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Thread: How do you bros have sex and not get feelings?

post 1512557731 07-18-2017, 12:34 PM
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Originally Posted By OffwhiteBrah⏩
Have higher self-esteem and a higher sense of self-worth bud
But then, what if the girls are HBB?

I'm the same OP. Feelsbadman.
post 1512559701 07-18-2017, 12:51 PM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
Honestly having done the casual sex thing now that I'm in my PRIME it's really empty for me and I'd rather just not waste the emotional energy. It makes me feel worse off honestly.

Seriously just have sex with the women you are into and see a future with. Body count only goes so far and honestly if you find a woman who you are super serious about those previous women won't matter.
In conclusion, I will, "embrace who I am fam" and follow this post. Recipe for success...?

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post 1512560661 07-18-2017, 01:00 PM
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post 1512564561 07-18-2017, 01:31 PM
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Originally Posted By kcadrenalin⏩
"Hey this feels GREAT! I think I will ruin it now by letting my emotions take over"
dont know that feel cause only ever have condom sex with sloots cuz i aint about that STD life.

so pretty much feel nothing.

feels bad man.
Look, i know i don't really know you and all, and i know you probably hear this like everyday, but your just so perfect to me. The few hours we talked were really great even if the convo was stale, your really pretty and chill, and your country thats just perfect :'D i really dont know how to explain it, but i think i have feelings for you somehow. i never felt like this with someone i just met, but i felt the need to get it off my chest. sorry for being all weird just idk how to explain it D:
post 1512564921 07-18-2017, 01:33 PM
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Originally Posted By papi89⏩
It's what happens when you're only seeing one girl.

Keep hooking up but talk to other girls as well, alternate between two in a day, and you won't catch feelings
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post 1512567931 07-18-2017, 01:55 PM
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
Lol, that would be a super cute thing to say
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post 1512582351 07-18-2017, 03:56 PM
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Dunno opie I'm 30 and have the same thing.

Maybe if this relationship doesn't work out I will experience an awakwning and just bang everything that moves without a care in the world. Seems like a lot of dudes I know go through that in their mid-30's. For now I'm still in monogamy mode
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post 1512582581 07-18-2017, 03:58 PM
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Originally Posted By chilloppy⏩
I started thinking like that from time to time. But I also want to fuk hot bishes

@OP: I usually make up alot of stuff about a girl before I **** her, basically put her on a pedestal and think about how she might be exactly what I am looking for lmao. Fades as soon as I smash her.
So do I! I'm realistic. I tell my buddy that the feeling of wanting some new pussy will never change.

It's just that the girl you are with, you've actually chosen her as your #1 over all these other potential girls.
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post 1512582991 07-18-2017, 04:00 PM
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post 1512583331 07-18-2017, 04:03 PM
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It's called borderline personality disofder
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im 38, count around 300 or so.. feelings for 3
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post 1512584061 07-18-2017, 04:10 PM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
Honestly having done the casual sex thing now that I'm in my PRIME it's really empty for me and I'd rather just not waste the emotional energy. It makes me feel worse off honestly.

Seriously just have sex with the women you are into and see a future with. Body count only goes so far and honestly if you find a woman who you are super serious about those previous women won't matter.
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post 1512585501 07-18-2017, 04:22 PM
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Get married. Problem solved.
post 1512586581 07-18-2017, 04:30 PM
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Originally Posted By jmayor22⏩
I'm sorry, but I don't have to trick a girl in order for her to sleep with me. Don't get where you're coming from here man.

On another note, I enjoy the time spent with nearly all the girls I've slept with, and very rarely have I ever developed feelings for any going further than "she's cool, it'd be nice to see her again". Does that make me homo as hell or just someone that values personal freedom over settling with someone (and the fear of losing her or her being non-exclusive derived from those feelings)?

I'm not saying that it's normal to never get feelings, but I don't think it should be what happens every time you have sex if you have options. Those friends that slept with 3 average girls in their life and got hitched to them asap because they wouldn't get laid otherwise, and lied to themselves telling they love them...Are those what's normal?
So you don't trick people.

Are you telling me that you literally tell girls that you have no interest in them beyond sex and than afterwards you will move on to someone else?

You don't.

You justify the "good times" and something for you but how does the woman look at the good times?
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post 1512586731 07-18-2017, 04:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Fit1NYC⏩
Virgin detected
I'm a grown man with typical alpha qualities, not a little lying weird beta as we typically see here.
If you want to ask me a question:

Ask: TheAdlerian

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post 1512587161 07-18-2017, 04:34 PM
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You only care so quickly when you are only seeing one fukin girl..

Takes a lot more than 2 months to develop any fukin feels
post 1512589811 07-18-2017, 04:59 PM
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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩
I'm a grown man with typical alpha qualities, not a little lying weird beta as we typically see here.
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Originally Posted By RC2008⏩
You only care so quickly when you are only seeing one fukin girl..

Takes a lot more than 2 months to develop any fukin feels
I would disagree. I was dating this one girl once who got hit by a car two months in and she went through multiple surgeries for lots of different bone breaks. seeing her in all that pain and agony definitely made me 'feel' stronger for her.
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post 1512590471 07-18-2017, 05:06 PM
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Don't see how you brahs go slaying week in and week out different girl everytime.

BRB sex with someone you genuinely care/love for is the GOAT.
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
I'm 25 - and my counter is at 19, but I can honestly say that I developed feelings for at least 14 of those girls. This is why I hate Tinder, not because I'm unsuccessful but because I always develop feelings for the girl and then before I know it she's getting swooped up by chad.Usually lasts about two months.

TF is wrong with me?
you saying you talk to and bang these chicks for 2 months? Thats normal to have feelings i think.

As someone who has slayed a similar amount of girls as you but only developed feelings for 3, they also tend to be the girls that i "put work into" sleeping with. not the girls who i met up, smashed, maybe smashed a few more times but never really cared if i smashed or not.

To get less feels, dont invest effort into banging these chicks, just stick your dick into whatever starts flirting with you at the bar
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Don't fuk women that you greatly enjoy being around.
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Originally Posted By jaygee15⏩
im 38, count around 300 or so.. feelings for 3
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Originally Posted By Vito-C⏩
Sex without feelings is barely a step up from fapping. I'd probably rather fap since it doesn't involve putting any effort into such an empty endeavor.
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Pron did this also surplus in sociopaths on this planet now
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Originally Posted By markduschane⏩
Pron did this also surplus in sociopaths on this planet now
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By not having a vagina.

But in all seriousness, casual sex probably just isn't for you. Frankly, it isn't for a lot of people. A lot of young men especially tend to get overly emotional, which is why you see so many guys in their 20s become an emotional wreck because some girl hasn't texted them back within 30 minutes.

I "catch feels" for a girl once I've gotten to know her and like her as a person. I don't magically get emotional just because I stuck my dick inside her vag.
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
Dad???


j/k - but did not know you were master of the universe. Will be seeking guidance in future if ever kneaded.
You're welcomed.

I will knead your intellect.
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Bro, I even get feelings for the hookers I smash. It's normal.
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Originally Posted By ItsOnlySmells⏩
Don't fuk women that you greatly enjoy being around.
Think you are on to something here.

Read many times on the misc that the hot women are crazy slooty biches and the women that are nice to talk to and spend time with aren't hot.

Cliffs: to avoid feels only sleep with hot women....lol
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