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post 1520755231 09-27-2017, 04:46 PM
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Girlfriend gets pissed because I don't tip at restaurants, what do?

I believe the tipping culture in this country is retarded (like most other things in this country) and think it's ridiculous someone gets 20% for dropping off a plate of food, filing my water one time, then texting on their cell phone in the corner the rest of the time. This is what happened tonight, and I didn't leave any tip. My girlfriend was embarrassed and ended up leaving cash on the table.

Where the hell did this automatic 20% come from? If you dont make enough money, get a real job.
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post 1520755341 09-27-2017, 04:47 PM
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If the person did not deserve the tip then I agree, but if they provided an excellent service then of course tip.
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post 1520755461 09-27-2017, 04:48 PM
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post 1520755561 09-27-2017, 04:48 PM
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petty chit to be angry about, would leave gf srs
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post 1520755591 09-27-2017, 04:49 PM
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Originally Posted By InVentive44
If the person did not deserve the tip then I agree, but if they provided an excellent service then of course tip.
the point is, is it something to get angry about?
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After watching Reservoir Dogs, I only tip the ones that truly deserve it.
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post 1520755811 09-27-2017, 04:52 PM
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dont be an *******. tip 15% if service sucks 20+% if its good
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post 1520755891 09-27-2017, 04:52 PM
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Originally Posted By jackamo2887
I believe the tipping culture in this country is retarded (like most other things in this country) and think it's ridiculous someone gets 20% for dropping off a plate of food, filing my water one time, then texting on their cell phone in the corner the rest of the time. This is what happened tonight, and I didn't leave any tip. My girlfriend was embarrassed and ended up leaving cash on the table.

Where the hell did this automatic 20% come from? If you dont make enough money, get a real job.
Then move to a country where they don't tip, you potato.
post 1520755901 09-27-2017, 04:53 PM
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tell that kunt to pull out her wallet if she wants to tip so bad
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post 1520755921 09-27-2017, 04:53 PM
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Originally Posted By dimassive
the point is, is it something to get angry about?
Most definitely not. Tipping is subjective and based on everyone's personal opinion.
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post 1520755971 09-27-2017, 04:53 PM
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post 1520756001 09-27-2017, 04:54 PM
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Not tipping is BS unless the service is really poor. If I were your date I would have left cash too.

Sometimes the kitchen is slow/in the weeds, but a good server will keep checking in with you.

OTOH if your food takes forever and then arrives cold? Then I tend to think my server left it sitting.

If you don't want to tip then don't eat at places where a tip is expected.
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post 1520756121 09-27-2017, 04:55 PM
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How about you eat at home then you cheap fuking *******
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post 1520756191 09-27-2017, 04:56 PM
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Originally Posted By Fuqdatass
How about you eat at home then you cheap fuking *******
I pay the bill, why should I pay extra for literally nothing? Please explain it.

When my friends and I go out, we never tip. Same with bars. Brb you want a dollar for cracking a can of beer? negative.
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post 1520756341 09-27-2017, 04:58 PM
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post 1520756371 09-27-2017, 04:58 PM
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Originally Posted By MediocreGains
Then move to a country where they don't tip, you potato.
It would be simpler if he just went to a restaurant where he can get off his ass and plate his own food.....like a buffett.

Op, if you don't want to tip don't, but don't start ranting like a a butthurt beta. Being a server is a real job even if you don't think so.

Go somewhere you can serve yourself it is such a big deal.
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Originally Posted By jackamo2887
I pay the bill, why should I pay extra for literally nothing? Please explain it.

When my friends and I go out, we never tip. Same with bars. Brb you want a dollar for cracking a can of beer? negative.
Never mind you're just trolling. Fist yourself. Make a circumcision thread next if this one doesn't get enough action
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post 1520756431 09-27-2017, 04:58 PM
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Been over seas where you dont have to tip service was crap. France and Italy bring a book. If I was your girl I'd leave you. She can expect a ringpop wedding ring with your cheap ass.
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Originally Posted By InVentive44
If the person did not deserve the tip then I agree, but if they provided an excellent service then of course tip.
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Me and my boys would go to a TGIF for Monday Night Football last season for an endless apps happy hour. Our waitress was very attentive, never charged us for drinks, hooked us with free soda, salad or soup, and had our table set aside for us right when we walked in. The app was like $10 and I would give her a $10 tip. I wasn't attracted to her at all but great service should be rewarded. Waiters hourly wage nationally is $5. I understand not wanting to reward someone providing poverty service. But to shaft all waiters regardless of performance is a super douche move.
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Originally Posted By halfbreedbrah
Been over seas where you dont have to tip service was crap. France and Italy bring a book. If I was your girl I'd leave you. She can expect a ringpop wedding ring with your cheap ass.
So service was crap and they got nothing.

Service was crap here and they get 20%

Makes sense you potato.
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I have no data and am not interested in searching for it, but I would assume that American restaurant prices are comparatively lower than those of countries that don't have a "retarded tipping culture." Tips allow the owners to pay their wait staff less, which keeps their overhead cost down. I assume that gets passed on to the customer. Can anyone confirm?
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Originally Posted By jackamo2887
I pay the bill, why should Ipay extra for literally nothing?Please explain it.

When my friends and I go out, we never tip. Same with bars. Brb you want a dollar for cracking a can of beer? negative.
How do you feel about people that tip tattoo artists?
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If she's pissed about you not giving tip, then give her the tip, nomsayin
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Just throw them a few bucks. Something is better than nothing.

20% is excessive bull**** and only virtue-signaling bull****ers tip that.
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Originally Posted By jackamo2887
So service was crap and they got nothing.

Service was crap here and they get 20%

Makes sense you potato.
She brought you your food,refilled your water. What do you want a massage? Leave 1 dollar if it's that bad.

Edit Saw you don't tip ever. Your either a troll or a POS
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Originally Posted By PeaceWithin
How do you feel about people that tip tattoo artists?
Again, stupid.

I am paying for a service. Why should I pay more? Because he did a good job? That is what I am paying for in the first place..for the artist to do a good job.
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