Is dating in NYC really this lopsided favoring men?

7 hours ago, 11:30 AM

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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩

Haha tfw not Chad fml

are you drinking tonight?

7 hours ago, 11:35 AM

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Originally Posted By GordonXXX⏩

are you drinking tonight?

Nah saving it for Wednesday - Canada Day

Going to a loud luxury concert

3 hours ago, 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩

Haha tfw not Chad fml

Tfw 3’s and 4’s (misc standards) tell you “you’re kinda hot” and should take them on a “date”. Such is life as non chad. I have a chad-lite jawline but that isn’t enough to get laid without investing.

2 hours ago, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩

My buddy works in private equity so whenever they ask him what he does for work he just says”private equity” and most girls get it.

If you don’t have the luxury of telling girls you work in finance or private equity just take them out to a nice spot and instead of getting wine by the glass order a bottle, pretend like you know the wine; say shit like “I want you to try this cab, I always get it here, its phenomenal” even if you’ve never been to the restaurant and never tasted the wine … shit like that ya know

At the end of the day dating is a transaction no matter who you are and you have to spend some cash on nice dates. Gotta pay to play.

word of advice: the more you have to pay to play, the less of a chad you are.

imagine living with the quoted mindset "gotta pay to play"... LMAO

1 hour ago, 06:02 PM

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Originally Posted By ayyylmao⏩

word of advice: the more you have to pay to play, the less of a chad you are.

imagine living with the quoted mindset "gotta pay to play"... LMAO

I'm not a chad and am a pretty ugly guy so it is what it is.

But I disagree, girls have access to many "Chads" so the key differentiator is money. So even if someone was a Chad you still need to pay to play because you're competing with other chads who have money.

Chad with money > Chad with no money.

I would say from 20-25 money isn't important and you can get by on looks but if you want the hottest 20-29 year old girls in NYC and you're like 30 plus you better have some cash.

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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩

I'm not a chad and am a pretty ugly guy so it is what it is.

But I disagree, girls have access to many "Chads" so the key differentiator is money. So even if someone was a Chad you still need to pay to play because you're competing with other chads who have money.

Chad with money > Chad with no money.

I would say from 20-25 money isn't important and you can get by on looks but if you want the hottest 20-29 year old girls in NYC and you're like 30 plus you better have some cash.

it depends on what women chad is going for...when he doesn't feel like competing with other chads he will just smash the 5s snd 6s that feel grateful to have his presence. maybe tell those gals they are pretty/thinks they're funny.