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Originally Posted By Ryan94LOZ⏩
I had my face smashed in 2 years ago and my teeth were fixed afterwards.Why did your teeth fall out?
They both broke at the same time today.
08-13-2016, 10:40 PM
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Originally Posted By HairyCrotchGuy⏩
did you remember to say no homo?Just made contacts with a guy who has a free 3 bedroom apartment all the time. This gon be good
It didn't come easy tho. I literally ran after him at 6 am, completely drunk, asked for a smoke and went from there. Bought him some beer and a hot dog,then he invited me to his homesrs. I checked it out and brahs it seems I'm about to fuk sloots there until my dik falls off in the very near future.
It didn't come easy tho. I literally ran after him at 6 am, completely drunk, asked for a smoke and went from there. Bought him some beer and a hot dog,then he invited me to his homesrs. I checked it out and brahs it seems I'm about to fuk sloots there until my dik falls off in the very near future.
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Solid progress OP! just watch out with ur drinking brah lol
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Just wanted to say good luck, grow out your hair, go to school, keep lifting, repeat for 5-10 years. youll make it.
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Originally Posted By paradigmshift5⏩
Thanks manJust wanted to say good luck, grow out your hair, go to school, keep lifting, repeat for 5-10 years. youll make it.
Originally Posted By KingDanny22⏩
Thanks. Yeah, I've been drinking way too much and fallen off the right track completely.Solid progress OP! just watch out with ur drinking brah lol
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oopsdid you remember to say no homo?
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still haven't fixed my tooth but otherwise im feeling pretty good about myself right now
gonna go out to approach girls in a few minutes
08-18-2016, 09:53 AM
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Originally Posted By HairyCrotchGuy⏩
still haven't fixed my tooth but otherwise im feeling pretty good about myself right now
gonna go out to approach girls in a few minutes
Hair's looking so much better, and your blue eyes are a definite plus (nohomo)
still haven't fixed my tooth but otherwise im feeling pretty good about myself right now
gonna go out to approach girls in a few minutes
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If i don't get girls I feel immense pain. But if I do get girls nothing really changes... I hate the fact that my happiness depends on random sloots. I will take a break from all this chit until I discover what really matters to me.
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Originally Posted By HairyCrotchGuy⏩
That's just the blue balls.If i don't get girls I feel immense pain. .
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Originally Posted By Big
gonna get myself one of those fake vaginas and live a happy life ever afterThat's just the blue balls.
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Originally Posted By Translocator⏩
GOAT advice.Cold approaches work very well if you are attractive and have good social skill with women. How do you most quickly get good social skill with women? Cold approaches (with a structured guidance program if you're not a natural, there are plenty of them out there, the best overall site probably beingwww.girlschase.com).
For the attractive part, you need a few things:
1. Leanness. Being lean = WAY better facial aesthetics, and I mean way better. Being lean enough to have optimal facial aesthetics makes most guys look tiny as hell, though, so having enough muscle to look at least fit is all that is necessary. You're probably already there in terms of muscle mass (girls don't demand a lot of muscle), you just need to get a bit leaner.
2. Clear skin. I had acne worse than you (seriously, **** acne) as a teenager. What ended up working for me in the end was the acne.org regimen -- basically, benzoyl peroxide (2.5%) morning and night with proper facial cleansing and moisturizing. However, recently a tool was released that is even better than that, called the PMD (https://getpmd.com/);better insofar as it can resurface your skin over time and get rid of any acne scars you have left, as well as being an unbelievably effective tool at preventing acne from forming in the first place. I had a decent amount of acne scars (though, luckily, my skin seems incredibly resistant to scarring of any kind, and so it was not nearly as bad as my previous acne would have caused on other people) and the PMD, over half a year or so, made my skin smooth as hell.
3. Style. You need a better haircut and better clothes, follow pretty much any of the advice given in this thread for those.
4. A tan. Easiest way to get a tan that looks great for someone who can't tan well (I'm assuming you can't?) is to get some melanotan-2 and use tanning beds 1-2x per week for a relatively small amount of time (4-5 minutes, where you inject half a dose of melanotan-2 15 minutes before tanning, then right after -- something like 150mcg before, 150mcg after). Melanotan-2 is an injectable peptide, so you'll have to learn about that jazz, but used in small doses is quite the ease-of-life booster.
Quickest way to boost the hell out of your aesthetic goals: go on a relatively low-carb and low-sodium diet. This is mostly for minimizing water retention in your body and face, and will likely make you lean down nicely as well. Start using the PMD right away, and since it will make your skin more absorbent, you can properly use skin-tone appropriate BB cream. BB cream is basically like a really good tinted moisturizer which, if used sparingly, is 100% invisible to people but improves the look of your skin by an incredible amount. If you feel like that's gay because it's basically like wearing makeup, have fun living life invisibly caged in the "gotta act like a man" zone where grooming for more than 5 minutes is embarrassing to you. Cheat to win as much as possible, because winning is all that matters.
Good luck bro!
For the attractive part, you need a few things:
1. Leanness. Being lean = WAY better facial aesthetics, and I mean way better. Being lean enough to have optimal facial aesthetics makes most guys look tiny as hell, though, so having enough muscle to look at least fit is all that is necessary. You're probably already there in terms of muscle mass (girls don't demand a lot of muscle), you just need to get a bit leaner.
2. Clear skin. I had acne worse than you (seriously, **** acne) as a teenager. What ended up working for me in the end was the acne.org regimen -- basically, benzoyl peroxide (2.5%) morning and night with proper facial cleansing and moisturizing. However, recently a tool was released that is even better than that, called the PMD (https://getpmd.com/);better insofar as it can resurface your skin over time and get rid of any acne scars you have left, as well as being an unbelievably effective tool at preventing acne from forming in the first place. I had a decent amount of acne scars (though, luckily, my skin seems incredibly resistant to scarring of any kind, and so it was not nearly as bad as my previous acne would have caused on other people) and the PMD, over half a year or so, made my skin smooth as hell.
3. Style. You need a better haircut and better clothes, follow pretty much any of the advice given in this thread for those.
4. A tan. Easiest way to get a tan that looks great for someone who can't tan well (I'm assuming you can't?) is to get some melanotan-2 and use tanning beds 1-2x per week for a relatively small amount of time (4-5 minutes, where you inject half a dose of melanotan-2 15 minutes before tanning, then right after -- something like 150mcg before, 150mcg after). Melanotan-2 is an injectable peptide, so you'll have to learn about that jazz, but used in small doses is quite the ease-of-life booster.
Quickest way to boost the hell out of your aesthetic goals: go on a relatively low-carb and low-sodium diet. This is mostly for minimizing water retention in your body and face, and will likely make you lean down nicely as well. Start using the PMD right away, and since it will make your skin more absorbent, you can properly use skin-tone appropriate BB cream. BB cream is basically like a really good tinted moisturizer which, if used sparingly, is 100% invisible to people but improves the look of your skin by an incredible amount. If you feel like that's gay because it's basically like wearing makeup, have fun living life invisibly caged in the "gotta act like a man" zone where grooming for more than 5 minutes is embarrassing to you. Cheat to win as much as possible, because winning is all that matters.
Good luck bro!
Also, repped OP for his humility in making this thread, and wanting to be a better version of himself.
Originally Posted By HairyCrotchGuy⏩
Ah chit man! Haha gotta admit I laughed a bit though.Went out clubbing again today and it was a pretty good night. Met 2 girls and a finnish guy and I took em to play pool after the club closed. Had some good moments with one of the girls but my autism killed me. Everything was going smooth as butter, I even walked her right to her fkin home when...
She says "it's a really long way for you to get home, are you really gonna walk that?"
"yea, where else could I go? haha, cya."
I saw the confusion in her eyes and immediately realized what I just did but it was already too late. Brahs why teh fuk did she have to give me some retarded hints instead of just asking if i wanna come in. Lmao. I didn't even ask for any of her contact details. Pretty sure I can find her on ******** with what I know, but don't know if there is any point now that I went full autism
She says "it's a really long way for you to get home, are you really gonna walk that?"
"yea, where else could I go? haha, cya."
I saw the confusion in her eyes and immediately realized what I just did but it was already too late. Brahs why teh fuk did she have to give me some retarded hints instead of just asking if i wanna come in. Lmao. I didn't even ask for any of her contact details. Pretty sure I can find her on ******** with what I know, but don't know if there is any point now that I went full autism
She basically said through vague subtext - "I like you, I want to accompany you tonight".
It's how girls often communicate man. Dropping hints etc, it raises sexual tension dramatically. Girls (not whores) will NOT speak overtly by saying things like "hey, wanna fuk?" etc. It just doesn't happen.
Learn to read these subtle signs in what they say and also their body language. She obviously liked you. Don't beat yourself up about this one though - plenty of more women out there.
Originally Posted By HairyCrotchGuy⏩
Da fuq? Is this even the same guy? LolCliffs of my day:
-continue drinking as soon as I wake up
-get a buzz going
-roam around the city, alone, looking for sloots to approach. Too scared, still.
-meet up with drink buddies
-continue getting drunk
-enter the club
-alpha af, leading conversations, introducing people, etc
-sloot complains no one takes her dancing
-I take her dancing
-We grind, kiss, etc
-Some dude which I assume is her boyfriend rolls up and is telling me to back off
- I ignore him, but can tell the girl is uncomfortable going full sloot mode with him around
- Give her a signal to meet me outside, I go first and she sneaks out to me after some minutes
- I talk her into going for a short walk
- Her bf follows us around, while we're just feeling each other up, holding hands and laughing about him
- Go dance, grind and make out some more in the club
- Take her number, then leave
Overall I'm pleased with what I did today. I held strong eye contact with people, was very friendly, talked with confidence and held nothing back.
Feels good mane
-continue drinking as soon as I wake up
-get a buzz going
-roam around the city, alone, looking for sloots to approach. Too scared, still.
-meet up with drink buddies
-continue getting drunk
-enter the club
-alpha af, leading conversations, introducing people, etc
-sloot complains no one takes her dancing
-I take her dancing
-We grind, kiss, etc
-Some dude which I assume is her boyfriend rolls up and is telling me to back off
- I ignore him, but can tell the girl is uncomfortable going full sloot mode with him around
- Give her a signal to meet me outside, I go first and she sneaks out to me after some minutes
- I talk her into going for a short walk
- Her bf follows us around, while we're just feeling each other up, holding hands and laughing about him
- Go dance, grind and make out some more in the club
- Take her number, then leave
Overall I'm pleased with what I did today. I held strong eye contact with people, was very friendly, talked with confidence and held nothing back.
Feels good mane
Originally Posted By HairyCrotchGuy⏩
Look SO much better with hair, brah.hair is finally long enough to style it somehow

gonna go out to search for hole again

gonna go out to search for hole again
Good job with the progress in general.
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08-27-2016, 03:49 AM
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I willa dd my two cents:
The best way to get better with women is to start with men. By that I mean get used to chatting to men and cracking jokes and being sociable.
Onceyou get used to joking around with dudes where there is no anxiety about appearing attractive then act in the exact same way with girls.
I tried both direct and oking around type approaches and both can work so get after it.
The best way to get better with women is to start with men. By that I mean get used to chatting to men and cracking jokes and being sociable.
Onceyou get used to joking around with dudes where there is no anxiety about appearing attractive then act in the exact same way with girls.
I tried both direct and oking around type approaches and both can work so get after it.
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Going out to meet a girl in 10 mins
kinda nervous, since I usually don't do this stuff while sober
actually my legs are spaghetti and she's not even that hot fuuuk
kinda nervous, since I usually don't do this stuff while sober
actually my legs are spaghetti and she's not even that hot fuuuk
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OP, stay away from the tanning beds. If you really really want to look more tanned, do a spray tan or use bronzer. There's no such thing as a healthy tan - it will fuk you up in the long run.
You can get rid of the acne you've got with ease - take a look at my skin care thread:http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showth...hp?t=172084643
You can get rid of the acne you've got with ease - take a look at my skin care thread:http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showth...hp?t=172084643
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Just got my driver's license today!
Next step is moving to the capital city to work for my uncle in security. Gonna get on my feet there and the true slayings will begin
Already have a vision of what I'm going to become.

Next step is moving to the capital city to work for my uncle in security. Gonna get on my feet there and the true slayings will begin
Already have a vision of what I'm going to become.
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The situation was definitely improving up until about a month ago until I started eating much more carelessly. Potatoes, bread, pizzas, all that good stuff.
My only 2 options are beans and buckwheat so I guess I'll just have to accept that I'm stuck eating that chit for the rest of my life.
Had to turn down a date today because I just can't let girls see me when my acne is so out of control. Was probably the most attractive girl ever to show interest in me ffs. Never gonna eat anything other than buckwheat and beans ever the fuk again.
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What kind of skincare do you do?
Benzoyl peroxide will kill acne causing bacteria on your skin, but an exfoliant like salicylic acid will speed up your skin turnover and start to fade scarring. A dermatologist could put you on a retinoid that will fade your scars even more quickly.
Benzoyl peroxide will kill acne causing bacteria on your skin, but an exfoliant like salicylic acid will speed up your skin turnover and start to fade scarring. A dermatologist could put you on a retinoid that will fade your scars even more quickly.
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Truth is I've made 0 progress. Still completely useless when I'm sober which is the way it's always been. So the conclusion here is that partying did not help me improve at all so I'm done with it. I need some days off to think about how I can do this.
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pfft, dude you're too obsessed. i found that girls usually turned up when i was least expecting it, or not trying. you just gotta do 'you' stuff and the rest usually falls into place.
you're still pretty young, i'd be more worried about you falling in love with the first random sloot too easily.
you're still pretty young, i'd be more worried about you falling in love with the first random sloot too easily.
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Getting buzzed when you wake up and actively patrolling the streets for cold approach targets is cringey as fuark brah. Slayers don't do that creepy chit. They go out with their aesthetic crew and girls come to them.
Even going to the club now for the purpose of approaching chicks is cringey as fuk to me (the other night, every guy i saw approach got shut down quickly on the dance floor). Go there to have fun and make friends: if a sloot is eyeing you up and smiling at you then you have the green light to talk/dance with her. But don't be that guy walking around all night bothering random sloots just to get a number that's guaranteed to flake the next day.
Even going to the club now for the purpose of approaching chicks is cringey as fuk to me (the other night, every guy i saw approach got shut down quickly on the dance floor). Go there to have fun and make friends: if a sloot is eyeing you up and smiling at you then you have the green light to talk/dance with her. But don't be that guy walking around all night bothering random sloots just to get a number that's guaranteed to flake the next day.
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Originally Posted By pushlimits⏩
It's true. I feel like I have to get this taken care of before I can move on with my life. I can't focus on anything else.pfft, dude you're too obsessed. i found that girls usually turned up when i was least expecting it, or not trying. you just gotta do 'you' stuff and the rest usually falls into place.
you're still pretty young, i'd be more worried about you falling in love with the first random sloot too easily.
you're still pretty young, i'd be more worried about you falling in love with the first random sloot too easily.
Originally Posted By quadfecta⏩
I'm not a slayer. I'm just an awkward kid that doesn't really know what to doGetting buzzed when you wake up and actively patrolling the streets for cold approach targets is cringey as fuark brah. Slayers don't do that creepy chit. They go out with their aesthetic crew and girls come to them.
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Originally Posted By HairyCrotchGuy⏩
Look on the bright side brah. You managed to get a girl home. Yes you butchered it at the end but it shows you have what it takes!Went out clubbing again today and it was a pretty good night. Met 2 girls and a finnish guy and I took em to play pool after the club closed. Had some good moments with one of the girls but my autism killed me. Everything was going smooth as butter, I even walked her right to her fkin home when...
She says "it's a really long way for you to get home, are you really gonna walk that?"
"yea, where else could I go? haha, cya."
I saw the confusion in her eyes and immediately realized what I just did but it was already too late. Brahs why teh fuk did she have to give me some retarded hints instead of just asking if i wanna come in. Lmao. I didn't even ask for any of her contact details. Pretty sure I can find her on ******** with what I know, but don't know if there is any point now that I went full autism
She says "it's a really long way for you to get home, are you really gonna walk that?"
"yea, where else could I go? haha, cya."
I saw the confusion in her eyes and immediately realized what I just did but it was already too late. Brahs why teh fuk did she have to give me some retarded hints instead of just asking if i wanna come in. Lmao. I didn't even ask for any of her contact details. Pretty sure I can find her on ******** with what I know, but don't know if there is any point now that I went full autism
Also looking at your photos, u ain't bad looking at all mate.
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Originally Posted By HairyCrotchGuy⏩
Do you have any friends that are good with women when they're sober, or get a lot of girls (even when sober)? If so then I suggest hanging out with them regularly and pick up on their traits. Mimicking the behaviours of others is normally a good and quick way to find out for yourself how you should act.Truth is I've made 0 progress. Still completely useless when I'm sober which is the way it's always been. So the conclusion here is that partying did not help me improve at all so I'm done with it. I need some days off to think about how I can do this.
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Wow @ that acne.
I don't what that feeling is like to eat whatever, and have bad acne....
Just fkn lol @ the misc always simply talking about banging sloots etc SOMEHOW = Happiness. Shallow as fuk mentality, and the philosophy and insight of a cretin. Not to mention, it's bloody toxic for your mind and self-development as a man.
You're better than that man. Find things that make you happy in life, be around friends that encourage you to explore things you like and be a better version of you.
If you cannot face yourself, be honest with yourself etc when you are SOBER, then you are living a life of fantasy, and simply escaping yourself. I'd recommend reading self-help books... give this one a go...

Also, watch this guys Youtube channel (Sadhguru)
That's what I do these days too. Going in with the sole idea of picking up =/= a good night.
I don't what that feeling is like to eat whatever, and have bad acne....
Originally Posted By HairyCrotchGuy⏩
Dude, you need to work on your OWN INNER HAPPINESS.Truth is I've made 0 progress. Still completely useless when I'm sober which is the way it's always been. So the conclusion here is that partying did not help me improve at all so I'm done with it. I need some days off to think about how I can do this.
Just fkn lol @ the misc always simply talking about banging sloots etc SOMEHOW = Happiness. Shallow as fuk mentality, and the philosophy and insight of a cretin. Not to mention, it's bloody toxic for your mind and self-development as a man.
You're better than that man. Find things that make you happy in life, be around friends that encourage you to explore things you like and be a better version of you.
If you cannot face yourself, be honest with yourself etc when you are SOBER, then you are living a life of fantasy, and simply escaping yourself. I'd recommend reading self-help books... give this one a go...

Also, watch this guys Youtube channel (Sadhguru)
Originally Posted By quadfecta⏩
Some decent advice....Getting buzzed when you wake up and actively patrolling the streets for cold approach targets is cringey as fuark brah. Slayers don't do that creepy chit. They go out with their aesthetic crew and girls come to them.
Even going to the club now for the purpose of approaching chicks is cringey as fuk to me (the other night, every guy i saw approach got shut down quickly on the dance floor). Go there to have fun and make friends: if a sloot is eyeing you up and smiling at you then you have the green light to talk/dance with her. But don't be that guy walking around all night bothering random sloots just to get a number that's guaranteed to flake the next day.
Even going to the club now for the purpose of approaching chicks is cringey as fuk to me (the other night, every guy i saw approach got shut down quickly on the dance floor). Go there to have fun and make friends: if a sloot is eyeing you up and smiling at you then you have the green light to talk/dance with her. But don't be that guy walking around all night bothering random sloots just to get a number that's guaranteed to flake the next day.
That's what I do these days too. Going in with the sole idea of picking up =/= a good night.
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Try and focus on interacting with women with common interests rather than just the sake of trying to smash party sloots, it will definitely help with the nerves since there is already a common ground as apposed to being bored af talking to a dumb broad
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09-04-2016, 07:13 AM
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Also OP - try to take up some meditation classes.
I'm sure there may be some Hindu/Buddhist temples near you (srs), and they usually have excellent and free public meditation and self-awareness classes. There is no religious indoctrination
Rather, discourse about life, yourself, etc.
It's very sad to see young guys like you consumed by some of the latest ideas and notions you have posted."Loser" to "slayer"?? Come on now. The misc has gotten to you with it's nonsense.
What I've noticed with me is that there has always been a strong, resilient voice in the back of my mind... seemingly pushing me in the "right" direction.
I'm sure there may be some Hindu/Buddhist temples near you (srs), and they usually have excellent and free public meditation and self-awareness classes. There is no religious indoctrination
Rather, discourse about life, yourself, etc.It's very sad to see young guys like you consumed by some of the latest ideas and notions you have posted."Loser" to "slayer"?? Come on now. The misc has gotten to you with it's nonsense.
What I've noticed with me is that there has always been a strong, resilient voice in the back of my mind... seemingly pushing me in the "right" direction.
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Originally Posted By Ashfrolicious⏩
strong pump and dump crew correlation to everything you have saidAlso OP - try to take up some meditation classes.
I'm sure there may be some Hindu/Buddhist temples near you (srs), and they usually have excellent and free public meditation and self-awareness classes. There is no religious indoctrination
Rather, discourse about life, yourself, etc.
It's very sad to see young guys like you consumed by some of the latest ideas and notions you have posted."Loser" to "slayer"?? Come on now. The misc has gotten to you with it's nonsense.
What I've noticed with me is that there has always been a strong, resilient voice in the back of my mind... seemingly pushing me in the "right" direction.
I'm sure there may be some Hindu/Buddhist temples near you (srs), and they usually have excellent and free public meditation and self-awareness classes. There is no religious indoctrination
Rather, discourse about life, yourself, etc.It's very sad to see young guys like you consumed by some of the latest ideas and notions you have posted."Loser" to "slayer"?? Come on now. The misc has gotten to you with it's nonsense.
What I've noticed with me is that there has always been a strong, resilient voice in the back of my mind... seemingly pushing me in the "right" direction.
But seriously thanks. I'll give meditation a try since I've seen many people say it helped put their minds at ease.
Going to take a break from women as well for at least a couple months to work on myself in that time.
09-04-2016, 07:25 AM
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Originally Posted By HairyCrotchGuy⏩
Lmfao...strong pump and dump crew correlation to everything you have said
But seriously thanks. I'll give meditation a try since I've seen many people say it helped put their minds at ease.
Going to take a break from women aswell for at least a couple months to work on myself in that time.
But seriously thanks. I'll give meditation a try since I've seen many people say it helped put their minds at ease.
Going to take a break from women aswell for at least a couple months to work on myself in that time.
Just because I have that in my sig doesn't mean my life's motto is THAT shallow. We are 3-dimensional beings.
Anyway, good to see you take on what I said. It will help

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09-04-2016, 08:55 AM
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OP, they say wisdom can come from the unlikeliest places. I would highly, HIGHLY recommend "grown-up" Tucker Max's book Mate:

Basically Max works with an evolutionary psychologist to determine what (and why) women want different things in a guy, as well as the best way to meet girls, etc. Their joint podcast (The Mating Grounds) is also pretty good.
A few highlights:
http://thematinggrounds.com/new-start-here/
http://thematinggrounds.com/where-to...-in-real-life/
http://thematinggrounds.com/how-to-b...-social-proof/

Basically Max works with an evolutionary psychologist to determine what (and why) women want different things in a guy, as well as the best way to meet girls, etc. Their joint podcast (The Mating Grounds) is also pretty good.
A few highlights:
http://thematinggrounds.com/new-start-here/
http://thematinggrounds.com/where-to...-in-real-life/
http://thematinggrounds.com/how-to-b...-social-proof/
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