update;

yesterday she tells me when will you invite me to eat something because i am hungry,i tell her tomorrow andshe tells me she is available after box training, andthat i should wait her at 21H30 when she get outsi tell her all right. so today i am meeting with her at night so we can eat something.

misc i think there is nothing good coming from this, and don't tell me she's using me for free dinners because it's dirty cheap like 10€, andshe once paid herself.

what's the best way to go no contact ? i am planning to tell her after dinner that we should stop talking together because i can't be friends with girls, or only tell her we should stop talking without giving any explication ?

trust me NC on this case is the best answer, only need help how to say it

dude all signs so far point to her being interested in you. why are you just assuming you need to go NC? unless you yourself aren't interested at all?

you should at least give it a shot...

EDIT: I see you already gave this relationship a quick shot to the head

Brah I don't get it, I told her that I have some feelings and she told me, lol your acting, if she was really interested she would say, "we are not friends" when I told her that I don't stay friend with girls

i dont even know why I am replying because youre so stupid, but she said she was acting so you could reinforce that you like her. You could have just said, "No, I'm not acting, I want to be with you".

Then when she is about to say something throw your hands in the air, run away, and go NC.

nah brah i can't get rejected it will hurt my pride, better i reject her than she rejects me, the only card i can play is to tell her i can't be friends with girls, i can't take rejection and she is not interested at least if am thinking right. the faster this is over the better it will be for me, i don't have yet any strong feels

bruh sloots don't even know what they want, i forgot to mention some others thing that points at friendzone but had them in my head.

like in the beginning she tells me that i don't ask personnal questions, and once i told her she should not put soo much make up and she got mad and tells me, "all right my friend".

dem sloots are crazy

better go nc when you don't have high feels, because i know how it is to suffer from chit like this, i know her only 2 months and will forget her in like 1 week

Lol'd @i have to tell you something, i started developing feelings for your and i can anymore offer you the friendship you seek , i think we should stop speaking"

Most autistic thing I've ever read. Definitely say that, op.

"i have to tell you something, i started developing feelings for your and i can't anymore offer you the friendship you seek , i think we should stop speaking"

Brah I don't get it, I told her that I have some feelings and she told me, lol your acting, if she was really interested she would say, "we are not friends" when I told her that I don't stay friend with girls

lol now misc know better than me that she wanted more than friendship lmaoo,

brahhss listen, when i say'd i can't be friend with girls, she could give a reply like but we aren't friends, instead she says all right then, it's pretty obvious holy crap your messages are making me feel bad

Dude no don't say that, that sounds really ****ing dramatic and lame srs

Just tell her straight up and ask her if she feels the same and she'll tell you. Simple as that.

If she says yes then your golden if she says no then it is what it is.. but you're definitely beyond the point of being able to make a move like kiss her or some ****, not that I think you would have the balls to do so anyway.

dude no. girls have no idea how to act or what to say or do. They just pretend they do, and since we put them on a pedestal, we fall for it. girls have even less idea of how to seduce someone or direct a conversation towards where they want it to go than we do bro.

The only literal death-knell when you told her you have feelings would have been "I don't think of you that way" in a serious tone. Anything else, and you have a chance.



we may not know better than you, but we all would be 100% more likely to reach something more than friendship than you, since p much all of us would attempt to see where it could go before writing her off.

yes, she could give a perfect reply for you to understand, but she won't. she's a woman. you haven't been rejected until you've been rejected...did you ever think her saying "No you don't have feelings" is a defense mechanism for herself to prevent her from getting hurt?

dude...if it isn't already too late...give it a shot. Worst case, you hurt your pride a little, then stroke it back up when you realize you were right and we all were wrong. Best case...you're now seeing a girl you want to be with...

"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." - Wayne Gretsky

well i don't know how dont miscbrahs understand

yesterday we went out, i told her i can't be friend with girls she tells me allrgith then, and i tell her after only with girls i have some feels, she says me lol don't act, anyway soon i will be very busy and we won't see each other, and she tells me for the feels this " you really say some stupid things but really stupid things"




we didn't spoke for the whole day, should i hit her with, "i am already missing ours crazy conversation that we had before" ?

holy shyt....don't tell her your feelings unless you want to see her with tyrone the next day.
Just meet up with her, dinner, movie, a game, w/e the fuk it is....don't act like a beta kunt. Touch her in a non-friend way, and kiss her. If you get rejected, boo-hoo.

might have missed it, but what was the last interaction/conversation you guys had? was it the one regarding you having deeper feelings for her?


regardless, as long as you aren't messaging her mid conversation, you can't really go wrong with"Look here you dumb broad. I have a fukkin mad crush on you, and i think we need to get together asap. SRS I've felt like this for a while, I'm not surprised you never noticed, you're too busy doing your fukkin hair and make up, listening to kesha and ****. hit me back when yo get this and let me know what you think. peace bitch"

not srs, but something along those lines lol. Don't be beta, don't ask a questions, just acknowledge that you have feelings for her, and if she feels the same, you'd be interested in seeing where it goes. Do it in one text, don't hit her with any follow-ups, be prepared for rejection (though I don't think you will have to worry), and let her make her decision. Once you've made her aware, the ball is in her court and you will be able to rest easy knowing you've done what you could to let her know how you feel.

well, we just spoke today as i said, but a title bit about school, very short, she isn't online on fb like before, but i am pretty sure i will get rejected as fuk, but what to do after rejection srs ? but i can't message her that right now if i told her, we can't be friends, and she is pretty mad from yesterday, srs don't know what to do

didn't realize this happened yesterday. give her some time. not too much tho. Sounds like you guys haven't really talked about much all day besides basic small talk.

If you get rejected, that's it and you know where you stand. NC, move onto the next one, and focus your energy elsewhere.

Why's she mad? cuz you told her you have feelings? if she's actually mad and not play mad, then don't bring it up again. Just invite her to do something with you, and don't act like a friend, act like someone who knows what he wants and is out to get it. You'll know pretty quick whether she is receptive or not.

well, we just spoke today as i said, but a title bit about school, very short, she isn't online on fb like before, but i am pretty sure i will get rejected as fuk, but what to do after rejection srs ? but i can't message her that right now if i told her, we can't be friends, and she is pretty mad from yesterday, srs don't know what to do

2 months ago a girl from college asked my ******** so we can chat up about boxing and mma, because we have both love these interests, i gave her my FB she adds me and from that day, everyday we are writing on fb, from morning to night, we went 2-3 times to eat something together but i didn't do any moves, i acted like a friend,

the problem is the next that i started having feeling for her, but i don't know if she shares the same for me, she is pretty jealous, because once i commented something on fb and she immediatly asked me who is that girl and tells me this "i see you are popular on fb with girls", she nevers also speaks about other guys, she once asked me why i was watching this chick in the classroom

i really don't know what she wants but she is pretty funny as a friend but fking feeling are starting to growing, i want to say this to her tell me if chit is going to work

"i have to tell you something, i started developing feelings for your and i can't anymore offer you the friendship you seek , i think we should stop speaking"

will she tell me if she got some feelings ? or she will tell me okay let's not speak anymore ? wut to do miscc ??

i feeel beta as fuk writing this holy fuk


TL DR;girl adds me on fb,
i start getting feelings for her,
don't know what to do

all right but let's say she wants to come tuesday at 7pm, what should i tell her ? i really don't know how to proceed the next steps but the problem is i don't want to get rejected holy fuuk i feel miserable

i srsly don't get how much this is complicated, trust me this bish is crazy, i think i will don't bring it again will calm the situation and then when we meet up again will see if she receptive or not, srsly i am getting headache from this, and i have experience with females not like it's first time


why i am saying this is because when we first talked, she only wanted to talk about sports and school and she told me no questions besides sport and school

and once she got jelly for no reasons,

then i say her she looks better without make up, she tells me "all right friend" look at that word friend precising we are only friends and i can't comment on her appearance

she never mentioned her ex's or something like that, i really don't know she does want

last time she tells me to give her a massage to arm and to get behind her so i can crack her back, srsly i really don't know, that's why i want to go nc and don't think too much about this

2 months ago a girl from college asked my ******** so we can chat up about boxing and mma, because we have both love these interests, i gave her my FB she adds me and from that day, everyday we are writing on fb, from morning to night, we went 2-3 times to eat something together but i didn't do any moves, i acted like a friend,

the problem is the next that i started having feeling for her, but i don't know if she shares the same for me, she is pretty jealous, because once i commented something on fb and she immediatly asked me who is that girl and tells me this "i see you are popular on fb with girls", she nevers also speaks about other guys, she once asked me why i was watching this chick in the classroom

i really don't know what she wants but she is pretty funny as a friend but fking feeling are starting to growing, i want to say this to her tell me if chit is going to work

"i have to tell you something, i started developing feelings for your and i can't anymore offer you the friendship you seek , i think we should stop speaking"

will she tell me if she got some feelings ? or she will tell me okay let's not speak anymore ? wut to do miscc ??

i feeel beta as fuk writing this holy fuk


TL DR;girl adds me on fb,
i start getting feelings for her,
don't know what to do

she didn't gave me the answer to my question, but today i didn't logged for a whole day then, the she send me 3 messages, "where are you", "???", "???!", every 30 min, i then answered her that i was out with my boys and she keeps asking me where exactly, what did i do.

misc is she playing mind games ?

I'll just say this

most girls don't want to talk about sports unless it's a sport the regularly play.

most girls don't get jealous unless there is good reason. Only reason for a girl to get jealous around a guy is because she doesn't like the attention he's receiving, be it romantic, work related, etc. So analyze the situations in which she gets jealous.

As far as her remark to you saying she looks better without makeup...that's one of those remarks guys see as a compliment, and girls are offended by lol. So she may have just been doing that to get back at you, or the fact that usually friends say those off the cuff remarks to each other, she was giving as much as she got? IDK.

But yeah. meet up again, see if she's receptive. Make it clear what your intentions are too. Don't half-ass your attempts in an effort to give yourself and out, or she could end up more confused. Be playful, tease her. Flirt with her. (Flirting is defined as any interaction between the opposite genders that would be uncomfortable between the same genders)

well brah i know you want to help, but i think nor i am the problem nor the misc but the sloot, she doesn't know what she wants, if i get the chance to meet up with her again, i will make clear myself, but if i don't get the chance then i will go nc it's that simple, but i remember once i said, you free to get something to eat, she's switchet the subject to something else, because when we go eat something it's always after the school or after she finish boxing, and we never went out to do a small walk for example, if she really wanted more i think she would want to hang more, not only to eat together when she finishes her training or after school

I LAUGH at your self induced suffering lmfao