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Thread: Sloth Thread Part XIII: Looks get you matches, game gets you smashes

post 1534531421 11-14-2017, 08:36 AM
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Originally Posted By travellingbrah⏩
She responded today saying "I was totally creepy". I don't think there's any returning from this one.
Just hard next her. No need to be wasting your time with her anymore unless you like the feeling of rejection.
I have had girls coming back like 2-3 month later and wanting to meet for a coffee that called me "creepy" before (when actually they were needy and I was just frank about wanting to bone them). Just distance yourself from her and move on.
post 1534532231 11-14-2017, 08:48 AM
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Originally Posted By 4North1Side2⏩
Negative for me.

Boost is a complete waste of money for me. The last time I boosted, I swiped on atleast 500 profiles and got nothing.




Nice!
I believe thats because you constantly spoof/change locations.
From what I can tell, you need to be "grounded"/based in a specific place in order for boost to have a significant effect (ie dont change location by too much for a couple days at least)

I have also had the issue that I spoofed to a location, then boosted immediately but hat really bad results. Much less than I would get by just swiping normal at this spoofed location for 2-3 days.
post 1534567691 11-14-2017, 02:45 PM
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Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
Side note: Deleted tinder yesterday and bumble last week.
Same cuzz. lol this man deleted it when he was doings Gods work. I got fed up with the flakes and occasional dry spells. Time to direct my energy in better pursuits. It kind of messes with your psyche.....

I don't anticipate meeting women in real life will be easier. The interactions are hopeful but I'll finally be able to stop going on 1-2 dates per week and commit to actual hobbies.
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post 1534568001 11-14-2017, 02:49 PM
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every guy should delete tinder and all this bull**** its just feminazi power source for these dumb kunts to get validation
post 1534633271 11-15-2017, 07:46 AM
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Originally Posted By TheIronAsylum⏩
every guy should delete tinder and all this bull**** its just feminazi power source for these dumb kunts to get validation
I agree with you. But the thirst man ... the thirst controls us sometimes
post 1534657331 11-15-2017, 11:57 AM
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Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
Im also not connecting with these broads on anything more than a sexual level.
Are you still married?
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Just catching up and saw this...
Originally Posted By somfking⏩
did i say something weird in these texts that would make her go ghost after only a few texts?
lol... you said plenty wrong, can't believe some guys on here think this was ok. UnclRuckus has it right as usual...
Originally Posted By UnclRuckus⏩
you disqualified yourself saying you don't message a lot of girls. First off, it gives her too much power because now she knows she's special. Second, it doesn't make you come across as choosy as you probably thought (which still isn't great because it's a compliment to her at the same time), it makes you come across as though you have very few options/matches and that's why you remember some girl you barely talked to from months back.
This was the biggest mistake IMO.

Let's say you're trying to sell your car, and some random hits you up and says:
'hey, you've probably had a heap of interest in the car so I'm hoping no one has snapped it up yet, is it still for sale?'
would you say:
'Oh no, I've had practically zero interest in the car, so yeah its definitely still for sale'

Because that's essentially what you did here, LOL
post 1534717621 11-15-2017, 10:55 PM
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Decent game here? Cringe game? She NC'ed after I asked for the number - is there a decent double message or move along?

My bio says I'm 9 feet tall.





post 1534724961 11-16-2017, 01:29 AM
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[QUOTE=Scotty. post_id=1534717621]Decent game here? Cringe game? She NC'ed after I asked for the number - is there a decent double message or move along?

My bio says I'm 9 feet tall.

[img]https://i.imgur.com/vKZ6nFNl.jpg[/im g]

[img]https://i.imgur.com/NkWTqCCl.jpg[/im g]

[img]https://i.imgur.com/CJnvKAQl.jpg[/i mg][/QUOTE]how long ago was that number message?


lol i used to have a bio that was like

- 8 feet tall
- MI5 agent (sssh)
- CEO
- wine connoisseur
- terrible liar

worked really well haha
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post 1534742431 11-16-2017, 08:06 AM
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Originally Posted By RmBoyos⏩
how long ago was that number message?


lol i used to have a bio that was like

- 8 feet tall
- MI5 agent (sssh)
- CEO
- wine connoisseur
- terrible liar

worked really well haha
Whole convo took place over about an hour yesterday morning. Been NC since.

9 feet tall line kills it. Get opened about it or my other bio line all the time. Probably only 25% of openers to me on Bumble are the classic "Hey"
post 1534742821 11-16-2017, 08:10 AM
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Originally Posted By Scotty.⏩
Whole convo took place over about an hour yesterday morning. Been NC since.

9 feet tall line kills it. Get opened about it or my other bio line all the time. Probably only 25% of openers to me on Bumble are the classic "Hey"
leave it a week

if no response, hit em with 'and heres me thinking we had something going!'


the classic response to hey is 'classy opener sloot' srs
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post 1534752561 11-16-2017, 09:51 AM
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Originally Posted By RmBoyos⏩
how long ago was that number message?


lol i used to have a bio that was like

- 8 feet tall
- MI5 agent (sssh)
- CEO
- wine connoisseur
- terrible liar

worked really well haha
holy sheet thats hilarious actually. I'm borrowing that xD
post 1534752991 11-16-2017, 09:54 AM
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Originally Posted By Bangemall⏩
holy sheet thats hilarious actually. I'm borrowing that xD
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post 1534867241 11-17-2017, 09:58 AM
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Found a pretty neat study on the use of punctuation in texting and how it changes the perceived intention. Probably common sense to everyone in here but still thought it was cool. Abstract:


In contrast with face-to-face conversations, text messages lack extra-linguistic cues such as tone of voice and gestures. We explore the hypothesis that textisms, such as irregular punctuation, are used to fill this role. We extend the work of Gunraj, Drumm-Hewitt, Dashow, Upadhyay, and Klin (2016) who found that the inclusion of a period after a positive one-word response (e.g., yeah.) led readers to perceive the response as less sincere. In Experiment 1, we used longer text exchanges that were more naturalistic and replicated this finding. In Experiments 2 and 3, negative responses (e.g., nope) and ambiguous responses (e.g., maybe) were also perceived as more negative, or less enthusiastic, with a period. The period can serve a rhetorical, rather than a grammatical, function in text messages. More generally, textisms such as punctuation can convey the types of social and pragmatic information that are communicated with extra-linguistic cues in face-to-face conversations.

https://www.researchgate.net/publica...uptness_Period

Unfortunately they don't really get into other text mannerisms like emojis too much apart from the abstract but it the gist of it is that subtle changes to a message that don't seemingly change its content has a real impact on how it's received.

This seems to tie in with the same thing I've been saying about matching texting the styles of girls with emojis and stuff like that to build rapport. Since we can't do it physically it's the only tool to show that we are in some sense alike while texting a girl.
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post 1534900451 11-17-2017, 02:51 PM
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This probably happens a lot but when sloots reply back for a while with some dumb excuse like "sorry i barely check back on this app", do you either NC or hit her back with a line? And what lines do you reply in this scenario:

A: (pick up line)
B: i'm flattered
A: come drink out with me tonight
B: can't, sick
A: want me to bring you over pizza and wine?
(followed by a week of silence until now)
post 1534901241 11-17-2017, 03:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Kiny0⏩
This probably happens a lot but when sloots reply back for a while with some dumb excuse like "sorry i barely check back on this app", do you either NC or hit her back with a line? And what lines do you reply in this scenario:

A: (pick up line)
B: i'm flattered
A: come drink out with me tonight
B: can't, sick
A: want me to bring you over pizza and wine?
(followed by a week of silence until now)
You lose nothing by trying all of the above. Success rate is minimal when they throw you that response.
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post 1534904341 11-17-2017, 03:37 PM
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I'm going for a hard NC. Knowing the fact that these girls are too busy phucking around other guys and have the guts to reply back innocently just makes me sick, especially when their bio listed no hookups or looking for something serious crap.
post 1534938211 11-17-2017, 11:53 PM
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Originally Posted By Kiny0⏩
This probably happens a lot but when sloots reply back for a while with some dumb excuse like "sorry i barely check back on this app", do you either NC or hit her back with a line? And what lines do you reply in this scenario:

A: (pick up line)
B: i'm flattered
A: come drink out with me tonight
B: can't, sick
A: want me to bring you over pizza and wine?
(followed by a week of silence until now)
Originally Posted By Kiny0⏩
I'm going for a hard NC. Knowing the fact that these girls are too busy phucking around other guys and have the guts to reply back innocently just makes me sick, especially when their bio listed no hookups or looking for something serious crap.
Asking them for a meet is unlikely to work and a bad move at this point. She's replying slowly which means her interest is low. Asking her then means she's probably going to say no, and turning a no into a yes is infinitely harder than turning a maybe into a yes.

Ask her what she uses instead and get her contact info there. Snapchat, whatsapp or whatever. It's a smaller step and more likely to get a yes, and once you've gotten one yes it's easier to get another one. Foot in the door technique.

Build some more rapport with a few messages on the new platform, if she starts replying faster then eventually you ask her to meet. If not, NC, you're wasting effort at this point. Hard NC instantly is fine if it really irks you but just realize that's how a lot of girls act and the whole thing is fuked anyway. Sticking to your principles isn't gonna change the world and I'd rather get some poosay but if that's what you wanna do it's fine I guess.
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lol godfather will dust this out tomorrow see what's up
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post 1534976261 11-18-2017, 01:06 PM
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Man women are weird. I finally got an 8 again who seemed to be into in for a couple of days... she even sent me a nice butt pic and now it looks like she ghosted on me.

I gotta say bumble is pretty tough out of them all. I just signed up and got about 6 matches in a day and that was about it. I still get decent matches on Tinder so I know it can't be the photos. Are these girls even seeing my profile?
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You guys have any good thanksgiving lines? that ghost for halloween one was gold.
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post 1535003531 11-18-2017, 06:56 PM
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Originally Posted By Vengeance10⏩
You guys have any good thanksgiving lines? that ghost for halloween one was gold.
Just open with "Gobble gobble" srs
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Hnggg



Got this last night from a chick I was flirting with. She wanted the d, but was with another guy. Became friends with the guy, he’s in a death metal band. Tried to get him to ponder having another vocalist join their band. (I can do all the special death growls and pig squeals, seemingly most people including many death metal vocalists cannot.) going to see their band play in a few weeks probably...

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Just got here and on the way up to my room some fake boob gilf was being all flirty.

Except for paying $800 in room fees this should be a good tripanyone around?
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Lol tinder is for ****s. Real men use physical approach.
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redownloaded tinder and I can't even get a match. I get decent amount of attention when I go out but I can't get chit on tinder and bumble. Even tried swiping right on fatties to see if I'd at least match and still no luck
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Originally Posted By LuckMaker⏩
Lol tinder is for ****s. Real men use physical approach.
Yea, well ima bone this chick tomorrow... may stroll around downstairs in another hour or so and see if there’s something worth approaching physically.

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in after my first bumble smash today.. chick randomly double messages me and i'd have to be a homo sexual to ignore a sign like that. Went into defcon5 mode

ive smashed chicks off of

tinder
bumble
pof
skout (back in the day)
okc
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Originally Posted By Kiny0⏩
This probably happens a lot but when sloots reply back for a while with some dumb excuse like "sorry i barely check back on this app", do you either NC or hit her back with a line? And what lines do you reply in this scenario:

A: (pick up line)
B: i'm flattered
A: come drink out with me tonight
B: can't, sick
A: want me to bring you over pizza and wine?
(followed by a week of silence until now)
'oh well i guess we'll have to chat off the app then!'

get number - send 1 message

if she is still chit at replying - next her......
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gym best - 398/265/440 (180/120/200) - @ 78kg

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*UK crew*
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