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04-03-2017, 08:24 AM
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
Okay, cool. Thanks for the heads-up. I am actually pretty sure it's going to be fine, would just like the day at work to be over so I can enjoy it already and put this behind me.You thinking about this waaaay too much, you don't need to starve yourself bro. Keep an empty, not starved stomach and it will guaranteed hit hard if you keep your anxiety in check. Know that anxiety will also ruin it even if you on assistance. I find bunnin one helps too, IDGF bout nothing at that point lol.
04-03-2017, 09:53 AM
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Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
I don't like that either. I asked for a pic of this current girl who I keep mentioning and she sent me a screenshot from our favorite show after building it up with a few texts. I thought it was hilarious. Getting a sexy pic of her that early on probably would have made me take her way less seriously. It's like a test we have.
Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
I mean, her body is nearly perfect, her whole body still has it's glow. If I had agreed to get drinks with her, then I doubt I would have been able to restrain myself, but I didn't even insinuate I wanted it. We were having a really good text convo and I was seriously interested in seeing what she was painting. The only comment I made about the selfie was that it was unexpected and when I didn't play along she was just like, "I'm going to shower and bed. Good night." She was def mad I wouldn't send her dick pics. lol. I honestly don't know if it completely turned her off or will make her want me more, but given the high quality of the other women I'm dealing with right now, she 100% is on the back burner.Agreed. This repulses me too and shows no self respect on her part, such a turn off. Good girls don't do this.
Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
I think you are right. A thirsty brah would have either tried to go with her to feed her dog and/or try get her to stay out longer, or maybe even seen it as a sign that she wanted more, but I took it the exact opposite. For a second I thought she was just giving me an excuse to bail, but I think she really just wanted to get back to her dog because she was gone all day.Sounds like a thirst/chit test to me brah and you passed with flying colours
It's so easy to pass chit tests when you are not desperate and confident in your worth.
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04-03-2017, 10:01 AM
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Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
Don't tell me you jacked it before meeting with her, even though you had troubles last time. That's not the way to go bro, just relax stay in the driver seat this time and control the paceI'm not eating at all and I'm taking it before I leave to go there. I have no idea what to expect. But I'd love for it to hit hard and arousal with her is not an issue. It's jsut an unknown element to me that I hope makes things easier.
No idea why I even need to turn to this at this age but I'm hoping it does the job for me. I begrudgingly got one out of me this morning.
No idea why I even need to turn to this at this age but I'm hoping it does the job for me. I begrudgingly got one out of me this morning.
04-03-2017, 10:36 AM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Nah, I think she just felt embarrassed/regret when she realized she messed up and you weren't that type.The only comment I made about the selfie was that it was unexpected and when I didn't play along she was just like, "I'm going to shower and bed. Good night." She was def mad I wouldn't send her dick pics. lol.
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04-03-2017, 10:53 AM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
The reason she mentioned the dog was because it was a cop out to let you know that she doesn't have anything else planned afterwards but secretly wants you to invite yourself back to her place (or to check if you would) so she doesn't come off like a sl00t and so she knows if you are that guy. Even if pup, the dog would be fine for a few hrs, think about it. I would of reversed psychology'd that chit and said "are you trying to lure me back to your place with your dog excuse? You took me out to dinner....this is good, but we will definitely have to atleast watch a movie before you jump me, understood?" roflI think you are right. A thirsty brah would have either tried to go with her to feed her dog and/or try get her to stay out longer, or maybe even seen it as a sign that she wanted more, but I took it the exact opposite. For a second I thought she was just giving me an excuse to bail, but I think she really just wanted to get back to her dog because she was gone all day.
It's so easy to pass chit tests when you are not desperate and confident in your worth.
It's so easy to pass chit tests when you are not desperate and confident in your worth.
04-03-2017, 11:22 AM
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
I think it depends more on how long she left her dog home alone and how old the dog is. From experience, if puppies are left home alone for a significant amount of time (at least 3-4 hours), they can wreck havoc, piss all over the place, etc. Not all puppies would but most will. If this chick has an older dog and she made sure to feed him and take him to go poop beforehand, then the dog should be fine. Unless, that dog has separation anxiety and absolutely cannot be left alone for more than 2-3 hours without going ****ing ape****.The reason she mentioned the dog was because it was a cop out to let you know that she doesn't have anything else planned afterwards but secretly wants you to invite yourself back to her place (or to check if you would) so she doesn't come off like a sl00t and so she knows if you are that guy. Even if pup, the dog would be fine for a few hrs, think about it. I would of reversed psychology'd that chit and said "are you trying to lure me back to your place with your dog excuse? You took me out to dinner....this is good, but we will definitely have to atleast watch a movie before you jump me, understood?" rofl
Pondus, did this chick fill u in on the details about her dog?
Nedo I am not disagreeing with u at all on this. Perhaps she could have used "going back home to check on my dog," as an excuse to see if Pondus would invite himself over to her place.
04-03-2017, 11:34 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Could be, I didn't make a big deal about it. I just said the only sexy thing about me is my eyes and she already has pics of them.Nah, I think she just felt embarrassed/regret when she realized she messed up and you weren't that type.
Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
Yeah, I should have done that just to tease her, but it was literally the last thing on my mind and it caught me off guard. We were having a pretty deep conversation at the time, so I thought I might have said something wrong at first. I've established I don't go out with women to smash, especially within the first few dates, so it's just not a part of my arsenal and if all she wants to do is bang to forget her ex, and was looking for my permission, I'm not that guy. I wish I was, though, because she is a legit 8.5/10. I could tell she spent most of the day getting ready for our date. She dressed classy, but sexy, and had her hair done. I literally did not recognize her at first from her pics because she had dropped probably 10lbs and had her hair died blonde.The reason she mentioned the dog was because it was a cop out to let you know that she doesn't have anything else planned afterwards but secretly wants you to invite yourself back to her place (or to check if you would) so she doesn't come off like a sl00t and so she knows if you are that guy. Even if pup, the dog would be fine for a few hrs, think about it. I would of reversed psychology'd that chit and said "are you trying to lure me back to your place with your dog excuse? You took me out to dinner....this is good, but we will definitely have to atleast watch a movie before you jump me, understood?" rofl
I think we really connected because I was telling her about how I have my kids full time and their mom isn't really around and she said her mom basically did the same thing when she was young and her dad raised her and her brothers and sisters by himself. I think she really respects me for that.
Originally Posted By CheekyChris23⏩
I think her dog is like 3 years old and she said she had been home for over 8 hours by herself, so it sounds like she did go home and check on her on her lunch break, at least.I think it depends more on how long she left her dog home alone and how old the dog is. From experience, if puppies are left home alone for a significant amount of time (at least 3-4 hours), they can wreck havoc, piss all over the place, etc. Not all puppies would but most will. If this chick has an older dog and she made sure to feed him and take him to go poop beforehand, then the dog should be fine. Unless, that dog has separation anxiety and absolutely cannot be left alone for more than 2-3 hours without going ****ing ape****.
Pondus, did this chick fill u in on the details about her dog?
Nedo I am not disagreeing with u at all on this. Perhaps she could have used "going back home to check on my dog," as an excuse to see if Pondus would invite himself over to her place.
Pondus, did this chick fill u in on the details about her dog?
Nedo I am not disagreeing with u at all on this. Perhaps she could have used "going back home to check on my dog," as an excuse to see if Pondus would invite himself over to her place.
But again, we are meeting up for lunch tomorrow, so she obviously digs me. She keeps saying it was a great first date.
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04-03-2017, 11:44 AM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Ok thanks for the clarification! Sounds like she had a legitimate excuse. She still seems to dig u man. Good luck.Could be, I didn't make a big deal about it. I just said the only sexy thing about me is my eyes and she already has pics of them.
Yeah, I should have done that just to tease her, but it was literally the last thing on my mind and it caught me off guard. We were having a pretty deep conversation at the time, so I thought I might have said something wrong at first. I've established I don't go out with women to smash, especially within the first few dates, so it's just not a part of my arsenal and if all she wants to do is bang to forget her ex, and was looking for my permission, I'm not that guy. I wish I was, though, because she is a legit 8.5/10. I could tell she spent most of the day getting ready for our date. She dressed classy, but sexy, and had her hair done. I literally did not recognize her at first from her pics because she had dropped probably 10lbs and had her hair died blonde.
I think we really connected because I was telling her about how I have my kids full time and their mom isn't really around and she said her mom basically did the same thing when she was young and her dad raised her and her brothers and sisters by himself. I think she really respects me for that.
I think her dog is like 3 years old and she said she had been home for over 8 hours by herself, so it sounds like she did go home and check on her on her lunch break, at least.
But again, we are meeting up for lunch tomorrow, so she obviously digs me. She keeps saying it was a great first date.
Yeah, I should have done that just to tease her, but it was literally the last thing on my mind and it caught me off guard. We were having a pretty deep conversation at the time, so I thought I might have said something wrong at first. I've established I don't go out with women to smash, especially within the first few dates, so it's just not a part of my arsenal and if all she wants to do is bang to forget her ex, and was looking for my permission, I'm not that guy. I wish I was, though, because she is a legit 8.5/10. I could tell she spent most of the day getting ready for our date. She dressed classy, but sexy, and had her hair done. I literally did not recognize her at first from her pics because she had dropped probably 10lbs and had her hair died blonde.
I think we really connected because I was telling her about how I have my kids full time and their mom isn't really around and she said her mom basically did the same thing when she was young and her dad raised her and her brothers and sisters by himself. I think she really respects me for that.
I think her dog is like 3 years old and she said she had been home for over 8 hours by herself, so it sounds like she did go home and check on her on her lunch break, at least.
But again, we are meeting up for lunch tomorrow, so she obviously digs me. She keeps saying it was a great first date.
04-03-2017, 01:47 PM
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Finally found a girl I genuinely like since my ex. But two red flags pop up in my head: one is I work with her and two is she gets a lot of male attention. We flirt quite a bit and she touches and grabs me a lot but I don't know whether I should pursue any further because of what was mentioned above.
04-03-2017, 05:55 PM
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Also, vick what is it that you do for a living?
04-03-2017, 07:32 PM
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Update:
New tinder chick msged me this morning and asked if I wanted to go to lunch. Said, "Sure, why not." Was a good date. We talked for a couple of hours. Drank a bit too much wine and ended up making out a bit on the steps outside next to the restaurant.
When the bill came I was like, "dayum." She had already agreed to pay for half, but it was almost $200 and I was surprised because I wasn't really paying attention to the cost of our drinks. She actually offered to pay for the whole thing, but I told her half is fine.
New tinder chick msged me this morning and asked if I wanted to go to lunch. Said, "Sure, why not." Was a good date. We talked for a couple of hours. Drank a bit too much wine and ended up making out a bit on the steps outside next to the restaurant.
When the bill came I was like, "dayum." She had already agreed to pay for half, but it was almost $200 and I was surprised because I wasn't really paying attention to the cost of our drinks. She actually offered to pay for the whole thing, but I told her half is fine.
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04-03-2017, 07:44 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
That's a pricey ass lunch, but I suppose lots of drinking at a restaurant adds up in a hurry. When she offers to pay is always a good sign.Update:
New tinder chick msged me this morning and asked if I wanted to go to lunch. Said, "Sure, why not." Was a good date. We talked for a couple of hours. Drank a bit too much wine and ended up making out a bit on the steps outside next to the restaurant.
When the bill came I was like, "dayum." She had already agreed to pay for half, but it was almost $200 and I was surprised because I wasn't really paying attention to the cost of our drinks. She actually offered to pay for the whole thing, but I told her half is fine.
New tinder chick msged me this morning and asked if I wanted to go to lunch. Said, "Sure, why not." Was a good date. We talked for a couple of hours. Drank a bit too much wine and ended up making out a bit on the steps outside next to the restaurant.
When the bill came I was like, "dayum." She had already agreed to pay for half, but it was almost $200 and I was surprised because I wasn't really paying attention to the cost of our drinks. She actually offered to pay for the whole thing, but I told her half is fine.
Originally Posted By dimitri1013⏩
Attractive women get attention, how they deal with it when in a relationship is what's important. The working together would be the bigger red flag here, is this just a job or a career job?Finally found a girl I genuinely like since my ex. But two red flags pop up in my head: one is I work with her and two is she gets a lot of male attention. We flirt quite a bit and she touches and grabs me a lot but I don't know whether I should pursue any further because of what was mentioned above.
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04-03-2017, 07:57 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
So you going to raise that kill count to 4 now big fella?Update:
New tinder chick msged me this morning and asked if I wanted to go to lunch. Said, "Sure, why not." Was a good date. We talked for a couple of hours. Drank a bit too much wine and ended up making out a bit on the steps outside next to the restaurant.
When the bill came I was like, "dayum." She had already agreed to pay for half, but it was almost $200 and I was surprised because I wasn't really paying attention to the cost of our drinks. She actually offered to pay for the whole thing, but I told her half is fine.
New tinder chick msged me this morning and asked if I wanted to go to lunch. Said, "Sure, why not." Was a good date. We talked for a couple of hours. Drank a bit too much wine and ended up making out a bit on the steps outside next to the restaurant.
When the bill came I was like, "dayum." She had already agreed to pay for half, but it was almost $200 and I was surprised because I wasn't really paying attention to the cost of our drinks. She actually offered to pay for the whole thing, but I told her half is fine.
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04-03-2017, 08:09 PM
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Originally Posted By meenman83⏩
Haha, no. I'm just a make-out sloot. Especially when I've been drinking.So you going to raise that kill count to 4 now big fella?
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04-03-2017, 08:11 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Perfect let's schedule, no homo if we don't make eye contact.Haha, no. I'm just a make-out sloot. Especially when I've been drinking.
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04-03-2017, 08:12 PM
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Originally Posted By FU3L⏩
It's just a job even though I just got promoted I have been looking for something in my own field and something with higher pay. She seems like she is not an attention whore or anything like that, it just rubs me the wrong way when a girl has a lot of guys talk to her and try to be her "friend". The only reason why I'm thinking about the importance of the second part is because I haven't really felt like doing anything with women after my breakup, there was even a girl that was down to fuk but when I was making out with her I felt weird and left. So this is the first girl where I feel like I actually want to dateThat's a pricey ass lunch, but I suppose lots of drinking at a restaurant adds up in a hurry. When she offers to pay is always a good sign.
Attractive women get attention, how they deal with it when in a relationship is what's important. The working together would be the bigger red flag here, is this just a job or a career job?
Attractive women get attention, how they deal with it when in a relationship is what's important. The working together would be the bigger red flag here, is this just a job or a career job?
Also, man I was thinking of moving out East, currently I'm in Ontario any place recommendations that have a decent economy/life still with the slower life feel
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Originally Posted By meenman83⏩
I'll get lunch with any of you *******s, anytime. (no homo)Perfect let's schedule, no homo if we don't make eye contact.
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I will have sex with any of u *******s, anytime.
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Originally Posted By CheekyChris23⏩
The white boys will gladly participate since they're all about gay jokes.I will have sex with any of u *******s, anytime.
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
Sucks that the black brahs here seem kinda insecure about their sexualities. It is called funny/non-serious banter, who the **** cares if it sounds gay as hell! Now bend that chocolate ass over and I will dip my Willy Wonka in there and scoop out ur fudge delight *******.The white boys will gladly participate since they're all about gay jokes.
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Okay boys, just got home.
I had my first baseball game this afternoon with my team. We lost pretty badly, so not a good way to set the tone for the night.
I went to pick us up some sushi and I also bought her cat a little toy to occupy herself with. I got there and greeted her with a kiss. She had texted me before I got there to warn me that she was in a "pissy mood," which worried me because I expected her to be cold or distant or whatever after that qualifier. However, after getting there, everything was as it normally was. I bought too much sushi purposefully because she isn't too well-off financially and I wanted to make sure she had food for tomorrow.
So we sat around and watched a few episodes of Catfish and just talked about different things. She's very easy to make laugh, for sure. At a certain point she got up to go to the bathroom and I stood up and kept watching tv. She came back into the main room, I faced her, we just joked back and forth for a sec, and then I picked her up and carried her to the bed.
We went heavy on the foreplay and I could already tell that this time was gunna be different. Lots of making out and grinding and then I went down on her, which she seemed unsure about before I started. Once I started, she was mega wet. I didn't go until she came because she asked to get fuucked after a few minutes down there. She was tight as FUUCK, tighter than any girl before her. I struggled to even get it in at first, but eventually I got it in and it was on. We fuucked for probably 12-15 minutes and then she told me to finish wherever I want. I could have kept going but I was sweaty as fuuck. It was awesome.
After that, she invited me to take a shower with her and then we laid down and watched a little more television. After an hour or so she had to pack it in because she has a long day tomorrow, so I tucked her in and made sure to pet the cat before leaving. I told her I couldn't wait to see her again, which I usually do with girls I legit like after a meeting. She said some cute stuff, we kissed for a minute, and then I hit the road.
I don't want to date anyone else at this point. I am so relieved that things went well because for a few days, the limp dick thing was really eating at me. But now, I feel awesome. I am going to vacation in a few days but I caught serious feels now and I'm sorta looking forward to seeing her again more. I'm fuucked.
I had my first baseball game this afternoon with my team. We lost pretty badly, so not a good way to set the tone for the night.
I went to pick us up some sushi and I also bought her cat a little toy to occupy herself with. I got there and greeted her with a kiss. She had texted me before I got there to warn me that she was in a "pissy mood," which worried me because I expected her to be cold or distant or whatever after that qualifier. However, after getting there, everything was as it normally was. I bought too much sushi purposefully because she isn't too well-off financially and I wanted to make sure she had food for tomorrow.
So we sat around and watched a few episodes of Catfish and just talked about different things. She's very easy to make laugh, for sure. At a certain point she got up to go to the bathroom and I stood up and kept watching tv. She came back into the main room, I faced her, we just joked back and forth for a sec, and then I picked her up and carried her to the bed.
We went heavy on the foreplay and I could already tell that this time was gunna be different. Lots of making out and grinding and then I went down on her, which she seemed unsure about before I started. Once I started, she was mega wet. I didn't go until she came because she asked to get fuucked after a few minutes down there. She was tight as FUUCK, tighter than any girl before her. I struggled to even get it in at first, but eventually I got it in and it was on. We fuucked for probably 12-15 minutes and then she told me to finish wherever I want. I could have kept going but I was sweaty as fuuck. It was awesome.
After that, she invited me to take a shower with her and then we laid down and watched a little more television. After an hour or so she had to pack it in because she has a long day tomorrow, so I tucked her in and made sure to pet the cat before leaving. I told her I couldn't wait to see her again, which I usually do with girls I legit like after a meeting. She said some cute stuff, we kissed for a minute, and then I hit the road.
I don't want to date anyone else at this point. I am so relieved that things went well because for a few days, the limp dick thing was really eating at me. But now, I feel awesome. I am going to vacation in a few days but I caught serious feels now and I'm sorta looking forward to seeing her again more. I'm fuucked.
04-03-2017, 10:06 PM
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Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
My n*gga and what happened to your apathy?Okay boys, just got home.
I had my first baseball game this afternoon with my team. We lost pretty badly, so not a good way to set the tone for the night.
I went to pick us up some sushi and I also bought her cat a little toy to occupy herself with. I got there and greeted her with a kiss. She had texted me before I got there to warn me that she was in a "pissy mood," which worried me because I expected her to be cold or distant or whatever after that qualifier. However, after getting there, everything was as it normally was. I bought too much sushi purposefully because she isn't too well-off financially and I wanted to make sure she had food for tomorrow.
So we sat around and watched a few episodes of Catfish and just talked about different things. She's very easy to make laugh, for sure. At a certain point she got up to go to the bathroom and I stood up and kept watching tv. She came back into the main room, I faced her, we just joked back and forth for a sec, and then I picked her up and carried her to the bed.
We went heavy on the foreplay and I could already tell that this time was gunna be different. Lots of making out and grinding and then I went down on her, which she seemed unsure about before I started. Once I started, she was mega wet. I didn't go until she came because she asked to get fuucked after a few minutes down there. She was tight as FUUCK, tighter than any girl before her. I struggled to even get it in at first, but eventually I got it in and it was on. We fuucked for probably 12-15 minutes and then she told me to finish wherever I want. I could have kept going but I was sweaty as fuuck. It was awesome.
After that, she invited me to take a shower with her and then we laid down and watched a little more television. After an hour or so she had to pack it in because she has a long day tomorrow, so I tucked her in and made sure to pet the cat before leaving. I told her I couldn't wait to see her again, which I usually do with girls I legit like after a meeting. She said some cute stuff, we kissed for a minute, and then I hit the road.
I don't want to date anyone else at this point. I am so relieved that things went well because for a few days, the limp dick thing was really eating at me. But now, I feel awesome. I am going to vacation in a few days but I caught serious feels now and I'm sorta looking forward to seeing her again more. I'm fuucked.
I had my first baseball game this afternoon with my team. We lost pretty badly, so not a good way to set the tone for the night.
I went to pick us up some sushi and I also bought her cat a little toy to occupy herself with. I got there and greeted her with a kiss. She had texted me before I got there to warn me that she was in a "pissy mood," which worried me because I expected her to be cold or distant or whatever after that qualifier. However, after getting there, everything was as it normally was. I bought too much sushi purposefully because she isn't too well-off financially and I wanted to make sure she had food for tomorrow.
So we sat around and watched a few episodes of Catfish and just talked about different things. She's very easy to make laugh, for sure. At a certain point she got up to go to the bathroom and I stood up and kept watching tv. She came back into the main room, I faced her, we just joked back and forth for a sec, and then I picked her up and carried her to the bed.
We went heavy on the foreplay and I could already tell that this time was gunna be different. Lots of making out and grinding and then I went down on her, which she seemed unsure about before I started. Once I started, she was mega wet. I didn't go until she came because she asked to get fuucked after a few minutes down there. She was tight as FUUCK, tighter than any girl before her. I struggled to even get it in at first, but eventually I got it in and it was on. We fuucked for probably 12-15 minutes and then she told me to finish wherever I want. I could have kept going but I was sweaty as fuuck. It was awesome.
After that, she invited me to take a shower with her and then we laid down and watched a little more television. After an hour or so she had to pack it in because she has a long day tomorrow, so I tucked her in and made sure to pet the cat before leaving. I told her I couldn't wait to see her again, which I usually do with girls I legit like after a meeting. She said some cute stuff, we kissed for a minute, and then I hit the road.
I don't want to date anyone else at this point. I am so relieved that things went well because for a few days, the limp dick thing was really eating at me. But now, I feel awesome. I am going to vacation in a few days but I caught serious feels now and I'm sorta looking forward to seeing her again more. I'm fuucked.
04-03-2017, 10:08 PM
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Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
/end thread. #sadOkay boys, just got home.
I had my first baseball game this afternoon with my team. We lost pretty badly, so not a good way to set the tone for the night.
I went to pick us up some sushi and I also bought her cat a little toy to occupy herself with. I got there and greeted her with a kiss. She had texted me before I got there to warn me that she was in a "pissy mood," which worried me because I expected her to be cold or distant or whatever after that qualifier. However, after getting there, everything was as it normally was. I bought too much sushi purposefully because she isn't too well-off financially and I wanted to make sure she had food for tomorrow.
So we sat around and watched a few episodes of Catfish and just talked about different things. She's very easy to make laugh, for sure. At a certain point she got up to go to the bathroom and I stood up and kept watching tv. She came back into the main room, I faced her, we just joked back and forth for a sec, and then I picked her up and carried her to the bed.
We went heavy on the foreplay and I could already tell that this time was gunna be different. Lots of making out and grinding and then I went down on her, which she seemed unsure about before I started. Once I started, she was mega wet. I didn't go until she came because she asked to get fuucked after a few minutes down there. She was tight as FUUCK, tighter than any girl before her. I struggled to even get it in at first, but eventually I got it in and it was on. We fuucked for probably 12-15 minutes and then she told me to finish wherever I want. I could have kept going but I was sweaty as fuuck. It was awesome.
After that, she invited me to take a shower with her and then we laid down and watched a little more television. After an hour or so she had to pack it in because she has a long day tomorrow, so I tucked her in and made sure to pet the cat before leaving. I told her I couldn't wait to see her again, which I usually do with girls I legit like after a meeting. She said some cute stuff, we kissed for a minute, and then I hit the road.
I don't want to date anyone else at this point. I am so relieved that things went well because for a few days, the limp dick thing was really eating at me. But now, I feel awesome. I am going to vacation in a few days but I caught serious feels now and I'm sorta looking forward to seeing her again more. I'm fuucked.
I had my first baseball game this afternoon with my team. We lost pretty badly, so not a good way to set the tone for the night.
I went to pick us up some sushi and I also bought her cat a little toy to occupy herself with. I got there and greeted her with a kiss. She had texted me before I got there to warn me that she was in a "pissy mood," which worried me because I expected her to be cold or distant or whatever after that qualifier. However, after getting there, everything was as it normally was. I bought too much sushi purposefully because she isn't too well-off financially and I wanted to make sure she had food for tomorrow.
So we sat around and watched a few episodes of Catfish and just talked about different things. She's very easy to make laugh, for sure. At a certain point she got up to go to the bathroom and I stood up and kept watching tv. She came back into the main room, I faced her, we just joked back and forth for a sec, and then I picked her up and carried her to the bed.
We went heavy on the foreplay and I could already tell that this time was gunna be different. Lots of making out and grinding and then I went down on her, which she seemed unsure about before I started. Once I started, she was mega wet. I didn't go until she came because she asked to get fuucked after a few minutes down there. She was tight as FUUCK, tighter than any girl before her. I struggled to even get it in at first, but eventually I got it in and it was on. We fuucked for probably 12-15 minutes and then she told me to finish wherever I want. I could have kept going but I was sweaty as fuuck. It was awesome.
After that, she invited me to take a shower with her and then we laid down and watched a little more television. After an hour or so she had to pack it in because she has a long day tomorrow, so I tucked her in and made sure to pet the cat before leaving. I told her I couldn't wait to see her again, which I usually do with girls I legit like after a meeting. She said some cute stuff, we kissed for a minute, and then I hit the road.
I don't want to date anyone else at this point. I am so relieved that things went well because for a few days, the limp dick thing was really eating at me. But now, I feel awesome. I am going to vacation in a few days but I caught serious feels now and I'm sorta looking forward to seeing her again more. I'm fuucked.
04-03-2017, 10:12 PM
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The return of Superman. It lives!
please make a signature --TellitAgain
I am only 4'9". Can you reach that for me?
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04-03-2017, 10:46 PM
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The cobwebs have been cleaned out.
04-03-2017, 10:58 PM
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Originally Posted By deadliftbrah19⏩
Well, there goes 90% of your ammunition you use in all your posts.The cobwebs have been cleaned out.
Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=131498033
You will never know your limits, unless you push yourself past the imaginary lines you have drawn in the sand.
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04-03-2017, 11:07 PM
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Got back with an old FWB who just broke up with his girlfriend. 26 year old blonde surfer guy. We almost ran into his parents which would have been awkward.
18 orgasms, not bad for 5 months no sex.
My depression is 100% better and I felt that rush of cold air going to my brain for hours afterwards. Therapists can't figure that one out, but it only happens if I have sex with someone I'm attracted to and it's great sex.
Now I know I"m a sex addict. SEVERE depression 5 months no sex. When I did this 3 years ago I lasted 4 months and the same: nonstop brain fog and mistakes at work.
I'm surprised he was texting me the past few weeks pretty much daily, as he has girls on his social media, why WK an old geezer?
18 orgasms, not bad for 5 months no sex.
My depression is 100% better and I felt that rush of cold air going to my brain for hours afterwards. Therapists can't figure that one out, but it only happens if I have sex with someone I'm attracted to and it's great sex.
Now I know I"m a sex addict. SEVERE depression 5 months no sex. When I did this 3 years ago I lasted 4 months and the same: nonstop brain fog and mistakes at work.
I'm surprised he was texting me the past few weeks pretty much daily, as he has girls on his social media, why WK an old geezer?
04-03-2017, 11:38 PM
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Originally Posted By deadliftbrah19⏩
I had a feeling u were gonna cave in. What u need to do is figure out how to have a balanced dating/sex life (MODERATION). If u think u really are a sex addict, I do not know what to tell u. Talk to someone who is an expert in that field, get several opinions (if u really wanna do something about this).Got back with an old FWB who just broke up with his girlfriend. 26 year old blonde surfer guy. We almost ran into his parents which would have been awkward.
18 orgasms, not bad for 5 months no sex.
My depression is 100% better and I felt that rush of cold air going to my brain for hours afterwards. Therapists can't figure that one out, but it only happens if I have sex with someone I'm attracted to and it's great sex.
Now I know I"m a sex addict. SEVERE depression 5 months no sex. When I did this 3 years ago I lasted 4 months and the same: nonstop brain fog and mistakes at work.
I'm surprised he was texting me the past few weeks pretty much daily, as he has girls on his social media, why WK an old geezer?
18 orgasms, not bad for 5 months no sex.
My depression is 100% better and I felt that rush of cold air going to my brain for hours afterwards. Therapists can't figure that one out, but it only happens if I have sex with someone I'm attracted to and it's great sex.
Now I know I"m a sex addict. SEVERE depression 5 months no sex. When I did this 3 years ago I lasted 4 months and the same: nonstop brain fog and mistakes at work.
I'm surprised he was texting me the past few weeks pretty much daily, as he has girls on his social media, why WK an old geezer?
18 orgasms? Skeptical Chris is skeptical alright.
At the end of the day, do what will make u feel happy. If that is having sex with young CHADS then go for it. However, be responsible about it. MODERATION.
He just used u to bust a nut. He wanted a relatively easy lay= you brah.
I bet Jesus is disappointed in u lol. It's all good tho, just touch urself to a pic of his and all will be forgiven my child.
04-03-2017, 11:46 PM
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Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
Happy for you, but careful, brah. It's cloud 9 territory and having sex amplifies it by 10. Don't get attached too quickly.I don't want to date anyone else at this point. I am so relieved that things went well because for a few days, the limp dick thing was really eating at me. But now, I feel awesome. I am going to vacation in a few days but I caught serious feels now and I'm sorta looking forward to seeing her again more. I'm fuucked.
So, I just set up one final date this week with a match I've been talking to for a week now. We actually matched on match.com back when I first started dating Leti last year and I still even had her number, but never met and lost touch after Leti and I agreed to be committed. Because of that, I didn't want to put it off another week, so I'm just going for it, which means 4 dates in 4 days with 4 different women... Extremely new territory for me, and not looking to do it again. It's too much.
36 matches at this point. For some reason they keep rolling in even though I've done very little swiping. Must be a lot of residual from when I was trying to get my initial matches.
Not sure if I will be able to meet them all like I originally planned, but so far I've gotten 8/8 numbers and by the end of the week will have met 5 of them.
Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=131498033
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04-04-2017, 07:00 AM
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
I dunno man, it's a bad thing to say but this one is different than many I have met over the past few months. By different I just mean personality wise. Physically she isn't a whole lot to write home about but she understands my humor 100% and we just have a great time. I've never had that much compatibility with someone else.My n*gga and what happened to your apathy?
Originally Posted By SeanGarrity⏩
Nah man, I'm sure there will be something that happens that makes the thread continue. I was at this point with a girl very early in my last log and we are all the way here, so what does that tell you?/end thread. #sad
Originally Posted By saligia⏩
Just in the nick of time! Things were looking precarious there for a moment. I'm so relieved. She was like "oh, we're actually going to do it tonight?" and it made me laugh pretty hard.The return of Superman. It lives!
Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
I'm at that point, too. I just can't be bothered anymore. I know what I like and know rather quickly what I want. Most girls don't have the x factor I'm looking for and a lot of it becomes exhausting like what you're experiencing. I feel like my last few months are like your last few days tbh.Happy for you, but careful, brah. It's cloud 9 territory and having sex amplifies it by 10. Don't get attached too quickly.
So, I just set up one final date this week with a match I've been talking to for a week now. We actually matched on match.com back when I first started dating Leti last year and I still even had her number, but never met and lost touch after Leti and I agreed to be committed. Because of that, I didn't want to put it off another week, so I'm just going for it, which means 4 dates in 4 days with 4 different women... Extremely new territory for me, and not looking to do it again. It's too much.
36 matches at this point. For some reason they keep rolling in even though I've done very little swiping. Must be a lot of residual from when I was trying to get my initial matches.
Not sure if I will be able to meet them all like I originally planned, but so far I've gotten 8/8 numbers and by the end of the week will have met 5 of them.
So, I just set up one final date this week with a match I've been talking to for a week now. We actually matched on match.com back when I first started dating Leti last year and I still even had her number, but never met and lost touch after Leti and I agreed to be committed. Because of that, I didn't want to put it off another week, so I'm just going for it, which means 4 dates in 4 days with 4 different women... Extremely new territory for me, and not looking to do it again. It's too much.
36 matches at this point. For some reason they keep rolling in even though I've done very little swiping. Must be a lot of residual from when I was trying to get my initial matches.
Not sure if I will be able to meet them all like I originally planned, but so far I've gotten 8/8 numbers and by the end of the week will have met 5 of them.
And yeah, I'm trying my best to be careful here. I mean, I'm not seeing her now for at least a week so that'll do... something for whatever it is we have going on, but I'm not the kind of dude to text her every day, anyway. I already know where I want things to go between us, however I'm still just trying to be the same guy I was before I met her. I'll be honest and say I have no interest in anyone else from Bumble/Tinder/real life or anything, though. I can't fight that. If I'm spending time with a woman at this point, it's with her or I'm doing other things. It's just a strange feeling I have only had a few times before. A good one, but dangerous, I'll agree.
Hoping for the best. So far, outside of my one failure, I'd say I've done a good job.
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