reality is that experience with women teaches men that looks aren't at the top when it comes to commitment; men want peace, stability, and safety, someone who would be a good wife and mother to their children. hot women usually bring too many problems which is why chad settles for a less attractive woman.
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Originally Posted By ayyylmao⏩
my buddy from college was a legit chad. 6'0'', 200lbs lean, guy was like an nlf linebacker. banged the hottest women

he's a chad in life in general, guy has venture capital funding for his startup and reached the top of corporate america by 35

he ended up marrying a pretty average looking girl.

the reality is that experience with women teaches men that looks aren't at the top when it comes to commitment; men want peace, stability, and safety, someone who would be a good wife and mother to their children. hot women usually bring too many problems which is why chad settles for a less attractive woman.
Chad does what Chad wants. Im not talking about hot guys wifing up average women. I'm talking about men wifing up ugly women.
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Originally Posted By ayyylmao⏩
my buddy from college was a legit chad. 6'0'', 200lbs lean, guy was like an nlf linebacker. banged the hottest women

he's a chad in life in general, guy has venture capital funding for his startup and reached the top of corporate america by 35

he ended up marrying a pretty average looking girl.

the reality is that experience with women teaches men that looks aren't at the top when it comes to commitment; men want peace, stability, and safety, someone who would be a good wife and mother to their children. hot women usually bring too many problems which is why chad settles for a less attractive woman.
bad news for average dudes...the hot women won't settle for them and then chad is robbing them of their dreams with regular attractive women because he wants better character in his woman. 😂
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Isn’t the answer obvious? They are scared of being alone
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Originally Posted By Basedbabyy⏩
Isn’t the answer obvious? They are scared of being alone
what a beta ass mentality lmao
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Originally Posted By Basedbabyy⏩
Isn’t the answer obvious? They are scared of being alone
male loneliness epidemic got dudes in simping competitions for 2/10s that "know their worth". some hole better than no hole
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Originally Posted By AverageKenneth⏩
Marry for dat money/status.

Have you seed Prince Andrew's daughters? Eurgh. Married to some chads though.


their face is busted but atleast theyre not fat.

i see dudes with just completely ugly hambeasts all the time and little kids and im wondering how they can even fuck them

i think its a combination of them using viagra and they only been with like 2-5 women their whole life who most were all ugly too.

if you been with too many women like dozens or more then you basically have some permanent damage from it and you cant ever really be happy with the same woman and especially not an ugly fat woman
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post 10000227733 Yesterday, 12:23 PM
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Originally Posted By Basedbabyy⏩
Isn’t the answer obvious? They are scared of being alone
that makes sense for having someone around and living with someone

but still doesnt explain to me how they physically are able to have sex with these hambeasts. Like i could get it if they had sex 4 times a year on viagra and he just bangs hookers on the side. i dont get how you can only have sex with one ugly hambeast woman.


like go to any walmart and you will see guys walking around with wives that look like "mama june" I dont get how they can do it




whats the point of life if you have to live with someone like that? Even if I was broke and ugly, I would max out all my credit cards flying to south east asia, go on a whore maxing adventure and rope when the funds run dry
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Originally Posted By Papi_Chulo⏩
their face is busted but atleast theyre not fat.

i see dudes with just completely ugly hambeasts all the time and little kids and im wondering how they can even fuck them

i think its a combination of them using viagra and they only been with like 2-5 women their whole life who most were all ugly too.

if you been with too many women like dozens or more then you basically have some permanent damage from it and you cant ever really be happy with the same woman and especially not an ugly fat woman
-Busted faces
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-One of them has really bad scoliosis

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Originally Posted By AverageKenneth⏩
-Busted faces
-Dad is a disgraced pedo
-Mother is a toe sucking sloot
-Mentioned in the Epstien files
-One of them has really bad scoliosis

Literal 2/10s without their social status.
I never followed their reality TV show or anything. Im just saying you see guys all the time married to women that look like that. In this picture theyre even trying to hype her weight loss make over and it just doesnt matter she still is disgusting, there is no fixing it. and if you get surgery for weightloss theyre still ugly and covered with scars
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Its just typical blue pill, I fell for it before, last bitch I was with was disgusting, never again.

The bluepill BS of letting things happen, and how you "attract" a partner into your life.
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This thread is both sad and predictable.

Of course it was started by that ultimate playboy imbored, whose posts read like a bipolar, incel diary.
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Originally Posted By edwardhaskell⏩
male loneliness epidemic got dudes in simping competitions for 2/10s that "know their worth". some hole better than no hole
male loneliness epidemic got dudes sitting in front of a computer coping that they are single because "these girls out there are average at best and not worth my time"
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Originally Posted By WendellX⏩
male loneliness epidemic got dudes sitting in front of a computer coping that they are single because "these girls out there are average at best and not worth my time"
what's the average girl nowadays?
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Originally Posted By edwardhaskell⏩
what's the average girl nowadays?
170 lbs in America at 5'4''
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Originally Posted By edwardhaskell⏩
what's the average girl nowadays?
You tell me. This isn't a knock on you BTW this is just what I see on this forum.

What are the "average" standards for a chronically online, red pilled misogynist who makes $80k per year but has no savings, no assets, rents a one bedroom and sleeps with a waifu pillow?

Is it a 115lb with D-cups, subservient, virgin (but slutty), has her own money and career but cooks, cleans and rubs your feet?

Does that sound a lot different than a girl who wants a 6'3" Chad who works in finance and has a trust fund?
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Originally Posted By WendellX⏩
You tell me. This isn't a knock on you BTW this is just what I see on this forum.

What are the "average" standards for a chronically online, red pilled misogynist who makes $80k per year but has no savings, no assets, rents a one bedroom and sleeps with a waifu pillow?

Is it a 115lb with D-cups, subservient, virgin (but slutty), has her own money and career but cooks, cleans and rubs your feet?

Does that sound a lot different than a girl who wants a 6'3" Chad who works in finance and has a trust fund?
Median income in America is what $50k/year and a net worth of like $40k by age 30-35? Average home ownership age is around 40 years old. Everybody is chronically online now.

so what do you think an average woman should expect from an average man?
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