Hey guys, just looked at his post history, he got banned for making a thread about it a while ago that's why he's no longer on the misc. The mods clearly don't want this kind of discussion on the sub. I suggest we let otaku message him on his own time if he wants and leave it at that.

Sounds like the guy just wants peace and this probably won't help him.


Changing subject, I'm on that post NFL season withdrawal not sure how to spend my Sundays now. Tfw no gf2 and no football

Unaware about who this CJ is. Can you tell me more?

This thread will get closed if we post too much about it. Short version was that CJ was a regular poster here, threatened to kill himself, was talked INTO it by a bunch of miscers. Dude loaded his webcam up and tinychat, posted it on the misc, overdosed, died on camera, last part of the video was police kicking his door in and finding him there. Most of the people in the video chat area were miscers including someone I won't mention who ended up mass-banning tons of members with her crew after they called her out on it after the smoke cleared. Misc made national news.

It was bad. Very bad.

We don't need that sort of thing to happen again. And people don't need to kill themselves over temporary problems.

agreed, leave this dude alone before we all get banned and get this thread back on topic.

I hope we can bank on this. The professionals say that its the quiet ones you need to worry about.

We here James, hang in there bruh.

I remember him, always wondered how he's been doing. Seems like this is something we can't go further into, I really hope you can help. Didn't know his story was so bad and I hope he can get past this, no one/their family needs to go through this kind of thing. I'm sure he's heard it all by now, but I'm here if there's anything I can do to help

Bit of a story time from yesterday:

-Math professor gives us some quiz in class.
-I get talking to this one other bro about my answers afterward, missed it / 10.
-Some girl sitting besides the guy gets talking to me about the quiz.

-She asks what my name is. "I'm FA", and I go for the business handshake like she's my ****ing manager. Yep, I don't talk to girls very much.
-Keeps talking to me for like 3-5 minutes, just about school and easy common-ground **** like that.

-She goes "well if you're not doing anything after class, you want to go to the library with me?"
-I don't know if she's interested in me or just being friendly, and tbh, I really don't care. I need more time around girls however I can get it.
-But I remember that I have a ****load of lab work to take care of, probably an all-nighter's worth.
-I tell her "uhh, I'd love to, but I've got a bunch of work to do."
-Get a confused look. "Ok then..."

-I go home
-It does up being an all-nighter's worth of work. Brb work 7PM-6AM, take a 2 hour nap, then go at it again.
-I get to lab. People are bitching left and right about the assignment, and half the class pulled all nighters. "Worst prelab in four years here." "If the next assignment's like that, I'm dropping the ****ing class."
-I grind on circuit layouts like a bitch.
-TFW I'm going to have to wait another 6 months for another girl to actually want to talk to me.

Phuking Hell, why do our forum names have the same sentiment?

Lol. She basically gave you all the signs in the world and you ****ing missed the basket. Come on, man. Are you even trying?

This chick served herself to you on a silver platter and you still fukked it up..

Don't listen to the dumbazzes itt saying you should have dropped everything just because a chick was going to the library. It's not like she asked you to her room.

You did a good job, you had work to do. Don't lose priorities for pussay

James is doing fine guys. First day of the factory job. I won't lie but I honestly felt off the entire day. Even though I was in the military for 5 years I don't exactly mesh too well with blue collar people. Understand I don't think I'm better than anyone, but I was cringing the entire day at the statements and actions people were making. Essentially just people that do poorly in life because of their own choices. This gave me even more of a drive to land a coding/web dev job as soon as humanly possible.

I'm still supposed to get my old job back, but I was told that could be 2 months (been 30 days) or upwards of potentially 8 -_-.

People noticing the weight loss.

Don't sweat it, you had a lot of work to do.

If you don't feel like waiting around six months with your thumb up your ass, you can always strike up a convo with a chick at your uni.

If there's a will, there's a way.

FA****

You should have said sorry I'm busy, but we can study another time and grabbed her FB.

Infact it's probably not too late, just go up and say hello and start again

Goddamn dude. That actually annoyed me. You fuked up real bad. You could have stayed for just an hour and left but not before getting her number. You needed the experience.I felt off with the second job at currently at for my first day too. Now I'm at week 3 and slowly getting used to waking up early and to the set schedule. Granted there is alot of bs with the company though but my primary concern is saving up some money and finding another job.

Are you paid weekly? And do you get points for attendance?

1. Paid weekly
2. If have good attendance an output I'll get hired to the actually big company and not as a temp worker. Too be honest its most ratchet/hood ass black people and redneck/country white people. Hence why I felt off and just kept to myself all day. Purely based on my personality I bet I could climb the the ranks and look at making near 20 an hour if I really wanted to if I put in some work and talked to the supervisors. However I'd rather write some compiled or interpreted coding language in Atlanta, Miami, Nashville, Dallas, L.A, Seattle, or etc.

Ayyyyyy...atleast reschedule bro. Next class, you approach her and feel her out. If she seems receptive, suggest grabbing lunch or library if you guys have work to do. Currently she may think you ain't interested.

This.

FA****: If you see that girl again, approach her and see what you can make happen. She made an effort with you so just reciprocate in kind.

What? Wasn't aware of this how does that work?

That bitcoin thing stings right? I'd kill for a time machine sometimes.

I heard about bit coin super early , but it sounded like a joke.

You can't blame yourself, you can't predict the future and know exactly what to gamble on

Derp:

"Hey, I have a ton of work to do for lab tonight but how about tomorrow or this weekend or...."

Jesus dude....

The misc is so retarded and thirsty. You're making it seem like she asked him on a date or something.

This is not a big deal. The chick has shown absolutely no romantic interest whatsoever. OP had no reason to assume anythung more and he did the right thing.

Are you autistic?

Dude wants to meet women. A woman asks him to the library (maybe just as friends, maybe as classmates, maybe something more, doesn't matter), dude fcks it up when he could have easily suggested an alternative meetup time. That would have given him notice if she was interested or not. It's seriously not difficult. And this is coming from an introvert who likes spending time alone. This is basic conversation ability that humans have developed over thousands of years. If you can't understand that, maybe you have something wrong with you?

This isn't romantic anything. It's basic human conversation between sexes.....

Girl: Let's do X
Guy: I'm busy right now, how about tomorrow
Girl : <either> OK! or No thanks

The fact that I'm having to explain this....

lol

Got a call from an IT help desk job that pays 15.00 an hour. Slayed the phone interview. In person interview on Wednesday. Also getting put through a Sec+ bootcamp if I get hired.

Alot of the FAers here legitmately cannot pick up on social vibes. I think Psycho and Iamdetermined are the only other guys I REALLY feel for.

Day 2 of the new job over. 41 year old single in my class was trying to low key holler at your boy, but I hit her with that.

7 vHere's why, if this was a random guy would the misc care that he said he was busy? No.

But because it's a girl it's somehow some crazy mistake that he turned down some random chick he doesn't even know that happened to be going to the library?

I've had this kind of thing happen before, it's meaningless. You're making a mountain out of a molehill.


."omg misc a girl acknowledged my existence today what does it mean "???

PSA: a girl talking to you is not some life changing event , you pathetic virgins. You don't have to go out of your way every single time someone acknowledges you exist. It's not some misc story time whenever a girl says hi holy fuk

I've had girls do waaaaay more than that and it wasn't some magical sign..this is just basic social interaction.

Hey guys, a girl talked to me at the library today, then I went about my life like any non retarded non virgin, rather than overanalyze a random casual conversation. Did I make some big drastic mistake?!?+

Yeah, about 60 seconds after I walked out the door I was kicking myself. In the moment, I was just like "fuuu, I got a lot of work to get done, ain't no one got time for that ****."Monday morning quarterbacking it, this is how I should have played it.
When the last time a girl even spoke to you was November 2017, any potential opportunity becomes a big deal.

Well thats part of the problem. What the fuk is stopping you from being more proactive with women? You don't have to wait until someone says something to you. If you are just waiting for random encounters that 99.99% mean nothing, you're a fool.

I should know, because thats how I used to be. I can't count how many times I made a big deal because someone said something to me. Its honestly pathetic, do better