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post 1539064771 12-30-2017, 08:28 PM
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Originally Posted By TrotonKat⏩
You have to speak to him about your issues because it is obviously affecting you. Have you actually sat him down and had a conversation with him? People do not suddenly change usually they change because they want to get out of a relationship, or something at work is stressing them out or it could be something has happened in his family. Have you asked him how his job is going or if anything is stressing him out?
he is past the point of working things out.. he's like 1/4 the way in the relationship and i think he just wants me to do the ko on the relationship
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post 1539064801 12-30-2017, 08:29 PM
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could just be stress from the holidays :/
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post 1539064821 12-30-2017, 08:29 PM
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So growing a backbone and being a dick are all of the sudden the same thing?

Makes zero sense.
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post 1539065101 12-30-2017, 08:32 PM
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im going to check out of this thread now. probably not a good idea to dwell on things at this point. so gonna read the rest of the forum and get my mind away from this
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post 1539065141 12-30-2017, 08:33 PM
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
he is past the point of working things out.. he's like 1/4 the way in the relationship and i think he just wants me to do the ko on the relationship
Why do you say he is past the point of working things out? If you feel like the relationship is going no where than you should break up, no point being unhappy in a relationship.
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post 1539065271 12-30-2017, 08:33 PM
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And this is why you have to think long and hard about a relationship with a single mom. Right or wrong, what you want won't come first.
post 1539065571 12-30-2017, 08:36 PM
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Originally Posted By TrotonKat⏩
Why do you say he is past the point of working things out? If you feel like the relationship is going no where than you should break up, no point being unhappy in a relationship.
some people have a hard time pulling the plug on relationships and unfortunately i am one of them..
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post 1539065751 12-30-2017, 08:38 PM
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Originally Posted By bigcat3655⏩
And this is why you have to think long and hard about a relationship with a single mom. Right or wrong, what you want won't come first.
the older you get the more baggage comes in relationships.. i cant imagine that youre 35 and dont realize this
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post 1539065851 12-30-2017, 08:38 PM
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post 1539066051 12-30-2017, 08:40 PM
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
some people have a hard time pulling the plug on relationships and unfortunately i am one of them..
I get that. When you have been with someone for such a long time it is super hard to just quit. Seriously if he is unwilling to work out the issues in the relationship there honestly is no point in trying. There is only so much one person can do but you need two people for a relationship to work out.
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post 1539066191 12-30-2017, 08:42 PM
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Originally Posted By TrotonKat⏩
I get that. When you have been with someone for such a long time it is super hard to just quit. Seriously if he is unwilling to work out the issues in the relationship there honestly is no point in trying. There is only so much one person can do but you need two people for a relationship to work out.
im starting to feel sad.. so im not going to respond anymore, not because i dont love you because i do.. but i dont want to think about this anymore
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post 1539066451 12-30-2017, 08:45 PM
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He works 7 days a week?
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Originally Posted By bigcat3655⏩
And this is why you have to think long and hard about a relationship with a single mom. Right or wrong, what you want won't come first.
Originally Posted By CarsonX141⏩
Single moms make great cum dumpsters, but that is about it.
Take the single mom thing out of it.

You're in a relationship and you both work and own your own homes. Do you expect your partner to come and clean your house and cook for you 7 days a week?

It doesn't even make sense...
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post 1539066631 12-30-2017, 08:47 PM
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From chat threads to this garbage. Her found your misc account and realized you're even more retarded than he initially thought.
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post 1539066851 12-30-2017, 08:50 PM
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
he is past the point of working things out.. he's like 1/4 the way in the relationship and i think he just wants me to do the ko on the relationship
op

How do you know he absolutely doesn't want to work things out?

Did you flat out ask hey I understand you're upset right now. Here's my view. Would would you like to work on us?
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post 1539066881 12-30-2017, 08:51 PM
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
Take the single mom thing out of it.

You're in a relationship and you both work and own your own homes. Do you expect your partner to come and clean your house and cook for you 7 days a week?

It doesn't even make sense...
Fukking this, you are a GF, what did his grown ass do before you came along? Live in filth? You stated he was already done with the relationship then do yourself a favor and cut him lose.
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post 1539067231 12-30-2017, 08:54 PM
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Originally Posted By atomicbbgum⏩
Fukking this, you are a GF, what did his grown ass do before you came along? Live in filth? You stated he was already done with the relationship then do yourself a favor and cut him lose.
The guy works 7 days a week. How dirty can the house get if he's never home?!

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post 1539067381 12-30-2017, 08:56 PM
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Originally Posted By atomicbbgum⏩
Fukking this, you are a GF, what did his grown ass do before you came along? Live in filth? You stated he was already done with the relationship then do yourself a favor and cut him lose.
How would you and the other female miscers feel if she lived with her boyfriend and he was paying all the bills

then it would be acceptable for him to expect her to cook and clean
post 1539067561 12-30-2017, 08:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Vhagar⏩
How would you and the other female miscers feel if she lived with her boyfriend and he was paying all the bills

then it would be acceptable for him to expect her to cook and clean
Yes that would be both acceptable and expected.

What’s your point?
post 1539067591 12-30-2017, 08:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Vhagar⏩
How would you and the other female miscers feel if she lived with her boyfriend and he was paying all the bills

then it would be acceptable for him to expect her to cook and clean
This isn't the situation. Why are you asking?

To answer your question if I had someone who paid all the bills I would do all the house work and cooking.
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post 1539067681 12-30-2017, 09:00 PM
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
im starting to feel sad.. so im not going to respond anymore, not because i dont love you because i do.. but i dont want to think about this anymore
You should get yourself a misc bf to get back at him!
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post 1539067861 12-30-2017, 09:02 PM
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Originally Posted By LeoThedude⏩
You should get yourself a misc bf to get back at him!
I heard Jaymz is available and ready.
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post 1539067891 12-30-2017, 09:02 PM
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Originally Posted By Vhagar⏩
How would you and the other female miscers feel if she lived with her boyfriend and he was paying all the bills

then it would be acceptable for him to expect her to cook and clean
Yes and I think it was mentioned already.
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post 1539067931 12-30-2017, 09:02 PM
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Originally Posted By Vhagar⏩
How would you and the other female miscers feel if she lived with her boyfriend and he was paying all the bills

then it would be acceptable for him to expect her to cook and clean
We all stated if they lived in the same house things would be different.

If you as a man live in your own place then you are responsible for the housekeeping and bills at your place and your girl is responsible for bills and housekeeping at her house.

That's it period.
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Originally Posted By Vhagar⏩
How would you and the other female miscers feel if she lived with her boyfriend and he was paying all the bills

then it would be acceptable for him to expect her to cook and clean
Yes it is, I am a stay at home, I cook, clean and tend to whatever needs to be done in the house. He takes care of the bills, I take care of the food and household chores, equivalent exchange, when I worked he helped with chores and whatever else needed to be done because we both work and was both of our responsibilities. She in the other hand, has her own household and he has his own, she isn't his wife and should be able to take care of himself.
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Originally Posted By smokinal⏩
By saying this you realize you've been a bitch to him and he's just been taking it. He may not be seeing anyone, just sick of your sh!t
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Sounds like he needs a spanking or a time out.

Next time that he's being a dikk to you tell him that he's grounded and no more tv/video games.
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
Let's be honest here even supermom wouldn't be able to run 2 households. You don't live together. If he's really worried about a clean house and cooked meals on a daily basis tell him to hire a fukin maid.

Srs...
Originally Posted By TheRougarou646⏩
Take on more of the domestic duties? She take care of ALL the domestic duties at her own home with her own two children and is still managing to do what she can at his home for him. He knew that right from the beginning and is just now deciding that her efforts are simply not enough.


Michelle I suggest you drop that guy. You don’t need anybody who seems like a selfish brat. You are already doing so much and going out of your way
Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
So she should be responsible for all domestic duties in 2 homes 7 days a week?

I'm sorry that's completely insane...
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Yea if they lived together he would have a solid argument, but they dont so he should take care of his own house
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Yes it is unreasonable.

If you as a person have an unreasonable expectation for relationships that less than .5% of the world would think is acceptable then you need to be told so so you can change your beliefs.

You don't get to just stomp your feet and whine you want something as an adult. It doesn't work when you're four nor will it bode well now.
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Originally Posted By TheRougarou646⏩
Yes that would be both acceptable and expected.

What’s your point?
Originally Posted By TrotonKat⏩
This isn't the situation. Why are you asking?

To answer your question if I had someone who paid all the bills I would do all the house work and cooking.
Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
Yes and I think it was mentioned already.
Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
We all stated if they lived in the same house things would be different.

If you as a man live in your own place then you are responsible for the housekeeping and bills at your place and your girl is responsible for bills and housekeeping at her house.

That's it period.
Originally Posted By atomicbbgum⏩
Yes it is, I am a stay at home, I cook, clean and tend to whatever needs to be done in the house. He takes care of the bills, I take care of the food and household chores, equivalent exchange, when I worked he helped with chores and whatever else needed to be done because we both work and was both of our responsibilities. She in the other hand, has her own household and he has his own, she isn't his wife and should be able to take care of himself.
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