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Thread: ITT: 50 year old me drops wisdom on 20 year old me

post 1382103103 08-03-2015, 05:40 PM
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Originally Posted By Deenur⏩
No
One of the places I wish to go.
Would ride Top Thrill Dragster right now.
I waited 3 hours for front row of top thrill. the 10 second ride or whatever was worth the wait haha.

Always appreciated this thread old man, keep on keeping on.
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post 1382103613 08-03-2015, 05:42 PM
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Originally Posted By Deenur⏩
I am clean and healthy now and everything works fine.
Just stumbled into this thread.. I appreciate your advice. I'm still out of control and fear I'm too far gone to fix it.
post 1382104233 08-03-2015, 05:46 PM
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Originally Posted By LuNaTiC1988⏩
Just stumbled into this thread.. I appreciate your advice. I'm still out of control and fear I'm too far gone to fix it.
Never. As long as you are willing to look at it and do something about it, you have not gone too far.
The strongest reason for the people to retain the right to keep and bear arms is, as a last resort, to protect themselves against tyranny in government. Thomas Jefferson

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post 1382105003 08-03-2015, 05:50 PM
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Thank you for spreading your wisdom.
post 1382105813 08-03-2015, 05:55 PM
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Originally Posted By Deenur⏩
Never. As long as you are willing to look at it and do something about it, you have not gone too far.
Thanks, I constantly struggle; I feel I fight with myself, the mornings are simple, and the nights.. painful. The worst part for me is I know I'm wasting precious time struggling rather than stopping what I know doesn't benefit me, but it's so intertwined in my life it feels strange and scarily lackluster to be without it. I'm sorry to derail the thread but this thread triggered the thought process, and I need that.

Have good night.
post 1382106013 08-03-2015, 05:56 PM
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Originally Posted By LuNaTiC1988⏩
Thanks, I constantly struggle; I feel I fight with myself, the mornings are simple, and the nights.. painful. The worst part for me is I know I'm wasting precious time struggling rather than stopping what I know doesn't benefit me, but it's so intertwined in my life it feels strange and scarily lackluster to be without it. I'm sorry to derail the thread but this thread triggered the thought process, and I need that.

Have good night.
Do you know what you WANT to do?
and dont say pr0n.
The strongest reason for the people to retain the right to keep and bear arms is, as a last resort, to protect themselves against tyranny in government. Thomas Jefferson

Screenwriter- u mad brah?
post 1382106403 08-03-2015, 05:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Deenur⏩
Do you know what you WANT to do?
and dont say pr0n.
I want to be sober.
post 1382106793 08-03-2015, 05:59 PM
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Originally Posted By LuNaTiC1988⏩
I want to be sober.
I fought that fight. Its tough.
My relationship with God got me through it.
I dont know what people do if they dont have that to lean on.
What is the best thing you could think of for a career?
The strongest reason for the people to retain the right to keep and bear arms is, as a last resort, to protect themselves against tyranny in government. Thomas Jefferson

Screenwriter- u mad brah?
post 1382107983 08-03-2015, 06:06 PM
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I haven't logged in or posted in a very long time,
But your post is just too good.
Thank you for sharing your life experiences.
post 1382108163 08-03-2015, 06:07 PM
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Originally Posted By rotteneggz⏩
I haven't logged in or posted in a very long time,
But your post is just too good.
Thank you for sharing your life experiences.
Welcome brah.
Thanks for the nice feels.
The strongest reason for the people to retain the right to keep and bear arms is, as a last resort, to protect themselves against tyranny in government. Thomas Jefferson

Screenwriter- u mad brah?
post 1382109643 08-03-2015, 06:14 PM
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Quality thread.

Seen this before, but once again it pops up on front page ☻.
post 1382109833 08-03-2015, 06:15 PM
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Originally Posted By MrJensenn⏩
Quality thread.

Seen this before, but once again it pops up on front page ☻.
2 years and going strong, like the OP
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post 1382326813 08-04-2015, 04:07 PM
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Watch out what goes in your eyes and ears. Negativity will creep in and try to build a nest, and then multiply like rats. Evict negative thoughts and voices. Distance yourself from toxic people.

Find someone who can believe in you and you in them. My amazing wife (no, no pics) has always believed in me even when I didnt believe in me. This is why relationships are important.

You'll make it.
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Screenwriter- u mad brah?
post 1383045963 08-07-2015, 04:24 PM
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What do women really want? I'm talking about real women, real people. Not money worshiping, high-maintenance fakes. Not immature drama queens. But real women (yes Bartholomew they really exist, but not in clubs or on tinder).

My mom and grama basically raised me (very estranged with dad).
Trust me dudes, I know women.
-Women want to know that a man will believe everything that comes out of her mouth.
-Women want kindness. A strong kindness, not beta begging slobbering fool.
-Women want realism. Honesty. Don't be fake. Being honest is not a license to be an a-hole and cruel with your words.
-Women want conversation/communication. If we could just learn this, 75% of fights would be non existent.

Again, we are talking about real women that do not make money or endless attention their security, or their gods.
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post 1383046923 08-07-2015, 04:32 PM
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What do if homo
post 1383055413 08-07-2015, 05:17 PM
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Originally Posted By ChrisVigor⏩
What do if homo
Study finds that while gay men share similar genetic make-up, it only accounts for 40 per cent of chance of a man being homosexual

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/scie...rch-finds.html
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post 1383234093 08-08-2015, 04:20 PM
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Kindness (not beta, and not dark triad) is sexy
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post 1383235283 08-08-2015, 04:27 PM
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i think i have more than half of that list checked off, i just struggle with the treat people like crap, you will get treated like crap. i sometimes try to go out of my way to do nice stuff, but i feel like i get taken advantage of. also, have trouble with insecure people putting blame on me. just have trouble standing up for myself
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Originally Posted By miscerzhatehim⏩
i think i have more than half of that list checked off, i just struggle with the treat people like crap, you will get treated like crap. i sometimes try to go out of my way to do nice stuff, but i feel like i get taken advantage of. also, have trouble with insecure people putting blame on me. just have trouble standing up for myself
You dont have to let people walk on you. Be polite but firm. Those two HAVE TO go hand in hand. One without the other wont work. Plus it exudes confidence.
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post 1383237073 08-08-2015, 04:35 PM
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Originally Posted By Deenur⏩
You dont have to let people walk on you. Be polite but firm. Those two HAVE TO go hand in hand. One without the other wont work. Plus it exudes confidence.
yea, i guess i have trouble with being firm sometimes. probably lacking in self confidence. have let people walk on me for like my whole life. i definitely believe i have the ability to do many things well though.
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Originally Posted By miscerzhatehim⏩
yea, i guess i have trouble with being firm sometimes. probably lacking in self confidence. have let people walk on me for like my whole life. i definitely believe i have the ability to do many things well though.
Then go with that. Learn to say no, politely. And say no again and again. Ity gets easier. Just dont go in the other ditch and become a-hole.
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i wish 23 year old me saw this thread back in 2013
post 1383237943 08-08-2015, 04:41 PM
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Originally Posted By jasonjb⏩
i wish 23 year old me saw this thread back in 2013
Its ok brah. Start from now
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post 1383435283 08-09-2015, 05:33 PM
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bump
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How do you fight insecurity? I always thought I was a kind and nice person, but thinking back to how I treated people (putting others down to look cooler, doing things out of fear, ot the actual kindness of my heart, being a general dick to people, etc...) I realized everything I did, I did it out of insecurity. I mean, I'll give up my seat to an old person, or help someone with a flat tire that's a no brainer, but my day to day interactions tell me I'm not that nice of a person, and I know it stems from me being insecure about something. i just don't know what it is or how to fix it. I mean mug people for no reason sometimes, and also girls can sense this as well. Any insight? Maybe afraid of rejection so don't do nice things the way I should? Ahhh I don't know.
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Originally Posted By hickorysmoked1⏩
thinking back to how I treated people (putting others down to look cooler, doing things out of fear, ot the actual kindness of my heart, being a general dick to people, etc...) I realized everything I did, I did it out of insecurity.
This is actually a very good self-aware insight. You are on the right path. Start by not comparing yourself to anyone else. Compare you to you. Improve on who you are. Celebrate the successes- lift heavier, weight loss, etc. As you see how you are improving it will help you feel more self confident.

And I dont care how handsome/rich/appealing someone else is, that is never an excuse to be mean to someone else. Appreciate what you have. People have had it taken away from them in an instant (car wreck, disease, etc). As you appreciate what you have it will extend to your appreciation of others.
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Screenwriter- u mad brah?
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You know what to do.
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Screenwriter- u mad brah?
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Originally Posted By Deenur⏩
You know what to do.
But what if external factors get in the way with what you are going to do making it not possible for that moment?
R.I.P Greg Plitt
Texas Crew
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Do the absolute best you can with what you have at the moment, and push toward better. Just DONT QUIT.
The strongest reason for the people to retain the right to keep and bear arms is, as a last resort, to protect themselves against tyranny in government. Thomas Jefferson

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So this is going to sound crazy but-
don't base a relationship on a sexual dynamic.


More later.
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