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Thread: Fang2 You Asked. My Search For A GF In 2018

post 1542408151 01-31-2018, 12:05 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
This isn't a brag thread. I was asked what I was looking for in another thread. Instead of hijacking that thread I started my own to answer the questions I was being asked.

This is an accountability and improvement thread.
It certainly sounds like it from the beginning.
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What age range of women are you dating?
post 1542409411 01-31-2018, 12:20 PM
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Originally Posted By ****inator⏩
What age range of women are you dating?
Lock up your mom
post 1542410021 01-31-2018, 12:26 PM
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Originally Posted By azakdan2682⏩
It certainly sounds like it from the beginning.
That is establishing a basis for my expectations.

If I didn't have a history of benching over 300 and stated I won't settle for not benching 300 then that would be unrealistic.

If I state I have a lifting experience of X. Whatever X may be then it's not unreasonable to continue with my expectation.
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post 1542410551 01-31-2018, 12:32 PM
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Originally Posted By ****inator⏩
What age range of women are you dating?
I typically like +/- 10yrs. So 38 to 58.

If a girl really stands out I'll go lower but I really don't think I'd want to date someone in their 20's.

I went out with a WNBA player a couple years ago. She really wanted to date me. I took her out one night I think she was like 23 or 24.

We went dancing the band started playing Night Fever. She goes wow this is a good song who sings it. I said The Bee Gees. She said who???

I was done. I took her home and despite her interest never asked her out again.
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post 1542412421 01-31-2018, 12:54 PM
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Date canceled.
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post 1542413051 01-31-2018, 01:01 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
Date canceled.
That’s a shame. Sorry

But honestly how much do you mind? You seem to have a scattergun approach and I think that’s part of the reason you haven’t yet found that one person who can grow to tick all the boxes
post 1542413511 01-31-2018, 01:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
That’s a shame. Sorry

But honestly how much do you mind? You seem to have a scattergun approach and I think that’s part of the reason you haven’t yet found that one person who can grow to tick all the boxes
The problem is his boxes are superficial. Literally no core values listed - hot #1, confident #2 - seriously?

Honesty, integrity, loyalty, respectful, empathetic - nowhere to be seen.

IDK, is this a serious thread? Leo, you know those traits are ridiculously superficial and not good criteria for a LTR.
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post 1542413661 01-31-2018, 01:07 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
That’s a shame. Sorry

But honestly how much do you mind? You seem to have a scattergun approach and I think that’s part of the reason you haven’t yet found that one person who can grow to tick all the boxes
Well it's like this. Until I actually meet them I don't know if I'm truly interested or attracted at all.

Everything up to this point is window shopping. Since probably only 1 or 2 out of 10 dates go to a second date I am best served seeing as many as I can to filter them out.

She texted me. Said she has too much work today asked if we could do it next week.
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post 1542414171 01-31-2018, 01:14 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
The problem is his boxes are superficial. Literally no core values listed - hot #1, confident #2 - seriously?

Honesty, integrity, loyalty, respectful, empathetic - nowhere to be seen.

IDK, is this a serious thread? Leo, you know those traits are ridiculously superficial and not good criteria for a LTR.
The ones I listed are non negotiable. Everything else gets determined as I go.

Of course loyalty matters. Not sure how much I care about her empathy level. Respect is earned not given so again these are basics that everyone expects. If I'm handling my schit yes she should be respectful. But I also want someone that's going to call me out on my schit if she sees me going sideways.

Ideally I want someone equally beautiful inside as outside. But I won't budge much on the outside.

I absolutely without exception let a woman know I will not have a fat long term partner. If she gains weight she's gone. Once we start to get serious I lay out my expectations.
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post 1542414411 01-31-2018, 01:17 PM
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Imagine how much easier it would be to get your 10/10 if you weren’t a fat slob.

You sound like fat females that think they “deserve” a 10/10 model MD with a 10” dick
post 1542414811 01-31-2018, 01:20 PM
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Honestly I’m with Lucifer, he lists ideals that are IMHO important in a partner and that includes empathy...it’s empathy that allows a partner to call you out on your chit not lack of it ..yeah it needs to be wrapped up in an attractive package ideally.

What would happen if that blonde you regularly post as your oneitis gained weight then?

And how come they can’t but you can? What makes weight a non negotiable when they can lose it as well as you can ...people go through different stages of life, sometimes some things can lead to a weight increase for some people
post 1542415591 01-31-2018, 01:27 PM
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Originally Posted By LateShow⏩
Imagine how much easier it would be to get your 10/10 if you weren’t a fat slob.

You sound like fat females that think they “deserve” a 10/10 model MD with a 10” dick
I'm 6' and weigh under 200 at 48.

I lift and am athletic. Body wise not many guys my age better unless the ride bikes.

Not as fat as you think. And yes I've got plenty of in shape women. Always have always will.
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post 1542415751 01-31-2018, 01:29 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
I'm 6' and weigh under 200 at 48.

I lift and am athletic. Body wise not many guys my age better unless the ride bikes.

Not as fat as you think. And yes I've got plenty of in shape women. Always have always will.
current pics of yourself?
post 1542416421 01-31-2018, 01:36 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Honestly I’m with Lucifer, he lists ideals that are IMHO important in a partner and that includes empathy...it’s empathy that allows a partner to call you out on your chit not lack of it ..yeah it needs to be wrapped up in an attractive package ideally.

What would happen if that blonde you regularly post as your oneitis gained weight then?

And how come they can’t but you can? What makes weight a non negotiable when they can lose it as well as you can ...people go through different stages of life, sometimes some things can lead to a weight increase for some people
My number one regret from my marriage is that I got fat. That's the one thing I honestly did to my ex that was completely unfair.

I maintain my weight within a reasonable range.

I weighed less when we ended than when we met.

If she gained weight then we would have to talk and establish a plan for her to lose it which would include me helping her thru my actions and support. It wouldn't be me saying you go do this while I eat crap in front of you.

But if it got to the point I didn't want to phuck her
Then I would end the relationship. There's no point in staying together if you no longer desire the other person which goes both ways.

I know it's my responsibility to take care of my half of the equation and be the best me I can be. My partner deserves that effort. I expect the same in return.

But lastly and it's my only double standard I impose. It's much more important for a woman to be in shape than a man.
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post 1542416571 01-31-2018, 01:38 PM
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Originally Posted By C130pilot⏩
current pics of yourself?
this. I'm expecting 6ft 200lbs 30% bodyfat
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post 1542418511 01-31-2018, 02:01 PM
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Originally Posted By jonB89⏩
this. I'm expecting 6ft 200lbs 30% bodyfat
I'd guess 20%. I hold all my fat in my torso especially abs. Legs face arms all relatively lean.
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post 1542425951 01-31-2018, 03:29 PM
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Originally Posted By Podunks⏩
No hate Leo, but you're the the living embodiment of why miscers who think they will end up feeling fulfilled and content trying to smash randoms into retirement are sorely mistaken.




If he hasn't learned by 48, I'm afraid he's probably not going to.
THIS!

Too many of my peers as well as most of the misc thinks they're never going to get old or some chit. Find the LEAST crazy woman, and just tie the knot. If you're that worried of her taking half your chit, sign a prenup.
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post 1542428541 01-31-2018, 03:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Inb4manlet⏩
THIS!

Too many of my peers as well as most of the misc thinks they're never going to get old or some chit. Find the LEAST crazy woman, and just tie the knot. If you're that worried of her taking half your chit, sign a prenup.
That's your standard? Just find the least crazy one?

To me it's not about the girl I can live with.

It's about the girl I can't live without.

The first is common.

The second is life changing.
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post 1542429341 01-31-2018, 04:07 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
I typically like +/- 10yrs. So 38 to 58.

If a girl really stands out I'll go lower but I really don't think I'd want to date someone in their 20's.

I went out with a WNBA player a couple years ago. She really wanted to date me. I took her out one night I think she was like 23 or 24.

We went dancing the band started playing Night Fever. She goes wow this is a good song who sings it. I said The Bee Gees. She said who???

I was done. I took her home and despite her interest never asked her out again.
lmao
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post 1542440391 01-31-2018, 06:39 PM
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My Friday date is moving to Saturday or Sunday I wasn't ready to watch her grown children's band. Too early for that.

But I just got off the phone with this other girl that sounds like a 10/10 personality. No kids, my age, athletic. But not sure yet if physical attraction is high enough. She did mention the crazy hot scale which is a bonus.

I'm seeing crossfit girl tomorrow.

I have a few other girls who just messaged me. So now it's getting too busy.
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post 1542441541 01-31-2018, 06:54 PM
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post 1542442041 01-31-2018, 07:00 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
My Friday date is moving to Saturday or Sunday I wasn't ready to watch her grown children's band. Too early for that.

But I just got off the phone with this other girl that sounds like a 10/10 personality. No kids, my age, athletic. But not sure yet if physical attraction is high enough. She did mention the crazy hot scale which is a bonus.

I'm seeing crossfit girl tomorrow.

I have a few other girls who just messaged me. So now it's getting too busy.
Made me tired just reading it. Have fun LOL...
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post 1542442821 01-31-2018, 07:10 PM
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
Made me tired just reading it. Have fun LOL...
I can barely keep up with one
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
Made me tired just reading it. Have fun LOL...
Aye, remind me not to click on these threads for the lulz.. better when I'm drunk and down to have long drawn out conversations
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post 1542445201 01-31-2018, 07:38 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Good for you op. More dates than most young miscers lol.
I'm kinda excited to meet this girl. We talked about an hour on the phone and it was fun.
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post 1542445921 01-31-2018, 07:46 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
No but always wanted me to undress her. And drag her into positions.
bitch can't you tell from my clothes all over the floor that i can barely be fukt undressing myself
fukn Brozart
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post 1542446361 01-31-2018, 07:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Did you meet her online? I'm taking a break from online dating but I'm moving to a new city soon and will probably get back on there. Maybe I'll have better luck there.
Yes online she wanted to do a feel out chat before meeting for a drink. We clicked pretty well.

So I hope it transfers over.
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Originally Posted By Brozart⏩
bitch can't you tell from my clothes all over the floor that i can barely be fukt undressing myself
Lol that was our place together. Most of the mess was hers.

I didn't care. Hall of fame Vagina
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