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post 1518801541 09-08-2017, 09:47 AM
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Originally Posted By ragingcrayon⏩
u need to do different usernames on diffewrent platforms. now I'll know u on xbox and send u nudes of old women
I haven't had an Xbox for 4 or 5 years now. Or an account that I remember how to get into. So go for it!
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Originally Posted By NotANun21⏩
My hair's actually one of the only things that's holding in there

Had a youthful hairline up until 18, I started to notice the peaks near my temples starting to thin around 20 or so but it never receeded... only recently this last year aged 25-26 has it really started to thin out cos of the extreme stress I been under but I'm not balding and nobody would describe it as thinning really it's just something I notice looking in the mirror -along with my sunken panda eyes and alcoholic's breath
i'm no doctor but are you sure you don't have some kind of thyroid problem or some ****?
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Originally Posted By ragingcrayon⏩
u need to do different usernames on diffewrent platforms. now I'll know u on xbox and send u nudes of old women
bitch lasagna
you should read this
https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=179438063

negs for using "of" where it should be "have"
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Originally Posted By Knight2⏩
Back in the olden days of Xbox Live ( first version ) I couldn't come up with a Xbox live name. During the same timeline I liked the movie a Knights Tale. After many attempts to create an original name without numbers I had to do something along the lines of x knight 2 x. Over time it turned into just Knight2. I tried dropping the 2 a few times but the gaming company I worked for a few years everyone knew me by Knight2 so I just said F it and left the 2.
Isn't a Knights tale's somewhat of a chick flick? I remember watching that chit in school on a double date.
Originally Posted By ragingcrayon⏩
u need to do different usernames on diffewrent platforms. now I'll know u on xbox and send u nudes of old women
Ayyyylmao this is how you get detective'd lol
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Originally Posted By ragingcrayon⏩
bitch lasagna
Ples babay marry me . you sexi
post 1518802061 09-08-2017, 09:51 AM
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Originally Posted By Phily4321⏩
i'm no doctor but are you sure you don't have some kind of thyroid problem or some ****?
I think I do have some sort of hormone problem, I had real bad acne in my late teens which was treated with accutane which permanently shrinks pores just so it never makes it to the surface - it masks the acne the hormone problem could still be there underneath I just wouldn't know now

And wouldn't you know, I couldn't get a referral to see an endocrinologist whatever I did, every doctors visit they just pawned me off with antibiotics and eventually accutane - never got my bloods done beyond a liver function test to cover their asses with the accutane

The NHS fcks me right off man it does
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Originally Posted By NotANun21⏩
That is what I'm saying, I don't trhink depression can be fixed man

Look at all these people that have killed themselves recently, Robbin Williams his story especially

Battled depression all of his life, fighting the good fight, trying to keep his head above the water, made the world laugh, but just couldn't take another trip down to rock bottom and that was the end just like that

I'm trying to give myself a chance to beat this but I'm tired, fcking exhausted from trying man... trying so hard and getting nowhere with anyone... that and I think the world is just chit, humanity is garbage and I can't accept that in my head - I can't accept that people who are supposed to be there for me aren't - my parents, but also in the professional sense. I was told growing up if you are sick you go to the doctor/hospital and they make you better then you learn actually some people aren't consdiered worthy of help and the world actually revolves around how much money you have the potential to earn or how rich your parents are... bullchit
You're doing it again man. I beat depression, other people did it too. I just fuking told you of an almost foolproof way to cure it, you ignored that and started blabbering about how your parents aren't there for you. Boo fuking hoo. You know how many people don't have parents and still manage to make something of themselves? All you see is problems, I present you with a solution and you ignore that because you're too busy justifying giving up cause you're too much of a fuking pussy to try and do something about it.

All your posts reek of "someone help me". Well guess what? No one cares. No one can help you brah. You gotta do it yourself, that's the only way it'll happen. You want a doctor to cure you from being an alcoholic fuk up? Good luck with that son.

I'm not rich. My parents arent rich. And you know what? The better I feel, the happier I get, the less I give a fuk about money. You've got it all wrong man. Your lens is warped. You don't see the world in front of you properly. You gotta stop focusing on the obstacles and start thinking about your possibilities instead.

Stop making fuking excuses and man up you little pansy

Edit: If you do have a hormone problem, there's private blood tests you can have run for a couple hundred. They'll check out your hormone balance and there's no need for a referral. Take that and post it on a dark side cell tech forum. They know what your levels should be. If they're wonky, try supplementing with some cell tech for therapeutic reasons. That can make a world of difference.

For every problem you can come up with I guarantee you I could find a solution. You could too if you pulled your head out of your fuking ass and stopped feeling sorry for yourself.
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Originally Posted By NotANun21⏩
I think I do have some sort of hormone problem, I had real bad acne in my late teens which was treated with accutane which permanently shrinks pores just so it never makes it to the surface - it masks the acne the hormone problem could still be there underneath I just wouldn't know now

And wouldn't you know, I couldn't get a referral to see an endocrinologist whatever I did, every doctors visit they just pawned me off with antibiotics and eventually accutane - never got my bloods done beyond a liver function test to cover their asses with the accutane

The NHS fcks me right off man it does
Yeah accutane would only make your skin look better, it doesn't treat any underlying hormonal issues. It may even make them worse, it can fck up testosterone levels for example. Try getting to an endo again man
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I'm glad the misc isn't lying to you. I'm in a similar place, and all I can say is that sitting still and letting life pass by will do nothing. You have to take action. You have to invest in yourself, get out in nature everyday, schedule appointments with docs when you can, and set some goals. The worst thing you can do is further isolate yourself completely and just hope things will magically improve.

People have beaten depression, and although it looks dark now, you just have to try your best and work on changing your life and perceptions of it. Volunteer if you have free-time and want to feel like you are making a difference. I feel that suicide is indeed always an option, but you best try your very best and exhaust all your options before doing something so drastic. Seeing a therapist that gels with you, and gettin outside everyday is a good start. Maybe start the day off by taking a walk outside

Good luck bro
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Originally Posted By NotANun21⏩
and I think I'm starting to accept that it never will
on top of that, you're British...........man
I walk amongst you.......but I am not one of you.
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Originally Posted By UnclRuckus⏩
You're doing it again man. I beat depression, other people did it too. I just fuking told you of an almost foolproof way to cure it, you ignored that and started blabbering about how your parents aren't there for you. Boo fuking hoo. You know how many people don't have parents and still manage to make something of themselves? All you see is problems, I present you with a solution and you ignore that because you're too busy justifying giving up cause you're too much of a fuking pussy to try and do something about it.

All your posts reek of "someone help me". Well guess what? No one cares. No one can help you brah. You gotta do it yourself, that's the only way it'll happen. You want a doctor to cure you from being an alcoholic fuk up? Good luck with that son.

I'm not rich. My parents arent rich. And you know what? The better I feel, the happier I get, the less I give a fuk about money. You've got it all wrong man. Your lens is warped. You don't see the world in front of you properly. You gotta stop focusing on the obstacles and start thinking about your possibilities instead.

Stop making fuking excuses and man up you little pansy

Edit: If you do have a hormone problem, there's private blood tests you can have run for a couple hundred. They'll check out your hormone balance and there's no need for a referral. Take that and post it on a dark side cell tech forum. They know what your levels should be. If they're wonky, try supplementing with some cell tech for therapeutic reasons. That can make a world of difference.
This man is speaking the truth but the problem is no one wants to hear the truth. You aren't alone OP. It's the defeatist mindset that's killing you, constantly victimizing yourself for sympathy, ignoring all legitimate advice given instead of bettering yourself. Go talk to a counselor or something (srs) because nobody likes a whiny lil bish, it kills the vibe for everyone else. Go seek professional medical assistance if it's a hormonal or chemical imbalance issue. Start off your day with a jog/run right when you wake up, first step is always the hardest, 5-10 minutes in, you'll be hooked up on runner's high, endorphins. (srs)

I've been through that road as well. I was not rich, overweight, and my parents were never around during my childhood, not an excuse. I was lost, neglected, depressed, and victimized myself too. Now with a dream job, volunteer on the side, and a gf.
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Originally Posted By NotANun21⏩
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On the right...
lmfao din

You play any instruments, mate? I know I can get lost in my guitar for hours when I get proper fukked up.

EDIT: Also might wanna post in the depression thread to avoid *******s taking the piss out of you.
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Originally Posted By VocelLoser⏩
lmfao din

You play any instruments, mate? I know I can get lost in my guitar for hours when I get proper fukked up.

EDIT: Also might wanna post in the depression thread to avoid *******s taking the piss out of you.
Nah I own a guitar but I never really learned how to play it beyond a few basic songs

I wanna learn piano I think I'd be more suited for that I got huge hands, drums I think are cool too it'd be a good way to get all this anger out and it might put some muscle back on me
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Originally Posted By NotANun21⏩
Nah I own a guitar but I never really learned how to play it beyond a few basic songs

I wanna learn piano I think I'd be more suited for that I got huge hands, drums I think are cool too it'd be a good way to get all this anger out and it might put some muscle back on me
srs fuk with some instruments, mate. Kills time, can see progression, is fun as FUK and actually does change your brain (srs, musicians have different brains than non-musicians) - no need to 'microdose' and meditate, either.
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Originally Posted By VocelLoser⏩
srs fuk with some instruments, mate. Kills time, can see progression, is fun as FUK and actually does change your brain (srs, musicians have different brains than non-musicians) - no need to 'microdose' and meditate, either.
Yeah i didn't get that either, claims to be fixed but it sounds like he just picked a different poison or two - I don't know what to believe... I think most people on here are at least a lil messed up though, it's a hard hole to get out of

When I got some spare cash I'll see if I can pick up a keyboard and go from there, I've been considering it for a while I'm always mirin those guys who can sit down at a public piano and play something other than chinese chopsticks lmao
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Originally Posted By UnclRuckus⏩
I know what being depressed is like man. Lifting is good but it's not gonna do that much for your mental health if you're genuinely in trouble. Cardio has a much bigger effect on mental well being though.

If you genuinely can't get therapy then you need to ingest some forbidden substances and start meditating. There are lots of studies about how psychoactive supplements under the right circumstances can cure depression. Can't get into the specifics without gestapo mods assraping me but google and the prime minister has all the info you need.

Changing your mind isn't something simple, it requires massive amounts of introspection, time and effort, and you'll probably need to face some harsh truths about yourself.

But even the most well-balanced person can't be happy if your entire life is in disarray so you need to sort yourself the fuk out. Make a plan for how to improve your situation. The first thing you should do is quit drinking. I can't believe you're bitching and moaning about being a fuk-up if you're an alcoholic. No chit brah.

Look, every time you post all you're doing is explaining why you can't change. As long as that's your attitude then there's no hope for you. Your focus and perception makes up your entire world. If you focus on the reasons why you should be miserable then that's all you're gonna see and then you'll be miserable. What do you want us to say? "oh you're right there truly is no hope". Fuk that chit, the world is full of people who are much worse off than you and yet manage to be happy. Either do something about it or just kill yourself already, it's not gonna work itself out on it's own.
Originally Posted By UnclRuckus⏩
You're doing it again man. I beat depression, other people did it too. I just fuking told you of an almost foolproof way to cure it, you ignored that and started blabbering about how your parents aren't there for you. Boo fuking hoo. You know how many people don't have parents and still manage to make something of themselves? All you see is problems, I present you with a solution and you ignore that because you're too busy justifying giving up cause you're too much of a fuking pussy to try and do something about it.

All your posts reek of "someone help me". Well guess what? No one cares. No one can help you brah. You gotta do it yourself, that's the only way it'll happen. You want a doctor to cure you from being an alcoholic fuk up? Good luck with that son.

I'm not rich. My parents arent rich. And you know what? The better I feel, the happier I get, the less I give a fuk about money. You've got it all wrong man. Your lens is warped. You don't see the world in front of you properly. You gotta stop focusing on the obstacles and start thinking about your possibilities instead.

Stop making fuking excuses and man up you little pansy

Edit: If you do have a hormone problem, there's private blood tests you can have run for a couple hundred. They'll check out your hormone balance and there's no need for a referral. Take that and post it on a dark side cell tech forum. They know what your levels should be. If they're wonky, try supplementing with some cell tech for therapeutic reasons. That can make a world of difference.

For every problem you can come up with I guarantee you I could find a solution. You could too if you pulled your head out of your fuking ass and stopped feeling sorry for yourself.
You're not helping man.

You need to stfu tbh.
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Originally Posted By NotANun21⏩
Yeah i didn't get that either, claims to be fixed but it sounds like he just picked a different poison or two - I don't know what to believe... I think most people on here are at least a lil messed up though, it's a hard hole to get out of

When I got some spare cash I'll see if I can pick up a keyboard and go from there, I've been considering it for a while I'm always mirin those guys who can sit down at a public piano and play something other than chinese chopsticks lmao
If you didn't get it maybe you should have asked for clarification instead of just dismissing it. It's not about microdosing, that's something completely different. I don't do any drugs except for a bottle of wine with a girl every now and then.

You do it once and the effects last you anywhere between 3 months to 2 years. That's not how I did it, although it was a big help. It might have been the catalyst I needed to start myself on a better path, but the lasting effect was from my change in perspective and mindset. It's one of the few things that are recognized to have the potential to cause lasting personality change in adults (the others being massive trauma, loss of loved ones or major life events such as having a child, moving to a new country, changing careers).

If you're interested there are about a million scientific studies on it. The therapeutic effects are well known and recognized in the medical community. It's been making the rounds in the news lately too. This has been known since at least the fifties when it was a staple in many therapists arsenals, but the FDA banned these substances saying they had no therapeutic effects because of big pharma. Getting people to shove pills down their throats every day is a lot more profitable than something you take once or twice and then you're cured. Go figure.

Research has been banned for decades but they've started lifting bans so the knowledge is starting to spread again. If you're interested I can explain the mechanisms behind it more in-depth. Given your hopeless situation it seems like you'd wanna look into anything that might help but what the fuk do I know.

By all means pick up an instrument if you feel like it but I think it'll take more than that. I'm trying to help you but to me it seems like you're looking for an easy answer. Sorry brah, there isn't one. You're in a deep hole and it's gonna take some serious climbing to get out.

If all you want is sympathy then I'll leave the thread but that chit isn't gonna help you one fuking bit and deep down you know it.

Meditation is also universally recognized as the most effective path to happiness. There is roughly 7,000 years of anecdotal evidence and tradition as well as extremely rigorous scientific studies clearly demonstrating extremely significant changes to both mental and physical well being.
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OP - here is the one and only legitimate advice you should follow. Listen to uncle Capp now:-

Step1) Book appointment with Dr
Step2) See Dr, and tell him/her how you have been feeling. They will recommend what to do. Be it medication or being referred to a professional.
Step3) Stop listening to these misc idiots who are telling you to 'man up or kill yourself' or 'take psychedellics'. If you do the latter you could end up much worse. Google Syd Barrett.

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Originally Posted By BustaCapp⏩
OP - here is the one and only legitimate advice you should follow. Listen to uncle Capp now:-

Step1) Book appointment with Dr
Step2) See Dr, and tell him/her how you have been feeling. They will recommend what to do. Be it medication or being referred to a professional.
Step3) Stop listening to these misc idiots who are telling you to 'man up or kill yourself' or 'take psychedellics'. If you do the latter you could end up much worse. Google Syd Barrett.

/thread
You're not helping man.

You need to stfu tbh.
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp⏩
OP - here is the one and only legitimate advice you should follow. Listen to uncle Capp now:-

Step1) Book appointment with Dr
Step2) See Dr, and tell him/her how you have been feeling. They will recommend what to do. Be it medication or being referred to a professional.
Step3) Stop listening to these misc idiots who are telling you to 'man up or kill yourself' or 'take psychedellics'. If you do the latter you could end up much worse. Google Syd Barrett.

/thread
People have been telling him to see a therapist for months, he won't do it. Of course he should try that first but that's clearly not an option.

He's at the end of the rope, going for a bike ride isn't gonna cut it here mailman. He could end up much worse but most people end up much better. If he does nothing he'll become a statistic. The worst thing he can do is do nothing.
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Lol came in to say seeing a therapist and getting on anti depressant meds is probably the worst advice you could follow. But hey, I've seen plenty of people on them who seem positive only to have a massive mental breakdown every now and then, so if you think the "medicated" life is for you go for it breh
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Originally Posted By quadfecta⏩
Lol came in to say seeing a therapist and getting on anti depressant meds is probably the worst advice you could follow. But hey, I've seen plenty of people on them who seem positive only to have a massive mental breakdown every now and then, so if you think the "medicated" life is for you go for it breh
I think anti-depressants can work as a last resort. They can bring you out of a rut and give the energy required to make some positive changes to lifestyle, that can turn a bad situation around which in the long run will help with the cause of the depression. But it requires a lot of insight and effort into building a sustainable lifestyle, and a plan to taper off them in the near future.

However you can also just get CBT or equivalent without the drugs which can be very beneficial.
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Originally Posted By TimboSlice36⏩
You're not helping man.

You need to stfu tbh.


You're not helping man.

You need a wig, reconstructive surgery, deodorant and a decent shower tbh.
Originally Posted By UnclRuckus⏩
People have been telling him to see a therapist for months, he won't do it. Of course he should try that first but that's clearly not an option.

He's at the end of the rope, going for a bike ride isn't gonna cut it here mailman. He could end up much worse but most people end up much better. If he does nothing he'll become a statistic. The worst thing he can do is do nothing.
I'm not talking about contacting a therapist.

I'm talking about contacting an actual Dr with qualifications who can tell OP what to do instead of some miscer.

And of course it's an option. He can get an appointment on Monday morning.

Edit: Also please don't underestimate physical exercise as a therapy for depression. Even 5 minutes of intense exercise bike can lift mood tremendously.
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Hey,

I don't know you too well or your situation, but I'm gathering that you're going through some tough things right now.

I'm not gonna give advice on this one because giving advice blind doesn't help but if you wanted to talk about it in more detail, you can always pm me. I find that having someone "there with you" while you figure things out is more beneficial than superficial sympathy. In other words, it helps feeling like you're not alone in this.

The offer is there coming from one person also struggling to another. If not, I wish you the best in making the best of what you have.
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Originally Posted By quadfecta⏩
Lol came in to say seeing a therapist and getting on anti depressant meds is probably the worst advice you could follow. But hey, I've seen plenty of people on them who seem positive only to have a massive mental breakdown every now and then, so if you think the "medicated" life is for you go for it breh
It's better than sitting and doing nothing. Also meds help a lot of people function and be much less miserable. If one has tried most other things without success, meds are worth a shot. Maybe they give him the energy to get things in motion.
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp⏩
You're not helping man.

You need a wig, reconstructive surgery, deodorant and a decent shower tbh.
lol ok supreme *******. Go deliver some mail.
Logic not even...why don't you post a pic of your face so I can tell you how much you smell.
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Originally Posted By UnclRuckus⏩
I think anti-depressants can work as a last resort. They can bring you out of a rut and give the energy required to make some positive changes to lifestyle, that can turn a bad situation around which in the long run will help with the cause of the depression. But it requires a lot of insight and effort into building a sustainable lifestyle, and a plan to taper off them in the near future.

However you can also just get CBT or equivalent without the drugs which can be very beneficial.
It helps but don't rely on it. It is like a band-aid, and you're not healing the wound. My friend IRL is currently in deep depression, he's on all kinds of meds. He seems normal and energetic to most people when he's on meds 24/7, since I have known him for a long time, he's legit fked inside when he's off the meds. He had a phucked up life though, his best buddy committed suicide in high-school, divorced, list goes on, and on. "Tough love" doesn't work on everyone, he calls me to hang out when he needs a taste of it. He's legit living a medicated life, don't be this person OP. It's like being an addict...

TL;DR

- OP you're not alone
- Seek professional help srs
- Don't rely on drugs 100%
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Originally Posted By TimboSlice36⏩
lol ok supreme *******. Go deliver some mail.
Logic not even...why don't you post a pic of your face so I can tell you how much you smell.
Herp derp.
U mad?
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