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Just turned 40 bros...and life is peaking!
11-07-2017, 05:07 AM
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Originally Posted By ChiefRocka⏩
Well said!Even though I never had a girl I really felt I could make that commitment to, it was more by design. I was always big on my freedom and enjoyed bachelorism tremendously. I like coming and going as I please, not having to answer to anyone, not being tied down and so on. I got me a great GF now and still don't feel much more desire to get married or have kids but perhaps it will change.
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Originally Posted By ChiefRocka⏩
Always pass on what you have learned.I could go on for days homie but if this is a "what would I say to my younger self" the things I would say for each of those you mentioned:
Career - Go with your GUT and do not stay in your comfort zone. If you feel a job is not right for you, it isn't. Move on and don't be afraid to take risks.
Exercise - Never let yourself get too out of shape at any point because it would be much harder to stay fit when you get older. Try and stay in the same 10 pound range as much as you can.
Women - This is a big one...do not lose yourself to a woman and do not put women on a pedestal. Looking back I wasted way too much time on unworthy women and all it did was take away from my time and happiness.
Career - Go with your GUT and do not stay in your comfort zone. If you feel a job is not right for you, it isn't. Move on and don't be afraid to take risks.
Exercise - Never let yourself get too out of shape at any point because it would be much harder to stay fit when you get older. Try and stay in the same 10 pound range as much as you can.
Women - This is a big one...do not lose yourself to a woman and do not put women on a pedestal. Looking back I wasted way too much time on unworthy women and all it did was take away from my time and happiness.
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11-07-2017, 05:25 AM
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lol who let their dad have access to the misc?
11-07-2017, 05:44 AM
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11-07-2017, 05:51 AM
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11-07-2017, 10:38 AM
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I'm 31 and agree life has improved tremendously. Need to focus on developing yourself you'll remain sharp.
Only thing that I feel like I lack nowadays is male companionship. No homo. I have many close friends but they are scattered around the world. Talk often but only get to do a true mans hangout couple times a year. I feel like male championship and doing male activities are really important in life. I focus mainly on my work, health, businesses and relationships with gf/family. But I yourn for a nice clean penis (metaphorically) once in a while.
Also responsibility sucks but you learn to kick it's ass eventually and it becomes a good challenge.
Only thing that I feel like I lack nowadays is male companionship. No homo. I have many close friends but they are scattered around the world. Talk often but only get to do a true mans hangout couple times a year. I feel like male championship and doing male activities are really important in life. I focus mainly on my work, health, businesses and relationships with gf/family. But I yourn for a nice clean penis (metaphorically) once in a while.
Also responsibility sucks but you learn to kick it's ass eventually and it becomes a good challenge.
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11-07-2017, 10:44 AM
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11-07-2017, 12:42 PM
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Originally Posted By GriecoR⏩
Truth.I'm 31 and agree life has improved tremendously. Need to focus on developing yourself you'll remain sharp.
Only thing that I feel like I lack nowadays is male companionship. No homo. I have many close friends but they are scattered around the world. Talk often but only get to do a true mans hangout couple times a year. I feel like male championship and doing male activities are really important in life. I focus mainly on my work, health, businesses and relationships with gf/family. But I yourn for a nice clean penis (metaphorically) once in a while.
Also responsibility sucks but you learn to kick it's ass eventually and it becomes a good challenge.
Only thing that I feel like I lack nowadays is male companionship. No homo. I have many close friends but they are scattered around the world. Talk often but only get to do a true mans hangout couple times a year. I feel like male championship and doing male activities are really important in life. I focus mainly on my work, health, businesses and relationships with gf/family. But I yourn for a nice clean penis (metaphorically) once in a while.
Also responsibility sucks but you learn to kick it's ass eventually and it becomes a good challenge.
When I turned 40 I remember being 24 and being unable to see this far ahead. When you're 24, you feel like you're 24 forever. Part of this post was to show some people that aging is unavoidable and your mind will feel better, more secure and happier and that aging does not rot your body so rapidly in the way that the industry wants you to to believe it does. Def gets more difficult to maintain or add muscle but it's just another challenge that you need to rise up to.
I'm shocked at all the questions about TRT because I'm 40. This really shows how much of a pipe dream supplement and pharmaceutical companies are selling people. Not to mention the broscience that happens on forums. Test does not plummet with age the way they make you think it does. Most healthy men who are fit, stay active, eat right and supplement will NEVER need TRT. If you have been cycling AAS for 15 years with few breaks in between, well then that's a different story...
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11-08-2017, 09:14 PM
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Do you guys REALLY want to still be out drinking and picking up girls at clubs at 40? jeez I'm just about 30 and done with that crap. Misc will never grow up
11-08-2017, 09:24 PM
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11-08-2017, 09:27 PM
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Originally Posted By Koreaesthetics⏩
Lol pretty much. My worst nightmare is being 40 and still picking up random chicks to fulfill my life.Do you guys REALLY want to still be out drinking and picking up girls at clubs at 40? jeez I'm just about 30 and done with that crap. Misc will never grow up
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11-08-2017, 10:09 PM
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Originally Posted By Koreaesthetics⏩
Do you guys REALLY want to still be out drinking and picking up girls at clubs at 40? jeez I'm just about 30 and done with that crap. Misc will never grow up
Originally Posted By Burgerbuger⏩
What's wrong with banging sloots? Y'all act like you can't have a good productive fulfilling life and pick up sloots once in a while. Are you mad he's rocking 40 better than you guys ever will, or is it something else?Lol pretty much. My worst nightmare is being 40 and still picking up random chicks to fulfill my life.
Doesn't seem like OP is only focused on picking up sloots either, nor does he drink much, so I don't get the hate.
11-08-2017, 10:26 PM
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Originally Posted By Ittoryu⏩
Its otherwise known as settling down. Despite the stylized romanticism typically associated with being a playboy in the movies, that sort of lifestyle is a sign of immaturity; and in the long run will eventually result in more physical and emotional harm than good.What's wrong with banging sloots? Y'all act like you can't have a good productive fulfilling life and pick up sloots once in a while. Are you mad he's rocking 40 better than you guys ever will, or is it something else?
Doesn't seem like OP is only focused on picking up sloots either, nor does he drink much, so I don't get the hate.
Doesn't seem like OP is only focused on picking up sloots either, nor does he drink much, so I don't get the hate.
Most guys recognize these types of one-night stands won't endure and eventually move to a more permanent relationships by the time they approach 30.
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11-09-2017, 12:22 AM
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11-09-2017, 10:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Burgerbuger⏩
At 40 you will realize that you've spent years and years thinking that banging sloots will fulfill your life but it actually fulfills NOTHING.My worst nightmare is being 40 and still picking up random chicks to fulfill my life.
Banging sloots is fun. It's instinctually exciting. It fulfills sexual desires. But it will never:
Make you happy.
Make you secure.
Make you feel accomplished.
I've got pretty high numbers man, and I can brag about how many sloots I've banged but I don't feel any better about myself because of it. How many chics I've banged means more to the men that feel banging sloots actually proves something than it means to me.
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11-09-2017, 10:35 PM
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Originally Posted By KRANE⏩
Very well said! Some men will realize it sooner than later, others will take longer to make that connection.Its otherwise known as settling down. Despite the stylized romanticism typically associated with being a playboy in the movies, that sort of lifestyle is a sign of immaturity; and in the long run will eventually result in more physical and emotional harm than good.
Most guys recognize these types of one-night stands won't endure and eventually move to a more permanent relationships by the time they approach 30.
Most guys recognize these types of one-night stands won't endure and eventually move to a more permanent relationships by the time they approach 30.
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11-09-2017, 10:39 PM
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Originally Posted By Ittoryu⏩
Right. Picking up sloots will be fun until age 70 but def not fulfilling. Every time I get the urge to bang one of my old side chics I try to remind myself that I've been there, done that and it's pointless. It's still tempting and still takes control to not do however.Doesn't seem like OP is only focused on picking up sloots either, nor does he drink much, so I don't get the hate.
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11-11-2017, 05:20 PM
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Originally Posted By ymer⏩
Another "well thought out" misc response.Damn you're coping harder than OP.
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11-11-2017, 07:31 PM
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well, 41 here.
Only thing I regret is not having settled down yet.
Investments / savings over the last 15 years have come to fruition and make $5 - $10k off them a month passively. Then I have my job.
Still good looking, youthful and athletic, have more chicks I than I can schedule, some of them half my age. Life seems somewhat surreal, makes it hard to think about settling down.
Only thing I regret is not having settled down yet.
Investments / savings over the last 15 years have come to fruition and make $5 - $10k off them a month passively. Then I have my job.
Still good looking, youthful and athletic, have more chicks I than I can schedule, some of them half my age. Life seems somewhat surreal, makes it hard to think about settling down.
11-11-2017, 09:20 PM
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Looking good OP!
I’m 39; but I have kids, the house in the burbs etc. I have a bunch of nagging injuries so I kinda old some days, but on the plus side I’m lucky enough to finally have a bit of money to spend on toys/hobbies.
Anyway, good job brah
I’m 39; but I have kids, the house in the burbs etc. I have a bunch of nagging injuries so I kinda old some days, but on the plus side I’m lucky enough to finally have a bit of money to spend on toys/hobbies.
Anyway, good job brah
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11-11-2017, 09:29 PM
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Originally Posted By ChiefRocka⏩
Welcome to team 4K.Just turned 40 bros...and life is peaking!
Life is good, could not pay me to go back.
Eat in a deficit to lose weight.
Hit your protein and fat minimums to stay healthy and keep your gainz.
Lift heavy and do HIIT to look and feel awesome.
Use the internet to learn why you should do these things and how to do these things.
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