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Thread: Horrible advice I see on the misc regarding women (srs)

post 1544995771 02-27-2018, 05:11 AM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
“Never gf a girl from tinder” or “Never gf a girl from a bar/club”

I see this mentality posted on the misc all the time, and it doesnt make sense and just reveals your insecurities.

Yes trashy women frequent both more than quality ones but that doesn’t mean good women arent there either. Nowadays everybody uses tinder, if anything you’d probably be a bit weird if you were single and not on there for one reason or another. Same with bars/clubs, everyone goes out and socialises sometimes, and theres nothing wrong with that. Would you honestly want a girl that never drinks/goes out? She’d be super boring.

It really just speaks to your own insecurities, not wanting to be in those competitve environments and feeling inferior to other men. It doesn’t take a genius to realise a good girl from a bad one, but this is based upon actual traits learned over time, not on the location of where you first meet them.

The truth is social drinking environments and online dating are the best platforms for finding girls. They give you access to the most girls with the least effort, if you are only hitting on girls you happen to come across the chances are so much slimmer of finding someone compatible.

Cliffs:

- There are both quality and trashy women on tinder and in bars

- You’re an idiot if you can’t tell the difference
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post 1545001391 02-27-2018, 07:16 AM
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OP Brah, post your instagram, so i can see the chad who is giving this advise.

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post 1545002061 02-27-2018, 07:30 AM
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But opie when chad is in the bar all the women flock to him how am i supposed to compete.



























only joking i am chad
post 1545002631 02-27-2018, 07:36 AM
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there's more competition on dating apps than anywhere else, so if you find a good girl there then good on you
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
Unfortunately, ive shown them pics of the good ones but they still say this rubbish

They seem to think UK girls are exclusively the type out partying at 4am in places like Newcastle
Oi Newcastle isn't bad, this is coming from someone in Northeast USA.

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post 1545003031 02-27-2018, 07:43 AM
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Tinder is good only for 1 thing.
post 1545003211 02-27-2018, 07:45 AM
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Do you think miscers really believe half the crap they spout ?
post 1545003381 02-27-2018, 07:49 AM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
You guys focus far too much on this, its not a big deal what you look like
im starting to believe others claims of you being autistic
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post 1545003721 02-27-2018, 07:53 AM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
Go and pick up girls at the musuem then,il be seeing her on the side when i find her on tinder anyway
brah your attitude is pretty much disgusting

negged

so now you have two choices
- accept the neg & move on
- neg me back for the simple fact that i negged you

when you just admitted you'd be banging some chick on the side who is with somebody.
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post 1545003781 02-27-2018, 07:54 AM
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post 1545003801 02-27-2018, 07:54 AM
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Problem is Luke, our home country has clubbing (and drinking) highly embedded in the culture. If you've never been, you're highly considered as boring/some kind of freak. This has two implications;

1. Yes, normal girls will be in clubs. BUT, they're very likely going to be unapproachable because they're only out with the girls and assume any guy approaching them is just looking to phuck. So you'll get rebuffed by conservative girls, and any girl willing to keep up the flirtation is likely a sloot or at least a closeted one.

2. The very act of clubbing and drinking is likely to turn once conservative girls into well,something elsethat I can't put a word on. But they're not wife material.

Here in Poland, if you're a club hound that's precisely what you're seen as. And the girls on average are far more viable long term partners as a result.

Club culture is downfall culture.
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post 1545003851 02-27-2018, 07:54 AM
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lmao...very entertaining thread.
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post 1545004051 02-27-2018, 07:57 AM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
Yeh its not hard for me, but thats not the point of this thread

I dont want miscers searching for girls in the library trying to find a gf, when those girls are on tinder and go out on Fridays anyway. Guys who aren’t using these methods are wasting their time
I did always say you give some of the best advice here, still holds true. Gjdm
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
Tinder is a bad option for ugly guys sure, bars its not a problem so much.

Most miscers arent ugly, they jusy have the wrong attitude
Nah. I'm fukcin' ugly.
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post 1545004411 02-27-2018, 08:01 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Not sure if srs? Looks are the most important factor in dating. Goodlooking people have it way easier than less attractive people. Even more so with online dating which is based only on pics.
Unfortunately I think this is true, if you are looking to date and you don’t know what anyone’s personality is like yet, all they have to go off of is what looks good to them.
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post 1545004461 02-27-2018, 08:02 AM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
- You’re an idiot if you can’t tell the difference
Honestly this.
If you can't tell that someone's a bum within a week of talking to them and after the first time hanging out together, then it's your own fault if you wind up in a less than favorable situation.



But still, fuk Tinder lol.
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I wouldnt actually take any advice from any site or forum on the internet. Thing is in those 100.000 of years before the internet people just walked their own way on their porsue of pussy and it often worked out.
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post 1545005271 02-27-2018, 08:11 AM
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post 1545005441 02-27-2018, 08:13 AM
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The misc's biggest insecurity is the thought of their woman sleeping with someone else. They'd much rather be lied to and live in blind ignorance about her previous behavior than get a woman who is open and honest with them. Judgmental, insecure, unrealistic expectations, no desire to put in any work themselves... That pretty much sums up the misc.
post 1545005541 02-27-2018, 08:14 AM
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Originally Posted By InstantLoser⏩
Nah. I'm fukcin' ugly.
You're only a kinda ugly, not super ugly.
I'm back, bitches!
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Originally Posted By AstheticPunjabi⏩
trust me bro. ive been friends with girls that seem nice and innocent with boyfriends who were in a different university.

they would legit try to phuck me when we all hit the clubs, dance, drank etc.

one of them tried to put my hand up her shirt and told me to go upstairs with her.


i cant trust a girl who drinks and parties
You single by any chance?
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
You're only a kinda ugly, not super ugly.
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I agree with the part about nice girls being in clubs. Everyone goes out sometimes, especially in major cities you are looked at as super lame/boring if you don't.

That being said just LOL at banging anyone I meet at a night club, that seems like a good way to get AIDS.

Try Meet Ups or Community Service to meet quality women, my brother met his wide doing Habitat for Humanity Builds.
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Originally Posted By CopeyDan⏩
You single by any chance?
no, why brah
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now 204 and fat :(
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Originally Posted By AstheticPunjabi⏩
no, why brah
And your girl seriously doesn't enjoy partying?
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Originally Posted By CopeyDan⏩
And your girl seriously doesn't enjoy partying?
nah she doesn't drink either

we've been to kickbacks together. thats pretty much it.
she has never gone to a club. the only thing she drinks is wine with her fam or me
or at like her friends wedding, etc
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now 204 and fat :(
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Tinder girls are trash, club/bar sloots are trash. lol at trying to find 'the one' through that cesspool
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Originally Posted By LegalAesthetics⏩
Tinder girls are trash, club/bar sloots are trash. lol at trying to find 'the one' through that cesspool
to be fair, OP from UK
i know for a fact 90-95% of girls that hit the club and get drunk here in US are trashy af
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Originally Posted By AstheticPunjabi⏩
to be fair, OP from UK
i know for a fact 90-95% of girls that hit the club and get drunk here in US are trashy af
Most chicks that are on tinder here are all in relationships, and want to cheat...idk how it is there.
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Originally Posted By TaeBoNinja⏩
You can find quality females anywhere, but.....different places have different odds of that happening. Looking on Tinder for anything other than a hookup is just dumb. Clubs are meat markets, usually for people who like to drink and sloot it up with multiple partners on the regular.

I mean if you're in college this is fine, but once you get pass the "wet behind the ears" stage of life this sh!t will get old fast. Adults find partners through social activities and friends. Responsible adults, do responsible things in their daily lives. That means they have a stable job, don't get wasted at the club, and have a good network of friends and associates.
Agree. I do think that there are some older (30+) people that use online apps and are actually trying to find a relationship. If you are settled in life your circle of acquaintances may not be that big and/or may not include many single people once you hit that age.
Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Do you think miscers really believe half the crap they spout ?
Depends on the day. Seems to be lots of loneliness (no surprise, online socializing) and a lot of people with past trauma/abuse and/or current mental issues.
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