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post 1537290511 12-12-2017, 12:38 PM
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Originally Posted By screwnuts⏩
A girl that has mostly male friends is usually damaged goods in my experience. Either she’s an attention whore or she’s actually banged most of them.
This is a scientific fact. "I just don't get along with other girls" = Other girls call me out when I try to fuk every man in sight.
post 1537290611 12-12-2017, 12:39 PM
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All of you that are saying you got attractive female friends , if given the chance that they let you smash, would you? Of course you would.
post 1537290621 12-12-2017, 12:39 PM
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Originally Posted By xtrah⏩
Hate to admit it but I dated a girl who was above my league for a year, it was honestly quite stressful since I viewed 95% of people as potential threats.. Once her male nurse even hit on her when I left the room.

Then again it was fun to parade her around at nice restaurants etc

Everything comes with a trade off
Yeah just be confident in yourself, have standards and don't be a poocy and you'll be ok - unless you just got with a hoe.

It's easy to shoo guys away when you're around. When you're not around you just gotta use your best judgment without being paranoid.
Originally Posted By NukYavlen⏩
All of you that are saying you got attractive female friends , if given the chance that they let you smash, would you? Of course you would.
I would with probably half. Some girls though you've known for so long that you lose interest. Or in my case i have a couple female friends who my guy friends are already with.
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post 1537290821 12-12-2017, 12:41 PM
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Define friends. As in having hobbies and being in a same group as other people? Sure. Friendship as in hanging out together? Nah.

I can't imagine wanting to hang out with a female over any of my bros unless I wanna smash them.
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post 1537290851 12-12-2017, 12:41 PM
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post 1537291031 12-12-2017, 12:43 PM
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Originally Posted By Burgerbuger⏩
Define friends. As in having hobbies and being in a same group as other people? Sure. Friendship as in hanging out together? Nah.

I can't imagine wanting to hang out with a female over any of my bros unless I wanna smash them.
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post 1537291051 12-12-2017, 12:43 PM
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Originally Posted By xtrah⏩
I have a few girls that are friends that aren't my type

But are still considered attractive

Other than that it's just a waiting game until one party develops feelings and/or want's to fuk
Pretty much this


lived with 3 girls (not all at once), and had no problems. ****ed one of them, repeatedly. She was chill though so it wasn't even weird and didn't ruin it.
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Yes, it’s called a trusting relationship. No doubts, no problems
That's funny coming from you
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post 1537291101 12-12-2017, 12:44 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
pretty much this but men are good at hiding that they want to fukk if they aren't getting the right signals so women rarely think of that potential. And it's mainly transitory..before the friendship takes over

does it affect the friendship that you could think about having sex at the start but never get to? Probably not.
This what I keep telling my wife but shes all, you are still admitting you want to fuuck these women, blah blah blah.
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post 1537291751 12-12-2017, 12:49 PM
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Always a good idea to keep it in a group setting even though it’s not a problem for me to be alone with another woman friend. It’s just better not to put yourself in that situation if you can help it.
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post 1537291881 12-12-2017, 12:50 PM
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Originally Posted By Jacobcapra⏩
That's funny coming from you
I don’t know you so don’t pretend to know me.
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post 1537292021 12-12-2017, 12:51 PM
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Originally Posted By JaymzJ⏩
I don’t know you so don’t pretend to know me.
I know you have some.... unusual feelings towards a miscer you've never even met, have crept on her bodyspace quite a bit and probably have some cringe as fuk messages in her CP


oh and that you're married, to boot lmao. AKA why you talking about a trusting relationship with no doubts is pretty hypocritical, bet your wife would love to know about your internet crush.
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post 1537292201 12-12-2017, 12:53 PM
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Originally Posted By JaymzJ⏩
Always a good idea to keep it in a group setting even though it’s not a problem for me to be alone with another woman friend. It’s just better not to put yourself in that situation if you can help it.
post 1537292541 12-12-2017, 12:56 PM
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Originally Posted By Jacobcapra⏩
I know you have some.... unusual feelings towards a miscer you've never even met, have crept on her bodyspace quite a bit and probably have some cringe as fuk messages in her CP


oh and that you're married, to boot lmao
All I have or have ever had are friendships and nothing more from any girl on bodyspace or in my cp. And that’s the way I have always preferred it to be.
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post 1537292681 12-12-2017, 12:58 PM
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Originally Posted By JaymzJ⏩
All I have or have ever had are friendships and nothing more from any girl on bodyspace or in my cp. And that’s the way I have always preferred it to be.
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post 1537292761 12-12-2017, 12:58 PM
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Well im good freinds with a guy and let me tell you if he broke up with his wife id get with him

Also my cousin was always really tight with this bloke he was always hanging out at their place. Tbh he was a bit of a timothy compared to her husband so I was surprised when 10 years later they divorced and she got with tim (idk what the order of these 2 things was who knows?)

So.probably not

Edit on the other hand i do have guy freinds id never fuk like my gym crew so they can be but you can never be sure
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post 1537292951 12-12-2017, 01:01 PM
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Originally Posted By melDorado⏩
Well im good freinds with a guy and let me tell you if he broke up with his wife id get with him

Also my cousin was always really tight with this bloke he was always hanging out at their place. Tbh he was a bit of a timothy compared to her husband so I was surprised when 10 years later they divorced and she got with tim (idk what the order of these 2 things was who knows?)

So.probably not
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post 1537292961 12-12-2017, 01:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Giving good advice but maybe this is not the proper time or place for that. Fuk this.
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post 1537293451 12-12-2017, 01:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Layne205⏩
I've had loads of female friends. Most are very sexy, some are not. I doubt many, if any, were ever attracted to me, but hardly any ever ended up single at the same time I was. I don't think being attracted to them makes any difference in the friendship, unless you're trying to do something about it. You're supposed to still be able to function like a normal civilized human if you're attracted to your boss, customer, coworker, whatever. But since it's the misc...

I don't currently spend any one-on-one time with any women besides my wife and sisters though. Once everyone you know is married, you don't really spend one-on-one time with anyone other than your spouse.
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post 1537297251 12-12-2017, 01:39 PM
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Blue pill guys (FA and nonFA) can.

Red pill guys can't (FA and nonFA).
post 1537297971 12-12-2017, 01:46 PM
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Majority of my female friends over the years were all pretty much girlfriends/spouse of my male friends except for one. She started working at my company quite some time ago and became with friends with her and no attraction even after becoming pretty close. She's just not my type in that way...love hanging out, talking **** but never really had an attraction. It's hard to explain because she isn't ugly or anything...athletic build due to ballet for so many years, just not for me. To be honest, she's the only female my wife has ever had serious doubts about and asked me straight up if I cheated with her LOL! I was like, of all the females I know, this is definitely not the one I would.
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If your wife/gf has male friends and if she is even slightly attractive, then her male friends are going to be secretly salivating over her. Guaranteed. Even if they don't ever try to get with her.
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post 1537309221 12-12-2017, 03:35 PM
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Blue pill guys (FA and nonFA) can.

Red pill guys can't (FA and nonFA).
Lol repped
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Easier to be friends with the opposite sex if you find them unattractive or their partner is better looking than you.
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post 1537310931 12-12-2017, 03:56 PM
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
100% of girls I have ever been friends with were women I actively wanted to bang.
This.
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post 1537311011 12-12-2017, 03:57 PM
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I have female friends that are not my type of all and female friends that are at least decent looking. I like them all for various reasons. I don't mind having female friends at all and yes I do believe that males and females can be friends as long as they don't hang out all the time cause someone will catch feelings. If you're seen with a decent looking female in public, you'll get more attention from other women and they can be good wing women. What I'm trying to do is to get more female friends that are actually attractive and not ugly cause I don't really wanna hang out with ugly chicks.
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haven't you dated women with a phone full of men who said they are just friends?

i have

i'm not with any of them
post 1537311121 12-12-2017, 03:59 PM
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Originally Posted By cocopuffsfan⏩
I have seen you complement many women bodyspaces. Do you do the same for meN?
Yes, all of the time.
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Sorta.

I have 2 guy friends that i've known since i was about 11 and i consider them very close friends because i've known them for so long. The friendship I have with them is different than the one I have with my girlfriends because for starters I don't hang with them one on one, chit chat with them on the phone at night, you know things like that.


However I can't see myself befriending a guy right now at my age unless I wanted something more from him..
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post 1537312231 12-12-2017, 04:17 PM
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Originally Posted By wasp9166⏩
haven't you dated women with a phone full of men who said they are just friends?
No fukking way, son. LOL!
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post 1537312401 12-12-2017, 04:18 PM
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
100% of girls I have ever been friends with were women I actively wanted to bang.
This is the way with majority 98% of men.

A man cannot be friends with a girl especially if she is hot
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