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post 1460435013 09-02-2016, 08:02 AM
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why did you repeat the title in the post? u cudve just continued

u made me read the same line twice you *******
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post 1460435603 09-02-2016, 08:06 AM
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Originally Posted By joshewwah
Why would I be a monk when I've got needs?

I'm trying to get a gf, its hard getting a pretty one that likes you back
you don't have needs, you have desires. desire leads to envy, envy leads to jealousy. jealousy is covetous and coveting is a sin. do you really want to live a sinful life? ask yourself that OP.
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post 1460435653 09-02-2016, 08:07 AM
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Originally Posted By iloveus
Pure laziness. No personal responsibility. Don't blame god or life. If you want something go get it. Go outside talk to some girls. Ask one out. Repeat until you find a person that's compatible for you.
Life just needs to present me a door that is slightly open, and I'll walk through it. Sick and tired of trying every door only for most of them that I can't even open it
Originally Posted By iWantToGrow
ASMR, but just to a very small degree.
I tried watching those videos a long time ago, I could never feel anything srs, its like im immune or something
Originally Posted By rockr101
why did you repeat the title in the post? u cudve just continued

u made me read the same line twice you *******
( ͜ʖ͡)╭∩╮
Originally Posted By badlasagna
you don't have needs, you have desires. desire leads to envy, envy leads to jealousy. and jealousy covetous and coveting is a sin. do you really want to live a sinful life? ask yourself that OP.
define sinful
post 1460436573 09-02-2016, 08:13 AM
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Originally Posted By joshewwah
But its also creepy, idk. I'd be scared chitless if I was home aloneand saw that move
depending on if you're a glass half full kinda guy..

- be scared chitless
- get your c0ck out and see what happens
fist yourself
post 1460437373 09-02-2016, 08:19 AM
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp
depending on if you're a glass half full kinda guy..

- be scared chitless
- get your c0ck out and see what happens
Hmm you're right, if it did move, then I suppose the only thing to do is to explore and see what happens
post 1460437593 09-02-2016, 08:21 AM
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Srs answer. No, nothing simulates it, especially when it's a girl that adores you.


You know what you want, so why don't you have a gf? After enough dates, one is eventually going to want to talk to you more often. You say you don't look like Shrek and I assume you lift, so what's stopping you?
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Originally Posted By joshewwah
Hmm you're right, if it did move, then I suppose the only thing to do is to explore and see what happens
I'm pretty sure that if it can move, it can open it's mouth and cup your balls.
fist yourself
post 1460437703 09-02-2016, 08:22 AM
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Originally Posted By joshewwah
If fapping can temporarily satisfy physical sexual needs, then what is the equivalent for the emotional/non physical part?
heroin
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post 1460438243 09-02-2016, 08:26 AM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
Srs answer. No, nothing simulates it, especially when it's a girl that adores you.


You know what you want, so why don't you have a gf? After enough dates, one is eventually going to want to talk to you more often. You say you don't look like Shrek and I assume you lift, so what's stopping you?
fuark, I thought so myself that there is no substitute.

I do want a gf, its difficult getting one thats pretty. Talking to females that I have no attraction to does nothing for this desire, this hunger. I want attention and affection from a oneitis, from a chick that I want, that'll give me something to feel. Maybe my height and my ethnicity is stopping me and my face. You guys could say that I might be going for women in a higher league, but im going for ones of different nationality in the "same aesthetics league"
Originally Posted By BustaCapp
I'm pretty sure that if it can move, it can open it's mouth and cup your balls.
wat
Originally Posted By ChaseW
heroin
damn, don't think I wanna go down that route, its expensive as fuk too, and I get addicted and obsessed with things easily
post 1460438663 09-02-2016, 08:30 AM
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[QUOTE=BustaCapp post_id=1460434223]If you train yourself hard enough you can make this connection with the use of life-sized female dolls. Spending time together in the evening, sat around a lunch table and watching TV together. You talk to them and imagine them saying things back to you.

It's possible because children manage to have emotional connections with teddy bears etc. It's in your DNA, you just need to focus on bringing those primal thoughts back to the fore.


Imagine coming home from a hard days work to this:

[img]http://c3.thejournal.ie/media/2012/02/ADVERTS-DOLL-390x285.jpg[img]

Imagine putting your arms around her and just telling her how your day was. You imagine her saying something along the lines of "oh that's nice honey, would you like me to make you a nice meal while you put your feet up?"

for added realism, you can buy one of these for later on in the relationship:

[img]https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/38/8c/30/388c3040ca623bb3a8a9396f54f9112a.jpg[img]

For added realism, you could imagine her saying something like "when are you going to fix the garden fence you useless bastard!!"

...etc

I suggest you invest. Srs.[/QUOTE][youtube]https://www.youtube.com/embed/VjJtmcJM-Rw[/youtube]
post 1460439283 09-02-2016, 08:34 AM
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Originally Posted By ADHDave
that thing is like a giant teddy bear

idk, but I remember the days when I was a kid and had a teddy bear.

tfw you had someone/something to turn to for comfort
post 1460440313 09-02-2016, 08:42 AM
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Originally Posted By Jax05
getting a pump

it's like cumming

Lets say you train your biceps, blood is rushing in to your muscles and thats what we call the pump. Your muscles get a really tight feeling like your skin is going to explode any minute and its really tight and its like someone is blowing air into your muscle and it just blows up and it feels different, it feels fantastic. Its as satisfying to me as cumming is, you know, as in having sex with a woman and cumming. So can you believe how much I am in heaven? I am like getting the feeling of cumming in the gym; Im getting the feeling of cumming at home; Im getting the feeling of cumming backstage; when I pump up, when I pose out in front of 5000 people I get the same feeling, so I am cumming day and night. Its terrific, right? So you know, I am in heaven
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Originally Posted By joshewwah
If fapping can temporarily satisfy physical sexual needs, then what is the equivalent for the emotional/non physical part?

I can cope not having sex by just fapping, but how do I cope with not getting female attention? Is there a silver bullet to get that need easily so that I can continue rotting without the thoughts haunting me? Anything I can do in like 3 minutes to sate that need like fapping does?

srs
go to your local maccas or supermarket and maintain eye contact with the pretty girl at the counter, that should satisfy you for at least a few weeks
post 1460441703 09-02-2016, 08:53 AM
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Let me give you a lesson, boyo. Find yourself an ugly girl, and by ugly I mean 4/10 or lower. Miscers blow it out of proportion of course but in reality girls 4/10 and below aren't getting railed by Chads. Once you hit below a 5/10 as a female, your SMV drops to nearzero. This is where guys who 6s and 7s really get to cash out if they are willing to drop their standards. Too many guys who are 7 and below chase 5+/10 sloots and end up miserable or fapping 90% of the time because those women belong to Chads. This is where 80-20 really kicks in.

I have 6 facial aesthetics and I've been talking to this 4/10 and it's better than ever, boyo. Plus she has more substance since she couldn't rely on her looks. The only problem is that it's pretty embarrassing because I know she's nothing to show off, but the more time you spend with her, the better she will start to look to you. At first I was slightly repulsed but then I started to think she was cute, which is all that matters at the end.


In other words, drop your standards and then cope until you make it.
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only drugs can manipulate your brain for that
post 1460453343 09-02-2016, 10:10 AM
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Originally Posted By GaloisTheory
Let me give you a lesson, boyo. Find yourself an ugly girl, and by ugly I mean 4/10 or lower. Miscers blow it out of proportion of course but in reality girls 4/10 and below aren't getting railed by Chads. Once you hit below a 5/10 as a female, your SMV drops to nearzero. This is where guys who 6s and 7s really get to cash out if they are willing to drop their standards. Too many guys who are 7 and below chase 5+/10 sloots and end up miserable or fapping 90% of the time because those women belong to Chads. This is where 80-20 really kicks in.

I have 6 facial aesthetics and I've been talking to this 4/10 and it's better than ever, boyo. Plus she has more substance since she couldn't rely on her looks. The only problem is that it's pretty embarrassing because I know she's nothing to show off, but the more time you spend with her, the better she will start to look to you. At first I was slightly repulsed but then I started to think she was cute, which is all that matters at the end.


In other words, drop your standards and then cope until you make it.
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post 1460454743 09-02-2016, 10:20 AM
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crying (srs), I heard crying hard gives you a sense of well-being right after, a type of "everything is gonna be okay" hormone is released
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how bout u grab ur balls real tight and go get laid.
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Why not try your own race and go from there? Im sure youll find a nice filipina girl if you try. Why are you so racist??
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Get a dog.
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Serious advice: Learn to enjoy your own company.

Take some time. Sit down. Meditate. Introspect. Get comfortable just being able to be on your own in an empty room with no outside stimulation for 10-20 minutes a day.

Once you do that for a while you won't be so dependent on other people or things to stimulate you. Women will just be an added extra rather than something you feel you "need" to get by.

The reason most people feel they *NEED* someone else is because they can't even stand being in their own head for 5 minutes. If they aren't being fed constant stimulation by TV, ********, games, girls, etc, they just feel bored as chit and depressed. The solution isn't to go outside yourself and find more of that same empty stimulation. The solution is to treat the problem at the root, and get comfortable with that lack of stimulation.
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I don't have "emotional needs" you weakling. Smash and dash.
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There's only one man in this world who has discovered the secret to your problem, OP. That man is.....












































Bill Cosby
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just forget about ever getting laid
20% bf crew
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Abusing oxycodone kind of makes it feel like you are being cuddled by a perfect 10 who loves you more than anything on earth
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Originally Posted By sickh11
I don't have "emotional needs" you weakling. Smash and dash.
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Originally Posted By wooosh3
go to your local maccas or supermarket and maintain eye contact with the pretty girl at the counter, that should satisfy you for at least a few weeks
that wont do chit, and in my area, its all people who are trash or high who work at those places
Originally Posted By GaloisTheory
Let me give you a lesson, boyo. Find yourself an ugly girl, and by ugly I mean 4/10 or lower. Miscers blow it out of proportion of course but in reality girls 4/10 and below aren't getting railed by Chads. Once you hit below a 5/10 as a female, your SMV drops to nearzero. This is where guys who 6s and 7s really get to cash out if they are willing to drop their standards. Too many guys who are 7 and below chase 5+/10 sloots and end up miserable or fapping 90% of the time because those women belong to Chads. This is where 80-20 really kicks in.

I have 6 facial aesthetics and I've been talking to this 4/10 and it's better than ever, boyo. Plus she has more substance since she couldn't rely on her looks. The only problem is that it's pretty embarrassing because I know she's nothing to show off, but the more time you spend with her, the better she will start to look to you. At first I was slightly repulsed but then I started to think she was cute, which is all that matters at the end.


In other words, drop your standards and then cope until you make it.
This is a good idea, I can vouch because I approached this "4.5/10" viet chick a long time ago, and then I ended up getting attached to her as she was pretty cute and nice. To this day she is a 6.5/10 in my eyes

Thing is, I doubt I can do it again, because my ego would be hurt as I'd be ashamed to be seen in public with such a woman

Would rather be alone than lower my standards srs
Originally Posted By boredFA
only drugs can manipulate your brain for that
damn :/ thats not an option for me
Originally Posted By Epervier
crying (srs), I heard crying hard gives you a sense of well-being right after, a type of "everything is gonna be okay" hormone is released
fuark, don't think I've ever really cried in years
Originally Posted By KingKringe
how bout u grab ur balls real tight and go get laid.
If only it was as easy as talking a walk to the fridge for a bottle of water
Originally Posted By N0ragr3t5
Why not try your own race and go from there? Im sure youll find a nice filipina girl if you try. Why are you so racist??
Only willing with 8/10+ filo chicks. Its for my ego and my pride. But wouldn't mind and would take a 6/10 east asian girl any day over a 8/10 filo srs
Originally Posted By Enguin
Get a dog.
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Originally Posted By JesusGreen
Serious advice: Learn to enjoy your own company.

Take some time. Sit down. Meditate. Introspect. Get comfortable just being able to be on your own in an empty room with no outside stimulation for 10-20 minutes a day.

Once you do that for a while you won't be so dependent on other people or things to stimulate you. Women will just be an added extra rather than something you feel you "need" to get by.

The reason most people feel they *NEED* someone else is because they can't even stand being in their own head for 5 minutes. If they aren't being fed constant stimulation by TV, ********, games, girls, etc, they just feel bored as chit and depressed. The solution isn't to go outside yourself and find more of that same empty stimulation. The solution is to treat the problem at the root, and get comfortable with that lack of stimulation.
Great advice, but I can only cope temporarily being by myself. Theres no absolute way I can do that for the whole day, 24 hours 365 days a year.
Originally Posted By sickh11
I don't have "emotional needs" you weakling. Smash and dash.
Mirin that attitude srs.
Originally Posted By Buckyx
just forget about ever getting laid
But I want to get laid
Originally Posted By HangerBaby
Abusing oxycodone kind of makes it feel like you are being cuddled by a perfect 10 who loves you more than anything on earth
Fuark, abusing it by taking an oxytocin substance?
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Find a cute escort that does GFE. They will talk to you, listen, hold your hand, cuddle, hug, and kiss you. You will feel loved if they are good at their job srs.
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Originally Posted By pengh
GFs are fun for like 6 months. Then you start to know them and the gushy lovey feel wears off. There are those 1% chances you find some kinda true love i believe, but you have to be really lucky. I'm done trying.
I think the problem is people spend too much time together.

You need a 100% full busy life and the GF is the cherry on top. You definitely don't need to see eachother every day, you don't need to talk every day and when you spend time together you don't need to spend the entire day.
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