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post 1483326171 02-13-2017, 12:27 AM
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Originally Posted By Balkanwot⏩
Why would she punish me? I've been nothing but nice to her.
That's why girls punish guys.. when they don't show dominance.
post 1483326221 02-13-2017, 12:28 AM
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Originally Posted By chicken10dies⏩
Unless you're a manlet, you can get way better than her. You're a beautiful brah. Gorgeous and looks like you're not even balding.

Would kiss (not srs)


















(srs)
What do you mean by "do better"? Like, in terms of looks?
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post 1483326271 02-13-2017, 12:29 AM
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Originally Posted By Balkanwot⏩
Dang really? Was going to ask to see her for Valentine's Day lol but I guess I'll just ignore that it's Valentine's Day. I hate playing these games. They seem so fake and chit. I told her straight up that I like her and I'm diggin' her. Why can't she just tell me what she's feeling.
You should do what you thinks right. I don't know you or your relationship and tbh I completely forgot it was Valentines Day and it might be a mistake to completely ignore if she puts any stock in it
post 1483326301 02-13-2017, 12:29 AM
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Originally Posted By Balkanwot⏩
So I asked her why she wouldn't kiss me and she apologized and said she wasn't "that easy" lol.
Sounds like she's playing dumbass "hard to get" games that you should expect from a 19yo child. Just back off and ignore her for a while.
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post 1483326531 02-13-2017, 12:32 AM
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Originally Posted By Balkanwot⏩
What do you mean by "do better"? Like, in terms of looks?
Yes. What are you doing wasting two hours sitting in a car with some rando sloot below your level that won't even give you a kiss? Especially when I'm right here willing to go in balls deep on a moment's notice.

Srsly, you're out of her league. You should be dating Misc standard 8-9/10s unless, like I said, you're a manlet or that's some kind of Myspace angle shot, but it doesn't look like it is.
post 1483326581 02-13-2017, 12:33 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
You should do what you thinks right. I don't know you or your relationship and tbh I completely forgot it was Valentines Day and it might be a mistake to completely ignore if she puts any stock in it
Thanks for all your advice. Would rep but rc
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post 1483326811 02-13-2017, 12:38 AM
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Originally Posted By Adnim⏩
Her nipples and areolas were visible through her shirt lol. She's a sloot. No self-respecting girl goes out on a date w/o her bra.
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You're acting as if young women use logic. She's playing a stupid hard-to-get game her friends told her to do.
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post 1483326851 02-13-2017, 12:38 AM
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Originally Posted By Adnim⏩
Her nipples and areolas were visible through her shirt lol. She's a sloot. No self-respecting girl goes out on a date w/o her bra.


You just didn't pull the trigger properly. It was probably awkward when you tried to kiss her.
It was awkward to be honest with you but that's my personality. I like to joke on my own expense and sometimes (most of the time) it becomes awkward. And she was wearing a bra because we had a convo about it.
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post 1483327011 02-13-2017, 12:41 AM
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op why you dating average girls, you should be dating much hotter girls.
post 1483327401 02-13-2017, 12:49 AM
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She wouldn't kiss you because your beard doesn't connect



Jk. But srs I've had the same exact experience with a Ukranian girl. Hugs, cuddles, and makes a big deal out of a fukkin kiss so I said peaceoutbye. Don't waste your time brah, just be upfront with her and tell her how you feel. Did she say why she wouldn't kiss you?
post 1483327751 02-13-2017, 12:55 AM
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Originally Posted By Balkanwot⏩
Of course I agreed. Anyways, we've been snapchating each other back and fourth almost everyday. There is one fukin huge issue though... she WILL NOT fukin kiss me. She wouldn't even give me a kiss on the cheek.She said that she doesn't want to get attached to me. Wtf does this mean?I can't read this girl

Cliffs: op messages girl and works out with girl
Op chatting with girl everyday
Op works out with girl a second time because she came up and asked to lift with me
Op goes on date with girl
Op cannot get a kiss to save his life
She's a bonafide time-waster. You're already in the friendzone






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post 1483329231 02-13-2017, 01:21 AM
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holy fuk you are beta

taking a girl out to dinner for the first date and she won't even kiss you lmfao. grow a pair dude
post 1483329921 02-13-2017, 01:33 AM
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Potential:

1. Attention/friend-zoned.
2. Girls that "don't want to become attached"/"don't get easily attached" have emotional issues.
3. If she was attracted to you, she would want to kiss you.
4. Herpes.
post 1483331401 02-13-2017, 02:14 AM
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Originally Posted By Gt3x24x7⏩
Age 25 male getting with age 19 female...

What can possibly go wrong between the maturity levels? srs
Ya. The age gap between your mom and I is a killer too
post 1483331541 02-13-2017, 02:18 AM
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Who nose.
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post 1483331761 02-13-2017, 02:23 AM
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Why the fuk would she go out to dinner and keep talking to you if she doesn't want anything. That's why you don't mess around with 19 y o girls OP.

I would usually say don't play any games or anything but sounds like you're well past that. I'd ignore her and look for another girl. She'll probably show up again soon enough of her own accord
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post 1483332511 02-13-2017, 02:42 AM
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Originally Posted By Tormoz⏩
Slavic girls either put out immediately or never do. You have been friendzoned so gl.

Experienced slav connoisseur
This guy knows the score. Sorry op
post 1483332911 02-13-2017, 02:56 AM
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tats look huge more pics
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post 1483333371 02-13-2017, 03:08 AM
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I've known 18-20 yr old girls who like to have 3-4 guys on call all for the attention. She could be doing the same thing to other guys behind your back, whether it be online or in person. Insta sloots these days string guys along just to inflate their ego.
post 1483333501 02-13-2017, 03:12 AM
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Originally Posted By 8PointBuck⏩
holy fuk you are beta

taking a girl out to dinner for the first date and she won't even kiss you lmfao. grow a pair dude
red here has a point
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post 1483333831 02-13-2017, 03:21 AM
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Originally Posted By Tormoz⏩
Slavic girls either put out immediately or never do. You have been friendzoned so gl.

Experienced slav connoisseur
Some are more traditional. Met a Georgian who's not on that slooty time and Romanians who play that cat & mouse. I think OP kinda dun goofed by not getting/giving a cheek kiss from Day 1. EE girls love compliments, as they are used to every man telling them "oh you're so beautiful" when they are young.

It may be the case that you have to play a little cat&mouse. Tell her you wanna clap dem cheeks and feed her some genuine compliments. Play the aggressive male a bit (after her booty, but also super protective and "into her"). The other part of cat&mouse is after a bit of chasing you withdraw and lie-in-wait for the ambush nowhadimsayin'?

Luv these EE and their intricacies. srs
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Originally Posted By Dave4585⏩
Next time your at the gym wear your best gym outfit that makes you look thick, solid, and tight with some baby oil and pretend not to see her.
This has been the only good answer
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post 1483334651 02-13-2017, 03:47 AM
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relax man.. nothings wrong.. shes just no a sloot
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post 1483335701 02-13-2017, 04:20 AM
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shes a 6 youre a 7.5, cant really blame her for feeling insecure brah

you can get better srs
post 1483335951 02-13-2017, 04:28 AM
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Originally Posted By Datsek⏩
shes a 6 youre a 7.5, cant really blame her for feeling insecure brah

you can get better srs
This. She thinks you're too good to be true so she's rationalizing that she's rejecting you before you hurt her. Sloot logic at its finest.

You can still salvage it but not sure if it's worth it at this point
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Originally Posted By JiP⏩
Why the fuk would she go out to dinner and keep talking to you if she doesn't want anything.That's why you don't mess around with 19 y o girls OP.

I would usually say don't play any games or anything but sounds like you're well past that. I'd ignore her and look for another girl. She'll probably show up again soon enough of her own accord
You must be new to the whole Female Human thing. There's an endless supply of sloots who use guys just for entertainment and a free meal by waving a smelly panty at them. Too many Betas around willing to woo M'lady with some fine dining and mindless banter with the remote hope of touching her hand.

If i were OP i'd ignore her and only respond to her texts at most once a week. Make her pay on the next date if it happens again. If she refuses,you have your answer
Originally Posted By Skyexile⏩
I've known 18-20 yr old girls who like to have 3-4 guys on call all for the attention. She could be doing the same thing to other guys behind your back, whether it be online or in person. Insta sloots these days string guys along just to inflate their ego.
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Yiur game must be weak AF.


You never gonna get a good girl just accept the fact you can only pull whores who are gonna cheat on you.
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European girl I used to date slapped me 3 times before I got a kiss. Turns out I was her first date /kiss/boyfriend. We're married now. I'd say take her out Valentine's Day. Don't take her to some fancy chit, just go putt putting and be playful
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Originally Posted By Balkanwot⏩
She let me kiss her on the cheeks but that's it. I may be moving too fast but like others have mentioned, it's just a kiss. I tried kissing her after our second workout when I walked her to her car and obviously denied me. So I asked her why she wouldn't kiss me and she apologized and said she wasn't "that easy" lol. Tf does that even mean. And now she's saying she doesn't want to get attatjed to me. I don't think I'm friend zoned because she grabbed my hand while we were walking and she played with my hair in the car and was playing with my scruff. Plus she's always laughing at my jokes.
from reading all the chit on this first page, i think she may just be fukn crazy.

had a girl who did this chit to me, it's just a constant ego-driven power struggle. chick was fuknmadinto me but always had to 'prove herself' with that kinda chit.

whatever dude, don't get caught up in it.


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