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Sloth Thread Part XIII: Looks get you matches, game gets you smashes
02-15-2018, 12:55 PM
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Originally Posted By HolaMamacita⏩
Read last couple of pages. If you aren't on tinder plus, you aren't going to get a lot of matches.OG Tinder brah here. Been noticing it for a while, tinder is only getting worse. Back in the day you could swipe all you wanted, girls would actually match, girls would actually respond, and girls would actually meet. Now, barely any matches, even less responses to messages, and, obviously, less meet-ups. Bumble is actually light-years better in terms of the matches I get, but still, most of the time nothing goes anywhere.
I also match with, no joke, almost no-one less than ~20 miles from where I live (Annapolis--never Tinder here). I'll get the odd match who lives in Annapolis once in a GREAT while.
Also, a word of advice... If you don't say the exact things she wants to here it's NEXT for you. Being super sexual with a girl not into it is death, however, being too "good" with a girl who actually wants a hookup is just as bad. You'll never know which she is though.
Tinder is at the veryleast90% attention hoes and bullsheeters (flakes). Don't get me wrong, I still use it and still have "luck" once in a while, so it's worth using, but it's also a lot of work. Enough work to the point where I don't even feel like Tindering unless I'm super bored.
Good luck bros.
I also match with, no joke, almost no-one less than ~20 miles from where I live (Annapolis--never Tinder here). I'll get the odd match who lives in Annapolis once in a GREAT while.
Also, a word of advice... If you don't say the exact things she wants to here it's NEXT for you. Being super sexual with a girl not into it is death, however, being too "good" with a girl who actually wants a hookup is just as bad. You'll never know which she is though.
Tinder is at the veryleast90% attention hoes and bullsheeters (flakes). Don't get me wrong, I still use it and still have "luck" once in a while, so it's worth using, but it's also a lot of work. Enough work to the point where I don't even feel like Tindering unless I'm super bored.
Good luck bros.
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02-15-2018, 01:12 PM
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nice work spade working towards that 6 pack life my friend, haha but it said at the gym I was 10 percent fat I don't believe it, anyways how do you get that kissing gif? I tried everything rough kiss?
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02-15-2018, 01:31 PM
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Whats up brahs/ 6 months I have been clean from tinder. lol. I havent wasted any time with Tinder. I regret wasting so many months on it. Got into crypto. made millions but lost it all again. lol.
Is tinder still full of girls wasting 99% of non chad guys time?
Was tempted to go on it this valentines (still probably have plus) but went to the gym and it was full of hot girls alone.
Is tinder still full of girls wasting 99% of non chad guys time?
Was tempted to go on it this valentines (still probably have plus) but went to the gym and it was full of hot girls alone.
02-15-2018, 01:33 PM
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Originally Posted By HolaMamacita⏩
LOL I already imagined this. Is it still good in foreign countires? I remember it was decent when I traveled.OG Tinder brah here. Been noticing it for a while, tinder is only getting worse. Back in the day you could swipe all you wanted, girls would actually match, girls would actually respond, and girls would actually meet. Now, barely any matches, even less responses to messages, and, obviously, less meet-ups. Bumble is actually light-years better in terms of the matches I get, but still, most of the time nothing goes anywhere.
I also match with, no joke, almost no-one less than ~20 miles from where I live (Annapolis--never Tinder here). I'll get the odd match who lives in Annapolis once in a GREAT while.
Also, a word of advice... If you don't say the exact things she wants to here it's NEXT for you. Being super sexual with a girl not into it is death, however, being too "good" with a girl who actually wants a hookup is just as bad. You'll never know which she is though.
Tinder is at the veryleast90% attention hoes and bullsheeters (flakes). Don't get me wrong, I still use it and still have "luck" once in a while, so it's worth using, but it's also a lot of work. Enough work to the point where I don't even feel like Tindering unless I'm super bored.
Good luck bros.
I also match with, no joke, almost no-one less than ~20 miles from where I live (Annapolis--never Tinder here). I'll get the odd match who lives in Annapolis once in a GREAT while.
Also, a word of advice... If you don't say the exact things she wants to here it's NEXT for you. Being super sexual with a girl not into it is death, however, being too "good" with a girl who actually wants a hookup is just as bad. You'll never know which she is though.
Tinder is at the veryleast90% attention hoes and bullsheeters (flakes). Don't get me wrong, I still use it and still have "luck" once in a while, so it's worth using, but it's also a lot of work. Enough work to the point where I don't even feel like Tindering unless I'm super bored.
Good luck bros.
Also great first post OG. lol
02-15-2018, 02:05 PM
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever⏩
I think it's a regional thing. I'm also in Canada and cannot find it.God damn dude, WHERE DO YOU FIND THAT GIF. I type in rough kiss and I can’t find it.
It is available on Bumble however.
02-15-2018, 02:16 PM
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Originally Posted By Scotty.⏩
I googled it and found as well.I think it's a regional thing. I'm also in Canada and cannot find it.
It is available on Bumble however.
It is available on Bumble however.
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02-15-2018, 04:36 PM
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Originally Posted By Scotty.⏩
i used to be able to find the gif on tinder (the 2nd or 3rd pic) but its not coming up anymore.I think it's a regional thing. I'm also in Canada and cannot find it.
It is available on Bumble however.
It is available on Bumble however.
02-16-2018, 12:22 AM
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02-16-2018, 01:37 AM
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[QUOTE=liftyousay post_id=1543962741]#6
[img]https://s18.postimg.org/5gwhi3iyh/IMG_9394.jpg[/ig][/QUOTE]lol'd @ cheeky finger down the pants. Do these chicks know you're taking their pic? Seems like eventually you'd get caught and into trouble, or are you just a master picninja?
[img]https://s18.postimg.org/5gwhi3iyh/IMG_9394.jpg[/ig][/QUOTE]lol'd @ cheeky finger down the pants. Do these chicks know you're taking their pic? Seems like eventually you'd get caught and into trouble, or are you just a master picninja?
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02-16-2018, 02:27 AM
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[QUOTE=liftyousay post_id=1543962741]#6
[img]https://s18.postimg.org/5gwhi3iyh/IMG_9394.jpg[ /img][/QUOTE]Damn, only 6 for the year? Thought you would be atleast double digits by now,
Did you get up to 50+ during last year?
[img]https://s18.postimg.org/5gwhi3iyh/IMG_9394.jpg[ /img][/QUOTE]Damn, only 6 for the year? Thought you would be atleast double digits by now,
Did you get up to 50+ during last year?
02-16-2018, 06:55 AM
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Drinks with a 34 year old avid crossfitter this evening. 2 Masters degrees...obviously lifts...
My body is ready.
So is my mind...since she'll probably flake. lel.
My body is ready.
So is my mind...since she'll probably flake. lel.
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02-16-2018, 08:45 AM
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Originally Posted By UnclRuckus⏩
no, but i also never ninja where you can tell their identity, nor where their private parts are showing (though obv clear they're naked, by lack in clothes). also i end up deleting almost all of them. been caught once and i think i said something along the lines of 'just wanted to think back at what a good job i did on you' (she was laying in a obscure position as if i'd just made her legs curl within themselves).lol'd @ cheeky finger down the pants. Do these chicks know you're taking their pic? Seems like eventually you'd get caught and into trouble, or are you just a master picninja?
Originally Posted By Aaronza⏩
somewhat tougher and more effort is needed - more numbers, on top of that, to get better odds, and since i don't pay for all the perks needed to be as successful... yeah. should be at 7 (or 8), but i didn't have a condom on me, and then she ghosted the following week when i reached out (still matched) - seems that's their protocol as another one that i got a bj from ghosted, too. maybe i took too long to reach out afterwards. who knows. i've also done a couple repeats.Damn, only 6 for the year? Thought you would be atleast double digits by now,
Did you get up to 50+ during last year?
Did you get up to 50+ during last year?
nah, last year i did 31. year before was the big year... 71, when i feel girls were more laxed not knowing as much about the power they withheld in sex, and were more plain dtf, for that matter. i'm trying to get to 200 lifetime this year. 39 more to go..
btw I saved 'a lot' of money on a happy hour yesterday, so definitely recommend checking out those (have always met after when they'd be done).
02-16-2018, 09:13 AM
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Originally Posted By twovalvekid⏩
Hmm I had plus for a while several months ago because someone gave me itunes gift cards (lmao worthless), and it was surely better, but not by that much. Never tried gold. I assume it's a scam. I'd pay $5 a month for tinder plus, but not much (if any) more.Read last couple of pages. If you aren't on tinder plus, you aren't going to get a lot of matches.
It's not just tinder tho. Okcupid and PoF are much, much worse than they used to be. Pretty much on the same level as tinder. Maybe worse.
02-16-2018, 11:36 AM
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true alphas have many kids
No hymen no Diamond
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guys I have a few question to some of you tinder long term slayers;
what distance do you guys usually travel to meet the chicks??
where do you usually bring the chicks? after getting their numbers is it better to snapchat them or contact via number? whats your match to date ratio? how many chicks go out with you? ive had 3-4 dates out of 30 matches since 30 january idk if thats good.
what distance do you guys usually travel to meet the chicks??
where do you usually bring the chicks? after getting their numbers is it better to snapchat them or contact via number? whats your match to date ratio? how many chicks go out with you? ive had 3-4 dates out of 30 matches since 30 january idk if thats good.
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02-16-2018, 11:52 AM
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Originally Posted By leopardheartz⏩
not really, I seen plenty of beta losers with a bunch of kids they dont take care of.true alphas have many kids
True alpha has the means to take care of all of them
Originally Posted By liftyousay⏩
what u mean brah? Happy hour pick ups?btw I saved 'a lot' of money on a happy hour yesterday, so definitely recommend checking out those (have always met after when they'd be done).
02-16-2018, 12:27 PM
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Im skeptical about you Spadelexus.
Your text game is aggressive and here in canada (montreal) if I go with this approach, I get exactly zero positive responses. Where do you live? maybe that has a lot of influence on how you can approach. And what does your pictures look like ? blur the face but id like to see your selection.
Your text game is aggressive and here in canada (montreal) if I go with this approach, I get exactly zero positive responses. Where do you live? maybe that has a lot of influence on how you can approach. And what does your pictures look like ? blur the face but id like to see your selection.
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02-16-2018, 12:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
never will get married. have no problem with the idea of being forever mono with one girl, however, though i'm aware that's rare, a girl being okay with doing that, as her gf's walk around with rocks on their fingers. i also view a gf as there not being a point in having one unless it is the woman you want to have kids with - still not sold on whether I ever will, but if i do, i'll prob do it before the age of 45, so plenty of time. see , many guys will string along women in their prime, fertile years, and i refuse to do that. actually i'm banging higher quality, these days, than past years, so far, for sure, meeting them out first etc. last nights was in the 7 range, easily, testing more before meeting, to see if i was congruent etc.Do you ever think about getting a gf or getting married eventually? Or do you prefer just only hookups?
You'd probably be able to get much hotter girls if you offered a relationship or commitment. Like why aim so low in just random hookups with I assume just average girls if you could get a hot gf and bond with her more?
Or is that really not what you want at all? I think we talked about it before but I don't remember what you said.
You'd probably be able to get much hotter girls if you offered a relationship or commitment. Like why aim so low in just random hookups with I assume just average girls if you could get a hot gf and bond with her more?
Or is that really not what you want at all? I think we talked about it before but I don't remember what you said.
and yeah, we likely have 'talked' about it. my views have not changed much since. have recently slept with a girl on 3 different occasions, over a span of a month. had never done that, but by then so much of her baggage came out, which was off putting to me. most guys (and girls) settle. i have the options of putting these girls through trial periods to see if it's something i'd like to pursue, if not, 'the sex was good, girl, but better luck with someone willing to handle your chaotic life'.
lastly, the hotter the gf, the more demands, drama, empty wallet. nothing wrong with a 6.5 or 7 with a good personality, that is feminine, of a traditional mindset, whose father is still a part of and in her life. last nights was somewhat like that, raised on a farm in middle America, though can tell she is still out riding the carousel, as i finish typing this, cause of her age, among other things i picked up on - they all love to play their innocence when around you (oh yeah, you're the first guy i've slept with in LA)
Originally Posted By leopardheartz⏩
not in a society like ours. those are known as losers. it's different, if you mean with the same woman.true alphas have many kids
Originally Posted By ineed$⏩
drinks can be like half off, and if you date a lot, that can add up.what u mean brah? Happy hour pick ups?
02-16-2018, 04:21 PM
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Originally Posted By brah.sensation⏩
I've written my forum username on several girls asses to prove I'm not frauding. I even wrote one of the sloth thread titles above a girls vag when I first started posting here.Im skeptical about you Spadelexus.
Your text game is aggressive and here in canada (montreal) if I go with this approach, I get exactly zero positive responses. Where do you live? maybe that has a lot of influence on how you can approach. And what does your pictures look like ? blur the face but id like to see your selection.
Your text game is aggressive and here in canada (montreal) if I go with this approach, I get exactly zero positive responses. Where do you live? maybe that has a lot of influence on how you can approach. And what does your pictures look like ? blur the face but id like to see your selection.
Guys have seen my pics and rate me in the top 10-20% or some chit aesthetically. Trust me, I'm also surprised at how these girls respond, but you should know that all those girls I just posted have gone NC. Another 20yo I haven't posted yet I opened with "come here and I will phuck you. Hard. Then feed you." and she came Valentine's night and we smashed. Little lesser quality than the other girls but still pussy was tight and she let me do pretty much what ever I wanted to her. Funny story she actually asked me to spit on her so I was about to spit on her then she said "not on my face, I don't want my make-up ruined..."
I'm about an hour outside NYC but get the same results in Philly, DC, Boston and Chicago. All cities I go to for work and have pulled half way decent (6+/10's) looking girls for drinks then smashed using direct aggressive game. As well as several hole in the wall towns throughout the US (all though its much more of a crap shoot) In fact, in terms of hookup success ratio DC is the best city I've ever tindered.
I do recall spoofing to Montreal because I love that city and was thinking to go on a long weekend tinder escapade there since the girls are mad hot... But wasnt impressed with my results. So it could definitely be location sensitive. I'll spoof again and find out.
02-16-2018, 04:51 PM
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#7
no work today. got a random txt from a 21 year old chick around noon, i had matched with mid week.
a few back and forths then..

(condoms line was just to double check that we were not wasting our time here)
fatfished me. cute face.
she had a roommate that was at work.
found out that roommate was male and that they shared the room i f'd her in.
these women
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no work today. got a random txt from a 21 year old chick around noon, i had matched with mid week.
a few back and forths then..

(condoms line was just to double check that we were not wasting our time here)
fatfished me. cute face.
she had a roommate that was at work.
found out that roommate was male and that they shared the room i f'd her in.
these women
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02-16-2018, 05:07 PM
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Originally Posted By HolaMamacita⏩
The value of gold is that you can see your incoming pipeline and also time your matches to spread your pipeline. The most valuable paid feature tinder has imo is superlikes. I can match more 8/10's with superlikes than by boosting.Hmm I had plus for a while several months ago because someone gave me itunes gift cards (lmao worthless), and it was surely better, but not by that much. Never tried gold. I assume it's a scam. I'd pay $5 a month for tinder plus, but not much (if any) more.
It's not just tinder tho. Okcupid and PoF are much, much worse than they used to be. Pretty much on the same level as tinder. Maybe worse.
It's not just tinder tho. Okcupid and PoF are much, much worse than they used to be. Pretty much on the same level as tinder. Maybe worse.
That said I think its all a scam. Once they get you hooked with the paid features they just try to get you paying for more and more (I think) so they might actually be making it harder for paid users because they know they'll get your money. Like a slot machine.
When I created a new account I got 100+ matches of decent quality the 1st week on a free account. I bought plus after 1 week. 3 weeks later I have 200 matches.
Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
"Usually" not more than 1/2 hr travel time. If shes hot or I'm in a dry spell I'll travel further.guys I have a few question to some of you tinder long term slayers;
what distance do you guys usually travel to meet the chicks??
what distance do you guys usually travel to meet the chicks??
Theres no shame in traveling long distances for pussy if thats why you are asking.
where do you usually bring the chicks?
To a bar for drinks then to her place/my place/hotel or date #2.after getting their numbers is it better to snapchat them or contact via number?
I dont snap. I only use their #.whats your match to date ratio?
Less than 5%. Maybe like 1-2%. Smash about 50% of all dates. When I dtf screen I smash like 90% of dates.how many chicks go out with you? ive had 3-4 dates out of 30 matches since 30 january idk if thats good.
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Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
yeah thanks for answering the questions brah i wanted to know how i fared against the more seasoned tinder playasThe value of gold is that you can see your incoming pipeline and also time your matches to spread your pipeline. The most valuable paid feature tinder has imo is superlikes. I can match more 8/10's with superlikes than by boosting.
That said I think its all a scam. Once they get you hooked with the paid features they just try to get you paying for more and more (I think) so they might actually be making it harder for paid users because they know they'll get your money. Like a slot machine.
When I created a new account I got 100+ matches of decent quality the 1st week on a free account. I bought plus after 1 week. 3 weeks later I have 200 matches.
"Usually" not more than 1/2 hr travel time. If shes hot or I'm in a dry spell I'll travel further.
Theres no shame in traveling long distances for pussy if thats why you are asking.
To a bar for drinks then to her place/my place/hotel or date #2.
I dont snap. I only use their #.
Less than 5%. Maybe like 1-2%. Smash about 50% of all dates. When I dtf screen I smash like 90% of dates.
Better then me.
That said I think its all a scam. Once they get you hooked with the paid features they just try to get you paying for more and more (I think) so they might actually be making it harder for paid users because they know they'll get your money. Like a slot machine.
When I created a new account I got 100+ matches of decent quality the 1st week on a free account. I bought plus after 1 week. 3 weeks later I have 200 matches.
"Usually" not more than 1/2 hr travel time. If shes hot or I'm in a dry spell I'll travel further.
Theres no shame in traveling long distances for pussy if thats why you are asking.
To a bar for drinks then to her place/my place/hotel or date #2.
I dont snap. I only use their #.
Less than 5%. Maybe like 1-2%. Smash about 50% of all dates. When I dtf screen I smash like 90% of dates.
Better then me.
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02-16-2018, 06:36 PM
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Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
#'s don't mean anything to compare unless you are also comparing strategy and quality. For example there was a poster here recently boasting about his 5000 tinder matches. When you scrubbed out the fatties and uggos he had maybe 200 matches that I'd bang. And since I mainly dtf screen my match to date ratios are lower. I was trying to work bumble into the calculations. I have a much higher date ratio with bumble it seems (hard to really tell since you can't count matches that disappear lol)...but I recently got banned from bumble. Too busy to figure out how to make a new account.yeah thanks for answering the questions brah i wanted to know how i fared against the more seasoned tinder playas
Anyways....
Brah.sensation isn't gonna like this.
1st match in Montreal after spoofing for 20min.

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Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
I wasn't necessary concerned about the tinder number of matches because i reset my tinder recently I know that doesn't matter much. I was more concerned about the matches to date ratio, is drinks at a bar the best date, or can I bring them somewhere else? I don't want to turn into an alcoholic if i stack up a few dates at a time. I wanted to bring a tinder date to the theme park haha mostly because I would think it's fun.#'s don't mean anything to compare unless you are also comparing strategy and quality. For example there was a poster here recently boasting about his 5000 tinder matches. When you scrubbed out the fatties and uggos he had maybe 200 matches that I'd bang. And since I mainly dtf screen my match to date ratios are lower. I was trying to work bumble into the calculations. I have a much higher date ratio with bumble it seems (hard to really tell since you can't count matches that disappear lol)...but I recently got banned from


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02-16-2018, 07:15 PM
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Originally Posted By DanSDA⏩
Right, but what Im saying is what is your goal? To hookup with 5-6/10's or date 7-8/10's? If it's the former than just invite them straight to your house. If its the later then yeah drinks or going to an amusement park does sound fun. Might actually try that in the summer.I wasn't necessary concerned about the tinder number of matches because i reset my tinder recently I know that doesn't matter much. I was more concerned about the matches to date ratio, is drinks at a bar the best date, or can I bring them somewhere else? I don't want to turn into an alcoholic if i stack up a few dates at a time. I wanted to bring a tinder date to the theme park haha mostly because I would think it's fun.
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Edit: just messaged the girl from Montreal. She double messaged me on tinder after she gave me her # and I didn't txt her. Then I felt bad because I was trolling her and wasn't gonna msg her, so I unmatched her. Then I felt worse because what did she do to deserve me phucking with her? She could have been suicidal then I unmatched her and that was the straw that broke the camels back. So I messaged her explaining.

Anyways this whole exercize got me depressed for several reasons.
02-16-2018, 07:30 PM
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Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
mostly hooking up don't think I'll find the love of my life on tinder so I'm not too concerned about that. couldn't I bring girls to different types of dates mostly things I enjoy and then hookup? or is it more efficient to meet them for drinks or invite straight to my place.Right, but what Im saying is what is your goal? To hookup with 5-6/10's or date 7-8/10's? If it's the former than just invite them straight to your house. If its the later then yeah drinks or going to an amusement park does sound fun. Might actually try that in the summer.
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like i said before. ive probably got like 5 matches ever and nothing ever happens. my latest one is the one thats asking me out for a drink. not the best looking but looks like a sure smash.
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