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post 1509982931 06-28-2017, 07:58 AM
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GF has been a huge biatch and I've emotionally checked out

Always getting mad over the pettiest situations.

Other day she ordered some take out and was complaining and getting angry about the wait time and I said something like "whatever, don't worry about it, it's not a big deal - probably won't be much longer"

She somehow turned that situation around on me by telling me that I was being dismissive of her feelings and the things she says.

Entire next day she is super cold, we talk a bit over text but to be honest I didn't want to call or see her, I wanted to break up with her but didn't care enough to call. I asked how she was doing after random conversation around 8:30 last night and didn't get a reply until 4:00 AM (lololol). Then again at 6:30AM saying:

"If you still want to work things out, I want to talk to you about a few things"

I really do NOT want to work things out. Can I just text back that I don't want to work it out? This girl is a dramatic chit show who is moody as phucc, barely has any friends because of it. We've only dated for just under 2 months.

I'm thinking of replying back "I'm ok" and blocking her/NC on everything.

TLDR; moody weird new GF gets weird practically ended the relationship but still says we can work things out, I don't want to work things out and would rather end it.
post 1509983151 06-28-2017, 08:00 AM
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post 1509983231 06-28-2017, 08:00 AM
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Get rid of her man. Way too toxic/unstable.
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post 1509983271 06-28-2017, 08:01 AM
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Originally Posted By dabbmw2002
this behavior at this early stage in the relationship.....eject!
She has basically asked me over text if we want to keep "trying", I think it's fair if I end it over text at this point. I really don't care if it isn't manly - this girl has been pretty crappy to me in the 60 days I've known her.
post 1509983391 06-28-2017, 08:02 AM
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Originally Posted By hereforadvice2
Always getting mad over the pettiest situations.

Other day she ordered some take out and was complaining and getting angry about the wait time and I said something like "whatever, don't worry about it, it's not a big deal - probably won't be much longer"

She somehow turned that situation around on me by telling me that I was being dismissive of her feelings and the things she says.

Entire next day she is super cold, we talk a bit over text but to be honest I didn't want to call or see her, I wanted to break up with her but didn't care enough to call. I asked how she was doing after random conversation around8:30 last night and didn't get a reply until 4:00 AM (lololol). Then again at 6:30AM saying:

"If you still want to work things out, I want to talk to you about a few things"


I really do NOT want to work things out. Can I just text back that I don't want to work it out? This girl is a dramatic chit show who is moody as phucc, barely has any friends because of it. We've only dated for just under 2 months.

I'm thinking of replying back "I'm ok" and blocking her/NC on everything.

TLDR; moody weird new GF gets weird practically ended the relationship but still says we can work things out, I don't want to work things out and would rather end it.
You dismissed her feelings, she went out...cheated, felt bad and wants to work things out.

Just tell her what you told us. She dramatic, cold, immature, and you don't want to be around that type of person, and wish her good luck.
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post 1509983521 06-28-2017, 08:03 AM
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Have you ejaculated inside her?
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post 1509983551 06-28-2017, 08:03 AM
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Originally Posted By badbl00d
You dismissed her feelings, she went out...cheated, felt bad and wants to work things out.

Just tell her what you told us. She dramatic, cold, immature, and you don't want to be around that type of person, and wish her good luck.
bruh... I dismissed her feelings by trying to get her to calm down over an order of 6 chicken strips and fries...? C'mon now.
post 1509983611 06-28-2017, 08:04 AM
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Originally Posted By hereforadvice2
I really do NOT want to work things out. Can I just text back that I don't want to work it out? This girl is a dramatic chit show who is moody as phucc, barely has any friends because of it. We've only dated for just under 2 months.
Lol'd at 'Can I'. You can do whatever the fuk you want. Personally I wouldn't text her back anything and just let her melt down for the lols.

Don't block her on anything either. Let her stalk your social media and snapchat and all that good stuff.
post 1509983741 06-28-2017, 08:05 AM
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Originally Posted By soaponarope1
Lol'd at 'Can I'. You can do whatever the fuk you want. Personally I wouldn't text her back anything and just let her melt down for the lols.

Don't block her on anything either. Let her stalk your social media and snapchat and all that good stuff.
I have ONE picture of me and her on my Instagram, guessing I should just delete and not reply?
post 1509983801 06-28-2017, 08:06 AM
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May God forgive me for what I'm about to say but,


you need to dick her down hard and good opie.

the only way to keep a sloot in check, in line is by hard, mindnumbingly orgarms.

the only way a bish will be submissive and respect everything you do or say. if a bish is getting edgy and responding back, it's because you're not giving it to her straight.

also, remember to put her in her place when asked. only one can wear the pants in the house opie.

and that's the man. if you ain't wearing it opie, someone will.


my advice for you here is go NC,

and take this lesson for your next rs.
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post 1509984001 06-28-2017, 08:06 AM
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"hey, appreciate you want to work it out, but I know enough that this is a pattern that won't change. Our personalities aren't compatible."

/contact
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post 1509984091 06-28-2017, 08:07 AM
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You can't dismiss a woman's feelings. They are unstable creatures who need manly security. Her acting out might be your fault if you have failed to keep the bitch in line as a man.

This melt down has nothing to do with chick n nuggets. You're missing the point somewhere.
post 1509984131 06-28-2017, 08:08 AM
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brah...you can't talk to a woman like you talk to your bros. Read Men are from Mars women are from Venus and thank me later
post 1509984161 06-28-2017, 08:08 AM
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Originally Posted By Aircommander91
May God forgive me for what I'm about to say but,


you need to dick her down hard and good opie.

the only way to keep a sloot in check, in line is by hard, mindnumbingly orgarms.

the only way a bish will be submissive and respect everything you do or say. if a bish is getting edgy and responding back, it's because you're not giving it to her straight.

also, remember to put her in her place when asked. only one can wear the pants in the house opie.

and that's the man. if you ain't wearing it opie, someone will.
Lmao. This girl is a nut. Dick ain't the issue.

When she gets moody w/ me I start to tend to act like a bit of an ******* which she doesn't respond in the way you are suggestion (e.g. being submissive). This girl has craziest princess expectations going on.
post 1509984321 06-28-2017, 08:09 AM
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Originally Posted By hereforadvice2
Lmao. This girl is a nut. Dick ain't the issue.

When she gets moody w/ me I start to tend to act like a bit of an ******* which she doesn't respond in the way you are suggestion (e.g. being submissive). This girl has craziest princess expectations going on.
put your foot down *******


she is asking for it.



but this sloot is a lost cause, so don't waste more time on it. go NC and take this with you.
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post 1509984331 06-28-2017, 08:09 AM
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Originally Posted By hereforadvice2
bruh... I dismissed her feelings by trying to get her to calm down over an order of 6 chicken strips and fries...? C'mon now.
I know, but in her feeble mind she needed to be validated over the slightest thing. Now imagine what type of chit she's going to stir up in the future? Eject now.
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post 1509984401 06-28-2017, 08:09 AM
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Originally Posted By MetroBrah
brah...you can't talk to a woman like you talk to your bros. Read Men are from Mars women are from Venus and thank me later
Wtf you want me to say?

"Babe... I swear your chicken tendies will be here in no time... and however long it takes, I'll be here with you.."

This girl was literally seething over 6 phuccing chicken phuccing tendies and I was just trying to get her to relax/cool down because who the hell gets mad over chicken tendies (unless u drop em).
post 1509984611 06-28-2017, 08:10 AM
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Just go.

If you were with her for several years there's a case for "working it out", but it's 2 months brah. 2 months in and you already can't stand each other its time to go.
post 1509984631 06-28-2017, 08:11 AM
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I guess you haven't ejaculated inside her as you've ignored the question. In that case you need to follow the advice from above, give her a huge banging and shoot some big loads inside her. The nagging will stop. If it doesn't, then at least you got to shoot some loads and can then get rid. Either way you win.

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Originally Posted By hereforadvice2
"If you still want to work things out, I want to talk to you about a few things"
Wtf. How is she not your ex right now?

E-phuckin-ject. Srs. This is a lost cause. Who the phuck says this when they're in a relationship? It's basically putting the onus on you to end it. Doesn't even care about working it out.

"if you still want to"
"if"

She's done with this relationship and so should you be. No respect.
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oh she mad boyos

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Originally Posted By Aircommander91
May God forgive me for what I'm about to say but,


you need to dick her down hard and good opie.

the only way to keep a sloot in check, in line is by hard, mindnumbingly orgarms.

the only way a bish will be submissive and respect everything you do or say. if a bish is getting edgy and responding back, it's because you're not giving it to her straight.

also, remember to put her in her place when asked. only one can wear the pants in the house opie.

and that's the man. if you ain't wearing it opie, someone will.


my advice for you here is go NC,

and take this lesson for your next rs.
^Good lol advice if you want to be with a sloot.

Or you can find yourself a decent woman who is full grown and knows how to act like a decent fukkin person so you don't have to control her like a prepubescent hormonal fukkin skank that still acts like a child.
^Been with a few of those and sure, maybe they were hot and the sexors was good. But it ended there. I don't have the patience nor want to keep someone like that around for the sake of arm candy.
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Originally Posted By hereforadvice2
oh she mad boyos

Does she ramble like that all the time?
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post 1509986291 06-28-2017, 08:22 AM
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Originally Posted By Nelly87
^Good lol advice if you want to be with a sloot.

Or you can find yourself a decent woman who is full grown and knows how to act like a decent fukkin person so you don't have to control her like a prepubescent hormonal fukkin skank that still acts like a child.
^Been with a few of those and sure, maybe they were hot and the sexors was good. But it ended there. I don't have the patience nor want to keep someone like that around for the sake of arm candy.
thing is, this is valid forallwomen.

the difference between a sloot and a major sloot is how often you need to put them in check.

a woman is the image of her man. she will treat you accordingly to how you handle yourself.

everywoman needs to be put in place sometimes.. the difference between a hoe and a keeper is how often that will be.
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Originally Posted By badbl00d
Does she ramble like that all the time?
No. Barely responds, I usually am the one doing the banter during text.

Now she is obviously freaking out, haven't replied but here are some texts following the last

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Originally Posted By hereforadvice2
oh she mad boyos

don't respond.

if you have social media delete/block her.

bish is legit losing it.
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Originally Posted By hereforadvice2
Wtf you want me to say?

"Babe... I swear your chicken tendies will be here in no time... and however long it takes, I'll be here with you.."

This girl was literally seething over 6 phuccing chicken phuccing tendies and I was just trying to get her to relax/cool down because who the hell gets mad over chicken tendies (unless u drop em).
Why dont you just STFU on the snide remarks and go no contact
/thread

not that hard
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"I can't be with someone who seeths over 6 phuccing chicken phuccing tendies".

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Originally Posted By hereforadvice2
oh she mad boyos

well maybe NC... but if you want to make this fun for the misc...

"bae, you got mad over CHICKEN FUKKIN NUGGETS. The fukk u needed me fo'? "
you should read this
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Originally Posted By hereforadvice2
oh she mad boyos

good job dave boyo.
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