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Is dating in NYC really this lopsided favoring men?
10 hours ago, 08:27 AM
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Is dating in NYC really this lopsided favoring men?
I dunno. I suspect either troll or Chad but not sure which (or both). I remember a great looking guy told me that all his attractive women eventually leave for someone richer and lots of Uggos try to turn a friendship into a relationship (sexual)....he said it sucked cuz of that. maybe similar dynamic re: dating NYC.
btw: statistically it does make sense (re: demographic 20-30yo people/college degrees/city life)
btw: statistically it does make sense (re: demographic 20-30yo people/college degrees/city life)
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10 hours ago, 08:30 AM
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I’ve spent a lot of time in nyc and compared to Toronto it’s night and day.
New Yorkers and especially the women are so much friendlier and more approachable than people in Toronto.
In Toronto you have to approach women at the bar but in nyc they approach you srs.
Great fucking city man.
New Yorkers and especially the women are so much friendlier and more approachable than people in Toronto.
In Toronto you have to approach women at the bar but in nyc they approach you srs.
Great fucking city man.
10 hours ago, 08:34 AM
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I'm sure they have their weak lib men at home and want some conservative cock when out and about.
10 hours ago, 08:42 AM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
do you have to be tall? i suspect that is the critical variable he is leaving out in this story.
I’ve spent a lot of time in nyc and compared to Toronto it’s night and day.
New Yorkers and especially the women are so much friendlier and more approachable than people in Toronto.
In Toronto you have to approach women at the bar but in nyc they approach you srs.
Great fucking city man.
New Yorkers and especially the women are so much friendlier and more approachable than people in Toronto.
In Toronto you have to approach women at the bar but in nyc they approach you srs.
Great fucking city man.
10 hours ago, 08:46 AM
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Originally Posted By AMOG⏩
I don’t think so, my buddy who I visit there all the time is 5’8 and does well … he’s good looking tho and has money
do you have to be tall? i suspect that is the critical variable he is leaving out in this story.
10 hours ago, 08:47 AM
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Probably a troll but it really is that easy to meet women
They're desperate for men with testosterone since zoomers don't have any
They're desperate for men with testosterone since zoomers don't have any
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yes, it is. coupled with the drinking culture in NYC, if you can't get laid there you can't get laid anywhere. NYC is probably the best place for men to date in the world
Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
this. i miss NYC
I’ve spent a lot of time in nyc and compared to Toronto it’s night and day.
New Yorkers and especially the women are so much friendlier and more approachable than people in Toronto.
In Toronto you have to approach women at the bar but in nyc they approach you srs.
Great fucking city man.
New Yorkers and especially the women are so much friendlier and more approachable than people in Toronto.
In Toronto you have to approach women at the bar but in nyc they approach you srs.
Great fucking city man.
10 hours ago, 08:49 AM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
I dunno, I asked a femaloid what percentage of men are over 6ft and she said "I dunno like 50%" I statisticspilled her then told her ...no actually....she was only noticing the tall ones (muh female logic).
I don’t think so, my buddy who I visit there all the time is 5’8 and does well … he’s good looking tho and has money
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Originally Posted By AMOG⏩
I think face and having a bit of money are more important than height.
I dunno, I asked a femaloid what percentage of men are over 6ft and she said "I dunno like 50%" I statisticspilled her then told her ...no actually....she was only noticing the tall ones (muh female logic).
5’8 and above you’re good imo.
I’m 6’2 and my 5’8 friend does way better than me because he’s better looking and has more money.
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Didn’t read the entire thing but this is most definitely a troll or chad. Women here are extremely delusional and have high standards. Majority you encounter in Manhattan are not native to NY. Transplants wearing knicks jerseys and going crazy over sports ball, in a desperate attempt to say they are new yorkers.
8 hours ago, 09:53 AM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
this is good. less competition because most guys are afraid to approach.
I’ve spent a lot of time in nyc and compared to Toronto it’s night and day.
New Yorkers and especially the women are so much friendlier and more approachable than people in Toronto.
In Toronto you have to approach women at the bar but in nyc they approach you srs.
Great fucking city man.
New Yorkers and especially the women are so much friendlier and more approachable than people in Toronto.
In Toronto you have to approach women at the bar but in nyc they approach you srs.
Great fucking city man.
best city for women is Atlanta. almost always hooked up there. the Southern Belles liked me.
there is no man shortage in NYC. dumb myth. there is heavy competition. women know it.
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
How's the money come up that much?
I think face and having a bit of money are more important than height.
5’8 and above you’re good imo.
I’m 6’2 and my 5’8 friend does way better than me because he’s better looking and has more money.
5’8 and above you’re good imo.
I’m 6’2 and my 5’8 friend does way better than me because he’s better looking and has more money.
Asking as a 5'8" guy who recently got a raise. I could use a wardrobe refresh, but I'm never going to be walking around with a Rolex, regardless of whether I can afford it.
8 hours ago, 10:12 AM
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Originally Posted By legbroke⏩
My buddy works in private equity so whenever they ask him what he does for work he just says”private equity” and most girls get it.
How's the money come up that much?
Asking as a 5'8" guy who recently got a raise. I could use a wardrobe refresh, but I'm never going to be walking around with a Rolex, regardless of whether I can afford it.
Asking as a 5'8" guy who recently got a raise. I could use a wardrobe refresh, but I'm never going to be walking around with a Rolex, regardless of whether I can afford it.
If you don’t have the luxury of telling girls you work in finance or private equity just take them out to a nice spot and instead of getting wine by the glass order a bottle, pretend like you know the wine; say shit like “I want you to try this cab, I always get it here, its phenomenal” even if you’ve never been to the restaurant and never tasted the wine … shit like that ya know
At the end of the day dating is a transaction no matter who you are and you have to spend some cash on nice dates. Gotta pay to play.
8 hours ago, 10:13 AM
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX⏩
this is good. less competition because most guys are afraid to approach.
best city for women is Atlanta. almost always hooked up there. the Southern Belles liked me.
there is no man shortage in NYC. dumb myth. there is heavy competition. women know it.
best city for women is Atlanta. almost always hooked up there. the Southern Belles liked me.
there is no man shortage in NYC. dumb myth. there is heavy competition. women know it.
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Originally Posted By legbroke⏩
IMO -
How's the money come up that much?
Asking as a 5'8" guy who recently got a raise. I could use a wardrobe refresh, but I'm never going to be walking around with a Rolex, regardless of whether I can afford it.
Asking as a 5'8" guy who recently got a raise. I could use a wardrobe refresh, but I'm never going to be walking around with a Rolex, regardless of whether I can afford it.
you need money to keep a good haircut, good wardrobe, white teeth, healthy skin/tan, grooming, eat quality food and stay fit. you have to look the part.
you need money to be able to go to the hot spots where the girls are and buy the expensive $30 cocktails and apps.
you need money to talk the talk and walk the walk. they can tell if you're faking. they don't want brokies and they don't have to settle for them. sad but true.
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Yeah even Kormo gets laid
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX⏩
Can you blame them for not wanting brokies?
IMO -
you need money to keep a good haircut, good wardrobe, eat quality food and stay fit. you have to look the part.
you need money to be able to go to the hot spots where the girls are and buy the expensive $30 cocktails and apps.
you need money to talk the talk and walk the walk. they can tell if you're faking. they don't want brokies and they don't have to settle for them. sad but true.
you need money to keep a good haircut, good wardrobe, eat quality food and stay fit. you have to look the part.
you need money to be able to go to the hot spots where the girls are and buy the expensive $30 cocktails and apps.
you need money to talk the talk and walk the walk. they can tell if you're faking. they don't want brokies and they don't have to settle for them. sad but true.
wtf are you supposed to do for fun with a guy that can’t afford anything lol
Life is short and people want to enjoy themselves … I have no problem with women putting a massive importance on money srs
Also don’t forget women are wired to be risk averse since they have to bear children … a brokie is very very high risk and is unattractive from a biological pov because they cannot provide for a child or provide resources for a family
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
when will it be my turn ?
I’ve spent a lot of time in nyc and compared to Toronto it’s night and day.
New Yorkers and especially the women are so much friendlier and more approachable than people in Toronto.
In Toronto you have to approach women at the bar but in nyc they approach you srs.
Great fucking city man.
New Yorkers and especially the women are so much friendlier and more approachable than people in Toronto.
In Toronto you have to approach women at the bar but in nyc they approach you srs.
Great fucking city man.
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
no i don't blame them. i'd probably do the same.
Can you blame them for not wanting brokies?
wtf are you supposed to do for fun with a guy that can’t afford anything lol
Life is short and people want to enjoy themselves … I have no problem with women putting a massive importance on money srs
Also don’t forget women are wired to be risk averse since they have to bear children … a brokie is very very high risk and is unattractive from a biological pov because they cannot care for a child or provide resources for a family
wtf are you supposed to do for fun with a guy that can’t afford anything lol
Life is short and people want to enjoy themselves … I have no problem with women putting a massive importance on money srs
Also don’t forget women are wired to be risk averse since they have to bear children … a brokie is very very high risk and is unattractive from a biological pov because they cannot care for a child or provide resources for a family
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Originally Posted By legbroke⏩
In nyc it would be easy to tell who has money as soon as they start talking about where you live
How's the money come up that much?
Asking as a 5'8" guy who recently got a raise. I could use a wardrobe refresh, but I'm never going to be walking around with a Rolex, regardless of whether I can afford it.
Asking as a 5'8" guy who recently got a raise. I could use a wardrobe refresh, but I'm never going to be walking around with a Rolex, regardless of whether I can afford it.
These girls live in shoebox 300 square foot apartments hoping to find wallstreet Chad
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Actually I just remembered
This hit sorority girl, the hottest one in my stem classes after graduation she moved to NYC and married some investor dude.
Also the hottest girl in my highschool married a doctor
These guys were decent looking but not like giga chads and average height. Of course that was pre dating apps so women didn't overemphasize height back then
Only one other hot girl from college married a cop only one that didn't marry a rich guy. Well so I assume. A lot of cops commit overtime fraud or take easy overtime like every time you see a cop sitting there over night doing Jack shit while they got traffic lanes shutdown for construction.
This hit sorority girl, the hottest one in my stem classes after graduation she moved to NYC and married some investor dude.
Also the hottest girl in my highschool married a doctor
These guys were decent looking but not like giga chads and average height. Of course that was pre dating apps so women didn't overemphasize height back then
Only one other hot girl from college married a cop only one that didn't marry a rich guy. Well so I assume. A lot of cops commit overtime fraud or take easy overtime like every time you see a cop sitting there over night doing Jack shit while they got traffic lanes shutdown for construction.
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX⏩
Yyou have the money. But no women. Whats that say about you as a person?
no i don't blame them. i'd probably do the same.
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX⏩
And yet u resort to taking creep pics because u cant normally get a woman you perverted donkey. They probably are grosses out looking at your leather skin .
i've been with 100+.
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Originally Posted By MarioMiami305⏩
rekt
And yet u resort to taking creep pics because u cant normally get a woman you perverted donkey. They probably are grosses out looking at your leather skin .
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
Transactional if you’re not chad*
My buddy works in private equity so whenever they ask him what he does for work he just says”private equity” and most girls get it.
If you don’t have the luxury of telling girls you work in finance or private equity just take them out to a nice spot and instead of getting wine by the glass order a bottle, pretend like you know the wine; say shit like “I want you to try this cab, I always get it here, its phenomenal” even if you’ve never been to the restaurant and never tasted the wine … shit like that ya know
At the end of the day dating is a transaction no matter who you are and you have to spend some cash on nice dates. Gotta pay to play.
If you don’t have the luxury of telling girls you work in finance or private equity just take them out to a nice spot and instead of getting wine by the glass order a bottle, pretend like you know the wine; say shit like “I want you to try this cab, I always get it here, its phenomenal” even if you’ve never been to the restaurant and never tasted the wine … shit like that ya know
At the end of the day dating is a transaction no matter who you are and you have to spend some cash on nice dates. Gotta pay to play.
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Originally Posted By IvanFiveLiter⏩
Haha tfw not Chad fml
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