I do look for opportunities to approach, but I always look for signals before approaching.Last year I did 4 cold approaches to girls that gave no signals of interest, and only got 2 numbers and a 1st date with one who was a fob. If I don't look for signals, ill be repeating history and will end up in a dead end, where ill get nowhere with a particular girl.



By the time I ever get financially stable, I would have gone insane due to being single



So I gotta keep cold approaching randoms, without even considering my chances of success prior to that (by looking for signals of interest), and somehow brute force my way through?



Maybe you are with the wrong person?

The 2nd part is legit, not confirmation bias. I can recall only 1 couple I've encountered, where the guy was filo like me and had a white gf. I can't recall any other interracial couple with a filo guy and a korean/japanese girl that I've personally seen in uni, which is the couple that I want to be. I do see more same race couples than WMAF.

I do think that my ego is fragile, probably more fragile than others, but I give off the illusion that it isn't because I use techniques to easily brush off verbal attacks on myself. So insults IRL don't do much to me, nor does shaming language

Went to some Japanese restaurant with a friend and talked about various stuff, after uni. He said that I was somewhat crazy in planning to go overseas to Asia, just to meet women, and said that I should just chill and that "ill eventually find someone". I countered with "Jobs don't get served to you; you have to go out and get what you want". He even said that I do take care of my appearance, can socialise, and look alright, yet I can't get laid. I told him that I do maybe get 1-2 eyefuks a year by women of similar nationality, but they aren't pretty enough, which is why I didn't do anything. I also told him that I approach girls but I never got even a single date with them.

Afterwards, we left and I told him that the cashier chick was pretty cute, and he said that I should have approached, but I said that she didn't give any signals (She was viet, judging from appearance). Earlier I told him of my beliefs that east asian women view my race as inferior and that I'll find trouble in getting what I want, but he said that he doesn't believe in that nonsense.

Now I just came home and a few hours later, im feeling depressed now because no gf, and because I missed an opportunity. I am also confused right now because I finish uni soon and that I'll have little to no opportunities to meet women I like (Viet, Korean, Japanese) after uni in Australia. I won't find gf material in clubs, I don't have any social circles. I won't find any in an office job and I can't just go eating out 5 days a week in hopes of approaching an asian girl. I could attend family friend parties, but all I'll get are filo chicks, which I don't want. It seems that I do have to go overseas to get what I want.

My thoughts are cluttered right now and im confused as fuk

srsly sick of life

Man, I hate to be blunt but it sounds like you're having a big pity party for yourself. You're looking for a very specific type of girl, so try online dating sites that cater to that. Try Tinder too. Try new clubs that surround around Viet/Korean/Japanese hobbies. You're right, things aren't just handed to you. Maybe you should take some of your own advice and put it into action.

Another thing, when you're desperate to be in a relationship, it usually backfires because you get too eager, move too fast, etc. The best relationships move along naturally and aren't forced. Keep that in mind.

Korean girls are ugly as chit, you stupid brown phuck.

Lol at morons who think the average Korean looks like a Kpop idol. Most Koreans are ugly as phuck, the ugliest Asians by far, you stupid phucking tards.

youtube. com /watch?v=ZVMptMTq5uo

Watch the video and look at the AUDIENCE, not the phucking performers, you stupid phucks. This is in Seoul.

Even the "pretty" Asians are all fugly when the makeup comes off the hair is pulled back.

The reason why Asian girls are ugly is because they lack any testosterone. They have the flat faces and bodies of preteen girls. No testosterone = zero sex appeal.

Most are also midget-sized.

Only a phucking ****phile would find Asian girls attractive.

Flat bodies, flat faces with zero brow ridge, flat nose bridge, flat wide noses, recessed chins, weak jaws, and beady little eyes.




You got the barbarian part right.

Lol if you think East Asian girls would want you when they could easily get someone likeYan Kuan, Zhang Han, Peter Ho, Huang Xiaoming, Lu Yi, Yuan Hong, Hawick Lau...

After all, all Asians look the same, amirite?

All Asians except for inferior brown midgets like you

let me give you some unadulterated truths right now.

All of the beliefs you listed in the OP are the cause of your problems. You have nothing to base these opinions on, and they are in fact false and untrue.

"Went to some Japanese restaurant with a friend and talked about various stuff, after uni. He said that I was somewhat crazy in planning to go overseas to Asia, just to meet women, and said that I should just chill and that "ill eventually find someone". I countered with "Jobs don't get served to you; you have to go out and get what you want". He even said that I do take care of my appearance, can socialise, and look alright, yet I can't get laid. I told him that I do maybe get 1-2 eyefuks a year by women of similar nationality, but they aren't pretty enough, which is why I didn't do anything. I also told him that I approach girls but I never got even a single date with them.

Afterwards, we left and I told him that the cashier chick was pretty cute, and he said that I should have approached,but I said that she didn't give any signals (She was viet, judging from appearance). Earlier I told him of my beliefs that east asian women view my race as inferior and that I'll find trouble in getting what I want, but he said that he doesn't believe in that nonsense.

Now I just came home and a few hours later, im feeling depressed now because no gf, and because I missed an opportunity. I am also confused right now because I finish uni soon and that I'll have little to no opportunities to meet women I like (Viet, Korean, Japanese) after uni in Australia. I won't find gf material in clubs, I don't have any social circles. I won't find any in an office job and I can't just go eating out 5 days a week in hopes of approaching an asian girl. I could attend family friend parties, but all I'll get are filo chicks, which I don't want.It seems that I do have to go overseas to get what I want.

My thoughts are cluttered right now and im confused as fuk

srsly sick of life"

bitches about how hard you are trying, yet I talk to more people "cold" in a few hours on a random night than you do in an entire year. self delusion is strong in this one.



this is a lie because you already internalized everything.

Congratulations, the OP is another example of a dude who has his mind poisoned by internet forums and LDAR memes. i snapped out of this mindset at 22 and threw myself into embarassing myself approaching girls.

Meh, what you decide to do with your life is ultimately your choice and no one else's srs

Not happy with being single? You consciously chose to be unhappy

Not happy with being in a relationship? Your consciously chose to be in a relationship AND unhappy at the same time

What you make of it is all that matters

Op, why not just go after Filipino dimes and call it a day?

East Asians are racist as fuk
White women generally don't like Asian guys

Arab girls are racist and there's the religion aspect

And you don't want darkskinned girls so Indians/Blacks/Islanders/Aboriginals are a no go

What else is there?

Be the best version of yourself and bag a hot filo girl

You're not confused. You said u cant find girls in you immediate area so you need to go overseas...


...so go and do it

Yeah I would consider a 9/10 filo girl, they are usually extroverted and in their own social circles, its not a playing field that I can compete in, since im an introvert. I see some around in my area




I live in the suburbs, and in the suburb I live in there aren't much asians. I can go live in the city or something, but its usually international students there. I'd have to move to a different suburb or visit there often just to meet asian girls. Honestly I think travelling would be more simpler

Seems like you're pretty set on traveling and meeting girls that way, 'cause you're not taking any advice anyone has for you. So why don't you stop whining and do it then?

have you ever considered moving to the Phillipines?

Being around your own kind might provide you with a sense of belonging and pride that you don't get being in a predominantly white country where most of the Asians who are present are East Asians

The advice im given is to just approach more and fail more

Thing is that I will run out of opportunities soon enough. When I graduate, I will hardly get opportunities to approach women at all. I could just cold approach every girl I see, but that would be beating a dead horse. I usually look out for signals or approach some girl that I see often, because familiarity helps increase my chances

Travelling is a last resort, I'd prefer a easier and less painful way first



Nah

I don't need a sense of belonging or pride to any religion or nation

i think you do

You clearly dislike being filo and consider it a problem for you. You're self conscious about others looking down on you and you think it's a hindrance when it comes to attracting women

Bump for more advice

Bump for more advice

You have to find a new cope that distracts you from "tfw no gf" (srs)

go out to the clubs on this friday night or go to the gym like im about to brah

Theres no way I could go into a club. I would feel so out of place and since I am not extroverted, its not really my "territory"

You make your own destiny. Stop being a little bitch and go approach some girls. If not, go LDAR. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

Time to get into alcohol or other substances that make you not give a sh!t so you can actually go anywhere and chat with random girls.

Age: 20...

You've got to be kidding me.

Chat where though?

People might talk sh!t about it but Tinder is definitely a good place to start. You don't have the bitches in your face so it's less awkward but you can have good convos. Practice there then go to bars or wherever IRL and do the same thing. All you have to do is start talking. It'll eventually be second nature

I don't understand why you kids equate happiness with GF's? Jesus H..sack up and live life. Relationships aren't all what they are cracked up to be.

I think it has to do more with the feeling of being wanted than just simply having a GF.

What do you study OP?