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post 1534042881 11-09-2017, 11:49 AM
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Marriage . . . nah.

That is how you end up as some old cuck whose wife either duty fukks you or loses interest entirely while likely lusting after real men.

Sloot life all day.
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Originally Posted By LaughingStorm
Marriage . . . nah.

That is how you end up as some old cuck whose wife either duty fukks you or loses interest entirely while likely lusting after real men.

Sloot life all day.
I would never want to date a man who hasn't been in a long term relationship because I'd be thinking...oh, this guy has been single all his life but he probably has had sex the whole time.

So, how many women has he fuked in those twenty years? How many strains of HPV does he have by now?

Nope thanks Jeff.
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Originally Posted By niw
sign prenup ..profit?
no, because prenups only count for possessions accrued before you were married. If you get married and buy a new car a house and a couple of ATV's that chit is getting split if not all of it going to her.

You either keep her barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen where she'll eventually leave because you have to work a lot under a one income household and you're "never around", or you marry a professional that may make equal if not more money than you but will still leave because she knows she has options outside of her marriage if she gets tired of you.

The only way I can see marriage working is if you were born in a time before social media, or if you BOTH put in 60:40 into the relationship and not 50:50. By that I mean you put in 60% of work and onlyexpect40% in return.
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Originally Posted By Cass40
I would never want to date a man who hasn't been in a long term relationship because I'd be thinking...oh, this guy has been single all his life but he probably has had sex the whole time.
The whole time? Nah, we find a few free minutes to go to work and get some other random chit done
Originally Posted By Cass40
So, how many women has he fuked in those twenty years?
All of them.
Originally Posted By Cass40
How many strains of HPV does he have by now?
All of them.

Sure beats the hell out of making fukking a chore that one or both parties will soon grow weary of.
post 1534044841 11-09-2017, 12:09 PM
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Originally Posted By Cass40
Why?
Hm...lol
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Originally Posted By Fang2
Hm...lol
Okay..hmm..lol back.
post 1534045091 11-09-2017, 12:12 PM
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^^^^
Originally Posted By LaughingStorm
The whole time? Nah, we find a few free minutes to go to work and get some other random chit done



All of them.



All of them.

Sure beats the hell out of making fukking a chore that one or both parties will soon grow weary of.
Preach.
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Originally Posted By LaughingStorm
Sure beats the hell out of making fukking a chore that one or both parties will soon grow weary of.
Oh it isn't just the fukking...but the emotional aspect of it. Good thing there is the internet, that way you can meet other disgruntled married people, flirt online and exchange texts all while your SO is none the wiser.

But hey, I learned something on the misc today...that it is bad for a guy to do that, but perfectly okay for a woman to do the exact same thing. Don't get it.
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post 1534045281 11-09-2017, 12:14 PM
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Originally Posted By LaughingStorm
The whole time? Nah, we find a few free minutes to go to work and get some other random chit done



All of them.



All of them.

Sure beats the hell out of making fukking a chore that one or both parties will soon grow weary of.
Groce. I'd rather grow weary of fukin than live that life.
post 1534045401 11-09-2017, 12:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Artemis00
Oh it isn't just the fukking...but the emotional aspect of it. Good thing there is the internet, that way you can meet other disgruntled married people, flirt online and exchange texts all while your SO is none the wiser.

But hey, I learned something on the misc today...that it is bad for a guy to do that, but perfectly okay for a woman to do the exact same thing. Don't get it.
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post 1534045461 11-09-2017, 12:16 PM
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Originally Posted By WutangFlex732
The constant thought of divorce or your wife trying to come after everything you worked for is daunting. Any day can be the day where she just snaps and calls everything off.
Because my wife is literally revolted at the thought of doing something like that.


Once when we were dating, she asked me what my biggest fear was and I said death. I asked her and she said divorce, srs. Plus she is worth as much as me, and has never slept with anyone else. Feelzgoodmane.
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post 1534045641 11-09-2017, 12:17 PM
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Originally Posted By Maestro
....but everyone that gets married thinks that. If they didn't think they married the right or good person then they wouldn't have gotten married.
Not at all. Most people marry with red flags all over the place then wonder why things didn't work out. Best advice for those who want to tie the knot, go see a marriage counselor prior to getting married.
post 1534045881 11-09-2017, 12:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Artemis00
Oh it isn't just the fukking...but the emotional aspect of it. Good thing there is the internet, that way you can meet other disgruntled married people, flirt online and exchange texts all while your SO is none the wiser.
Now that is groce.
Originally Posted By Cass40
Groce. I'd rather grow weary of fukin than live that life.
Nah, there are blood tests and protection to guard against STDs that intelligent and responsible people can use.

But to turn one of life's great pleasures into drudgery. That is no life worth living.
post 1534046871 11-09-2017, 12:33 PM
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Originally Posted By LaughingStorm
Now that is groce.



Nah, there are blood tests and protection to guard against STDs that intelligent and responsible people can use.

But to turn one of life's great pleasures into drudgery. That is no life worth living.
How do you know if you've never been married what it would be like?
post 1534047031 11-09-2017, 12:34 PM
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I think that what Artemis is trying to say is that there are some married female miscers who constantly flirt with miscers, yet they all criticize when a miscer does the same thing...so they are being hypocritical.
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post 1534047561 11-09-2017, 12:40 PM
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Originally Posted By Fang2
I think that what Artemis is trying to say is that there are some married female miscers who constantly flirt with miscers, yet they all criticize when a miscer does the same thing...so they are being hypocritical.
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post 1534047651 11-09-2017, 12:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Fang2
I think that what Artemis is trying to say is that there are some married female miscers who constantly flirt with miscers, yet they all criticize when a miscer does the same thing...so they are being hypocritical.
Nope. I said that I disagree with jaymez that if you have developed feels that you can continue to be "friends" with that person. I just have never seen that work before but maybe he can I don't know.
post 1534047961 11-09-2017, 12:44 PM
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Originally Posted By LaughingStorm
Nah, there are blood tests and protection to guard against STDs that intelligent and responsible people can use.
LOL at people thinking being married protects them from STDs...if anything they are at a higher risk because they don't take any necessary precautions and don't get tested because they trust that their spouse won't ever cheat on them. Granted, their spouse may not cheat...but they also might and I doubt they are going to let you know about it so you can get tested.

Given how many people do cheat that are in relationships...those are sh*t odds. LOL
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post 1534048281 11-09-2017, 12:47 PM
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Originally Posted By Artemis00
LOL at people thinking being married protects them from STDs...if anything they are at a higher risk because they don't take any necessary precautions and don't get tested because they trust that their spouse won't ever cheat on them. Granted, their spouse may not cheat...but they also might and I doubt they are going to let you know about it so you can get tested.

Given how many people do cheat that are in relationships...those are sh*t odds. LOL
Wouldn't you think the cheater will be more careful because they are afraid to being caught?
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Originally Posted By Cass40
Wouldn't you think the cheater will be more careful because they are afraid to being caught?
No, not even in the slightest. Besides how are they going to get caught if their SO isn't getting tested because they trust their SO. Many STDs may not present any symptoms so there wouldn't be a need to get tested.
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post 1534049361 11-09-2017, 12:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Artemis00
Oh it isn't just the fukking...but the emotional aspect of it. Good thing there is the internet, that way you can meet other disgruntled married people, flirt online and exchange texts all while your SO is none the wiser.

But hey, I learned something on the misc today...that it is bad for a guy to do that, but perfectly okay for a woman to do the exact same thing. Don't get it.
Nah:
Originally Posted By cookiefiend
Whoever the woman is she's deeply disrespecting her husband by continuing to communicate with jaymz also
It's also why I was so ragey at dlb, and part of the reason why I raged at sensuality, although those threads almost always ended up being deleted.
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Originally Posted By Cass40
How do you know if you've never been married what it would be like?
I am old. Those around me are almost all married, many multiple times. I do talk to and interact with married folk.

We sloots live amongst you
Originally Posted By Artemis00
LOL at people thinking being married protects them from STDs...if anything they are at a higher risk because they don't take any necessary precautions and don't get tested because they trust that their spouse won't ever cheat on them. Granted, their spouse may not cheat...but they also might and I doubt they are going to let you know about it so you can get tested.
Given how many people do cheat that are in relationships...those are sh*t odds. LOL
Truth. This also assumes your spouse had no partners before you.

Smart sloots are careful. Part of the lifestyle.
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Wouldn't you think the cheater will be more careful because they are afraid to being caught?
I think you are giving cheaters too much credit. These aren't criminal masterminds, just folks in relationships so thirsty they take any opportunity that presents itself.

A thirsty man will drink sand once he gets desperate enough.
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Originally Posted By Cass40
Wouldn't you think the cheater will be more careful because they are afraid to being caught?
How naive are you exactly? Just lol. So many people get STDs from their cheating partners
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Originally Posted By LaughingStorm
I am old. Those around me are almost all married, many multiple times. I do talk to and interact with married folk.
The thing is that your life is your life and you don't have a parallel life where there was a married laughingStorm somewhere living his life. The same way I know no other way of being since I can't compare my life to single Cass's life and determine which is better.
All I know is what I have.
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend
Nah:


It's also why I was so ragey at dlb, and part of the reason why I raged at sensuality, although those threads almost always ended up being deleted.
Well he said she doesn't entertain the idea and never will. Are we going to pretend we haven't had female miscers who were married take it a step father than just talking aka DLB, Moitlynn and the random broad who would post with her Husband here then fukked his best friend on a bed of their truck while he was passed out on a seat? Artemis is right.
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Originally Posted By TommyRO
Well he said she doesn't entertain the idea and never will. Are we going to pretend we haven't had female miscers who were married take it a step father than just talking aka DLB, Moitlynn and the random broad who would post with her Husband here then fukked his best friend on a bed of their truck while he was passed out on a seat? Artemis is right.
Already mentioned dlb, disgusted with what moti did, didn't know about the last one but that's disgusting too.

Imo keeping in contact with someone who has told you they have strong feelings for you, whether you've agreed to just be friends or not is fked up.

To be respectful to her husband she should've nc'ed him as soon as he said it, and jaymz should've at least done the same but preferably also left the forums since he now knows this is a risky place for him to be if he doesn't want to cheat, even if he didn't think that would happen in the first place.

He admits he fked up which is good, but then you have to do what you can to make it as right as you can.

It's just my opinion, but I'm pretty sure their respective spouses would agree if they knew about it.

Just pointing out that I do judge women on their actions too.
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Originally Posted By TommyRO
Well he said she doesn't entertain the idea and never will. Are we going to pretend we haven't had female miscers who were married take it a step father than just talking aka DLB, Moitlynn and the random broad who would post with her Husband here then fukked his best friend on a bed of their truck while he was passed out on a seat? Artemis is right.
I don't mind him flirting but he makes people uncomfortable.
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Originally Posted By Cass40
I don't mind him flirting but he makes people uncomfortable.
He doesn't make anyone uncomfortable according to himself. In fact, as he's stated to me numerous times, he's a chivalrous gentleman who likes to PM every woman here because that's what chivalrous gentlemen do.
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