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post 1539100921 12-31-2017, 09:25 AM
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This misc meme is never gonna exist off the board no matter how persistent you are

But enjoy your safe space of imagining women lose value over time and men gain it

It’s all about perspective, experience and knowledge

Happy new year miscers...lets hope 2018 brings you a modicum of happiness and at least a little human contact
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend
Can confirm, being old sucks
Lucky for you that black don't crack lol.
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Originally Posted By svtballa
I have quite a bit.
Did they come on to you / make it really obvious they wanted you to smash them?
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido
Did they come on to you / make it really obvious they wanted you to smash them?
Goddam Aquila...your thirst is painful
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Goddam Aquila...your thirst is painful
What's it to you?
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido
What's it to you?
No thing at all

It was just a little uncomfortable to read ..which on here is saying something
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
No thing at all

It was just a little uncomfortable to read ..which on here is saying something
Ok. That's your problem though.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
This misc meme is never gonna exist off the board no matter how persistent you are
I read this book on the subject, written by a women who when she turned 41 realized that the dating game had changed (she could still get sex easily, but she she found looking romantic relationships harder)...



I thought it was a really interested read. As well as trying to give advice for 40+ women, she was advising women below 40 to not play the 'grass is greener'/quest for Christian Grey game.

Here is a short interview the author did on the subject...



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z0wxSmrs5fs
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post 1539103071 12-31-2017, 09:57 AM
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i was smashing a cougar that i met in a bar for a few months last year. Average looking for being almost 50 yrs old, but fake bewbs. Total batchit crazy and an alcoholic to boot. Everytime i was with her men would be texting her to help fix something with her car, or do a chore at her house. Once i was smashing and the doorbell rang and it was some dude with a bottle of wine and she had to tell him she already had company lmao. She claimed all these men were just nice friendly guys but we know the truth. All this attention because she has teets. And i have to spend hours in the gym and thank the lucky stars im a manmore just for a female to glance my way.
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[QUOTE=AquilaConfido post_id=1539102641]Ok. That's your problem though.[/QUOTE]Well not really ..it was really rather fleeting

[QUOTE=BetaAsPhuck post_id=1539102891]I read this book on the subject, written by a women who when she turned 41 realized that the dating game had changed (she could still get sex easily, but she she found looking romantic relationships harder)...

[img]https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I/51yb15z0WHL._SX331_BO1,204,203,200_.jpg[/g]

I thought it was a really interested read. As well as trying to give advice for 40+ women, she was advising women below 40 to not play the 'grass is greener'/quest for Christian Grey game.

Here is a short interview the author did on the subject...

[youtube]z0wxSmrs5fs[/youtu]

[URL=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z0wxSmrs5fs]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z0wxSmrs5fs[/URL][/QUOTE]There’s millions of experiences out there ...I’m sure there are as many who regret giving up on past relationships as those who don’t ...I must live in the 1950s because most of the people I know aged 30 and up are still living that couple / family life
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Well not really ..it was really rather fleeting



There’s millions of experiences out there ...I’m sure there are as many who regret giving up on past relationships as those who don’t ...I must live in the 1950s because most of the people I know aged 30 and up are still living that couple / family life
Clearly bothered you enough to make a post about it.
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido
Clearly bothered you enough to make a post about it.
Well it made me go ick momentarily so I commented ..cos that’s how these places work

Btw I’m happy to continue this pointless conversation as long as you wish
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Originally Posted By meenman83
Do you know how hard it is to have a conversation with a 18-25 year olds brah
This. If your goal as a brah over 30 is to smash young sloots, it doesn't always matter how successful you are because 18-25yr old girls are actually retarded. It's a phase all women go through, usually around 30 they realize how phukked they are and that their looks are fading fast.

Currently dating a 30yr old girl, she stays in shape and is super healthy, that helps a ton, you'd think she was 26. Most girls who smoke/drink/eat like chit in their 20's hit the 30yr old wall like Dale did in his race car.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Well it made me go ick momentarily so I commented ..cos that’s how these places work

Btw I’m happy to continue this pointless conversation as long as you wish
Just as pointless as your initial triggered comment was.
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Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck
I read this book on the subject, written by a women who when she turned 41 realized that the dating game had changed (she could still get sex easily, but she she found looking romantic relationships harder)...



I thought it was a really interested read. As well as trying to give advice for 40+ women, she was advising women below 40 to not play the 'grass is greener'/quest for Christian Grey game.

Here is a short interview the author did on the subject...



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z0wxSmrs5fs
I think overall in this day and age, romantic relationships are harder to find for pretty much everyone. It's a hook up culture. Honestly the guys my age who are looking for 18-25 year olds wouldn't interest me at all. There are clearly some maturity issues if you are interested in dating someone specifically because they are 20+ years younger than you. I'm not talking about that freak thing that happens for some people who just happen to hit it off with a huge age gap, I'm talking about the ones that specifically target those ages. If those guys want a girl that is only interested because they have money/status and are fukking young Chads on the side, then more power to them.
Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
There’s millions of experiences out there ...I’m sure there are as many who regret giving up on past relationships as those who don’t ...I must live in the 1950s because most of the people I know aged 30 and up are still living that couple / family life
Exactly. Same for me.
Originally Posted By TacticalTaco
This. If your goal as a brah over 30 is to smash young sloots, it doesn't always matter how successful you are because 18-25yr old girls are actually retarded. It's a phase all women go through, usually around 30 they realize how phukked they are and that their looks are fading fast.

Currently dating a 30yr old girl, she stays in shape and is super healthy, that helps a ton, you'd think she was 26. Most girls who smoke/drink/eat like chit in their 20's hit the 30yr old wall like Dale did in his race car.
This guy gets it.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Didn't watch but yes it's super hard as you get older. Most attractive successful men in their forties and up are married. The divorced ones generally want to date younger.

So women in their forties either have to settle for less attractive/less successful men or just stay single and focus on other things like career or friends or their kids etc.

This as to serious dating and a relationship, of course as to casual sex they can still get pretty much anyone they want but most women don't want that, they want a relationship.
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1
Honestly given the current yolo attitude of partying and free spirited sex lives like girls do in today’s world I would say it’s more like 22 most begin to experience the decline.

22 is the new 30 for females due to their lifestyle choices. It’s pretty sad
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
It was just a little uncomfortable to read
Might want to get some glasses granny, eye strain can lead to cataracts.
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Originally Posted By katya422
Straight truth.
I think another key thing is, the guys 40 and up who are divorced are usually bitter and damaged as well. Guys think this only pertains to women over 30. Sorry to say, guys are the same way. Add in online dating BS with the grass is always greener mentality and dating is just a chit show now. lol
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
That's why it's hard for married women to understand the dilemma. Their social circle is other married couples so they see older women being happy and secure in marriage. So they just assume that those women can find a new relationship if they were to become single, but the market is not like that.

After my divorce I waited a long time to date because I wasn't ready emotionally and I needed to focus on working through the divorce, but I always had in the back of my mind that once I was ready to start dating I would date casually for a bit and then find a new relationship. It was just a natural assumption coming from "safe" married life, and I never expected it to be this difficult.
It's not just us 40 year olds though. I know lots of girls in their 20's and early 30's (very pretty girls too!) who have had the same dating issues as I have.
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Originally Posted By Legz422
It's not just us 40 year olds though. I know lots of girls in their 20's and early 30's (very pretty girls too!) who have had the same dating issues as I have.
Pretty girls in their 20s and 30s can't find decent guys? If I had to guess (based on the book), they are chasing Christian Greys.
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How did I know when clicking on this thread the typical HAG patrol will be in it with multiple posts posting all sorts of COPE?
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I’ll report back in a few years op. But turning 25 and having a health scare the same week was enough to jump start my ass into the gym, 9 months later still lifting and doing cardio consistently. So if turning 30 makes me half as productive as turning 25 did, I’d call it a win.
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Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck
Pretty girls in their 20s and 30s can't find decent guys? If I had to guess (based on the book), they are chasing Christian Greys.
Nope, they can't find decent guys. I'm not here to lie or exaggerate FFS. Every female I know who's been on dating sites have had the same exact experiences as I have.

To also add, when I say decent guys, I'm not saying there are none out there. I'm talking about decent guys that they have an attraction to/click with. And no, they're not looking for Chads.
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Relevant link:

http://labs.time.com/story/see-the-r...here-you-live/


Adjusting for college education (i.e. Social Class), the amount of single men drops significantly for each decade you move up in age. I live in one of those really pink areas in the country where it's almost 2:1 female to male ratio of college educated professionals, and I've definitely noticed my "worth" increasing at age 28 and single, especially as my social status increases as well (working on my second masters degree and work in healthcare admin).

Also take into account that women are graduating college at higher rates than men these days, often 60:40 female male ratio average on today's campus.

So the sought-after Chad, well educated white collar professional with a masters or above, is becoming rarer and rarer.
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Originally Posted By Legz422
And no, they're not looking for Chads.
Because you can't get chad or keep him. LOLCOPE
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I’ve dated 20 year olds and 36 year olds. The craziest girl I dated was the 36 year old lmao. Still hot at 36, still had fake alphas chasing her. She behaved like a 20 year old.

Women never change. If you have a lot of dating experience, you’ll find this to be true. Sloots gonna sloot forever as long as she has guys chasing her
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Originally Posted By EmmaW4tson
Because you can't get chad or keep him. LOLCOPE
WTF you talking about boyo? When I wrote that sentence I wasn't even talking about myself.
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