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post 1473635981 12-03-2016, 03:59 PM
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Wtg OP

I know a few guys who had this in march so they could sit and watch March madness. Enjoy your recovery.
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post 1473636741 12-03-2016, 04:07 PM
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Originally Posted By RG90Natty⏩
sure of roll bread but now im confused. Ppl actually do this **** to themself? Gj cuck
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post 1473637641 12-03-2016, 04:18 PM
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I promise that either you or your wife will regret this at some point. It is natural to instantly get the drive to have kids, and it will happen.
post 1473637811 12-03-2016, 04:21 PM
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Originally Posted By bigbobgotu⏩
I promise that either you or your wife will regret this at some point. It is natural to instantly get the drive to have kids, and it will happen.
Except this will suppress that animalistic urge in favor of logical reasoning
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post 1473643421 12-03-2016, 05:27 PM
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Originally Posted By woody19⏩
Except this will suppress that animalistic urge in favor of logical reasoning
What? The only logical thing about being alive is making a baby. That is literally the only point in life is to pass on superior genes.
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Hope your procedure was reversible (or perhaps you have a good lawyer and a prenup). As when your wife's baby clock is the only thing she can hear and all she sees is baby pictures on ******** there is a good chance of the topic coming up again.
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Originally Posted By bigbobgotu⏩
What? The only logical thing about being alive is making a baby. That is literally the only point in life is to pass on superior genes.
Lol at this logic. My lifes goal is to be as happy as possible as often as possible
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Hope your procedure was reversible (or perhaps you have a good lawyer and a prenup). As when your wife's baby clock is the only thing she can hear and all she sees is baby pictures on ******** there is a good chance of the topic coming up again.
Meh she is the bread winner of the house. Not worried about spousal support. Both of her bff's just announced they are prego lol. Thing you learn about marriage and women in general is that they always have something to bitch about.
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post 1473646271 12-03-2016, 06:00 PM
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Originally Posted By woody19⏩
Lol at this logic. My lifes goal is to be as happy as possible as often as possible



Meh she is the bread winner of the house. Not worried about spousal support.Both of her bff's just announced they are prego lol.Thing you learn about marriage and women in general is that they always have something to bitch about.
I re-estimate my assessment, she is going to want kids in 1 year!

lol she is going to be BOMBARDED with baby conversation by her friends, and women love to stay in their group. I really hope you update this thread in about a year on your progress.

Women seeing newborn baby's literally make their ovaries ache.
post 1473646871 12-03-2016, 06:06 PM
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I completely understand where you're coming from OP. Your logic is extremely sound and I am of a similar mindset. Albeit, not as extreme, I would just rather postpone the whole kids thing until I'm a lot older (minimum 35).

Even though I'm younger than you, I can guarantee you that any older person, and even yourself, can attest to this. People change. You may feel this way now, and in 10 years you might feel the same. But you have no Idea when, or how, a potential change might hit you in the future. You may wake up in 17 years and find that everything in your life that you've been striving for, you've got, but you feel empty. Living your life ONLY for yourself is something that may seem great now, but you never know....In my opinion you're way too young to have made this decision. But hey, even if you regret it later on in life there are other alternatives like adoption, so that door is never really shut.

But, if you're happy now thats great. I think people jump the gun on children when they aren't ready for it and its irresponsible as fuk. You've got a good head on your shoulders and you know what you want out of your life. Best of lucky buddy boyo.
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GJDM. hope your wife stays on board with that. Last GF I dated for 3 years went from not sure about kids to "if you don't have kids with me i'll find someone that will". I'm guessing she found that lol.
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I don't want kids either but I damn sure don't want to alter my manly birthright ability to impregnate a woman. Just seems far too extreme. I would also bet there are some mental and spiritual side effects when a man eliminates this natural masculine ability. You might start craving tranny porn in a couple months.
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Originally Posted By ChiefRocka⏩
I don't want kids either but I damn sure don't want to alter my manly birthright ability to impregnate a woman. Just seems far too extreme. I would also bet there are some mental and spiritual side effects when a man eliminates this natural masculine ability. You might start craving tranny porn in a couple months.
maybe he'll develop a fetish, you can creampie trannies all day and no pregnancy!
post 1473648441 12-03-2016, 06:24 PM
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Show me a man who says he's benefited from having kids and I'll show you a man who's coping.
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Originally Posted By Jasonw1178⏩
Show me a man who says he's benefited from having kids and I'll show you a man who's coping.
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Originally Posted By woody19⏩
Yea in your mom






No, never regret decisions. Weird like that, once I make a decision it is done. Plus this was like 4 years in the making. Also there is a good chance of reversal within 5 yrs.
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Originally Posted By bigbobgotu⏩
What? The only logical thing about being alive is making a baby. That is literallythe only point in life is to pass on superior genes.
Because of your youth and concomitant naivete I'm going to over look that outragiously ridiculous statement.
Originally Posted By ChiefRocka⏩
I don't want kids either but I damn sure don't want to alter mymanly birthright ability to impregnate a woman. Just seems far too extreme. I would also bet there are some mental and spiritual side effects when a man eliminates this natural masculine ability. You might start craving tranny porn in a couple months.
And pumping out babies you really don't want and the system has to take care of makes more sense?

Try being man enough to take care of those things before hand. Bringing a child into the world is a monumental responsibility. It's not something to be taken lightly. No wonder so many kids these days are messed up.

There is a limit to what the world can sustain. People can't just keep multiplying like rabbits. OP and his spouse should be applauded for their foresight.
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Originally Posted By Jasonw1178⏩
Show me a man who says he's benefited from having kids and I'll show you a man who's coping.
maybe you should get a vasectomy
Originally Posted By KRANE⏩
Because of your youth and concomitant naivete I'm going to over look that outragiously ridiculous statement.And pumpoing out babies you really don't want and the system has to take care of. That makes more sense?

Try being man enought to take care of those things. Bringing a child into the world is a monumental responsiblity. It nost something to be taken lightly. No wonder so many kids these days are messed up.

There is a limit to what the world can sustain. People can't just keep multiplying like rabbits. OP and his spouse should be applauded for their forsight.
This sort of mindset is why the poorer people are pumping out kids and the more well off are waiting till they are like 35+ and having 1 kid with more risk of genetic problems.

If anything people who have higher education and more money should be having MORE kids. They will be better educated and more productive to society.

Instead the poorer are breeding like rabbits and creating an idiotcracy
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Glad I have the four kids and plan on having more

Makes life much more enjoyable

The people I know that dont have kids in their 40s-50s are the most miserable people ive ever met
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Originally Posted By Devils⏩
maybe you should get a vasectomy
1 Question for you man, I've always been wondering why don't you get yourself a nice tan?

Since you're shredded af a tan would give your muscles a even more sweet look than already.

This always comes in my mind when i see you post lol, so had to get it off my chest.
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Going back til the dawn of humanity, every one of your ancestors had children and passed on their genetics.

Just think about that for a moment.

Your parents, their parents, their parents multiplied by however many generations of humans there have been, and even before that, from when we just just cavemen, before that when we were bacteria.

They all had kids. And now you end that chain of life.

Think about it
post 1473651581 12-03-2016, 06:53 PM
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Originally Posted By neuron⏩
Glad I have the four kids and plan on having more

Makes life much more enjoyable

The people I know that dont have kids in their 40s-50s are the most miserable people ive ever met
This, why do so many men commit suicide 40+ after getting divorced and losing their kids/family? By OP's logic they should be free to travel, **** bitches and focus on themselves and be so happy.
Originally Posted By woodberry1⏩
1 Question for you man, I've always been wondering why don't you get yourself a nice tan?

Since you're shredded af a tan would give your muscles a even more sweet look than already.

This always comes in my mind when i see you post lol, so had to get it off my chest.
Because of skin cancer lol
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Originally Posted By Devils⏩
I re-estimate my assessment, she is going to want kids in 1 year!

lol she is going to be BOMBARDED with baby conversation by her friends, and women love to stay in their group. I really hope you update this thread in about a year on your progress.

Women seeing newborn baby's literally make their ovaries ache.
Would not surprise me. I'll get her a puppy or she will divorce me, either way I'm not stuck with a kid I don't want.
Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever⏩
I completely understand where you're coming from OP. Your logic is extremely sound and I am of a similar mindset. Albeit, not as extreme, I would just rather postpone the whole kids thing until I'm a lot older (minimum 35).

Even though I'm younger than you, I can guarantee you that any older person, and even yourself, can attest to this. People change. You may feel this way now, and in 10 years you might feel the same. But you have no Idea when, or how, a potential change might hit you in the future. You may wake up in 17 years and find that everything in your life that you've been striving for, you've got, but you feel empty. Living your life ONLY for yourself is something that may seem great now, but you never know....In my opinion you're way too young to have made this decision. But hey, even if you regret it later on in life there are other alternatives like adoption, so that door is never really shut.

But, if you're happy now thats great. I think people jump the gun on children when they aren't ready for it and its irresponsible as fuk. You've got a good head on your shoulders and you know what you want out of your life. Best of lucky buddy boyo.
Thanks, if I do decide I want kids at 46 then I truly would be a selfish kunt.
Originally Posted By ChiefRocka⏩
I don't want kids either but I damn sure don't want to alter my manly birthright ability to impregnate a woman. Just seems far too extreme. I would also bet there are some mental and spiritual side effects when a man eliminates this natural masculine ability. You might start craving tranny porn in a couple months.
Start craving???

Does not affect your hormone levels.
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Originally Posted By Devils⏩
Because of skin cancer lol
oh lol makes sense.
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Originally Posted By bjjruinedmylife⏩
Going back til the dawn of humanity, every one of your ancestors had children and passed on their genetics.

Just think about that for a moment.

Your parents, their parents, their parents multiplied by however many generations of humans there have been, and even before that, from when we just just cavemen, before that when we were bacteria.

They all had kids. And now you end that chain of life.

Think about it
What a selfish bastard OP is.


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More than 16 million children in the United States – 22% of all children – live in families with incomes below the federal poverty level – $23,550 a year for a family of four.




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Originally Posted By woody19⏩
Would not surprise me. I'll get her a puppy orshe will divorce me, either way I'm not stuck with a kid I don't want.

Thanks, if I do decide I want kids at 46 then I truly would be a selfish kunt.

Start craving???

Does not affect your hormone levels.
losing 50% of your assents is not a fun thing I would think lol

Also see all those 30 something couples without kids who just keep getting dogs and treat them like children? Yeah there's tonnes of them!
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Originally Posted By KRANE⏩
What a selfish bastard OP is.


Children in poverty in America
More than 16 million children in the United States – 22% of all children – live in families with incomes below the federal poverty level – $23,550 a year for a family of four.
so your solution is for people with the money and household to support the raising of kids, shouldn't because poor people are having too many kids? where's the logic there.
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Originally Posted By Devils⏩
This, why do so many men commit suicide 40+ after getting divorced and losing their kids/family? By OP's logic they should be free to travel, **** bitches and focus on themselves and be so happy.
l
They probably know no other life, they had kids at 18 before experiencing life. Also different people have different motivations.

I have never been depressed, whether I was poor, friendless, gf less, unemployed, etc. Always been content with life and my choices.
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Originally Posted By woody19⏩
They probably know no other life, they had kids at 18 before experiencing life. Also different people have different motivations.

I have never been depressed, whether I was poor, friendless, gf less, unemployed, etc. Always been content with life and my choices.
I wish you the best!
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Originally Posted By Devils⏩
so your solution is for people with the money and household to support the raising of kids, shouldn't because poor people are having too many kids? where's the logic there.
Ever see the movie "Home Alone"? Its not just about poor families. Besides, what's the point of having kids if you're never around to see them?

Parents spending half their time working while someone eles raises your child. Having kids because its trendy is not a reason to become parents.
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Originally Posted By KRANE⏩
Ever see the movie "Home Alone"? Its not just about poor families. Besides, what's the point of having kids if you're never around to see them?

Parents spending half their time working while someone eles raises your child. Having kids because its trendy is not a reason to become parents.
lol what world do you live in thinking having kids is some trendy hipster bull****? haha
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