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Originally Posted By joshewwah⏩
you don't have needs, you have desires. desire leads to envy, envy leads to jealousy. jealousy is covetous and coveting is a sin. do you really want to live a sinful life? ask yourself that OP.Why would I be a monk when I've got needs?
I'm trying to get a gf, its hard getting a pretty one that likes you back
I'm trying to get a gf, its hard getting a pretty one that likes you back
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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
Life just needs to present me a door that is slightly open, and I'll walk through it. Sick and tired of trying every door only for most of them that I can't even open itPure laziness. No personal responsibility. Don't blame god or life. If you want something go get it. Go outside talk to some girls. Ask one out. Repeat until you find a person that's compatible for you.
Originally Posted By iWantToGrow⏩
I tried watching those videos a long time ago, I could never feel anything srs, its like im immune or somethingASMR, but just to a very small degree.
Originally Posted By rockr101⏩
( ͜ʖ͡)╭∩╮why did you repeat the title in the post? u cudve just continued
u made me read the same line twice you *******
u made me read the same line twice you *******
Originally Posted By badlasagna⏩
define sinfulyou don't have needs, you have desires. desire leads to envy, envy leads to jealousy. and jealousy covetous and coveting is a sin. do you really want to live a sinful life? ask yourself that OP.
09-02-2016, 08:13 AM
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Originally Posted By joshewwah⏩
depending on if you're a glass half full kinda guy..But its also creepy, idk. I'd be scared chitless if I was home aloneand saw that move
- be scared chitless
- get your c0ck out and see what happens
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09-02-2016, 08:19 AM
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp⏩
Hmm you're right, if it did move, then I suppose the only thing to do is to explore and see what happensdepending on if you're a glass half full kinda guy..
- be scared chitless
- get your c0ck out and see what happens
- be scared chitless
- get your c0ck out and see what happens
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Srs answer. No, nothing simulates it, especially when it's a girl that adores you.
You know what you want, so why don't you have a gf? After enough dates, one is eventually going to want to talk to you more often. You say you don't look like Shrek and I assume you lift, so what's stopping you?
You know what you want, so why don't you have a gf? After enough dates, one is eventually going to want to talk to you more often. You say you don't look like Shrek and I assume you lift, so what's stopping you?
I'm back, bitches!
09-02-2016, 08:21 AM
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Originally Posted By joshewwah⏩
I'm pretty sure that if it can move, it can open it's mouth and cup your balls.Hmm you're right, if it did move, then I suppose the only thing to do is to explore and see what happens
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09-02-2016, 08:22 AM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
fuark, I thought so myself that there is no substitute.Srs answer. No, nothing simulates it, especially when it's a girl that adores you.
You know what you want, so why don't you have a gf? After enough dates, one is eventually going to want to talk to you more often. You say you don't look like Shrek and I assume you lift, so what's stopping you?
You know what you want, so why don't you have a gf? After enough dates, one is eventually going to want to talk to you more often. You say you don't look like Shrek and I assume you lift, so what's stopping you?
I do want a gf, its difficult getting one thats pretty. Talking to females that I have no attraction to does nothing for this desire, this hunger. I want attention and affection from a oneitis, from a chick that I want, that'll give me something to feel. Maybe my height and my ethnicity is stopping me and my face. You guys could say that I might be going for women in a higher league, but im going for ones of different nationality in the "same aesthetics league"
Originally Posted By BustaCapp⏩
watI'm pretty sure that if it can move, it can open it's mouth and cup your balls.
Originally Posted By ChaseW⏩
damn, don't think I wanna go down that route, its expensive as fuk too, and I get addicted and obsessed with things easilyheroin
09-02-2016, 08:30 AM
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[QUOTE=BustaCapp post_id=1460434223]If you train yourself hard enough you can make this connection with the use of life-sized female dolls. Spending time together in the evening, sat around a lunch table and watching TV together. You talk to them and imagine them saying things back to you.
It's possible because children manage to have emotional connections with teddy bears etc. It's in your DNA, you just need to focus on bringing those primal thoughts back to the fore.
Imagine coming home from a hard days work to this:
[img]http://c3.thejournal.ie/media/2012/02/ADVERTS-DOLL-390x285.jpg[img]
Imagine putting your arms around her and just telling her how your day was. You imagine her saying something along the lines of "oh that's nice honey, would you like me to make you a nice meal while you put your feet up?"
for added realism, you can buy one of these for later on in the relationship:
[img]https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/38/8c/30/388c3040ca623bb3a8a9396f54f9112a.jpg[img]
For added realism, you could imagine her saying something like "when are you going to fix the garden fence you useless bastard!!"
...etc
I suggest you invest. Srs.[/QUOTE][youtube]https://www.youtube.com/embed/VjJtmcJM-Rw[/youtube]
It's possible because children manage to have emotional connections with teddy bears etc. It's in your DNA, you just need to focus on bringing those primal thoughts back to the fore.
Imagine coming home from a hard days work to this:
[img]http://c3.thejournal.ie/media/2012/02/ADVERTS-DOLL-390x285.jpg[img]
Imagine putting your arms around her and just telling her how your day was. You imagine her saying something along the lines of "oh that's nice honey, would you like me to make you a nice meal while you put your feet up?"
for added realism, you can buy one of these for later on in the relationship:
[img]https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/38/8c/30/388c3040ca623bb3a8a9396f54f9112a.jpg[img]
For added realism, you could imagine her saying something like "when are you going to fix the garden fence you useless bastard!!"
...etc
I suggest you invest. Srs.[/QUOTE][youtube]https://www.youtube.com/embed/VjJtmcJM-Rw[/youtube]
09-02-2016, 08:34 AM
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Originally Posted By ADHDave⏩
that thing is like a giant teddy bearidk, but I remember the days when I was a kid and had a teddy bear.
tfw you had someone/something to turn to for comfort
09-02-2016, 08:42 AM
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Originally Posted By Jax05⏩
getting a pump
it's like cumming
Lets say you train your biceps, blood is rushing in to your muscles and thats what we call the pump. Your muscles get a really tight feeling like your skin is going to explode any minute and its really tight and its like someone is blowing air into your muscle and it just blows up and it feels different, it feels fantastic. Its as satisfying to me as cumming is, you know, as in having sex with a woman and cumming. So can you believe how much I am in heaven? I am like getting the feeling of cumming in the gym; Im getting the feeling of cumming at home; Im getting the feeling of cumming backstage; when I pump up, when I pose out in front of 5000 people I get the same feeling, so I am cumming day and night. Its terrific, right? So you know, I am in heaven
it's like cumming
Lets say you train your biceps, blood is rushing in to your muscles and thats what we call the pump. Your muscles get a really tight feeling like your skin is going to explode any minute and its really tight and its like someone is blowing air into your muscle and it just blows up and it feels different, it feels fantastic. Its as satisfying to me as cumming is, you know, as in having sex with a woman and cumming. So can you believe how much I am in heaven? I am like getting the feeling of cumming in the gym; Im getting the feeling of cumming at home; Im getting the feeling of cumming backstage; when I pump up, when I pose out in front of 5000 people I get the same feeling, so I am cumming day and night. Its terrific, right? So you know, I am in heaven

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Originally Posted By joshewwah⏩
go to your local maccas or supermarket and maintain eye contact with the pretty girl at the counter, that should satisfy you for at least a few weeksIf fapping can temporarily satisfy physical sexual needs, then what is the equivalent for the emotional/non physical part?
I can cope not having sex by just fapping, but how do I cope with not getting female attention? Is there a silver bullet to get that need easily so that I can continue rotting without the thoughts haunting me? Anything I can do in like 3 minutes to sate that need like fapping does?
srs
I can cope not having sex by just fapping, but how do I cope with not getting female attention? Is there a silver bullet to get that need easily so that I can continue rotting without the thoughts haunting me? Anything I can do in like 3 minutes to sate that need like fapping does?
srs
09-02-2016, 08:53 AM
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Let me give you a lesson, boyo. Find yourself an ugly girl, and by ugly I mean 4/10 or lower. Miscers blow it out of proportion of course but in reality girls 4/10 and below aren't getting railed by Chads. Once you hit below a 5/10 as a female, your SMV drops to nearzero. This is where guys who 6s and 7s really get to cash out if they are willing to drop their standards. Too many guys who are 7 and below chase 5+/10 sloots and end up miserable or fapping 90% of the time because those women belong to Chads. This is where 80-20 really kicks in.
I have 6 facial aesthetics and I've been talking to this 4/10 and it's better than ever, boyo. Plus she has more substance since she couldn't rely on her looks. The only problem is that it's pretty embarrassing because I know she's nothing to show off, but the more time you spend with her, the better she will start to look to you. At first I was slightly repulsed but then I started to think she was cute, which is all that matters at the end.
In other words, drop your standards and then cope until you make it.
I have 6 facial aesthetics and I've been talking to this 4/10 and it's better than ever, boyo. Plus she has more substance since she couldn't rely on her looks. The only problem is that it's pretty embarrassing because I know she's nothing to show off, but the more time you spend with her, the better she will start to look to you. At first I was slightly repulsed but then I started to think she was cute, which is all that matters at the end.
In other words, drop your standards and then cope until you make it.
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09-02-2016, 08:55 AM
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Originally Posted By GaloisTheory⏩
strong last sentence to sig ratioLet me give you a lesson, boyo. Find yourself an ugly girl, and by ugly I mean 4/10 or lower. Miscers blow it out of proportion of course but in reality girls 4/10 and below aren't getting railed by Chads. Once you hit below a 5/10 as a female, your SMV drops to nearzero. This is where guys who 6s and 7s really get to cash out if they are willing to drop their standards. Too many guys who are 7 and below chase 5+/10 sloots and end up miserable or fapping 90% of the time because those women belong to Chads. This is where 80-20 really kicks in.
I have 6 facial aesthetics and I've been talking to this 4/10 and it's better than ever, boyo. Plus she has more substance since she couldn't rely on her looks. The only problem is that it's pretty embarrassing because I know she's nothing to show off, but the more time you spend with her, the better she will start to look to you. At first I was slightly repulsed but then I started to think she was cute, which is all that matters at the end.
In other words, drop your standards and then cope until you make it.
I have 6 facial aesthetics and I've been talking to this 4/10 and it's better than ever, boyo. Plus she has more substance since she couldn't rely on her looks. The only problem is that it's pretty embarrassing because I know she's nothing to show off, but the more time you spend with her, the better she will start to look to you. At first I was slightly repulsed but then I started to think she was cute, which is all that matters at the end.
In other words, drop your standards and then cope until you make it.
strong cope
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09-02-2016, 10:20 AM
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how bout u grab ur balls real tight and go get laid.
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Serious advice: Learn to enjoy your own company.
Take some time. Sit down. Meditate. Introspect. Get comfortable just being able to be on your own in an empty room with no outside stimulation for 10-20 minutes a day.
Once you do that for a while you won't be so dependent on other people or things to stimulate you. Women will just be an added extra rather than something you feel you "need" to get by.
The reason most people feel they *NEED* someone else is because they can't even stand being in their own head for 5 minutes. If they aren't being fed constant stimulation by TV, ********, games, girls, etc, they just feel bored as chit and depressed. The solution isn't to go outside yourself and find more of that same empty stimulation. The solution is to treat the problem at the root, and get comfortable with that lack of stimulation.
Take some time. Sit down. Meditate. Introspect. Get comfortable just being able to be on your own in an empty room with no outside stimulation for 10-20 minutes a day.
Once you do that for a while you won't be so dependent on other people or things to stimulate you. Women will just be an added extra rather than something you feel you "need" to get by.
The reason most people feel they *NEED* someone else is because they can't even stand being in their own head for 5 minutes. If they aren't being fed constant stimulation by TV, ********, games, girls, etc, they just feel bored as chit and depressed. The solution isn't to go outside yourself and find more of that same empty stimulation. The solution is to treat the problem at the root, and get comfortable with that lack of stimulation.
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There's only one man in this world who has discovered the secret to your problem, OP. That man is.....
Bill Cosby
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Abusing oxycodone kind of makes it feel like you are being cuddled by a perfect 10 who loves you more than anything on earth
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Originally Posted By sickh11⏩
I don't have "emotional needs" you weakling. Smash and dash.

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Originally Posted By wooosh3⏩
that wont do chit, and in my area, its all people who are trash or high who work at those placesgo to your local maccas or supermarket and maintain eye contact with the pretty girl at the counter, that should satisfy you for at least a few weeks
Originally Posted By GaloisTheory⏩
This is a good idea, I can vouch because I approached this "4.5/10" viet chick a long time ago, and then I ended up getting attached to her as she was pretty cute and nice. To this day she is a 6.5/10 in my eyesLet me give you a lesson, boyo. Find yourself an ugly girl, and by ugly I mean 4/10 or lower. Miscers blow it out of proportion of course but in reality girls 4/10 and below aren't getting railed by Chads. Once you hit below a 5/10 as a female, your SMV drops to nearzero. This is where guys who 6s and 7s really get to cash out if they are willing to drop their standards. Too many guys who are 7 and below chase 5+/10 sloots and end up miserable or fapping 90% of the time because those women belong to Chads. This is where 80-20 really kicks in.
I have 6 facial aesthetics and I've been talking to this 4/10 and it's better than ever, boyo. Plus she has more substance since she couldn't rely on her looks. The only problem is that it's pretty embarrassing because I know she's nothing to show off, but the more time you spend with her, the better she will start to look to you. At first I was slightly repulsed but then I started to think she was cute, which is all that matters at the end.
In other words, drop your standards and then cope until you make it.
I have 6 facial aesthetics and I've been talking to this 4/10 and it's better than ever, boyo. Plus she has more substance since she couldn't rely on her looks. The only problem is that it's pretty embarrassing because I know she's nothing to show off, but the more time you spend with her, the better she will start to look to you. At first I was slightly repulsed but then I started to think she was cute, which is all that matters at the end.
In other words, drop your standards and then cope until you make it.
Thing is, I doubt I can do it again, because my ego would be hurt as I'd be ashamed to be seen in public with such a woman
Would rather be alone than lower my standards srs
Originally Posted By boredFA⏩
damn :/ thats not an option for meonly drugs can manipulate your brain for that
Originally Posted By Epervier⏩
fuark, don't think I've ever really cried in yearscrying (srs), I heard crying hard gives you a sense of well-being right after, a type of "everything is gonna be okay" hormone is released
Originally Posted By KingKringe⏩
If only it was as easy as talking a walk to the fridge for a bottle of waterhow bout u grab ur balls real tight and go get laid.
Originally Posted By N0ragr3t5⏩
Only willing with 8/10+ filo chicks. Its for my ego and my pride. But wouldn't mind and would take a 6/10 east asian girl any day over a 8/10 filo srsWhy not try your own race and go from there? Im sure youll find a nice filipina girl if you try. Why are you so racist??
Originally Posted By Enguin⏩
nahGet a dog.
Originally Posted By JesusGreen⏩
Great advice, but I can only cope temporarily being by myself. Theres no absolute way I can do that for the whole day, 24 hours 365 days a year.Serious advice: Learn to enjoy your own company.
Take some time. Sit down. Meditate. Introspect. Get comfortable just being able to be on your own in an empty room with no outside stimulation for 10-20 minutes a day.
Once you do that for a while you won't be so dependent on other people or things to stimulate you. Women will just be an added extra rather than something you feel you "need" to get by.
The reason most people feel they *NEED* someone else is because they can't even stand being in their own head for 5 minutes. If they aren't being fed constant stimulation by TV, ********, games, girls, etc, they just feel bored as chit and depressed. The solution isn't to go outside yourself and find more of that same empty stimulation. The solution is to treat the problem at the root, and get comfortable with that lack of stimulation.
Take some time. Sit down. Meditate. Introspect. Get comfortable just being able to be on your own in an empty room with no outside stimulation for 10-20 minutes a day.
Once you do that for a while you won't be so dependent on other people or things to stimulate you. Women will just be an added extra rather than something you feel you "need" to get by.
The reason most people feel they *NEED* someone else is because they can't even stand being in their own head for 5 minutes. If they aren't being fed constant stimulation by TV, ********, games, girls, etc, they just feel bored as chit and depressed. The solution isn't to go outside yourself and find more of that same empty stimulation. The solution is to treat the problem at the root, and get comfortable with that lack of stimulation.
Originally Posted By sickh11⏩
Mirin that attitude srs.I don't have "emotional needs" you weakling. Smash and dash.
Originally Posted By Buckyx⏩
But I want to get laidjust forget about ever getting laid

Originally Posted By HangerBaby⏩
Fuark, abusing it by taking an oxytocin substance?Abusing oxycodone kind of makes it feel like you are being cuddled by a perfect 10 who loves you more than anything on earth
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Originally Posted By pengh⏩
I think the problem is people spend too much time together.GFs are fun for like 6 months. Then you start to know them and the gushy lovey feel wears off. There are those 1% chances you find some kinda true love i believe, but you have to be really lucky. I'm done trying.
You need a 100% full busy life and the GF is the cherry on top. You definitely don't need to see eachother every day, you don't need to talk every day and when you spend time together you don't need to spend the entire day.
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