Maatkarah makes a good point on these girls potentially going psycho on you Ranger.

I'd save every text and maybe covertly record audio the next time you smash, just as an insurance policy against potential false rape claims.

You and this whole "initial love phase". Who the **** falls in love that fast? No one over the age of 16 should ever feel that way.

You are not supposed to fall in love with someone until you know them pretty damn well, otherwise your love is completely superficial, which isn't even love at all.

How do you not realize this at this point in your life?!?

Uggs and iPad lost in mail - please resendHoly phuck, do people really do that, surely it would only be a tiny % of unstable psychos.
I was more referring to 'accidental' pregnancies or at best, all the mass texting, calling, arriving at apartment, wailing and crying that might occur (and the effect on Ranger's conscience/happiness since he seems to have a soul).
There is the possibility they might get daddy/family onto you I suppose. Not many men are impressed by 35 year old men screwing their 19 yr old daughters.

Yes. See below (from the cheating stories thread):

Nah... this is not enough. US_Ranger, take it a step further, covertly record the smashing on video too. This way you have both video and audio.

















LOL.

It's the infatuation stage of meeting a new person. I have studied this extensively.

The dopamine runs high, the amygdala and the frontal and prefrontal cortices have reduced activity. Serotonin is also increased during this stage. Eating disorders also affect the amygdala and the hypothalamus, and thus malnutrition will affect romantic decisions as well.

It's why you see so many men on here post that they are hung up on some check who is stringling them along while she sees her ex and a bunch of orbiters. The red flags are not as obvious in that stage of infatuation/new love, whatever you want to call it when you meet a new person to date.

That is probably why USRanger is not annoyed by the 19 year olds right now, due to his prefrontal cortex and other hormones listed above.. Once that stage passes though, he'll probably bang his head against the wall and wonder how they did not drive him crazy. I found this all fascinating when I was working on my Masters in Counseling Psychology.

You work in IT as I did in the past, so this isn't your area of expertise.

When was the last time you dated a 19 year old girl?

Always use condoms crew checking in.

21 year old already said she's ok if I don't use them and she has an IUD. Don't give a fck, still using them. Same with 19 year old.

Do I like dating 2 different women? Nope. Would I rather just date 1 of them? Yep. But with how hot/cold the 19 year old is, I have a feeling I'd stop seeing the 21 year old and then lose that one as well. Not that is really matters in the end but I'm at one of the busiest points in my life right now and I don't want to hop back into the dating game right now. A lot of people say they're busy, I'm actually busy as fck. I get MAYBE 1 day off a week. I don't have time to go through what I went through at the beginning of this thread. And if I have to go another few months without getting laid, I'll be in rage mode and I can't afford that either. This is almost like some sort of balancing act where I'm getting laid enough to keep my head straight and, MOSTLY, to avoid the dating game while also not really finding anything in common with these 2 chicks so I don't have to worry about catching feels to any sort of degree. This is extremely rare for me because I normally only date women I'm really interested in.

Am I worried about them being psychos? Sure.

But I also dated a:

-25 year old who lied about having CANCER
-33 year old who lied about who her kid was even from

Both of those women weren't 19 or 21 and yet they were completely useless. This is the thing I keep trying to say in my thread. The age thing doesn't seem to matter. Psychotic women who are 18 are going to be psychotic women when they're 40. It's a roll of the dice regardless of age.Why don't you just post a spoon pic?Eh. I have enough text messages on my phone to show they're interested. Granted, I should record anyway but then again, I should be doing that with everyone I date. That's just modern society.

Few things:

- Congrats on getting regular nuts busted, finally.

- LOL @ a feminist explaining that women are stupid, delicate little flowers who are incapable of parsing English.

- IMO, someone who is inclined to intellectual conversations will be having them at a young age and someone who is a vapid bint never will. Of course life experience* makes a difference to how informed their opinions are but I agree it's not young = pop culture only and older = meaningful discussion.

* which as mentioned = / = age

Its worked out very well for me and I'm like 10 years younger than you.

Then again we have different goals. I want their money/soul and you want them to "love and accept" you.Not for you apparently lol. Here's a mind blowing theory for you to ponder: When a girl is interested in you she willcome to you and try to prove to youthat she is worthy of your time without you even so much as having to introduce yourself (IE I know this never happens to you but if it did you'd know what I mean; she'd be throwing out massive signals for you to come to her or flat out strike up a convo with you) instead of you going aroundchasing btichesand getting stood up a billion times/they never want to see you again. Also eliminates btiches who areusingyou for $ (IE you paying for things for them), to get back at their ex rebound style, out of bordem, etc.I forgot women only exist at work (they dont) but if you play sports and aren't complete garbage or ugly you should have at least one btich trying to date/bang you by virtue of that alone. You could also try, you know, doing hobbies that include women and find one who you share that in common with but hey that must be too difficult.

Also I guess nobody in either 5% is interested in you...have you ever thought your looks/personality might be the issue as to why you go on dates and most of the hoes never want to see you again?
I commend that as that first sentence is a dumb ass idea and very rude. The second part is just an excuse because no btiches are checking you out/interested. If they were they'd be waiting for you to get done with your workout and strike up a convo with you. Doesnt happen everyday to anyone but if you're hot it should happen at least once every few months OR someone will come up to you and say "Man XYZ is always checking you out"
No they just arent interested in you. I bet if someone they thought was hot was in there their yoga poses would be all sorts of fukced up. I think the problem here is your just not attractive to most btiches so thats why you barely last past a second date with most of them. No offense.

You forgot about the part about dying

^^^^^^

I know quite a few people like you. I see them in day to day life because there's no real stresses that make or break a man. Everything is easy these days. It's guys like you who fold under real pressure. When **** hits the fan and lives are on the line, it's the "I'm the shiiiit, look at me" types that are the first to go.

Get a couple things through your head. No one thinks you're cool. You don't even think you're cool, you're just projecting. The "confident" aura you're trying to spout is insecurity and you're masking it by telling everyone what a player you are. It's either that or you're a sociopath who doesn't live in normal reality. Either way, guys like you are a dime a dozen and I've watched your type **** themselves in situations when the chips are down. You're as transparent as they come.

That said, have fun pretending your a zyzz. No one here cares. Now let the adults go back to talking. Run along kiddo.

Too much real life. I've tried to explain this so many times and no one ever seems to believe me.

No you dont.Thats funny because I used to work in the EMS career field and have been in situations where I was saving the life of multiple people, handled fresh corpses and have even had someone die right in front of my face while giving them CPR. Don't remember folding then and not only that I've been in dangerous places and even gotten surprised attacked by multiple guys and held my own. Didnt fold then either so yeah your clueless. I guess you think getting yelled at by a drill Sargent counts as making you a certified badass.This is the internet bub, I do not give a fukc if anyone on here thinks I am "cool". If I did I wouldnt be calling you out on your skills with women now would I? And any references to me being a "player" (which I dont think I am) are just to show you I am speaking from a place of experience. This friday a btich is buying me Back to Black by Kilian (cologne) and in 2016 I had THOUSANDS spent on me by btiches which, by the way is the ONLY way you can know if a hoe really "likes you for you". Its directly correlated to how much they will spend, sacrifice and give up to "be with you" and keep you around.

Ask not what you can do for your btich, but what your btich can do for you.Well lets just say if this was a job interview I have more than a few references that could prove you wrong. But this isnt a pissing contest I was just giving you advice; if you want to be a failure with hoes thats fine too; I've no issues with that.I am not the God of Aesthetics (PBUH). I dont have his body, do drugs and I dont live at a graveyard.

Although I used to work at Abercrombie & Fitch years ago then at Hollister back in 2015 and at one point he did too I think.You mean kiddo like those two young ass girls you are current dating?

^^^^^
Classic

Barely read your post but you've been in here telling everyone how cool you are and how bitches just come to you because you're some sort of god. Dude, you're delusional. That's why you're disagreeing with me. You have some sor of mental issues. It is a bodybuilding site so it's pretty common around here, this place attracts a certain type of person.

You aren't giving advice either. You're saying to sit back and let bitches come to you and all that you want their money/soul. What kind of loser says something like that? Seriously. You're a shallow human being who is extremely insecure and it comes off as bragging. But then again, when you want someone's money/soul, I guess it doesn't matter right. What a loser.

tetraktys13, I actually think that you are spot on at many things you say above, but what kind of low-class bull**** is this? You sound just like a woman. Get a ****ing grip.

Would have agreed with you 3 years ago... Hell, I wrote a book saying the same thing.


Then I met my current gf (2.5 years) and it was legit, mutual love at first sight. No word of lie. Weirdest goddamn experience of my life and we've been together since the first time we lay eyes on one another. Mind you I was enjoying being an author and slaying all kinds of women before her, so it wasn't like I was an FA.

Gotta be careful with speaking in absolutes because you turn off the possibility of something entirely different happening.

I bought your book a few years ago, it was a very good read. What are you doing now, and do you have plans for another one?

The number of women out there just running around hopping on dik with randoms....
The number of women who have a rotation of dik.....

There are absolutely zero feels on their part.
This 19yr old Ranger is now banging?
He's banging her because she has no more options right now.
She was flakey as fuk and hot/cold before because she had too many options/other dik to hop on.

Now she doesn't.
soon she will meet a new guy in a few weeks or months and just ghost on ranger like it was nothing.

wat? I've only been speaking directly to you and no I said just go about your business, excel/become successful at whatever your endeavors are, don't chase women/"approach" them randomly (like a PUA) and the ones who are interested will come to you/signal/tell other people who will tell you that they are interested. Didnt' mention me being any sort of god, which I am certainly not, so if you somehow read that you're the delusional one here bro. Strong inferiority complex.I'm disagreeing with you because once I read your posts about being blown off a bunch of times I knew what time it was. When I was 18 I had your same issues being blown off, stood up etc but then I figured this whole game out; and it IS a game. I just think your strategy is wrong and offering my take on it. Maybe one day you will re-read what I said, while wearing a complete outfit a woman just bought you and say "Goddamn that man WAS right!"Wat. Just because you either cant understand it or dismiss it out of hand doesn't mean its not advice. You dont have to take it maybe someone else reading this will. It was meant for you though but w/e.
I am saying do what you do and don't chase btiches, let them chase you. Just watch out for signals of interested and if they show them, first, then you can give her the time of day, reciprocate, use her and let her chase you until its time to go on to the next one. I will say I generally do treat women not as good as you support but that doesn't stop them from trying to please me/do stuff for me. And when it comes to women that's ALL that matters.

If you dont take anything else from this please try to remember this:Women you date DO NOT give a fukc about ANYTHING you do for them, only what THEY do you for you.. The less you do and the more you can get them to give/sacrifice/do for you the better.Your name calling/shaming tactics are meaningless to me.

Dating wise women are TOOLS to achieve a set goal (whether it be sex, money, power over someone etc) NOT the goal itself; like when you acquire a Chainsaw your goal is not the Chainsaw itself but what that Chainsaw can do for you. And like a Chainsaw women can be of great benefit to you if used right...or they can chop your fukcing head off if used wrong.
Nah bro I was just poking fun at ranger because he called me kiddo; I do support dating whatever age you want (so long as you wont go to jail for it). My kids mom is in her 40's lol.

When I'm rangers age I'll be banging any 18 year olds that show interest in me. Somebody has to take them for a test drive

THIS

Plus she probably likes the fact of knowing that she can "get" an older man. Easy way to figure that it is to ask how many men your age or older she has dated.

Ranger flip the script on her and use her for $ and a good time pls because, from what you wrote, she is a weirdo anyway. Just like that woman who lied about having cancer for no apparent reason wtf...

Recommend disposing of them yourself.Very true, but young, female and catching feels for you is a bad triple combination.
Wouldn't put my face up on this site .. means putting up body pic scantily enough clad to prove female (not all of us blessed with huge bewbs lol) .. probably means receiving PM's and comments I'd rather not (the guy posting a zoomed-in image of one female poster's avi and writing "dat little camel toe tho" is particularly memorable).
Also on principle, guys on here can comment & communicate without avi's, inc. yourself, Nedo, etc. but females can't? It's not my fault some weirdo guys have pretended to be female on here. If I was PM'ing guys, asking for their pics etc., I'd think it was perfectly fair if they wanted authenticated pics of me, but I'm not, so .. (also on principle there are other female posters like cookiefiend, happywithit etc. who don't have avi's (who haven't posted spoon pics to my knowledge) & who presumably you haven't negged.

There's zero chance I'd post a pic of myself here if female. The place is absolutely crawling with people who openly hate woman.

Ranger its been a while, guess you are banging 2 girls? Whats the long story short on that?

Thanks hub and great to see you after your book a few years ago.

What I meant by that is that the initial dating phase is when men and women cannot see red flags because of the various hormonal processes going through the body.

Then as time goes on, the red flags come out so the people either part over them, ghost, or if both are very dysfunctional, they stay.

I think hub is talking about love at first sight that isn't blinding to huge red flags, as it turned into an ongoing relationship.

LOL at this guy, he provide me with some good laughs before work this morning.

Uses broke 19-24 year girls olds for money. "Ask not what you can do for your btich, but what your btich can do for you."

Abercrombie and Hollister model

Has his "btiches and hoes" buying him thousands of dollars of gifts.

What a comedian. Trolling at its finest.

My kids mom is in her 40's and I've dated all across the age spectrum. usually older though but the game is the same no matter what. Its more about them investing money, time and energy into you than anything else; if they don't or they stop your relationship is either fake or doomed.More like sales associate but you sound mad. Mad I was banging those A&F btiches too?
Yeah your mad that they like me enough to do that while yours, if you even have any, probably would leave you if you refused to buy her dinner. And its not really gifts per say I just ask and they comply if they can.

So why dont you tell me about your "skillz" with women and how you do everything for them and they love you so much.

Wait, instead of women willingly spending money on me maybe I should just go on first dates with them and try to smash????? Maybe do three strikes rule if she wont put out???

I think your brains fail to understand that if a woman is truly interested in you she will have zero issues with spending money on you.

lmao

yeah i know its hilarious bro maybe I should have knocked up a 20 year old who has no career and doesnt know what she wants to do with her life

what could go wrong

What book is that?

Yeah, much better the mother is someone nearly twice your age at a completely different stage of life and the child was undoubtedly an 'oopsie'.

Nah.

She's not hold/cold because she has a rotation of cawk she wants to ride. That can be any chick by the way. She's hot/cold because she has a storybook view of how relationships and life are supposed to work and I'm not a part of that rotation. Then, when she meets up with me and I rock her world, all of her fantasy life comes crashing down. I'm now the older/experienced guy who gives her a good fcking AND I'm a super nice guy who doesn't treat her like **** afterwards. She doesn't know how this is supposed to go because it's not the standard. The chick is super conservative and has only been with 1 guy. And not the 1 guy that all women say, actually 1 guy. She had this idea of how life is supposed to go and I kind of screwed it up.

She's really happy about it for now but that can end at any time and it has nothing to do with some other young stud. I consistently have younger women who like me because I'm in better shape than all the dudes who want to bang them and I have a bunch of life experience that they don't have. ****, look at half of the crap the under 25 crowd posts in here. It's basic narcissism, no wonder a woman likes a guy who's older and not insecure.Long story short is a 21 and a 19 year old both really like me and it happened so fast that I didn't have my normal approach to only date 1 woman at a time. This is new territory for me since I really hate doing this crap but I've been up front and honest with both of them that I don't want a relationship right now and that I'm too busy with school/work to accept anything else. I have a feeling they both want me to change my mind but that could just be me projecting past experiences with younger women.This. Dude is a fcking tool and in here trying to tell everyone how it is.

ONCE AGAIN, I can spot the insecure *******s a mile away.