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post 1483339531 02-13-2017, 05:56 AM
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Super easy bro, she likes you a lot and sees you as a potential mate BUT shes not done getting filled by chad, jamal and tyrone so shes keeping you hovering on the friendzone fence until shes ready to help you over
post 1483339631 02-13-2017, 05:58 AM
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just fukn talk to her for fuk's sake. tell her you like her and that you're not interested in just being her friend, ask her what's up with her not kissing you, and then go from there. I don't know what the fuk is up with people nowadays, living with that stupid uncertainty when they start dating/going out with someone. be straight with her, don't waste your fukin time. if she wants to go slow and you don't, bounce. if she sees you as just a friend, bounce. if she gives you any other kind of bs reason or tries to beat around the bush too much, bounce.

cliffs: JUST FUKING ASK HER WHAT IS UP.
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post 1483340121 02-13-2017, 06:07 AM
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Originally Posted By Balkanwot
She let me kiss her on the cheeks but that's it. I may be moving too fast but like others have mentioned, it's just a kiss. I tried kissing her after our second workout when I walked her to her car and obviously denied me. So I asked her why she wouldn't kiss me and she apologized and said she wasn't "that easy" lol. Tf does that even mean. And now she's saying she doesn't want to get attatjed to me. I don't think I'm friend zoned because she grabbed my hand while we were walking and she played with my hair in the car and was playing with my scruff. Plus she's always laughing at my jokes.
You're not in the friendzone

When in doubt, get the fukk out
Bish needs a time out...gradually reduce your contact time with her. Let her miss you. Once she starts pining for your attention (and she will) get a little more aggressive. If sshe rebuffs dont take no for an answer and get a little rough if u have to

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post 1483340161 02-13-2017, 06:08 AM
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Originally Posted By alejo2308
just fukn talk to her for fuk's sake. tell her you like her and that you're not interested in just being her friend, ask her what's up with her not kissing you, and then go from there. I don't know what the fuk is up with people nowadays, living with that stupid uncertainty when they start dating/going out with someone. be straight with her, don't waste your fukin time. if she wants to go slow and you don't, bounce. if she sees you as just a friend, bounce. if she gives you any other kind of bs reason or tries to beat around the bush too much, bounce.

cliffs: JUST FUKING ASK HER WHAT IS UP.
NO OP!!!DO NOT DO THIS!!! EVER.

And dont u even dare do this through text.
post 1483341061 02-13-2017, 06:22 AM
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This made me lol so hard. If your attractive enough she's waiting for the kiss if not go. Pro tip young girls play these games though I remember when I was 19 too lmao gl
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post 1483341101 02-13-2017, 06:23 AM
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Originally Posted By Tangential
NO OP!!!DO NOT DO THIS!!! EVER.

And dont u even dare do this through text.
please, explain why. srs, elaborate on how being clear and straight with the bish is a negative thing. if he asks her and she's not on the same page as him, he'll simply bounce. your advice is to actually play along with her stupid female mind games instead of taking control over the entire situation and deciding for himself.
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post 1483342081 02-13-2017, 06:33 AM
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Originally Posted By JeenyusJr
Some are more traditional. Met a Georgian who's not on that slooty time and Romanians who play that cat & mouse. I think OP kinda dun goofed by not getting/giving a cheek kiss from Day 1. EE girls love compliments, as they are used to every man telling them "oh you're so beautiful" when they are young.

It may be the case that you have to play a little cat&mouse. Tell her you wanna clap dem cheeks and feed her some genuine compliments. Play the aggressive male a bit (after her booty, but also super protective and "into her"). The other part of cat&mouse is after a bit of chasing you withdraw and lie-in-wait for the ambush nowhadimsayin'?

Luv these EE and their intricacies. srs
Lol, neither Georgians nor Romanians are Slavs. Smh
post 1483342241 02-13-2017, 06:36 AM
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Originally Posted By Tormoz
Slavic girls either put out immediately or never do. You have been friendzoned so gl.

Experienced slav connoisseur
Can agree, been there
Suggests OP just stays friends with her and if something happens let it, don't let it be your only goal though
post 1483344441 02-13-2017, 07:07 AM
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She is fcking/seeing other guys behind ur back op-------

These are easily signs that she's got other guys she's also fooling with. This same exact thing happened to me last month with a similar looking girl. She denied me kissing her, said she's not easy and only kisses when she's in a serious relationship with someone.

Turns out the chick was a huge sloot. She was a former party animal and had fcked a ton of guys.

A lot of chicks that have slooty pasts do this shiit to make themselves feel like they're worth something now.

So yeah ur getting played and besides she's just 19 ur 25 forget her and go for someone around ur age don't be that creepy dude who goes for teenagers. Only bang 18-19yos behind closed doors. Date? Fck no
post 1483344811 02-13-2017, 07:10 AM
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post 1483345151 02-13-2017, 07:14 AM
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go NC on his bich


she's just attention whoring sloot


don't overthink this, if she wanted to hook up with you she'd have already done it by now, what she's doing now is wasting ur time to boost her own ego, fukkin hate sloots like these
post 1483353191 02-13-2017, 08:30 AM
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Originally Posted By LegendKill3r
She is fcking/seeing other guys behind ur back op-------

These are easily signs that she's got other guys she's also fooling with. This same exact thing happened to me last month with a similar looking girl. She denied me kissing her, said she's not easy and only kisses when she's in a serious relationship with someone.

Turns out the chick was a huge sloot. She was a former party animal and had fcked a ton of guys.

A lot of chicks that have slooty pasts do this shiit to make themselves feel like they're worth something now.

So yeah ur getting played and besides she's just 19 ur 25 forget her and go for someone around ur age don't be that creepy dude who goes for teenagers. Only bang 18-19yos behind closed doors. Date? Fck no
I don't really care if she's seeing other guys or talking to them. It's only been three weeks and we're not official. I have a sloot past myself lol so I can't really hold that against her if it is true. But yeah
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post 1483353561 02-13-2017, 08:34 AM
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All the adult webcam models seem to be from Ukraine, they charged lower prices, I always felt bad for paying a much cheaper price compared to the western european type girl.
post 1483354151 02-13-2017, 08:40 AM
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i think she's probably a good girl from a good background brah. i used to date a bosnian chick that was the same way lol, prob thinks you're a player
post 1483355391 02-13-2017, 08:52 AM
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Brah, you tried to kiss her after the gym and again on the first date. Of course she won't kiss you. I dont understand people who think every one kisses on the first or second date. Legit, kissing is more disgusting/gerny than oral sex and is more "romantic" to girls. You need to not rush.
post 1483355501 02-13-2017, 08:53 AM
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Originally Posted By Tormoz
Slavic girls either put out immediately or never do. You have been friendzoned so gl.

Experienced slav connoisseur
Can confirm 100%

Also Ukrainian/Russian girls are normally very touchy-feely too if they like you, the majority wouldn't be shy to give you a kiss especially if it's on the cheek.
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if your goal is just to smash then just lol at chasing

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post 1483356421 02-13-2017, 09:00 AM
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She likes you "chasing" her. She's playing hard to get. That doesnt mean she's a game playing sloot. She might be a really good girl who just doesn't go around kissing random guys (exactly what we all want, til we aren't getting what we want). If you like her hang with her a few more times and keep trying. If she's just meh then go to NC. But I think it sounds like a decent chick trying to make you work for it.
post 1483356991 02-13-2017, 09:05 AM
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more pics please, need to analyze tatas for science
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Originally Posted By rustywite
She likes you "chasing" her. She's playing hard to get. That doesnt mean she's a game playing sloot. She might be a really good girl who just doesn't go around kissing random guys (exactly what we all want, til we aren't getting what we want). If you like her hang with her a few more times and keep trying. If she's just meh then go to NC. But I think it sounds like a decent chick trying to make you work for it.
thanks bruh. I'm hoping this is the case and only time will tell if it is. I actually like the fact that she won't let me kiss her, it separates her from the other sloots and makes her more of gf material than a ons. But then she could just be playing games and chit. Anyways, I'm definitely ears in this thread. Appreciate the help!
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post 1483358021 02-13-2017, 09:14 AM
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Originally Posted By SirFapsAIot
more pics please, need to analyze tatas for science
Loll her tatas are perfect. Not too big and not small. But her bootyyyyyy, holy fuak. It's the nicest booty I've ever seen a girl have at my gym. But yeah, no pics. Detectives fuk with me too much.
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Hopefully I'm not too late.

To OP and all inexperienced miscers:

If a chick doesn't want to kiss you she's either friendzoning you or just wants to SMASH. Hence why she said she doesn't want to get attached. You better seal the deal on the next encounter OP or forget about her cause she's going to go NC on you.
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Honestly OP, just remain friend zoned and look for other girls. It's not the worst thing to have attractive female friends.
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Originally Posted By Dave4585
Play hard to get, don't show too much interest she probably wants a challenge.
This

Turn it around quick bro. Adopt a "I'm interested but if it doesn't work out, I know I have other options" kinda attitude.

Imo this is the alpha you should do while so many miscers get confused and think being a dik = alpha.
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Originally Posted By Balkanwot
Loll her tatas are perfect. Not too big and not small. But her bootyyyyyy, holy fuak. It's the nicest booty I've ever seen a girl have at my gym. But yeah, no pics. Detectives fuk with me too much.
you can share her IG with your fellow balkan brah
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ask her what she looks for in a guy. then ask how she feels about kissing and what she likes. Ask her to show you. Go in for it. Keep seductive eye contact through conversation with glances at lips. If she does not go for it, stray away, shell come back to you.
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Bruhs! Update!
So I asked to see her tomorrow night and she said she has plans with her friends and they'd be mad if she canceled. Instead she wants to see me after noon around 1 when she gets out of class. What are the chances she's playing me and seeing someone else later that night? Legit sketched out right now.
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Originally Posted By Balkanwot
Bruhs! Update!
So I asked to see her tomorrow night and she said she has plans with her friends and they'd be mad if she canceled. Instead she wants to see me after noon around 1 when she gets out of class. What are the chances she's playing me and seeing someone else later that night? Legit sketched out right now.
evening meetup is higher chance of you trying to kiss her. smart girl. sorry bruh.


actually dont listent to me, just bitter I got NC'ed by crush yesterday for vday date
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She may have a boyfriend.
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idk...i would show that i'm interested and then after that i make her make the first move

i wouldn't be the one constantly trying to strike a convo/date
try to make her miss you and you will see her message you asking where you've been blah blah blah
she loves the attention so when she loses it, it will drive her mad

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