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Thread: Need help with alcoholism (srs). I'm an alcoholic.

post 1467095181 10-18-2016, 02:56 PM
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Originally Posted By Z257Z⏩
Damn, sorry to hear this man. At least you acknowledge you have a problem.
PM me if you need someone to talk to.
same here man, if you ever need to chat hit me up. Im not an alcoholic (I do frequently binge drink something Im trying to cut down on), but Ive had problems with addiction. Getting prescribed adderal at a young age ended up leading to a serious speed and coke (no ban plz) habit which ive been trying to get a grip on
post 1467095421 10-18-2016, 02:57 PM
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Originally Posted By Sl00taholic⏩
good luck mane

I always fukking hate it when people joke and say "LOL im such an alcoholic I had soooo much to drink last night XD"

It takes away the meaning of the word, and so when people like you who are in the depths of a serious addiction are brave enough to admit they have a problem with alcohol society doesnt respond the way they should. Real alcoholism is serious fukking chit on par with any other drug addiction, I really hope you overcome this chit.


If I may ask though how did it start? Did it kind of creep up on you, or did you start really just going at it pretty hard? You mentioned you dont binge drink to the point of blackout, but did it start that way? Like did you party pretty hard originally or did you always just have enough to get buzzed and then you just started getting buzzed more and more frequently?


anyways good luck brah I hope you make it srs
I always drank on Friday nights after the work week but would blackout then deal with the hangover the next day as painful as it was. Then I found out that it's better to get through the hangover by having some drinks the next day. Next think you know I'm drinking every day just to keep the hangovers under control.
post 1467095811 10-18-2016, 02:59 PM
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The fact that you're aware of it and you're willing to voluntarily go through detox is a great sign. You're gonna make it.

My mom's an alcoholic and after years of denial she had to be forced into detox and rehab multiple times. She can't drink in moderation so she's been completely sober for years now. I'm really proud of her.
post 1467095871 10-18-2016, 02:59 PM
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Originally Posted By LethalGunz34⏩
I always drank on Friday nights after the work week but would blackout then deal with the hangover the next day as painful as it was. Then I found out that it's better to get through the hangover by having some drinks the next day. Next think you know I'm drinking every day just to keep the hangovers under control.
chit man that sucks, Im guessing thats probably how most people end up down that path


stay strong brah
post 1467096031 10-18-2016, 03:00 PM
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Thanks again for the support boyos, you don't know how much I appreciate it.
post 1467096171 10-18-2016, 03:01 PM
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Originally Posted By vsportsguy⏩
The fact that you're aware of it and you're willing to voluntarily go through detox is a great sign. You're gonna make it.

My mom's an alcoholic and after years of denial she had to be forced into detox and rehab multiple times. She can't drink in moderation so she's been completely sober for years now. I'm really proud of her.
Good for your mom bro. You should be proud of her.
post 1467096341 10-18-2016, 03:02 PM
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Originally Posted By LethalGunz34⏩
I always drank on Friday nights after the work week but would blackout then deal with the hangover the next day as painful as it was. Then I found out that it's better to get through the hangover by having some drinks the next day. Next think you know I'm drinking every day just to keep the hangovers under control.
Fuark i do the middle part all the time.. drink hair of the dog the following morning after getting hammered the previous night. I love a few morning beers and some video games. I always stop by the early afternoon though and am back to normal by the evening.

I can definitely see how its a process like that, little by little.
post 1467096711 10-18-2016, 03:04 PM
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Originally Posted By LethalGunz34⏩
Thanks again for the support boyos, you don't know how much I appreciate it.
Hey brah, you never walk alone! i hope you get the help you need or find the path yourself to get things under control, i have similar issues not to your extent but it sucks.... but what BobbyD said somethings are very black and white for some people me being one of them.

really hope it all works out
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post 1467096851 10-18-2016, 03:05 PM
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Originally Posted By DeusExTerra⏩
Fuark i do the middle part all the time.. drink hair of the dog the following morning after getting hammered the previous night. I love a few morning beers and some video games. I always stop by the early afternoon though and am back to normal by the evening.

I can definitely see how its a process like that, little by little.
this is my problem right now, get yucky with the boys on Saturday, hair of the dog sunday and then before i know its Sunday funday getting smashed and going into work hungover on Monday
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post 1467096911 10-18-2016, 03:06 PM
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post 1467097391 10-18-2016, 03:09 PM
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Good luck brah

I don't think I've gone a day without drinking since February 2015 when I last tried to quit. Don't drink all day but as soon as the kids go to bed I'll drink 9-12AM. Go through 2-3 handles of vodka a week.

Would love to quit dipping and drinking but I wouldn't know what to do without it either.

I've never had a hangover before either and I've been like this since college.
post 1467097421 10-18-2016, 03:09 PM
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Originally Posted By jasonpullar⏩
this is my problem right now, get yucky with the boys on Saturday, hair of the dog sunday and then before i know its Sunday funday getting smashed and going into work hungover on Monday
Yep.. Too many times I've gone into work on Monday feeling like chit and being unproductive.. That's why I've recently set a hard rule for myself no drinking after 4pm on Sundays so I am good to go Monday. Then Monday after work I always crush the gym, go to the grocery store, cook a healthy dinner and relax. That helps me segway into the work week and I won't drink again until Friday evening.

post 1467097581 10-18-2016, 03:11 PM
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Originally Posted By LethalGunz34⏩
Thanks for the reachout bro. You're the dude from Texas that works out at the Gold's in Totowa?
Yeah brah das me mane. I'm here for a bit longer still, if nothing else we can smash some weights or just kick it and talk. I'm in a chit place in my life right now too so I feel you.
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post 1467097761 10-18-2016, 03:12 PM
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Good luck opey - the first step is realizing you have a problem as many people aren't able to do that. They think their destructive drinking habits are normal and okay.

A key of going through this process is realizing you can't ever drink again. It will lead you right back down the slippery slope and land you right back where you are.
post 1467099401 10-18-2016, 03:21 PM
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Originally Posted By DeusExTerra⏩
Yep.. Too many times I've gone into work on Monday feeling like chit and being unproductive.. That's why I've recently set a hard rule for myself no drinking after 4pm on Sundays so I am good to go Monday. Then Monday after work I always crush the gym, go to the grocery store, cook a healthy dinner and relax. That helps me segway into the work week and I won't drink again until Friday evening.

feels for sure, i end up feeling depressed on Monday because i didnt hit the gym or make food for the week...**** this ghey earth
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post 1467100251 10-18-2016, 03:26 PM
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You ask the misc for srs life advice............................................ ...........good choice.

First of all u gotta figure out why u r addicted to dis chit.
Is it the taste, the feel or the simple fact that u r used to doing it?
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post 1467100501 10-18-2016, 03:28 PM
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Originally Posted By kingmode⏩
You ask the misc for srs life advice............................................ ...........good choice.

First of all u gotta figure out why u r addicted to dis chit.
Is it the taste, the feel or the simple fact that u r used to doing it?
this is the dumbest question I have ever heard
post 1467100691 10-18-2016, 03:29 PM
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp⏩
Taper down slowly.

A small decrease in the amount each day - it won't hit you as hard both physically or mentally.

Don't even think about cold turkey.
Indeed, could prove fatal stopping right away. You will as said need professional help & it will be a long road.
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Originally Posted By bobbydigitaloa⏩
The problem is many of us are very black and white by nature...all or nothing.
I am like this with everything I do in my life. I am also an alcoholic, though not your traditional one, I am not psychically addicted. I do not have withdrawals when I don't drink 1 or 2 days one week. If I am having a bad day or sad or stressed out, i immediately run to a drink. I binge drink like a muthafukca, last night it was 12 shots of vodka before bed. My issue is I cannot sleep at night without nightmares and have anxiety and just general stress. Everything is more fun when I drink, even doing laundry with a buzz is cool with me.

Last month on the recommendation of someone who is also an alcoholic, I got my MMJ card. I hate being high off weed and the cerebral effects it gives. However I tried it, I buy a high CBD content Indica strain and smoke when I get home from work (9pm), I eat dinner and pass the **** out. Not good for weight loss, but great for not drinking. In the month I have been doing this I have went from drinking 4-5 nights a week to 2-3.

I dunno, just a suggestion to help with the depression, stress and anxiety. Good luck fellow boyos.....there used to be a huge Misc Alcoholics thread back pre 2010, it was a great gathering people were always willing to talk and help each other out if they couldn't hit a meeting. There's a ton of us here or at least there was.


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Good luck mane. I was there, hiding hard liquor in my car, at work etc. it's a hard road.

You can get sober and stay that way. Take it a day at a time.

If a worthless drunk like me can still go to work 5 days a week at a fukkingbreweryand stay sober you can too.

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Been through those binging withdrawals and they can be a nightmare, so definitely taper off.

Some of us get hooked too easy and then tolerance builds up. I get in the habit and within a few days need 2-3 times the amount of alcohol to have the same effect. And it becomes that drinking is the number one thing on my mind. Being sober for more than a couple weeks just rises the thirst till I eventually run out and buy some beer and get back in the cycle.
Originally Posted By Sl00taholic⏩
this is the dumbest question I have ever heard
It's not that dumb, part of my problem is from enjoying the taste of beer and been drinking for 10 years so also a psychological habit underneath my addiction.
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You never gotten a hung over, since you've never stopped.. once you do and if you do drink as much as you do.. it's going to be very hard and you'll get the shakes. And if you seriously that far off, withdraws from alcohol are a ton more dangerous than crack.. so if you die.. it was good.

does no one notice your buzzed all the time?
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subbing to thread. Pretty sure I'm what is classified as a high functioning alcoholic. Stay strong, OP. We're all gonna make it.
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Just here to reiterate no cold turkey w/ alcohol or benzos. My advice would be to set hard tapering goals for yourself.

Best of luck.
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Originally Posted By Awarebrahhh⏩
I wake up daily feeling depressed and anxious and I immediately pour myself a drink just to take the anxiety and depression feeling away.

Your real problem isn't drinking. Your problem is whatever is causing you to feel depressed and anxious. Once you deal with that you'll be able to quit drinking all together much more easily.
It could easily be the alcohol that's causing him to feel depressed and anxious. When you drink that much, it ****s with your brain chemistry.
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decrease intake by one drink per day until you're at zero?
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Originally Posted By sclimb⏩
It could easily be the alcohol that's causing him to feel depressed and anxious. When you drink that much, it ****s with your brain chemistry.
Yeh brah. Alcohol is a serious depressant to your CNS. Your body tries to counteract this by making your CNS more "wakeful". Does this by inhibiting GABA. The result of this induced "wakefulness" increases your baseline anxiety, body temperature, etc.
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5htp can help in withdrawl, and it can help in reducing your stress
but you need to know how you reached this state at first
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