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05-28-2017, 07:59 PM
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Originally Posted By dimitri1013⏩
Lol, solid excuse. Wouldn't even be mad at that one.So this girl is messaging me paragraphs and saying how much she likes me and wants to meet. So we schedule a meetup and she texts me last second saying she can't go because she is moving to Brazil now, this week lol.
Originally Posted By meenman83⏩
I'm not too worried, can still see/get her naked whenever I feel the urge.that's very thoughtful of you, but now you miss her getting dressed/undressed in front of you bro
The trouble with being punctual is that nobody's there to appreciate it.
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What a disaster with the 48-year-old . So he said he's eventually moving out here I met him a month ago briefly when I was in the keys. Then we started chatting on ******** and ended up video chatting daily.
He invited me to fly out to Atlanta so I booked a flight with my miles and then he said he would drive back down to the Florida Keys to get his stuff . I said sure I love it down there I don't mind hanging out .
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So I do the redeye flight he picks me up and then says we have to go there that day so it's like another 13 Hour Dr. I am exhausted. He says that I look different from the video chat and that I remind him of his ex-wife
He has like two domestic violence arrest in court dates for his I should say estranged wife as They are still married. Then he said he totally felt guilty bringing me out there since I am still married and he still Married we shouldn't have sex
I said OK I respect that more than guys to try to get in my pants but then he took off and left me alone all night with his male roommate all abou I said OK I respect that more than guys to try to get in my pants but then he took off and left me alone all night with his male roommate on the boat.
I was alone all day and he said that he was stressed out and needed to go to church but he felt guilty that I saw him naked on video chat .
Then he stop by and showed me artwork he created disappeared again
So I decided to stop by the pool in the bar just to do something I start swimming laps and he came out said he was stressed out because of this that me other I bought him a drink and he proceeded to completely ignore me and go talk to another woman and get all close with her flirting
I said this is ridiculous he said she was telling him how to prepare for the courtroom as he said his estranged wife 15 years younger hit herself and pushed her self off the boat and made it look like he did it in through $10,000 worth of stuff off his boat
He invited me to fly out to Atlanta so I booked a flight with my miles and then he said he would drive back down to the Florida Keys to get his stuff . I said sure I love it down there I don't mind hanging out .
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So I do the redeye flight he picks me up and then says we have to go there that day so it's like another 13 Hour Dr. I am exhausted. He says that I look different from the video chat and that I remind him of his ex-wife
He has like two domestic violence arrest in court dates for his I should say estranged wife as They are still married. Then he said he totally felt guilty bringing me out there since I am still married and he still Married we shouldn't have sex
I said OK I respect that more than guys to try to get in my pants but then he took off and left me alone all night with his male roommate all abou I said OK I respect that more than guys to try to get in my pants but then he took off and left me alone all night with his male roommate on the boat.
I was alone all day and he said that he was stressed out and needed to go to church but he felt guilty that I saw him naked on video chat .
Then he stop by and showed me artwork he created disappeared again
So I decided to stop by the pool in the bar just to do something I start swimming laps and he came out said he was stressed out because of this that me other I bought him a drink and he proceeded to completely ignore me and go talk to another woman and get all close with her flirting
I said this is ridiculous he said she was telling him how to prepare for the courtroom as he said his estranged wife 15 years younger hit herself and pushed her self off the boat and made it look like he did it in through $10,000 worth of stuff off his boat
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So then he says he's worried that I am going to be like his ex-wife and throw stuff off his boat and go psycho on him and that he will never ever be attracted to me or remind him of these women From his past.
So now he's left me alone yet again I have dinner alone someone said I should just check out and going to the hotel I'll pay for it because course all this is free but I have to deal with my nam so now he's left me alone yet again I have dinner alone someone said I should just check out and going to the hotel I'll pay for it because course all this is free but I have to deal with a nightmare
So now I think he's drinking and says that I catfish him even though he saw me on video chat is that a catfish ?? He saw me in a bikini on video chat how can he say catfish and he's no spring chicken either but he said oh I date young models will your 48 and he said they cheat on him repeatedly and take his money meanwhile he's complaining about me not looking exactly like my picture s c wtf
So now he's left me alone yet again I have dinner alone someone said I should just check out and going to the hotel I'll pay for it because course all this is free but I have to deal with my nam so now he's left me alone yet again I have dinner alone someone said I should just check out and going to the hotel I'll pay for it because course all this is free but I have to deal with a nightmare
So now I think he's drinking and says that I catfish him even though he saw me on video chat is that a catfish ?? He saw me in a bikini on video chat how can he say catfish and he's no spring chicken either but he said oh I date young models will your 48 and he said they cheat on him repeatedly and take his money meanwhile he's complaining about me not looking exactly like my picture s c wtf
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Originally Posted By FU3L⏩
True, but it seems so odd and threw me off. I don't even know if she is being honest or not but didn't even bother and ask about why or what made her moveLol, solid excuse. Wouldn't even be mad at that one.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
I don't remember too much of what I wrote lol, I think it was along the lines of me making a comment like "You sure did write alot of info for me didn't you?" even though the only thing she put was "Send me a sarcastic message".Women who think they are "fluent in sarcasm" have no sense of humor. SRS.
Also, what did you say?
Also, what did you say?
05-28-2017, 09:01 PM
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Originally Posted By deadliftbrah19⏩
Not surprised at all.So then he says he's worried that I am going to be like his ex-wife and throw stuff off his boat and go psycho on him and that he will never ever be attracted to me or remind him of these women From his past.
So now he's left me alone yet again I have dinner alone someone said I should just check out and going to the hotel I'll pay for it because course all this is free but I have to deal with my nam so now he's left me alone yet again I have dinner alone someone said I should just check out and going to the hotel I'll pay for it because course all this is free but I have to deal with a nightmare
So now I think he's drinking and says that I catfish him even though he saw me on video chat is that a catfish ?? He saw me in a bikini on video chat how can he say catfish and he's no spring chicken either but he said oh I date young models will your 48 and he said they cheat on him repeatedly and take his money meanwhile he's complaining about me not looking exactly like my picture s c wtf
So now he's left me alone yet again I have dinner alone someone said I should just check out and going to the hotel I'll pay for it because course all this is free but I have to deal with my nam so now he's left me alone yet again I have dinner alone someone said I should just check out and going to the hotel I'll pay for it because course all this is free but I have to deal with a nightmare
So now I think he's drinking and says that I catfish him even though he saw me on video chat is that a catfish ?? He saw me in a bikini on video chat how can he say catfish and he's no spring chicken either but he said oh I date young models will your 48 and he said they cheat on him repeatedly and take his money meanwhile he's complaining about me not looking exactly like my picture s c wtf
Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
Your tone was way too negative.I don't remember too much of what I wrote lol, I think it was along the lines of me making a comment like "You sure did write alot of info for me didn't you?" even though the only thing she put was "Send me a sarcastic message".
I would have said something like, "Based on your bio, I have without a doubt we would get along famously! :P"
Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=131498033
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05-28-2017, 09:04 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Why not surprised?Not surprised at all.
Your tone was way too negative.
I would have said something like, "Based on your bio, I have without a doubt we would get along famously! :P"
Your tone was way too negative.
I would have said something like, "Based on your bio, I have without a doubt we would get along famously! :P"
05-28-2017, 09:11 PM
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Originally Posted By deadliftbrah19⏩
When, if ever, you are truly healthy, you would have seen all that coming from 100 miles away, but no, you were blinded by the attention he was giving you and used your time to have webcam sex instead of digging deep to find out the reality of the situation.Why not surprised?
Given how highly you spoke of him and what actually transpired, you were not asking the right questions, if any at all. You were both being chameleons instead of being real with each other.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Good point. I'm not dumb as I saw his mug shots online but was blinded by his attention, his boat I'm laying on a hammock on now, and the fact that he's on a TV show. Plus he has a daughter my age.When, if ever, you are truly healthy, you would have seen all that coming from 100 miles away, but no, you were blinded by the attention he was giving you and used your time to have webcam sex instead of digging deep to find out the reality of the situation.
Given how highly you spoke of him and what actually transpired, you were not asking the right questions, if any at all. You were both being chameleons instead of being real with each other.
Given how highly you spoke of him and what actually transpired, you were not asking the right questions, if any at all. You were both being chameleons instead of being real with each other.
At least we had no sex so I get free boat and car ride and a resort for nothing, to look on the bright side. This would have cost me $700 if I got a hotel and rental car.
We didn't have webcam sex lol
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Originally Posted By deadliftbrah19⏩
You have to learn that someone giving you attention, in itself, is absolutely meaningless. It's the quality and context of the attention that you have to focus on.Good point. I'm not dumb as I saw his mug shots online but was blinded by his attention, his boat I'm laying on a hammock on now, and the fact that he's on a TV show. Plus he has a daughter my age.
At least we had no sex so I get free boat and car ride and a resort for nothing, to look on the bright side. This would have cost me $700 if I got a hotel and rental car.
We didn't have webcam sex lol
At least we had no sex so I get free boat and car ride and a resort for nothing, to look on the bright side. This would have cost me $700 if I got a hotel and rental car.
We didn't have webcam sex lol
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
We talked about our children, jobs and even driving down had long soul searching conversations.You have to learn that someone giving you attention, in itself, is absolutely meaningless. It's the quality and context of the attention that you have to focus on.
He said he flew me out thinking with his Cawk and not his big head. But we rarely talked sexually. He would send me photos throughout his day and chat at night.
He says my ******** profile pic is misleading as it is drop dead gorgeous and I've gained weight since then. It's 3 years old I don't think that's too bad.
I told him we are old who cares as he's going grey, he just lost 30 lbs and I go up and down. In 10 years we'll be really old so who cares about looks?
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05-28-2017, 09:41 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
How was it too negative?Not surprised at all.
Your tone was way too negative.
I would have said something like, "Based on your bio, I have without a doubt we would get along famously! :P"
Your tone was way too negative.
I would have said something like, "Based on your bio, I have without a doubt we would get along famously! :P"
05-28-2017, 09:58 PM
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
The tone was arrogant, almost dickish, not cocky/funny. It was hard for me to even imagine it in a light and funny way.How was it too negative?
Always consider the worse tone possible though text. You know how it sounds in your head if you would say it out loud, but you don't know how it will sound inside the other person's head.
Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=131498033
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Pondus why do you think he even invited me out?
05-28-2017, 10:09 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
I get what you're saying but if she thinks that I was being arrogant from that one comment I made then that let's me know she wouldn't have been someone I would want to talk to anyway. Plus you did say women who are "fluent in sarcasm" generally don't have a sense of humor anyway. Yeah I do agree someone might take something you said online the wrong way.The tone was arrogant, almost dickish, not cocky/funny. It was hard for me to even imagine it in a light and funny way.
Always consider the worse tone possible though text. You know how it sounds in your head if you would say it out loud, but you don't know how it will sound inside the other person's head.
Always consider the worse tone possible though text. You know how it sounds in your head if you would say it out loud, but you don't know how it will sound inside the other person's head.
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
Yeah, but what I am trying to say is, no one would have thought that was funny unless they already knew your personality and you've already made them laugh.I get what you're saying but if she thinks that I was being arrogant from that one comment I made then that let's me know she wouldn't have been someone I would want to talk to anyway. Plus you did say women who are "fluent in sarcasm" generally don't have a sense of humor anyway. Yeah I do agree someone might take something you said online the wrong way.
You want her to be like, "haha, dick!" not, "wtf, dick."
Now if its 100% a, "haha, dick!" line and she still takes offense, then she has no sense of humor.
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Originally Posted By FU3L⏩
I suspect he's gone balls to the wall starting up his business...What in the actual fuk happened to Vick?
Last time he spoke, he implied the endeavour was just around the corner but was elusive concerning the details.
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This is probably a stupid question, but is the only way to show direct interest in a girl is to ask her to hang out/ask her out?\
I do this whole flirting/teasing thing but it has never worked for me, as I'm still a kissless virgin.
It's getting pretty pathetic that even ugly girls never show interest in me.
thanks for any tips/advice!
I do this whole flirting/teasing thing but it has never worked for me, as I'm still a kissless virgin.
It's getting pretty pathetic that even ugly girls never show interest in me.
thanks for any tips/advice!
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Originally Posted By GOMAD51⏩
Anytime you converse with a girl you're showing interest in some way, shape or form...This is probably a stupid question, but is the only way to show direct interest in a girl is to ask her to hang out/ask her out?\
I do this whole flirting/teasing thing but it has never worked for me, as I'm still a kissless virgin.
It's getting pretty pathetic that even ugly girls never show interest in me.
thanks for any tips/advice!
I do this whole flirting/teasing thing but it has never worked for me, as I'm still a kissless virgin.
It's getting pretty pathetic that even ugly girls never show interest in me.
thanks for any tips/advice!
But when/if you ask her out you're showing yourintentions.
I only started getting somewhere in the dating game when I began taking action. Sitting around waiting for women to make the effort is best left to the more attractive men in society, where as if you're Joe Average you gotta make bold moves if you wanna get anywhere...
05-29-2017, 12:56 AM
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
This. Unless you're a 9+ you have to approach and initiate in some form.I only started getting somewhere in the dating game when I began taking action. Sitting around waiting for women to make the effort is best left to the more attractive men in society, where as if you're Joe Average you gotta make bold moves if you wanna get anywhere...
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
Hm, perhaps. Still seems odd he hasn't poked his head in here in nearly a month?I suspect he's gone balls to the wall starting up his business...
Last time he spoke, he implied the endeavour was just around the corner but was elusive concerning the details.
Last time he spoke, he implied the endeavour was just around the corner but was elusive concerning the details.
The trouble with being punctual is that nobody's there to appreciate it.
05-29-2017, 06:35 AM
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Originally Posted By dimitri1013⏩
This isn't all the time, you tone it WAAAAY down once you are exclusive. You are showing yourself to her the rest of the time. These tactics are just to get the upper hand, get you in her head and it contributes to her chasing you. I will say it again, when you can put yourself on a woman's mind, game over bruh. Knowing when to do it is key though too. ie) if you tell her you relaxing at home all day, don't pull this, its heat lol. Be smart about it and be fully prepared for her to ask you why you made her waitI get this point man, no doubt. But I always wonder, if I have to fake being busy all the time, am I showing my true genuine self to her. What happens when we are in a relationship and I still have to try to fake this being busy thing. I did it before and it becomes uncomfortable and anxiety provoking for me
Originally Posted By deadliftbrah19⏩
Sucks that things didn't pan out, you seemed to really like him. Very unfortunate he left you in the dark like that. I hope you are going NC.What a disaster with the 48-year-old .
Update: spent weekend at trailer with girl i'm seeing. Was really nice. She knows how to be a WOMAN which really impressed me; kept the place meticulous the entire time, made it her duty to feed me exactly what I want and treated me like a king. Its very attractive to me when a woman doesn't need to be told "you do the woman duties and I do the man duties". I did the man duties and she took notice of how I am hard working/driven. Now if I could just put some damn fish in the boat, grrrrr!
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Originally Posted By FU3L⏩
Maybe something happened to himHm, perhaps. Still seems odd he hasn't poked his head in here in nearly a month?
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
The guy still comes around but honestly I got a free trip in paradise I didn't have to use sex to pay my way like many women. I know a guy isn't right when my life seems boring and drama-free compared to his.This isn't all the time, you tone it WAAAAY down once you are exclusive. You are showing yourself to her the rest of the time. These tactics are just to get the upper hand, get you in her head and it contributes to her chasing you. I will say it again, when you can put yourself on a woman's mind, game over bruh. Knowing when to do it is key though too. ie) if you tell her you relaxing at home all day, don't pull this, its heat lol. Be smart about it and be fully prepared for her to ask you why you made her wait
Sucks that things didn't pan out, you seemed to really like him. Very unfortunate he left you in the dark like that. I hope you are going NC.
Update: spent weekend at trailer with girl i'm seeing. Was really nice. She knows how to be a WOMAN which really impressed me; kept the place meticulous the entire time, made it her duty to feed me exactly what I want and treated me like a king. Its very attractive to me when a woman doesn't need to be told "you do the woman duties and I do the man duties". I did the man duties and she took notice of how I am hard working/driven. Now if I could just put some damn fish in the boat, grrrrr!
Sucks that things didn't pan out, you seemed to really like him. Very unfortunate he left you in the dark like that. I hope you are going NC.
Update: spent weekend at trailer with girl i'm seeing. Was really nice. She knows how to be a WOMAN which really impressed me; kept the place meticulous the entire time, made it her duty to feed me exactly what I want and treated me like a king. Its very attractive to me when a woman doesn't need to be told "you do the woman duties and I do the man duties". I did the man duties and she took notice of how I am hard working/driven. Now if I could just put some damn fish in the boat, grrrrr!
I got to stay on his 36 foot boat for free, yet run drinks at the tiki bar and enjoy the ocean and pool for free. No complaints.
Nonstop bad decisions he made for good looking but crazy women half his age who cheated on him nonstop threw his stuff overboard and caused nothing but stress.
I told him we are in our late 40s it's time to accept our age and stop getting in trouble with sex with younger people but he said he's attracted to model types but women like me are too muscular. Oh well. He hasn't learned yet.
I like to cook but this guy says it made him gain weight and me too so he just snacks. I'm glad you had a good time. I hope she's a keeper!
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
I can always stake out his favorite cigar bar.James: text Vick and tell him to check in!
nah.
I thought he said he was going to travel for a bit?
05-30-2017, 06:32 AM
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Originally Posted By deadliftbrah19⏩
There is no nice way to put this, he is basically telling you that your looks don't cut it for him/you catfished him and he is distancing himself and making excuses not to be around you. Where is your self respect to just dip from that situation entirely? Because you are on a fancy boat and get free drinks in the company of YOURSELF? As if you that broke that you need a free ride? Think about that for a minute. Whereas, there are many other men who would take you as you are and not nit pick at flaws you may have. That chit is rude if you ask me. Don't let him bring you down just because he has moneyThe guy still comes around but honestly I got a free trip in paradise I didn't have to use sex to pay my way like many women. I know a guy isn't right when my life seems boring and drama-free compared to his.
I got to stay on his 36 foot boat for free, yet run drinks at the tiki bar and enjoy the ocean and pool for free. No complaints.
Nonstop bad decisions he made for good looking but crazy women half his age who cheated on him nonstop threw his stuff overboard and caused nothing but stress.
I told him we are in our late 40s it's time to accept our age and stop getting in trouble with sex with younger people but he said he's attracted to model types but women like me are too muscular. Oh well. He hasn't learned yet.
I got to stay on his 36 foot boat for free, yet run drinks at the tiki bar and enjoy the ocean and pool for free. No complaints.
Nonstop bad decisions he made for good looking but crazy women half his age who cheated on him nonstop threw his stuff overboard and caused nothing but stress.
I told him we are in our late 40s it's time to accept our age and stop getting in trouble with sex with younger people but he said he's attracted to model types but women like me are too muscular. Oh well. He hasn't learned yet.
05-30-2017, 04:48 PM
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Originally Posted By deadliftbrah19⏩
But you would have if he was actually attracted to you.The guy still comes around but honestly I got a free trip in paradise I didn't have to use sex to pay my way like many women.
Like Nedo says, have some self respect.
Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=131498033
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05-30-2017, 07:07 PM
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Ive been on two dates with a girl, currently setting up date three. Got called honey in one of her texts. Not sure how to take it, as positive or negative. English is not her first language by the way.
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