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11-06-2016, 10:52 AM
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Originally Posted By bzman⏩
Lol what a load of bull. What do you consider personality flaws? Women are more career orientated than they have ever been and independent. They have less time to meet folks and have higher standards as they can take care of themselves so they gonna look for a guy on par with them, they are more picky. Everyone has personality flaws.The point is that the older they are, the more likely they have personality flaws, otherwise they would be in a happy relationship.
THIS ISNT TRUE IN ALL CASES but the fact remains on average they will be of less value and again more likely to have baggage because they've had more relationships and havent been able to make them work. Hence we is saying 'be careful' not totally stay away fro them.
Simple logic, if you're going to an Art Gallery to buy paintings and every month you go back and see the same painting there. You're gonna assume it has lower value then the others being purchased or the artist is of poor taste or low popularity etc.
THIS ISNT TRUE IN ALL CASES but the fact remains on average they will be of less value and again more likely to have baggage because they've had more relationships and havent been able to make them work. Hence we is saying 'be careful' not totally stay away fro them.
Simple logic, if you're going to an Art Gallery to buy paintings and every month you go back and see the same painting there. You're gonna assume it has lower value then the others being purchased or the artist is of poor taste or low popularity etc.
Such sexist BS but it okay for the man to be old and single, he doesn't have personality flaws?
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Originally Posted By US_Ranger⏩
Ok cuckold. Don't worry your presence is not needed anymore. Jamal should have finished with your wife now. But don't worry, he probably didn't get her pregnant and the past is past like she said the last time. Go back home to her. Make sure you eat her out too.Another strawman. Classic.
You got owned bro, it happens. You made a crappy thread with crappy logic and you got called out on it. Be mad. Rage all you want. It doesn't change reality.
You got owned bro, it happens. You made a crappy thread with crappy logic and you got called out on it. Be mad. Rage all you want. It doesn't change reality.
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Originally Posted By cher12⏩
Hate to break it to you, but men and women are different. Men's desirability goes up with age, women's do not.Lol what a load of bull. What do you consider personality flaws? Women are more career orientated than they have ever been and independent. They have less time to meet folks and have higher standards as they can take care of themselves so they gonna look for a guy on par with them, they are more picky. Everyone has personality flaws.
Such sexist BS but it okay for the man to be old and single, he doesn't have personality flaws?
Such sexist BS but it okay for the man to be old and single, he doesn't have personality flaws?
11-06-2016, 11:02 AM
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11-06-2016, 11:05 AM
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Originally Posted By US_Ranger⏩
Through the chaos of the universe (can't believe I'm explaining this) there would be multiple chances for her to get cheated on, go travel, meet and date a narcissist, work on a career PLUS find a good partner . People do it all the time man. I'm happy actually and have done a lot of those things.Maybe because she's met a lot of guys who are narcissists? Maybe she's been traveling? Maybe she's been working on some career (health care field for example) that puts her at odd working hours where she can't meet people? Maybe she was dating 3 guys for a total of 10 years and now she's single because it didn't work out? <GASP> You mean not all relationships work out? Maybe she got cheated on? Maybe she had to move for work? Maybe HE had to move for work? Maybe a lot of things?
You *******s and your non-logic approach to life is probably why you're so unhappy.
You *******s and your non-logic approach to life is probably why you're so unhappy.
Really seems like you are the unhappy one who can't accept the world the way it is and just be happy with it. I'm not saying anything non logical it actually is facts you are choosing not to accept.
Originally Posted By cher12⏩
Sorry it came across as sexist and I explained it better and more fully in my second post to this guy.Lol what a load of bull. What do you consider personality flaws? Women are more career orientated than they have ever been and independent. They have less time to meet folks and have higher standards as they can take care of themselves so they gonna look for a guy on par with them, they are more picky. Everyone has personality flaws.
Such sexist BS but it okay for the man to be old and single, he doesn't have personality flaws?
Such sexist BS but it okay for the man to be old and single, he doesn't have personality flaws?
If a guy has never been married at 38 he also comes with all sorts of red flags and warning signs. Again I'm not saying its possible for him/her to be a great catch and ran into some bad luck. But you have to admit the fact is they are much more likely to be of bad character or less of a catch if they are older and single. Otherwise they would be in a happy relationship and not available.
Make sense?
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Originally Posted By bzman⏩
I'm unhappy because I'm not a bitter, woman-hating FA?Through the chaos of the universe (can't believe I'm explaining this) there would be multiple chances for her to get cheated on, go travel, meet and date a narcissist, work on a career PLUS find a good partner . People do it all the time man. I'm happy actually and have done a lot of those things.
Really seems like you are the unhappy one who can't accept the world the way it is and just be happy with it. I'm not saying anything non logical it actually is facts you are choosing not to accept.
Really seems like you are the unhappy one who can't accept the world the way it is and just be happy with it. I'm not saying anything non logical it actually is facts you are choosing not to accept.
It's funny when threads like this happen. The illogical losers on this forum get cornered in their lack of understanding of anything related to the world (relationships in this case) and then instead of admit they shouldn't paint a broad brush for all scenarios, they double down in their own stupidity and basically just go "la la la la" while plugging their ears. I explained plenty of scenarios for why someone could be single and instead of addressing anything, you just call me unhappy? That doesn't even make sense. I'm not saying it doesn't make sense as a defensive tactic either, it literally makes no sense. That's like saying "I like the color blue" as an answer to what's going on here. It has nothing to do with anything. You guys are so goddamn stupid that you can't fathom that there are reasons someone might be single. You think this way because you don't have any relationship experience to base your thought process on.
Relationships don't always work out. That's why people can be single at any given age. Once you accept that, it'll make your hatred of women calm down a little bit and you can get on with your lives.
11-06-2016, 11:27 AM
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Originally Posted By US_Ranger⏩
la la la laI'm unhappy because I'm not a bitter, woman-hating FA?
It's funny when threads like this happen. The illogical losers on this forum get cornered in their lack of understanding of anything related to the world (relationships in this case) and then instead of admit they shouldn't paint a broad brush for all scenarios, they double down in their own stupidity and basically just go "la la la la" while plugging their ears. I explained plenty of scenarios for why someone could be single and instead of addressing anything, you just call me unhappy? That doesn't even make sense. I'm not saying it doesn't make sense as a defensive tactic either, it literally makes no sense. That's like saying "I like the color blue" as an answer to what's going on here. It has nothing to do with anything. You guys are so goddamn stupid that you can't fathom that there are reasons someone might be single. You think this way because you don't have any relationship experience to base your thought process on.
Relationships don't always work out. That's why people can be single at any given age. Once you accept that, it'll make your hatred of women calm down a little bit and you can get on with your lives.
It's funny when threads like this happen. The illogical losers on this forum get cornered in their lack of understanding of anything related to the world (relationships in this case) and then instead of admit they shouldn't paint a broad brush for all scenarios, they double down in their own stupidity and basically just go "la la la la" while plugging their ears. I explained plenty of scenarios for why someone could be single and instead of addressing anything, you just call me unhappy? That doesn't even make sense. I'm not saying it doesn't make sense as a defensive tactic either, it literally makes no sense. That's like saying "I like the color blue" as an answer to what's going on here. It has nothing to do with anything. You guys are so goddamn stupid that you can't fathom that there are reasons someone might be single. You think this way because you don't have any relationship experience to base your thought process on.
Relationships don't always work out. That's why people can be single at any given age. Once you accept that, it'll make your hatred of women calm down a little bit and you can get on with your lives.
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11-06-2016, 11:38 AM
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Originally Posted By cher12⏩
Career-driven women are actually lower in the eyes of men than family-driven women. This is something you autistic feminist types never seem to understand. A woman who puts her career first is damaging her own dating prospects and statistically is more likely to end up alone and miserable than a woman who has a family in her 20s. The career women don't raise their standards, they can't because the best men don't want them. Why the FUK would a high value man want a 30 year old career bitch when he can date a 22 year old? Makes no sense.Lol what a load of bull. What do you consider personality flaws? Women are more career orientated than they have ever been and independent. They have less time to meet folks and have higher standards as they can take care of themselves so they gonna look for a guy on par with them, they are more picky. Everyone has personality flaws.
Such sexist BS but it okay for the man to be old and single, he doesn't have personality flaws?
Such sexist BS but it okay for the man to be old and single, he doesn't have personality flaws?
A woman who tries to live the male career lifestyle is just as mentally damaged in the eyes of men as a man who tries to live a feminine matriarchal lifestyle is in the eyes of women. Men and women are different, some people just have a real hard time accepting reality instead of some indoctrinated delusions about "equality".
11-06-2016, 12:07 PM
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Originally Posted By US_Ranger⏩
Women hating? As I stated already a 38 year old male who has never been married also comes with big red flags.I'm unhappy because I'm not a bitter, woman-hating FA?
It's funny when threads like this happen. The illogical losers on this forum get cornered in their lack of understanding of anything related to the world (relationships in this case) and then instead of admit they shouldn't paint a broad brush for all scenarios, they double down in their own stupidity and basically just go "la la la la" while plugging their ears. I explained plenty of scenarios for why someone could be single and instead of addressing anything, you just call me unhappy? That doesn't even make sense. I'm not saying it doesn't make sense as a defensive tactic either, it literally makes no sense. That's like saying "I like the color blue" as an answer to what's going on here. It has nothing to do with anything. You guys are so goddamn stupid that you can't fathom that there are reasons someone might be single. You think this way because you don't have any relationship experience to base your thought process on.
Relationships don't always work out. That's why people can be single at any given age. Once you accept that, it'll make your hatred of women calm down a little bit and you can get on with your lives.
It's funny when threads like this happen. The illogical losers on this forum get cornered in their lack of understanding of anything related to the world (relationships in this case) and then instead of admit they shouldn't paint a broad brush for all scenarios, they double down in their own stupidity and basically just go "la la la la" while plugging their ears. I explained plenty of scenarios for why someone could be single and instead of addressing anything, you just call me unhappy? That doesn't even make sense. I'm not saying it doesn't make sense as a defensive tactic either, it literally makes no sense. That's like saying "I like the color blue" as an answer to what's going on here. It has nothing to do with anything. You guys are so goddamn stupid that you can't fathom that there are reasons someone might be single. You think this way because you don't have any relationship experience to base your thought process on.
Relationships don't always work out. That's why people can be single at any given age. Once you accept that, it'll make your hatred of women calm down a little bit and you can get on with your lives.
If I'm single and never been married at 40 I'll admit I have some problems with relationships. I'll even admit that now as well (age 28) haha, trying to figure it out. I've had many relationships that didn't work out and ALL of them were partly due to my behavior, I can accept that. Which is exactly why when I'm 40 and single I'll have no one to blame but myself
Just so happens due to god/nature/ whatever you choose to believe created our biology in a way that for women that age comes a little earlier than for males due to our culture, gender roles, society etc.
Again I'm perfectly happy and at peace with this. Not mad at all. You seem to be upset by these facts
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11-06-2016, 12:15 PM
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11-06-2016, 04:35 PM
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Originally Posted By US_Ranger⏩
Her mistake for choosing the wrong guy.It's almost as if women in the 26-40 range could have been in a relationship and then that relationship ended making them single.
The logic in this thread is beyond stupid. So basically if a woman gets in a relationship and it doesn't work out, she shouldn't be trusted because all normal women in that age range should have been locked down already. Believe it or not, people sometimes break up with each other. I know that's a crazy concept for a lot of miscers because that would require actually dating and not being FA but not all relationships work out. Usually, a little after they end, the person starts looking to date someone else again, hence why they're single and going on dates. Mind = blown
The logic in this thread is beyond stupid. So basically if a woman gets in a relationship and it doesn't work out, she shouldn't be trusted because all normal women in that age range should have been locked down already. Believe it or not, people sometimes break up with each other. I know that's a crazy concept for a lot of miscers because that would require actually dating and not being FA but not all relationships work out. Usually, a little after they end, the person starts looking to date someone else again, hence why they're single and going on dates. Mind = blown
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Originally Posted By autrefois⏩
Repped.i'm only marrying a girl who is a) virgin and b) under 22 years old
anything else is just setting yourself up to be cucked.
anything else is just setting yourself up to be cucked.
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11-07-2016, 04:29 AM
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Originally Posted By CodyZellery⏩
You do realize that people "front" all the time in the beginning of their relationships? Its called putting your best foot forward and hence the saying goes, "love is blind, marriage is an eye opener". Unfortunately a lot of posters here don't have a basic understanding of such social dynamics and human behavior and hence generalizations like the ones in this thread are the biggest way for one to shoot themselves in the foot in the dating world.Her mistake for choosing the wrong guy.
If we were to utilize the same argument that women over 26 are a no go... You do realize that those women at one point were under 26 and dating some guy as well? And what would the difference be today with a woman under 26 dating a miscer with the prospect of one day settling down then it fails after several years? Does it make it entirely her fault that the relationship failed as the person who she was dating's true nature begins to unfold over time? You can not rule out the fact that people's true nature tends to unfold over extended periods of time and when relationships are in their 'honeymoon' phase, the majority of men and women will not pick up certain unwanted behavioral traits. In many cases, such traits are usually suppressed for long periods...
In essence; there are people who tend to have hidden personalities and character traits, are aware of them and for the sake of securing a mate in the interim, hide them for as long as possible. Hence, people always say "he/she changed over time...was never abusive/narcissistic/unfaithful etc when we started dating" or better yet; "he/she changed after we got married/the children were born". I'm sure that we have all similar scenarios many times before...and the likelihood of it happening to any one here male or female is a 50/50 debate.
Hence, by some of the logic in here; should people or rather women in this case stick with a partner who turns out not being what they want (over time) because she is supposedly way past her prime age of under 26 and therefore will be deemed as something being wrong with her? There are a multitude of variables as to why people are single beyond x age, so does that warrant them being painted by the same brush....if so, then all types of stigmas/dogmas/generalizations should apply in all cases then.
Strong logic is strong...
edit: Fu(k Im debating with a 23 year old... grow up a little then come back and we can have this conversation after a few years son. Kthanxbye
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11-07-2016, 04:52 AM
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Agreed OP. And it's only getting worse I believe.
At least 80% of the women I banged were older and just party sloots that get wasted every weekend, some multiple times. Some have kids, boyfriends, all fuking nut cases. They either want to just fuk you (most of them) or trap in in a relationship. Most of them will fuk you 100% for your looks. No e brag. But if you're young, muscular, dress well, decent looking... you're set. You're on top 20%.
Got one 35~40yo who calls me every now and then. Either when she breaks up or when her bf or something that's give her enough, I guess.
Another fwb that does have a long term bf and believe she's going to get married soon... and keeps getting on my dik. Sexting and calling EOD or something.
I just hope I can maintain banging those filthy sloots, because there's no way on Earth I gonna have a relationship with any. I'm not saying they're all the same, but most are like this, from my experience. And I'm not expecting to find the princess among all these sloots.
At least 80% of the women I banged were older and just party sloots that get wasted every weekend, some multiple times. Some have kids, boyfriends, all fuking nut cases. They either want to just fuk you (most of them) or trap in in a relationship. Most of them will fuk you 100% for your looks. No e brag. But if you're young, muscular, dress well, decent looking... you're set. You're on top 20%.
Got one 35~40yo who calls me every now and then. Either when she breaks up or when her bf or something that's give her enough, I guess.
Another fwb that does have a long term bf and believe she's going to get married soon... and keeps getting on my dik. Sexting and calling EOD or something.
I just hope I can maintain banging those filthy sloots, because there's no way on Earth I gonna have a relationship with any. I'm not saying they're all the same, but most are like this, from my experience. And I'm not expecting to find the princess among all these sloots.
11-07-2016, 05:01 AM
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Originally Posted By autrefois⏩
Because girls never entertain the idea of going on the cawk-carousel...i'm only marrying a girl who is a) virgin and b) under 22 years old
anything else is just setting yourself up to be cucked.
anything else is just setting yourself up to be cucked.
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Originally Posted By Ashfrolicious⏩
lol...even more so when they are younger and in their 'prime'. Virgins are th eworst cause after a few months/years the same cawk, they get stupid curious what other cawks feel like...especially when she is hot, young, immature and has Jamal and Chad blowing up her FB/Insta DMs.Because girls never entertain the idea of going on the cawk-carousel...
Lmao.
Lmao.
Fastest way to get cucked is to wife-up a young sloot.
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Originally Posted By 8thgen⏩
I know a lot of career girls like this29 year old lawyer, living and working in owntown Toronto. I date a lot. In fact, I just went speed dating last night and meet 15+ women aged 24 - 32.
Good types of women still single at this age have common traits:
-Solid career: doctor, lawyer, teacher, police officer, etc. (something they worked hard to attain)
-Understanding: they've been through bullchit and look past your flaws
-Personality: they've got hobbies and don't just watch YouTube videos all day, and have a great sense of humor
-Money: they range from rich to doing well
-Attractiveness: They are in great shape, know how to wear make-up, and dress nicely
-Social Media: they don't use it
-Kids: they don't have any. They also either strongly want kids, or don't, and will let you know early so as not to waste your time
-Feminism: they are true feminists that you would agree with, not this modern day SJW bullchit
Misc, there are plenty of women in this age range with the traits above, at least in major cities. But one thing for sure, they would rather be single then in a relationship with a social potato.
Good types of women still single at this age have common traits:
-Solid career: doctor, lawyer, teacher, police officer, etc. (something they worked hard to attain)
-Understanding: they've been through bullchit and look past your flaws
-Personality: they've got hobbies and don't just watch YouTube videos all day, and have a great sense of humor
-Money: they range from rich to doing well
-Attractiveness: They are in great shape, know how to wear make-up, and dress nicely
-Social Media: they don't use it
-Kids: they don't have any. They also either strongly want kids, or don't, and will let you know early so as not to waste your time
-Feminism: they are true feminists that you would agree with, not this modern day SJW bullchit
Misc, there are plenty of women in this age range with the traits above, at least in major cities. But one thing for sure, they would rather be single then in a relationship with a social potato.
most of the attractive ones over 25 are either in an LTR/marriage with a similar guy or are divorced
11-07-2016, 05:47 AM
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Originally Posted By bzman⏩
Technically, not true. At least in the US. Because women tend to marry those on their social and education level (or higher-Hypergamy) the older they get the less men they have to choose from. This is because college these days are 60:40 women men and more females are in professional fields now (i.e. pharmacy is 65-70% female and they make six figures).If you were a confident, smart, attractive 28 year female you would have endless mating options and guys to choose from. There would be dozens and hundreds of amazing options to her because they would just gravitate towards her. Correct?
So why hasn't she been able to make it work? It's the same thing for men I may add. A guy whos been a bachelor for 30 years also comes with huge warning signs and red flags. Just with women its amplified because they the ones being pursued and thus making the final mating decision. If shes made a lot of bad decisions in the past its more likely to continue.
If you are a confident man who does have a lot to offer you understand this and it shouldn't really bother you either way.
So why hasn't she been able to make it work? It's the same thing for men I may add. A guy whos been a bachelor for 30 years also comes with huge warning signs and red flags. Just with women its amplified because they the ones being pursued and thus making the final mating decision. If shes made a lot of bad decisions in the past its more likely to continue.
If you are a confident man who does have a lot to offer you understand this and it shouldn't really bother you either way.
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Looks at all that pink mist. So for those of us who are young professionals, I don't mind waiting out and concentrating on my career first. But when I reach my 30s I will definitely still be dating girls in their 20s lol
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11-07-2016, 12:41 PM
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Originally Posted By FuqurLs⏩
Not my problem you're dating a 30yo brah. But good luck.You do realize that people "front" all the time in the beginning of their relationships? Its called putting your best foot forward and hence the saying goes, "love is blind, marriage is an eye opener". Unfortunately a lot of posters here don't have a basic understanding of such social dynamics and human behavior and hence generalizations like the ones in this thread are the biggest way for one to shoot themselves in the foot in the dating world.
If we were to utilize the same argument that women over 26 are a no go... You do realize that those women at one point were under 26 and dating some guy as well? And what would the difference be today with a woman under 26 dating a miscer with the prospect of one day settling down then it fails after several years? Does it make it entirely her fault that the relationship failed as the person who she was dating's true nature begins to unfold over time? You can not rule out the fact that people's true nature tends to unfold over extended periods of time and when relationships are in their 'honeymoon' phase, the majority of men and women will not pick up certain unwanted behavioral traits. In many cases, such traits are usually suppressed for long periods...
In essence; there are people who tend to have hidden personalities and character traits, are aware of them and for the sake of securing a mate in the interim, hide them for as long as possible. Hence, people always say "he/she changed over time...was never abusive/narcissistic/unfaithful etc when we started dating" or better yet; "he/she changed after we got married/the children were born". I'm sure that we have all similar scenarios many times before...and the likelihood of it happening to any one here male or female is a 50/50 debate.
Hence, by some of the logic in here; should people or rather women in this case stick with a partner who turns out not being what they want (over time) because she is supposedly way past her prime age of under 26 and therefore will be deemed as something being wrong with her? There are a multitude of variables as to why people are single beyond x age, so does that warrant them being painted by the same brush....if so, then all types of stigmas/dogmas/generalizations should apply in all cases then.
Strong logic is strong...
edit: Fu(k Im debating with a 23 year old... grow up a little then come back and we can have this conversation after a few years son. Kthanxbye
If we were to utilize the same argument that women over 26 are a no go... You do realize that those women at one point were under 26 and dating some guy as well? And what would the difference be today with a woman under 26 dating a miscer with the prospect of one day settling down then it fails after several years? Does it make it entirely her fault that the relationship failed as the person who she was dating's true nature begins to unfold over time? You can not rule out the fact that people's true nature tends to unfold over extended periods of time and when relationships are in their 'honeymoon' phase, the majority of men and women will not pick up certain unwanted behavioral traits. In many cases, such traits are usually suppressed for long periods...
In essence; there are people who tend to have hidden personalities and character traits, are aware of them and for the sake of securing a mate in the interim, hide them for as long as possible. Hence, people always say "he/she changed over time...was never abusive/narcissistic/unfaithful etc when we started dating" or better yet; "he/she changed after we got married/the children were born". I'm sure that we have all similar scenarios many times before...and the likelihood of it happening to any one here male or female is a 50/50 debate.
Hence, by some of the logic in here; should people or rather women in this case stick with a partner who turns out not being what they want (over time) because she is supposedly way past her prime age of under 26 and therefore will be deemed as something being wrong with her? There are a multitude of variables as to why people are single beyond x age, so does that warrant them being painted by the same brush....if so, then all types of stigmas/dogmas/generalizations should apply in all cases then.
Strong logic is strong...
edit: Fu(k Im debating with a 23 year old... grow up a little then come back and we can have this conversation after a few years son. Kthanxbye
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11-08-2016, 08:16 PM
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Originally Posted By danny0880⏩
Another day on the misc and another stupid post. This guy speaks of logic, that is quite amusing. Typical bro science coming from a neanderthal.
Your whole post is predicated upon an asinine generalisation.
Mate you have no idea why a woman is single at age 27. Maybe she is focusing on her career, maybe she just came out of an unfortunate relationship, who the f3ck knows. There are many reasons why people are single at that age. To make such a stupid generalisation shows you are not the brightest tool in the shed and you again have conformed to a bias of which you are largely unaware.
You dont have any f3cking idea and it is completly pointless to speculate.
Anyone reading this guys post disregard.
The day I stopped thinking in this bro logic terms 5 years ago I exponentially got better with women. I feel sorry for people that will follow your mentality.
Pft you fit right here in the misc buddy, a saturation of insecurity and confusion.
Your whole post is predicated upon an asinine generalisation.
Mate you have no idea why a woman is single at age 27. Maybe she is focusing on her career, maybe she just came out of an unfortunate relationship, who the f3ck knows. There are many reasons why people are single at that age. To make such a stupid generalisation shows you are not the brightest tool in the shed and you again have conformed to a bias of which you are largely unaware.
You dont have any f3cking idea and it is completly pointless to speculate.
Anyone reading this guys post disregard.
The day I stopped thinking in this bro logic terms 5 years ago I exponentially got better with women. I feel sorry for people that will follow your mentality.
Pft you fit right here in the misc buddy, a saturation of insecurity and confusion.
Originally Posted By danny0880⏩
OK dis ether.With a rebuttle like that you might as well spread my cheeks and give me a rim job you little p3ssy.
You have just validated my point. This whole alpha, beta rationale is another conformed view by the confused mediocre man.
When i said focusing on career etc you missed the point. I was giving some arbitrary examples, there are tens of thousands of reasons why people are single at various ages. My whole point was, and please pay attention, that these generalisations have zero validity, have zero legitimacy, zero credibility. The reasons people are single vary far and wide and range in exceeding complexity of which your tiny pea brain could not fathom. And so it is because of this that making a generalisation in this area is a complete fallacy.
Do you understand?
Edit: it says your 31, jesus I hope for your sake your 15. The rationale of a child wondering the world blind, deaf and dumb.
You have just validated my point. This whole alpha, beta rationale is another conformed view by the confused mediocre man.
When i said focusing on career etc you missed the point. I was giving some arbitrary examples, there are tens of thousands of reasons why people are single at various ages. My whole point was, and please pay attention, that these generalisations have zero validity, have zero legitimacy, zero credibility. The reasons people are single vary far and wide and range in exceeding complexity of which your tiny pea brain could not fathom. And so it is because of this that making a generalisation in this area is a complete fallacy.
Do you understand?
Edit: it says your 31, jesus I hope for your sake your 15. The rationale of a child wondering the world blind, deaf and dumb.
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11-08-2016, 08:25 PM
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Originally Posted By nzgs⏩
i agree strongly with this. met a very cute girl at the gym. she had all the traits i look for in a girl but she was in her final year of med school. she aims to be a surgeon. no thx jeff. i could not see anything long term with her.Career-driven women are actually lower in the eyes of men than family-driven women. This is something you autistic feminist types never seem to understand. A woman who puts her career first is damaging her own dating prospects and statistically is more likely to end up alone and miserable than a woman who has a family in her 20s. The career women don't raise their standards, they can't because the best men don't want them. Why the FUK would a high value man want a 30 year old career bitch when he can date a 22 year old? Makes no sense.
A woman who tries to live the male career lifestyle is just as mentally damaged in the eyes of men as a man who tries to live a feminine matriarchal lifestyle is in the eyes of women. Men and women are different, some people just have a real hard time accepting reality instead of some indoctrinated delusions about "equality".
A woman who tries to live the male career lifestyle is just as mentally damaged in the eyes of men as a man who tries to live a feminine matriarchal lifestyle is in the eyes of women. Men and women are different, some people just have a real hard time accepting reality instead of some indoctrinated delusions about "equality".
she would bring things up like i wonder how im going to balance being a mother and working. you aint going to win no awards being a mother bish
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11-08-2016, 08:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Cadet4life⏩
Why can't you just admit you are weak and couldn't handle a woman like that. She's winning at life and ^that's your logic. smdhi agree strongly with this. met a very cute girl at the gym. she had all the traits i look for in a girl but she was in her final year of med school. she aims to be a surgeon. no thx jeff. i could not see anything long term with her.
she would bring things up like i wonder how im going to balance being a mother and working. you aint going to win no awards being a mother bish
she would bring things up like i wonder how im going to balance being a mother and working. you aint going to win no awards being a mother bish
11-08-2016, 09:34 PM
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Originally Posted By 8thgen⏩
29 year old lawyer, living and working in owntown Toronto. I date a lot. In fact, I just went speed dating last night and meet 15+ women aged 24 - 32.
Good types of women still single at this age have common traits:
-Solid career: doctor, lawyer, teacher, police officer, etc. (something they worked hard to attain)
-Understanding: they've been through bullchit and look past your flaws
-Personality: they've got hobbies and don't just watch YouTube videos all day, and have a great sense of humor
-Money: they range from rich to doing well
-Attractiveness: They are in great shape, know how to wear make-up, and dress nicely
-Social Media: they don't use it
-Kids: they don't have any. They also either strongly want kids, or don't, and will let you know early so as not to waste your time
-Feminism: they are true feminists that you would agree with, not this modern day SJW bullchit
Misc, there are plenty of women in this age range with the traits above, at least in major cities. But one thing for sure, they would rather be single then in a relationship with a social potato.
Good types of women still single at this age have common traits:
-Solid career: doctor, lawyer, teacher, police officer, etc. (something they worked hard to attain)
-Understanding: they've been through bullchit and look past your flaws
-Personality: they've got hobbies and don't just watch YouTube videos all day, and have a great sense of humor
-Money: they range from rich to doing well
-Attractiveness: They are in great shape, know how to wear make-up, and dress nicely
-Social Media: they don't use it
-Kids: they don't have any. They also either strongly want kids, or don't, and will let you know early so as not to waste your time
-Feminism: they are true feminists that you would agree with, not this modern day SJW bullchit
Misc, there are plenty of women in this age range with the traits above, at least in major cities. But one thing for sure, they would rather be single then in a relationship with a social potato.
Originally Posted By Cadet4life⏩
Nothing funnier than the contrast between these two posters. If you think your 20-24 y.o w a **** degree will not "feel like dating other people"/start pressuring you for a ring because she's exhausted her market value when the 25-26 quarter-life crisis hits, good luck to you SRS. Half the misc needs to talk to actual 33+ yos IRL, and see what little patience they have for early 20s chicks.i agree strongly with this. met a very cute girl at the gym. she had all the traits i look for in a girl but she was in her final year of med school. she aims to be a surgeon. no thx jeff. i could not see anything long term with her.
she would bring things up like i wonder how im going to balance being a mother and working. you aint going to win no awards being a mother bish
she would bring things up like i wonder how im going to balance being a mother and working. you aint going to win no awards being a mother bish
No one has any business getting married before their 30s or late late 20s. All chicks were 20 once. The only difference between a 27 and a 20 yo is what she's accomplished and learned since then.
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11-09-2016, 05:28 AM
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11-09-2016, 09:15 PM
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Originally Posted By RC2008⏩
Honestly hear me out on this rather than palming me off because you will see I have a valid point here. Ill answer this better since I am not hungover any more and Ill try to be succinct.As someone who has "dated" a lot of women north of 27 and south of mid 20s, I can also tell you that (anecdotally, right? *rolls eyes*), women in the aforementioned group are far more likely to be hard to date, jaded and ****ed up by a life full of more cocks and potential cocks than their younger counterparts. There is a sweet spot. It's not like I'm saying 15 year old girls are ideal. And no, I'm not saying there are no younger women with more experience of cock than older ones. It gets substantially worse when a woman is actually decent looking and still has a lot of experience, AND is older. That's even more of a red flag.
I kind of feel sorry for you though, because you come across like the sort of person who is just inexperienced with women and just don't understand just how different the dynamic becomes as soon as a woman starts to rack up a ton of partners.How do you think a woman who has had one sweetheart after the other can POSSIBLY not be jaded and worn out psychologically with endless emotional walls and barriers?There have been studies that show that the more sexual partners a woman has, the less suitable she is for long term commitment. You don't even need a study to draw that conclusion, it's simple logic. With EXCEPTIONS.
I honestly don't even know what you are arguing. Or why you feel the need to argue it, you're just plain wrong.
I kind of feel sorry for you though, because you come across like the sort of person who is just inexperienced with women and just don't understand just how different the dynamic becomes as soon as a woman starts to rack up a ton of partners.How do you think a woman who has had one sweetheart after the other can POSSIBLY not be jaded and worn out psychologically with endless emotional walls and barriers?There have been studies that show that the more sexual partners a woman has, the less suitable she is for long term commitment. You don't even need a study to draw that conclusion, it's simple logic. With EXCEPTIONS.
I honestly don't even know what you are arguing. Or why you feel the need to argue it, you're just plain wrong.
So your original post states: Dating a woman past 26-27 is dangerous. If they are single and decent looking they should NOT be single. Unless she is a widow, dealing with other probems. And then saying women in their 30s is a joke, and women in early to mid 20s are dangerous to f3ck with.
>>> Again not hating just rationalising your argument.
I dont agree with your conclusion that being single at that age and it being a red flag (especially when you accredit that point to having lots of c3cks). As I stated in my original posts many factors of great complexity are involved as to why someone is single at that age.
*Your reply to me with women being jaded, f3cked up at that age by a life of c3cks. This isn't simply due to dating, promiscuity, and relationships (sure it plays a part, but the degree and scope are dependent on the individual and the individual alone). The longer you live in this world the more cynical, pessimistic you become simply due to the notion that life is tough and it is a dog eat dog world out there. Irrespective of gender (gender is not relevant) people become more bitter, experience more pain (myriad experiences), more loss and hardship. THESE ARE THE MAJOR factors that make it harder to date the older you age because the natural naivety (within reason), optimism and friendliness that we are all attracted to dissipates.
* Your point on the "studies"; the more sexual partners the less suitable she is for long term commitment. I would have to look at the study and see how they have deduced such a conclusion.
Ill explain a cause and effect argument in rebuttle to studies of this nature (below).
The modalities (mechanisms of how something happens) leading to having more sexual partners would need to be evaluated (of which the complexity is so great no one can really work this out). When I say modalities you would have to consider why someone has reverted to hedonistic practices (in this case sex). Anyone who over indulges in a facet of life the natural consequence will lead to instability, depression, pain and emptiness. However the many antecedents (preceding causes) that leads to this behaviour are so complex because so much can happen in life (social conditioning, childhood experiences, social interactions, subjective conclusions, emotional/genetic propensities, environmental adapt-abilities, etc etc). So in a scientific environment, the application of controlled measures to achieve that final result in all honesty would not be able to control and incorporate all those preceding conditions (stated above). >>>Thus the conclusion that more sexual partners means women are unsuitable for long term relationships is invalid because the antecedents that caused the action in the first place have not been evaluated AND IT IS THESE IN FACT THAT ARE THE DECIDERS <<< VERY BIG POINT (caps because i dont know how to highlight in bold).
The golden rule with dating and people is suss out their character, determine what kind of person you are dealing with, you may find that the reason they are single at that age is for an innocuous reason.
Hating on women, on people who come from various, backgrounds, ethnic origins etc these are all conclusions formulated by the average joe that has been subject to VERY STRONG sub-conscience biases and rhetoric (additional big point, and something to consider).
A lot of points I have written I have omitted certain conditions because I would be typing this for an hour. Just consider my logic, thats the main point to understand.
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