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Thread: At a primarily white people bbq, every1 shakes hands but dap me up and say "brother"

post 1507085921 06-04-2017, 06:35 AM
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Originally Posted By Austanian⏩
Going to have to watch that movie never seen it.

The perspectives in this thread are interesting. Is it really that bad with whites trying to prove "they aren't racist?"

On the other side I am not sure why using my "black friends" as proof I am not racist doesn't fly. I don't hate black people.... I hate black culture just like I hate any other that doesn't promote improvement through education.
Would you say that in front of your friends? If you would they should probably find better friends.
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Would rather dap than shake hands any day. Don't know where your hands have been, especially at a BBQ where I'm about to throw down. Nasty *******s the lot of you.

Read that ten more times and re-evaluate your life brah.
Gonna take the time to break it down a little: white people,

Black people don't care that you have black friends, this is normally a given when we see you hanging out because you'll be around black people more often than not and you won't look like an outcast.

Just because you have black friends doesn't mean you're not a racist.

Even if you're racist, accepting that and moving on with your life is so much better than trying to prove otherwise to people who don't give a **** tbh.
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Originally Posted By IH8RICE⏩
Would rather dap than shake hands any day. Don't know where your hands have been, especially at a BBQ where I'm about to throw down. Nasty *******s the lot of you.

Read that ten more times and re-evaluate your life brah.
Gonna take the time to break it down a little: white people,

Black people don't care that you have black friends, this is normally a given when we see you hanging out because you'll be around black people more often than not and you won't look like an outcast.

Just because you have black friends doesn't mean you're not a racist.

Even if you're racist, accepting that and moving on with your life is so much better than trying to prove otherwise to people who don't give a **** tbh.
Dont need to... I know who I am and feel the same way about certain subsets of white people too. This isn't about skin color. This is about predominate cultural behavior patterns. I am not racist. Sure you could make a case that I am culturalist/bigoted whatever, but it is not about what you look like it is about how you act.

My black friends are usually isolated from their own race because they made smart decisions on pursuing an education. Yet on the way to success they had to cut against the grain from their own social group to get there. Now they get chit for "talking white", "Acting white".
Originally Posted By JaymzJ⏩
Would you say that in front of your friends? If you would they should probably find better friends.
I have had that conversation. I don't hide who I am. Surprise. They mostly agree.

Why? because they did have to fight against their friends to put the time in and study to "make it".
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Originally Posted By Austanian⏩
Dont need to... I know who I am and feel the same way about certain subsets of white people too. This isn't about skin color. This is about predominate cultural behavior patterns. I am not racist. Sure you could make a case that I am culturalist/bigoted whatever, but it is not about what you look like it is about how you act.

My black friends are usually isolated from their own race because they made smart decisions on pursuing an education. Yet on the way to success they had to cut against the grain from their own social group to get there. Now they get chit for "talking white", "Acting white".



I have had that conversation. I don't hide who I am. Surprise. They mostly agree.

Why? because they did have to fight against their friends to put the time in and study to "make it".
Decent explanation for once..... respect
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some people are so withdrawn there perspective of others is based on TV and pictures.
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I crashed an all black party at a clubhouse once, the reverse can be said...I was asked show my dance skills....little kid dancing.JPEG...I had fun
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Originally Posted By Austanian⏩
Dont need to... I know who I am and feel the same way about certain subsets of white people too. This isn't about skin color. This is about predominate cultural behavior patterns. I am not racist. Sure you could make a case that I am culturalist/bigoted whatever, but it is not about what you look like it is about how you act.

My black friends are usually isolated from their own race because they made smart decisions on pursuing an education. Yet on the way to success they had to cut against the grain from their own social group to get there. Now they get chit for "talking white", "Acting white".



I have had that conversation. I don't hide who I am. Surprise. They mostly agree.

Why? because they did have to fight against their friends to put the time in and study to "make it".
Bro you don't need to tiptoe around black people they are just humans like everyone else.

It's people that are scared of other races that think everything is racist. I completely agree with what you said. White, asian, etc all these cultures respect "being successful". But I don't think that hood mentality is "black culture" as such. It's hood culture. In the crappy ends where I've been, everyone has that mentality, white black brown etc.
It's more of a problem when certain individuals tie that to their skin colour because they want to find an identity when they are growing up broke or rough.
There are people of all mentalities of all colours.
Me and my mates all make racist jokes about each other because we are friends and we know we aren't racist. I think like chapelle said, if we laugh at these barriers it will break them down.
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Originally Posted By Phesper⏩
Wtf, just cause im not white you dont have to change up your greeting from shaking hands and saying how are ya tom to dapping me up and saying whats good my brother.

How tf did i get dragged into this ...
they are trying to make YOU feel better.. as in going out of their way to not be called racist by some passive little cuck. looks like you wanted to be offended no matter what happens.
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I usually base my greeting off of how others react. If i see them kind of bringing their hand back Ill just lay the dap on em. This way I go in for daps for people who look like they most likely dap and handshake other dudes. Worked out so far for me

weird but how i do it
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Originally Posted By bjjruinedmylife⏩
Bro you don't need to tiptoe around black people they are just humans like everyone else.

It's people that are scared of other races that think everything is racist. I completely agree with what you said. White, asian, etc all these cultures respect "being successful". But I don't think that hood mentality is "black culture" as such. It's hood culture. In the crappy ends where I've been, everyone has that mentality, white black brown etc.
It's more of a problem when certain individuals tie that to their skin colour because they want to find an identity when they are growing up broke or rough.
There are people of all mentalities of all colours.
Me and my mates all make racist jokes about each other because we are friends and we know we aren't racist. I think like chapelle said, if we laugh at these barriers it will break them down.
I don't tip toe... I don't really give a chit to be honest. Not my problem. I just found the interaction between my black bros and their race to be a very interesting, but self destructive cycle.

You are also right that growing up broke or rough does promote a higher likelihood of substandard behaviors. However, most other races don't pull down the people trying to get out. At least directly.
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Originally Posted By Phesper⏩
Wtf, just cause im not white you dont have to change up your greeting from shaking hands and saying how are ya tom to dapping me up and saying whats good my brother.

How tf did i get dragged into this ...
I gotta LOL this **** - when I am at the "all black" or "all brown" parties everyone is trying to slap my hand and **** and I refuse and I just grab it and shake. Do what is normal for you.

As far as "brother" I say that all the time too or "sir"
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Shaking hands, to me, means your not friends but everything is alright. But if I consider someone a homie and they shake my hand instead of giving me dap, i feel a little disrespected. srs. Are we not homies?! Must I be formal with you now?!
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Originally Posted By Rayaarito⏩
Shaking hands, to me, means your not friends and everything is alright. But if I consider someone a homie and they shake my hand instead of giving me dap, i feel a little disrespected. srs. Are we not homies?! Must I be formal with you now?!
Huh.

To me being friends mean I get to bang your wife.
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Originally Posted By Bentley41⏩
Handshake no matter what crew. I can't keep up with the different greetings of different ethnicities. Srsly right when I think I catch on they throw in snaps n chit and make me feel stupid. I thought I had it down with the sideways high five then bumping knuckles but it's not cool anymore I don't think.
getting outshined with a snap is a demoralizing thing.
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I'm throwing a huge bbq/lobster/steamer fest in a few weeks. There's only one minority attending and he will be greeted and treated like everyone else.
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
I'm throwing a huge bbq/lobster/steamer fest in a few weeks. There's only one minority attending and he will be greeted and treated like everyone else.
By making this post and singling him out, you're already being racist.
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Originally Posted By Fuqdatass⏩
By making this post and singling him out, you're already being racist.
Sorry that wasn't my intention. I guess what I'm trying to say is I treat everyone the same.
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
Sorry that wasn't my intention. I guess what I'm trying to say is I treat everyone the same.
Obviously I'm kidding, Kimm. I doubt you're secretly a frothing at the mouth racist when not on the Misc.
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Originally Posted By Austanian⏩
I don't tip toe... I don't really give a chit to be honest. Not my problem. I just found the interaction between my black bros and their race to be a very interesting, but self destructive cycle.

You are also right that growing up broke or rough does promote a higher likelihood of substandard behaviors. However, most other races don't pull down the people trying to get out. At least directly.
They do though to a certain extent. I used to teach college kids that were young offenders or on tag etc. All races even white had that shared hood mentality. Except on blacks had actual terms for it like Oreo etc.
Fuked up thing is even the ones that wanted to try hard to get a qualification felt embarrassed to do so.
The other fuked up thing is some black teachers looked at the black students as scum and didn't want to help them.
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Originally Posted By bjjruinedmylife⏩
They do though to a certain extent. I used to teach college kids that were young offenders or on tag etc. All races even white had that shared hood mentality. Except on blacks had actual terms for it like Oreo etc.
Fuked up thing is even the ones that wanted to try hard to get a qualification felt embarrassed to do so.
The other fuked up thing is some black teachers looked at the black students as scum and didn't want to help them.
That is exactly what I am talking about...
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
I'm throwing a huge bbq/lobster/steamer fest in a few weeks. There's only one minority attending and he will be greeted and treated like everyone else.
Soooo we aren't all dressing up like Casper at said BBQ I take it?
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definitely one of the highlights of being lightskinned. the state where I live is like 95% white I think...never normal handshakes. always daps and everyone does the head nod "what up" when they see me whether I know them or not

another is when im walking in a parking lot and a car coming by turns up their rap music to appeal. i love life man lmao
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I know when im at a social gathering and see a african american i always make it a point to fist bump him and ask about the latest 2pac song or tell him how disappointed i am that their is no fried chicken or watermelon at the bbq.

I just do it so he wont rob me later or something. I do the same thing to mexicans but usually ask them about taco bell or some type of labor work i might need done.
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