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Cope. I'm Indian, and I got multiple job offers to teach in Korea. Found a nice one on the east coast right on the beach.

OP I share these feels brah.

People say life doesn't suck single, and they are right... when being single is a choice. When you are single because you can't get a girlfriend then yeah of course that sucks.

I have close to zero social circle atm. No way of meeting women organically. My only option is cold approach.

In all honesty when you really think about it, the solution is to face the fear/embarrassment of cold approach. There's no other way. I think about the feels of not having a gf and I think about the feels of being rejected by say 100 women but finding one I really like who says yes. Would it not be worth it then? Probably, but even knowing that it is still so hard to face our fears and destroy our self-image of ourselves.

Fear is the greatest limiter of human potential.

feels brah

maybe complain on reddit about being Fa and you can get a date like me

going to see this girl tommorow

literally the first time ever doing something like that for me

Holy fuk... you are so 20 it's not even funny.



You only want a gf to make up for your lack of belief in yourself. You ain't gonna be happy until you sort that out.

The key to ldar is transitioning from the negative, time wasting ldar mentality to the positive ldar mentality. It becomes easier once you relinquish all hope that you could become neurotypical and or attractive.

When you accept your sub humanity, either looks or mentality life becomes easier.

Stop looking/planning for the future and stop comparing yourself to others.

If you expect nothing you will never be disappointed.

Lastly, focus your efforts on an interest/s, become obsessed with it and if you truly enjoy it, your interests will drag you out of the negative and into the positive outlook.

Cliffs: if you gonna ldar then do it correctly

bro you're filip and u dont want filip, and you only want east asians? da ****? some filipinas are hot as hell

no racist but how often you see east asian chicks with SE asian dudes, its super rare

That's because you have a degree from an American university. They prefer people who studied in America. Still doesn't pay enough to justify relocating to Korea just for work and the hope you'll find a Korean wife. You're a step above retail workers as an English teacher in that country

I'd find a way to make sure that it lasts indefinitely

Went to some Japanese restaurant with a friend and talked about various stuff, after uni. He said that I was somewhat crazy in planning to go overseas to Asia, just to meet women, and said that I should just chill and that "ill eventually find someone". I countered with "Jobs don't get served to you; you have to go out and get what you want". He even said that I do take care of my appearance, can socialise, and look alright, yet I can't get laid. I told him that I do maybe get 1-2 eyefuks a year by women of similar nationality, but they aren't pretty enough, which is why I didn't do anything. I also told him that I approach girls but I never got even a single date with them.

Afterwards, we left and I told him that the cashier chick was pretty cute, and he said that I should have approached, but I said that she didn't give any signals (She was viet, judging from appearance). Earlier I told him of my beliefs that east asian women view my race as inferior and that I'll find trouble in getting what I want, but he said that he doesn't believe in that nonsense.

Now I just came home and a few hours later, im feeling depressed now because no gf, and because I missed an opportunity. I am also confused right now because I finish uni soon and that I'll have little to no opportunities to meet women I like (Viet, Korean, Japanese) after uni in Australia. I won't find gf material in clubs, I don't have any social circles. I won't find any in an office job and I can't just go eating out 5 days a week in hopes of approaching an asian girl. I could attend family friend parties, but all I'll get are filo chicks, which I don't want. It seems that I do have to go overseas to get what I want.

My thoughts are cluttered right now and im confused as fuk

srsly sick of life

life just sucks not having a gf

The key to ldar is transitioning from the negative, time wasting ldar mentality to the positive ldar mentality. It becomes easier once you relinquish all hope that you could become neurotypical and or attractive.

When you accept your sub humanity, either looks or mentality life becomes easier.

Stop looking/planning for the future and stop comparing yourself to others.

If you expect nothing you will never be disappointed.

Lastly, focus your efforts on an interest/s, become obsessed with it and if you truly enjoy it, your interests will drag you out of the negative and into the positive outlook.

Cliffs: if you gonna ldar then do it correctly

Read this far.



Magical thinking isn't a gameplan, dude. Hedonic adaption hits everyone - billionaires, models, rock stars - everyone. It's human nature.

What are you going to do when those honeymoon feels fade?

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This guy is dead on. If you're really being honest with yourself, you'll realize you're just looking for validation as much as anything else. I've seen this over and over again on FA boards.

age:20 and you already feel like you need a gf? You are weak *******. no wonder women are repulsed by you

LOL at taking any important decisions in life based on your current success with dumb bitches.

How far have you gotten with your cold approaches?




Gl man, have fun on that date. I've have 1 official date and about 2 hangouts in my life. Just act normal, don't overcompensate and just talk to them like you would a normal person. The best that I did was when I didn't think of the outcome, but thats easier said than done. I'd just focus on the food, that might be a good distraction




My life is alright, its boring though, and I want a gf so I can spice things up a bit




Thanks man. I do agree that not comparing yourself and not looking ahead is key to happiness.



Some are hot as hell. I've seen about ~4 my whole life IRL. I would consider them, but they are usually extraverted and give off a slooty vibe, which sucks

And yeah its rare. I personally have never seen it in my life, or don't recall any at least. I can be the first though



Still, but if he is getting laid then what does it matter?

Who cares mate, you're only 20. Keep enjoying chit and start a serious rotting cycle if you're a gfless virgin by 30.

Really... ?

You want to find a gf cuz your life is boring? Why the fuk would a girl want to be with a guy with a boring life? Do you have any hobbies? Things that you do just for you? Things that are a combination of your skills + passion or even just one of them?

I don't know what ill do if I am still FA by 30, I'd probably lose my sanity by then




Yeah I got hobbies, but it just feels lonely just enjoying my hobbies alone. I want to live life with someone

brah i feel the same. a GF would give me the incentive to make progress in other areas in my life


without, you can just LDAR with the minimum effort/money/cope.. no need to have high goals if you share the success alone

LOL u r pinoy and you wont even go to phillipines to get with a girl u DUMB PHUCK its literally impossible to be FA in the phillipines unless you're horrifically deformed

I don't want gold diggers

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I don't want gold diggers

Literally those words are very similar to what my friend told me, that it would all come natural. Chit in life doesn't come natural, if it did, then the poor and starving people wouldn't be starving, since good things would "come their

lol having a gf is overrated af dude

I don't know what ill do if I am still FA by 30, I'd probably lose my sanity by then




Yeah I got hobbies, butit just feels lonely just enjoying my hobbies alone. I want to live life with someone

girls don't want *******s like you

most asian women are gold diggers, esp the pretty ones ....i don't know what the **** you're blabbering about

if you want a gf stick to 6-7 range....

higher than that, you would rather go for one night stands

Reading. Not even once.

I said focus on self improvement and the rest would follow.

Nothing is free.

If you are willing to work on the right things, you'll be fine. If not...

lol having a gf is overrated af dude, especially when you're an adult, because then it's not all about getting snuggly, you have to provide and please her and chit

yeah having vagina and someone that "wants you" feels good, but you're going to realize it's not all that once you finally get one

sometimes it's better to just bang escorts or pull hoes and then try to build a relationship with a girl you genuinely connect with, stop going out trying to look for a wifey right out the gate, it's a fail 90% of the time, and you're going to be seriously heartbroken and redpilled when it happens too

My best friend is an East Asian/ white mix and looks phillippino or hispanic, and he gets laid all the time in the ****ing US South.

Mate... they are your hobbies, not your prospective gf's hobbies. Dafuk is wrong with you?Don't you connect with anyone else who shares the same interests/hobbies as yourself?

What are these hobbies you say you do?

misc lets buy this beta the gf experience