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post 1542507321 02-01-2018, 12:22 PM
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Originally Posted By INSANEREACH⏩
I'm really rubbish in situations like that, I kind of freeze and can't think of anything smart to say back until later after it happened. I think it's due to the bullying at school because my mates often say how quick witted I can be when we talk trash to each other. What also happens due to the bullying at school is I become very aggressive and if what had happened to you had happened to me I would have bounced his head off the walls. My psychologist who Iam seeing for my anti social and borderline personality disorders and complex ptsd calls it 'overcompensation'. Iam basically that kind of idiots worst nightmare. Luckily it hardly ever happens now in part due to the gym but I also think I give off an aura of being a bit of a psycho so idiots like him leave me alone these days.

There aren't any real answers to dealing with people like that. One day he will say it to the wrong person though if he doesn't grow up and end up badly hurt or his friends will realise what an idiot he is and basically stop wanting to hang round with him as they grow up.
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He was bigger taller than me .....

You were at a party mate surrounded by so many pontential weopons

i would have Crowned him with a vase then kicked the phukin chit out him

I dont wont troublt mate
HEADBUTT u phukin kunt
Proceed to kick the living chit out him

Hes not your girls friends friend
Hes trying to get in your girlfriends pants and he just proved how much of a pussy you are op

Its time to start boxing
And time to man the phuk op and stop being a bich

Im a skinny manlet and i wouldnt let any one no matter how big they are or who there gangster cousins are treat me like that
Because i will be back with a bat
And will take on 10 guys no phuks given

You want respect you take it
post 1542507861 02-01-2018, 12:28 PM
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OP learn to think up witty insults quick. Getting insulted and throwing one back immediately puts the **** in their place —

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post 1542508671 02-01-2018, 12:37 PM
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Step 2 return insult with intelligent but demeaning response
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this is why god made weapons OP, you whip it out and everyone gets quiet real fast and you make him pick up the beanie
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that's everyones girlfriend now. also when he said who you are, you should of introduced your self.. but clearly you probbaly would of been shaking and been so flustered. it's best you just let him completely disrespect you in front of your "gf"
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post 1542655911 02-02-2018, 08:17 PM
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Originally Posted By Maxamanius⏩
Feel embarrassed and beta af right now, not sure how to behave in this type of situation so hopefully you brahs can give me a few pointers for next time I'm in a situation like this..

So I went to hang out with this girl I'm dating and she had all her friends at her apartment, they were having like a really mild party. This one guy that shows up is very cocky and annoying. First thing he said when he walked in was "Who's this guy" and everyone just looked at me and I didn't say anything (What am I supposed to say) then the party goes on and he's just very obnoxious then ends up taking the hat off my head. This guy is bigger and taller than me so I can't really fight the dude so I just kinda stood there like I didn't care but I looked stupid af not doing anything about it. He then throws my hat down the hallway. Girl I'm dating told him to stop and then he went outside to smoke with his friends. I walk down the hallway to grab my beanie and just thinking I'm pathetic at this point, not sure what the fuk to do in this kind of situation?

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-Girl I'm dating had a mild party at her apartment
-This obnoxious guy shows up with his buddies
-He harasses me and takes off my hat throws it down hallway
-Guy is bigger and taller than OP with a crew of friends with him
-OP looks like a weak beta that didn't do anything about it
-Guy leaves to smoke
-OP walked down hallway to grab hat off ground
-OP does not know what to do in this kind of situation.
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post 1542656471 02-02-2018, 08:24 PM
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You handle it like Billy crystal in analyze this. Hes a weak beta in comparison to these murderous gangsters and he handles it like a boss. Follow his script and you'll be golden next time

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post 1542657111 02-02-2018, 08:32 PM
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Time to balcony brah...
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post 1542659431 02-02-2018, 09:01 PM
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Two clear cut choices OP.




1.) Find him alone and beat him badly, tear up his face and make it obvious to anyone who looks at him that he was man handled... tell no one you did it, and never speak about it again.






This is best option.

2.) Find the guy in public, and swat his hat off his head or knocking his drink out of his hand............. then get ready to have the chit kicked out of you.


He will be arrested for assault, charged with a felony and jail time and his future is literally over.





























































































The real question you need to ask is, why are you associating with a crowd of people that even allow this chit to happen in the first place? Where are your bros incase chit goes down? Why did you allow yourself to be placed in a situation where either f*cking someone up or looking like a b*tch were the only two options? Why didn't you have a gun or something to even the playing field if your not a physical or aggressive person?


Those are some hard questions a young man has to ask himself... good luck mate.
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post 1542659831 02-02-2018, 09:05 PM
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Never leave home without these in your coat pocket.

Slip one on and one good hit to their jaw, they'll be done.

post 1542660101 02-02-2018, 09:08 PM
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Should of threw the hardest goddamn sucker punch into his jaw.

Or hip toss him and choke em out.

If you know how to do any sort of physical violence that is.

Or gouge out his eyes and .. Wait no. Too extreme.

Just tell your girl how upset you're and maybe she will pity smash.
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Originally Posted By RushEm⏩
not sure whats funnier, what OP did or what miscers are saying they wouldve done.

This is a sh!t test by a male. Best course of action is to come off as you arent offended or intimidated by him. Replying with a question without directly answering. Simply saying "thats no way to meet someone new, now is it?" is good enough. If you answer the question "m-my name is OP" you're his bitch. If you get rustled and say something about being "the guy who is [insert cringe line here]" you're being fake confident
Dont get up to shake his hand, stand your ground and make him come to you. Shake his hand firmly and give him a subtle deathstare that says "try that chit again with me and one of us will be in the hospital".

Easy
Lol @ this post... you clearly have never been in a clinch situation or know how to handle yourself.


If OP took your advise, the aggressor would have seen it as challenge and immediately escalated the situation. These "types" are easy to control... thats with the threat of overwhelming violence if the situation doesn't reach a peace conclusion immediately.




Also, lol'ed hard at "thats no way to meet someone new, now is it?".... thats when the guy goes nope, then coldcoks you upside the head.
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Didn't read the replies ITT but ****ing-A OP you sound like a phukking *******
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you appeared weak in front of your girl...your girl is no longer your girl now, she's his...tour's over boyo
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This is why we don't just lift, we go to fight gyms. Cannot take time to read whole thread. Like said above, squat and dead lift for 1 year, take wrestling or jujitsu, some boxing, and then hit that fuking ******* up at another party.

Your post pissed me off so bad I'm gonna get in a bag workout tonight.
I lost my chit.
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Originally Posted By Train_Harder⏩
Never leave home without these in your coat pocket.

Slip one on and one good hit to their jaw, they'll be done.

LOL, really. "Hang on there a minute, please, Biff, while I squeeze into my fighting gloves." Sure thing, buddy.
I lost my chit.
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer⏩
Go NC on all of them, you shouldn't be fukn with her. If she fuks with immature ppl like that that she can go fuk herself
This. I hung around a few girls in my early 20's who entertained these types. Bad news all around. Water finds its own level. You can always judge someone by the company they keep. If her group of friends isn't your type of crowd chances are they'll end up sabotaging your relationship anyways.

Should have responded when he walked in but that was semi-passable. When he took your hat that was straight up disrespect. I would have walked right up to him, as close as I could get without touching, and said "I'll take my hat back". If he didn't give it back I would take it. It's one of those moments that demands you show self respect and confidence as a man.
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Originally Posted By Slimbibbidy⏩
LOL, really. "Hang on there a minute, please, Biff, while I squeeze into my fighting gloves." Sure thing, buddy.
As opposed to doing nothing? Gloves take 5 seconds to put on.
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as soon as he took your hat you should have told him to go get it. you know he wont do it. and when the discussion about getting the hat gets heated, you take your right hand, ball it up and hit him in the mouth. if you drink beer, have the discussion while sipping your beer bottle..and then smash the bottle on the side of his head.

respect over everything.
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Originally Posted By kneeonbelly⏩
as soon as he took your hat you should have told him to go get it. you know he wont do it. and when the discussion about getting the hat gets heated, you take your right hand, ball it up and hit him in the mouth. if you drink beer, have the discussion while sipping your beer bottle..and then smash the bottle on the side of his head.

respect over everything.
Then spend rest of your life getting disrespected by 4-5 big dongs in ya angus in prison.
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Originally Posted By RushEm⏩
not sure whats funnier, what OP did or what miscers are saying they wouldve done. Simply saying "thats no way to meet someone new, now is it?" is good enough.

Easy
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Originally Posted By momo5⏩
Then spend rest of your life getting disrespected by 4-5 big dongs in ya angus in prison.
after you break dude down it's an ideal time to leave. no one will tell on him. i've done that before - beat someones ass over respct and leave.
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Loling hard as fukk at some of the misc badass response in here. Majority of you know you would've acted the same way the op did. Don't kid yourselves because you're behind a screen.

There are two types of people in the world. Alphas and betas and it's really hard to change the type you are. It takes years and years and involves changing the essence of who you are. Too much work involved. It's best to accept who you are.

In regards to your situation. You acted in the right. You accepted your betaness and responded accordingly. If you would've acted differently you would've went home with at least at broken nose if you're lucky.

I'm 6'4" 265lb with not an ounce of fat and a short fuse. I live for situations like yours. I cant count the amount of betas I've knocked out COLD just because they were trying to "save face" or protect their image in front of their gf or friends. Lmfao! Trust me your situation could've been worse. The world is the world and ain't nothing you can do to change it.
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Not sure how this is even a question, your course of action if a stranger takes something that is yours is to take it back.
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Originally Posted By becomegreen⏩
Loling hard as fukk at some of the misc badass response in here. Majority of you know you would've acted the same way the op did. Don't kid yourselves because you're behind a screen.

There are two types of people in the world. Alphas and betas and it's really hard to change the type you are. It takes years and years and involves changing the essence of who you are. Too much work involved. It's best to accept who you are.

In regards to your situation. You acted in the right. You accepted your betaness and responded accordingly. If you would've acted differently you would've went home with at least at broken nose if you're lucky.

I'm 6'4" 265lb with not an ounce of fat and a short fuse. I live for situations like yours. I cant count the amount of betas I've knocked out COLD just because they were trying to "save face" or protect their image in front of their gf or friends. Lmfao! Trust me your situation could've been worse. The world is the world and ain't nothing you can do to change it.
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Thought this thread was going to be about balding when I read the title

And the girl was embarrassed and everyone at the party lol'd at you

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