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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Calm your tits love!Nope, they can't find decent guys. I'm not here to lie or exaggerate FFS.
I actually like you Legz, I'm just skeptical that very pretty girls in those age groups can't find a moderately attractive, psychologically healthy, financially stable man who wants to date them.
Every female I know who's been on dating sites have had the same exact experiences as I have.
To also add, when I say decent guys, I'm not saying there are none out there.I'm talking about decent guys that they have an attraction to/click with. And no, they're not looking for Chads.
Bingo. (Maybe.)To also add, when I say decent guys, I'm not saying there are none out there.I'm talking about decent guys that they have an attraction to/click with. And no, they're not looking for Chads.
That is a key problem that Lori talks about in the book, the 'spark' or 'magic' that a lot women chase for in the 1st or 2nd date. Lori talks about it as a modern invention, whereas in the past people had an understanding that passion can grow over time, women in this day and age (according to Lori) want it instantly. She also talks about a 'spark' not being a reliable indicator.
I honestly think that movies/TV shows have successfully brainwashed a lot of women into thinking that if they aren't infatuated within the first meeting with a man, then the relationship isn't worth pursuing.
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12-31-2017, 12:30 PM
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I loved turning 30. My 20's sucked....sure I was younger, looked hotter etc....but I was filled with doubt, insecurity, didn't have my ****e together, didn't know where the hell I was going in life. My 30's are 1000x more enjoyable and happy .... sure I have a couple fine lines, and my body isn't as tight, but I'm secure in who I am, know where I'm going, and have dropped all the juvenile insecurities that used to set me back. (For reference: married at 24, own my own business, no kids)
12-31-2017, 12:31 PM
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I’m 43, financially sound due to a good eduction and hard work. I am comfortable in my own skin. I have many friends and terrific colleagues. Active social life. Successful marriage. I can afford to take many holidays a year and provide awesome Christmas for my family.
Does it make you FA dudes feel better to degrade and trash women? This post is pathetic really and just a ditch attempt to cover your own shortcomings OP.
Any guy who is successful and confident would never start a pathetic thread like this.
Does it make you FA dudes feel better to degrade and trash women? This post is pathetic really and just a ditch attempt to cover your own shortcomings OP.
Any guy who is successful and confident would never start a pathetic thread like this.
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12-31-2017, 01:26 PM
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not gonna bother to read all the coping bullsht undoubtedly being posted by female miscers itt
but to answer the OP it destroys them inside. once the late 20s roll around most women realize they are going downhill fast and look like chit. they also notice that all the guys no longer look at them, they're looking at the younger chicks.
but to answer the OP it destroys them inside. once the late 20s roll around most women realize they are going downhill fast and look like chit. they also notice that all the guys no longer look at them, they're looking at the younger chicks.
12-31-2017, 01:42 PM
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Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck⏩
lol at calm your tits. I'm telling you, I know a lot in that age range that are very pretty girls. No, it's not "bingo". You have to have things in common with someone and have some type of connection to want to date them. I'm not talking about crazy chemistry and stuff, but you have to feel some interest. I honestly don't think it has anything to do with wanting to feel infatuated on the first date or two. I know right away when meeting someone whether I am attracted to them or not. Why waste my time and theirs on multiple dates just to have to tell them weeks later that I'm not interested? The last guy I met from online dating this past summer, I didn't feel that spark the first meet and I decided to change things up from my norm and try to see him again. After the 3rd date when he asked me out again I had to tell him I wasn't interested. I felt like crap for wasting his time.Calm your tits love!
I actually like you Legz, I'm just skeptical that very pretty girls in those age groups can't find a moderately attractive, psychologically healthy, financially stable man who wants to date them.
Bingo. (Maybe.)
That is a key problem that Lori talks about in the book, the 'spark' or 'magic' that a lot women chase for in the 1st or 2nd date. Lori talks about it as a modern invention, whereas in the past people had an understanding that passion can grow over time, women in this day and age (according to Lori) want it instantly. She also talks about a 'spark' not being a reliable indicator.
I honestly think that movies/TV shows have successfully brainwashed a lot of women into thinking that if they aren't infatuated within the first meeting with a man, then the relationship isn't worth pursuing.
I actually like you Legz, I'm just skeptical that very pretty girls in those age groups can't find a moderately attractive, psychologically healthy, financially stable man who wants to date them.
Bingo. (Maybe.)
That is a key problem that Lori talks about in the book, the 'spark' or 'magic' that a lot women chase for in the 1st or 2nd date. Lori talks about it as a modern invention, whereas in the past people had an understanding that passion can grow over time, women in this day and age (according to Lori) want it instantly. She also talks about a 'spark' not being a reliable indicator.
I honestly think that movies/TV shows have successfully brainwashed a lot of women into thinking that if they aren't infatuated within the first meeting with a man, then the relationship isn't worth pursuing.
Originally Posted By arya1974⏩
Don't pay too much attention to these guys. They like to bash on us women folk. lolI’m 43, financially sound due to a good eduction and hard work. I am comfortable in my own skin. I have many friends and terrific colleagues. Active social life. Successful marriage. I can afford to take many holidays a year and provide awesome Christmas for my family.
Does it make you FA dudes feel better to degrade and trash women? This post is pathetic really and just a ditch attempt to cover your own shortcomings OP.
Any guy who is successful and confident would never start a pathetic thread like this.
Does it make you FA dudes feel better to degrade and trash women? This post is pathetic really and just a ditch attempt to cover your own shortcomings OP.
Any guy who is successful and confident would never start a pathetic thread like this.
Originally Posted By 8PointBuck⏩
they also notice that all the guys no longer look at them, they're looking at the younger chicks.
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12-31-2017, 01:44 PM
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Even age 25 for most women happens to be mostly down hill from there in terms of looks. The lucky ones, rare 5% will age like fine wine, like men.
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Are you talking about single/unmarried/childless 30 year old women, or all 30 year old women?
12-31-2017, 01:52 PM
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Probably feels like they can still get whatever dick they want but now there's a stronger urge for kids/marriage if not already accomplished.
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12-31-2017, 01:59 PM
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Originally Posted By JewSeeJohn⏩
that doesnt mean chit, the 18 year old girl will just be using your 40 year old ass for your $250k job and lifestyle, she wont give a chit about you. anybody can get a hot 18 year old for like $500.You don't understand what people mean by this.
IF you're a guy who put in any sort of effort into his education, career , social skills and looks, in his teens and 20s, you will EASILY bang 18/19 year old 9/10s, when you're a handsome 35 year old making 200-250k per year.
We're not talking about beta *******s that only put effort into cell-teching and gym, were talking about dudes who put legit effort into their life.
They are the dudes that instasloots don't tag in their photos, on yachts.
IF you're a guy who put in any sort of effort into his education, career , social skills and looks, in his teens and 20s, you will EASILY bang 18/19 year old 9/10s, when you're a handsome 35 year old making 200-250k per year.
We're not talking about beta *******s that only put effort into cell-teching and gym, were talking about dudes who put legit effort into their life.
They are the dudes that instasloots don't tag in their photos, on yachts.
what i said stands. your bluepilled as hell if you think you should slave away for 20 years just so you can get girls when your 40. thats bluepill think, no girl will lust after you, shes lusting at your money.
in the end thats not gonna work out bro.
miscers are always saying bluepilled chit like "man, im not doing that good now, but in 20 years once im a doctor and making $$$, and girls hit the wall, i will be valuable and get girls" ...lmao that is a total failure.
women never hit the wall. even a ugly 50 year old fatass women will be some chads fetish. only bluepilled betas think women hit some magical "wall", and then at that age the guy gets the power, NOPE.
these are the lifes that are the only option for 99.9999% of men:
1. chads that will always slay
2. bluepilled cope'rs who cope hard and maybe get lucky and cucked by some ugly fat girl who gives him attention
3. rotters who dont do chit and just rot
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I have three older sisters, 1 who got married in her mid 20s, and two who got married in their 30s so I can give you an honest answer. If in a healthy relationship, they will feel good not matter what. Otherwise, they feel like utter chit.
Even if they are married, have kids, tons of money, a beautiful house, are the envy of their friends, if they are in an unhealthy relationship, none of this matters. Women generally base their happiness on their relationship with their SO.
If they are single and 30, they will feel awful beyond words. Each year gets worse. This is compounded if their peers are married. This is true for the vast majority of women; anything else they tell you is cope.
By 30, they will have already gone to weddings of younger friends and family members. Their choice of men gets worse and worse. They begin to consider dating divorced men, shorter men, less attractive men, etc.
Most of all, they are well aware of their biological clock and know that each year, their eggs diminish in value. Every year that goes by will increase the chance that their children will have physical and mental disorders.
It was really hard to see my sisters go through this and I was relieved when they married into good families. They were depressed AF before marriage, and way happier after; especially after they had kids.
Even if they are married, have kids, tons of money, a beautiful house, are the envy of their friends, if they are in an unhealthy relationship, none of this matters. Women generally base their happiness on their relationship with their SO.
If they are single and 30, they will feel awful beyond words. Each year gets worse. This is compounded if their peers are married. This is true for the vast majority of women; anything else they tell you is cope.
By 30, they will have already gone to weddings of younger friends and family members. Their choice of men gets worse and worse. They begin to consider dating divorced men, shorter men, less attractive men, etc.
Most of all, they are well aware of their biological clock and know that each year, their eggs diminish in value. Every year that goes by will increase the chance that their children will have physical and mental disorders.
It was really hard to see my sisters go through this and I was relieved when they married into good families. They were depressed AF before marriage, and way happier after; especially after they had kids.
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Are any of you guys married, or even in a relationship?
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
Probably not. Pretty sure most of the babbling about women cope in this thread is cope for being FA and older women being happy.Are any of you guys married, or even in a relationship?
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Originally Posted By NeonEagle⏩
Your sexual inexperience is showing.they're probably suicidal you know with their vagina shriveling up and all
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
No ****. It was a general comment and its true.WTF you talking about boyo? When I wrote that sentence I wasn't even talking about myself.
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It's like they get hit with a ton of bricks when a sloot hits 30; They get antsy about some poor chump putting a ring on it and getting creampied so they can start pushing babies out. And its especially worse with social media when they see their sloot friends getting hitched and getting pumped full of cum.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Lori talks about how chasing that 'spark' leads to many women being perpetually single or chasing after 'bad boys' who they feel the 'spark' with but just want to pump and dump, or have a casual relationship. Literally the same arguments you've just made, are the same objections I've read in the book, it's actually uncanny.lol at calm your tits. I'm telling you, I know a lot in that age range that are very pretty girls. No, it's not "bingo". You have to have things in common with someone and have some type of connection to want to date them. I'm not talking about crazy chemistry and stuff, but you have to feel some interest. I honestly don't think it has anything to do with wanting to feel infatuated on the first date or two.I know right away when meeting someone whether I am attracted to them or not.Why waste my time and theirs on multiple dates just to have to tell them weeks later that I'm not interested? The last guy I met from online dating this past summer,I didn't feel that spark the first meet and I decided to change things up from my norm and try to see him again. After the 3rd date when he asked me out again I had to tell him I wasn't interested. I felt like crap for wasting his time. ]
From what it sounds like you tried to go beyond the 'spark test' only once.
Also if those very pretty girl's in their 20s and 30s can't find a man who they have something in common with, and are attracted to, then their standards are probably way too high. Lori talks about 'the list' in the book, and the petty reasons that women no longer date men.(In an article she spoke about a married friend who was telling her a story about a conversation she was having with a single friend. The married friend was complaining about her husband leaving his worn socks around the house, and the single friend said that she was seriously dump a guy who had that habit. Her married friend realized that was why she was - unhappily - single, connection and companionship was thrown away because she was so petty.)
Just admit I'm right.
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
Lol at your pathetic, salty neg.Your sexual inexperience is showing.
#triggered.
12-31-2017, 02:31 PM
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Millenials arent getting married in their 20's nearly as much as they were in the past. The next ten years are going to be really interesting. You're going to see a ton of single women in their 30's pretending to be happy. The Chad's will always slay. I feel like women will be the ones who suffer from this and the ironic part is that their obsession with feminism will be the reason why they'll suffer.
The smart women will ignore feminism and get locked down in their 20's and have kids. The women who suffer will be the ones who latch onto feminism and try to be "independent" in their 30's. Chads will continue to slay regardless.
The smart women will ignore feminism and get locked down in their 20's and have kids. The women who suffer will be the ones who latch onto feminism and try to be "independent" in their 30's. Chads will continue to slay regardless.
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Originally Posted By Jeffbrah⏩
its already started. the full retard liberal feminists will die alone without kids. but during that entire time they will be trying to pass anti male laws, shame men and successful women, and be negative as fuack.Millenials arent getting married in their 20's nearly as much as they were in the past. The next ten years are going to be really interesting. You're going to see a ton of single women in their 30's pretending to be happy. The Chad's will always slay. I feel like women will be the ones who suffer from this and the ironic part is that their obsession with feminism will be the reason why they'll suffer.
The smart women will ignore feminism and get locked down in their 20's and have kids. The women who suffer will be the ones who latch onto feminism and try to be "independent" in their 30's. Chads will continue to slay regardless.
The smart women will ignore feminism and get locked down in their 20's and have kids. The women who suffer will be the ones who latch onto feminism and try to be "independent" in their 30's. Chads will continue to slay regardless.
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I imagine it's like how rustled my female friends get when I tell them I hooked up with a freshman/18 yo*10000000
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I remember being absolutely fukin devastated when i turned 30
Weirdly when i turned 40 i loved it
Idk about 50 that might really suck actually
Weirdly when i turned 40 i loved it
Idk about 50 that might really suck actually
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Originally Posted By Jeffbrah⏩
What about the non-Chads?Millenials arent getting married in their 20's nearly as much as they were in the past. The next ten years are going to be really interesting. You're going to see a ton of single women in their 30's pretending to be happy. The Chad's will always slay. I feel like women will be the ones who suffer from this and the ironic part is that their obsession with feminism will be the reason why they'll suffer.
The smart women will ignore feminism and get locked down in their 20's and have kids. The women who suffer will be the ones who latch onto feminism and try to be "independent" in their 30's. Chads will continue to slay regardless.
The smart women will ignore feminism and get locked down in their 20's and have kids. The women who suffer will be the ones who latch onto feminism and try to be "independent" in their 30's. Chads will continue to slay regardless.
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cliffs?
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Turning 30 didn't bother me a bit. Turning 25 did. I was married, but only a few years into my career. When my mother turned 25, she had 4 children and had been teaching for 8 years already. Seriously.
I had my son at 31,
Honestly, not a single birthday has bothered me since that gloomy 25th. 40 was awesome, 50 was too. I'm staring down the barrel of fiddy-tree in January and still having a grand time!
I had my son at 31,
Honestly, not a single birthday has bothered me since that gloomy 25th. 40 was awesome, 50 was too. I'm staring down the barrel of fiddy-tree in January and still having a grand time!
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Originally Posted By TrotonKat⏩
Put on your apron and bake some pies for your cats, grandma.cliffs?
At least, I'm guessing this would be the cliffs. TS;DNR
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feels a little something like this
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Originally Posted By VoxExMachina⏩
Cliffs be boring. I thought maybe some drama had happened being 6 pages and all LOLPut on your apron and bake some pies for your cats, grandma.
At least, I'm guessing this would be the cliffs. TS;DNR
At least, I'm guessing this would be the cliffs. TS;DNR
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