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post 1519214041 09-12-2017, 03:50 PM
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Its cuz ur 20. You cant help what other people do. If they wanna be cringy/try hards, let them. If it keeps up just stop hanging with him and and inviting him.

Also if anyone ever says stuff like that again, dont feed into it. Just have a fatherly face kinda confused look and be like "sure" "cool..." "...ok..." And chit like that. It shuts it down fast.
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post 1519214171 09-12-2017, 03:52 PM
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I absolutely despise brahs like this and I actually went NC on a guy I used to call a friend. It's absolutely pathetic what guys like this sound and act like when a piece of poon is within proximity. Your situation is actually favourable for you since he's not even your friend. So phuckin roast his Norwood ass.
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post 1519215791 09-12-2017, 04:09 PM
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Happened to me years ago and i called him out infront of everyone and said "you only do it when your friends are around" he just looked and went red knowing that he got found out lol.
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post 1519216311 09-12-2017, 04:15 PM
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Originally Posted By 97Camry4Lyfe⏩
Basically a guy who's not my friend but in my friend group is casually insulting me but only when there are women around. I feel he is doing this in an attempt to amog me or something like that. I pulled him to the side and asked him to stop but he said it was all fun and games and he doesn't really mean any of it so I said whatever man.

Let me give you an example. Me and my buddies were chilling at our apartment with a few girls and I walk in, the first thing he says is "hey look, its my favorite kunt again" and everyone laughs it off(we're not Australian btw). I just shrug and go about the day. Or when we went to the movies and I said I didn't want to watch a certain movie he said "haha your such a scared little **** for not want to see that". Keep in mind this was around some girls we brought with us.

Its just peculiar to me that hes really nice and friendly when we are with our bros but around women he casually throws out offensive things to me

I'm not sure if I should say something or if I'm being too much of a hard ass and should let it go as banter.
I had a buddy in college that used to do stuff like this as kind of a male chit test. He was an alpha male in our peer group, but i wouldn't of called him the leader. You either have to be witty and play the game back (which it doesn't sound like you're that type of person), shame him, or tactfully call him out.

The right facial expression, or a cheeky knocking his hat off his head, or back handed compliment can work.


If you don't lay the smack down on these people right from the get go ... they're just going to ride you. Honestly, it sounds like you probably have chitty friends since nobody is sticking up for you.


My brother had a guy do stuff like this to him in high school. He pulled the guy to the side after one class, threw him to the ground, hit him a few times, and threatened to really kick his a55 if he didn't shut the f up. Dude didn't say another word after that. That kind of maneuver only really works on punks that cower in fear when confronted.
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post 1519216881 09-12-2017, 04:20 PM
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Stopped reading at first sentence, " guy who is not my friend in friend group" son wtf
post 1519218881 09-12-2017, 04:41 PM
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the fact that grown men in their 30s are posting long replies here as if this is some big deal reminds me why i stopped coming here

men bust each others balls, deal with it sooner rather than later. if he's being an extra prick at this party, just bust his balls first early on so you can get it out of the way. don't be all insecure and weird like the rest of this fugging pathetic forum jesus christ get a life guys

*edit.. if you're so concerned i'll be nice and give a tip since im an introvert too. get yourself revved up from the start and prepared to go the distance. if you catch him or anyone off guard they dont have the adrenaline response fast enough to do anything. come to the party amped with adrenaline, make an insult until he knows his place then just chill
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post 1519219061 09-12-2017, 04:42 PM
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Originally Posted By MajesticBeat⏩
I absolutely despise brahs like this and I actually went NC on a guy I used to call a friend. It's absolutely pathetic what guys like this sound and act like when a piece of poon is within proximity. Your situation is actually favourable for you since he's not even your friend. So phuckin roast his Norwood ass.
This 100%, it's one of the most pathetic things a friendo can do to another.

You know what that means op? Your not friends like at all, even if you get him to stop that won't change what kind of person he is. Tell him to his face that you don't see him as a "bro" and if he continues to insult you infront of girls you will treat him like you would any other kunt that isn't your friend and is insulting you. Also you need to show anger and reply when he insults you infront of company other wise it shows that you accept being beneath him in terms of self worth and that is damaging to your image.
post 1519219631 09-12-2017, 04:50 PM
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Originally Posted By Podunks⏩
Next time he does it, nonchalantly same something along these lines: "Hey bro, you're good people, so there's no reason to act so insecure." Then shake your head a bit and go about your business.

Hit him with the backhanded compliment, and you will still come out on top in the perception department.


Also liked the suggestion of calling him out that he only does that in front of people. Get his bald head to blush up real red and he won't do it again.
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post 1519220111 09-12-2017, 04:57 PM
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go lift a weight and he won't disrespect you like that
post 1519220271 09-12-2017, 04:58 PM
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Know a dude like this. Called him out in front of a group of people straight up and he looked like a child; next time our friend group made dinner he brought my food to me while I was sitting I sh*t you not.
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post 1519220591 09-12-2017, 05:02 PM
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post 1519221741 09-12-2017, 05:15 PM
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in after OP continues to be bullied by a random guy in his social friend and ends up going nc on whole group
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post 1519235041 09-12-2017, 07:42 PM
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"Well the jerk store called and they're running out of you"

use it.
post 1519236081 09-12-2017, 07:53 PM
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Originally Posted By shoelaces⏩
There is no reason to come up with something witty. Just tell him straight up infront of everyone to shut his fat balding mouth and slap the hat off his head. You gotta shut down them HARD or they will keep coming at you. Rather have people think I'm a dick for a few days and let it pass then constantly trying to one up some prick everytime I run into them.
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This is why your a fa autist level 10000

Try this op

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post 1519236351 09-12-2017, 07:56 PM
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Stopped reading at "We are all 5 foot 8"

Have one of your friends that is the height of a real man pat both of you on the head and it should shut both you little kids up
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post 1519236771 09-12-2017, 08:00 PM
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Sounds like the actual problem is that you are unassertive.
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