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post 1546239421 03-12-2018, 03:23 PM
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Type of women I can be friends with:
1. Lesbian
2. Family
3. Ugly
4. Fat
5. Smokers
6. Any tattoos.
None.of those I could want to bang
post 1546284761 03-13-2018, 05:30 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Well I think it's a pretty common life choice to start or keep a relationship with someone you're not attracted to for other benefits of the relationship, and I don't want to end up like that.
That's not what the guy was saying. He was talking about love and genuine feelings, not circumstantial benefits. Which is why your comment was messed up. If you developed REAL feelings for someone, your superficial attractiveness requirements would become irrelevant.

So, either you really love that person and you don't care about the rest, or you dislike how they look/feel like you settled and you don't really love them. It's one or the other.
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Originally Posted By Henryaaron2055⏩
Type of women I can be friends with:
1. Lesbian
2. Family
3. Ugly
4. Fat
5. Smokers
6. Any tattoos.
None.of those I could want to bang
this

hey maylie, maybe we can be friends after all
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post 1546286101 03-13-2018, 06:06 AM
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Originally Posted By GnarlySheen⏩
Yes. I'm friends with girls. Theres no sexual tension or attraction on my part at least. It's pretty easy if you're not a moron.
I can confirm, I am moron.
post 1546286391 03-13-2018, 06:14 AM
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post 1546286591 03-13-2018, 06:19 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Ok yeah makes sense. I want to feel both. Emotional/mental connection and physical attraction. Not just getting along great with someone but being physically attracted as well.

Of course when it's a long term relationship/marriage we will both age and physical attraction becomes less important, and eventually unimportant when you get old enough. But by then it won't matter when you really love someone and have been together a long time.

That's different and fine. I just don't want to start a relationship without physical attraction in the first place.
How luck are you having on finding that perfect guy?
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post 1546288141 03-13-2018, 06:51 AM
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Originally Posted By Fang2⏩
How luck are you having on finding that perfect guy?
lmao i was thinking the same thing, jesus man you sloots need to chill on that requierement list
post 1546288181 03-13-2018, 06:52 AM
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post 1546290071 03-13-2018, 07:26 AM
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Yes. Two of my close friends are women who are attractive and guys hit on a lot. I've been friends with both for over 15 years and never did anything with them besides crash on the couch more times than i can count lol.

Ones married, stood up in the wedding and I'm expected to be named godfather when she gets preggers.


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Very possible, you want them to just be friends, think of them as just a friend then, if you care about them enough to respect that boundary it won’t be a problem to treat them as just a friend, have self control and it’s all good.
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post 1546291281 03-13-2018, 07:44 AM
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Originally Posted By JaymzJ⏩
Very possible, you want them to just be friends, think of them as just a friend then, if you care about them enough to respect that boundary it won’t be a problem to treat them as just a friend,have self control and it’s all good.
Just for discussions sake, if someone needs to have self control is it truly platonic/friendship?
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
i think this might just be a you thing
of course it is a "you/female" thing. 99% of females are selfish as fk (you can't blame them, it is built into their DNA) and only think of themselves. they hold no accountability for their actions. that is why they can set up a date with a guy and flake without feeling any guilt. or simply put they don't follow through with what they say. a prime example of this is if they had set up a date with timmy for saturday on a tuesday, but chad turns up on weds/thurs and says he wants to date on saturday. she will drop timmy without a second thought.

so if there are any cucks reading this learn to not take women seriously. and watch their actions, now what they say.
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post 1546294021 03-13-2018, 08:18 AM
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Originally Posted By DirtyDon123⏩
Just for discussions sake, if someone needs to have self control is it truly platonic/friendship?
Self control involves more than just controlling sexual urges or romantic feelings, it involves what situations you allow yourself to be put in also, controlling what you think about is important too. Anyone could start off just friends and unintentionally develop feelings also, everyone needs self control at all times, it’s what keeps us from making many bad choices, not just whether we can just remain friends with someone or not.
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Originally Posted By DirtyDon123⏩
Just for discussions sake, if someone needs to have self control is it truly platonic/friendship?
Exactly what I was thinking when aristotlean (sp?!) was posting earlier, I just couldn't put it into the right words.
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Originally Posted By DirtyDon123⏩
Just for discussions sake, if someone needs to have self control is it truly platonic/friendship?
Of course not. I always thought it was universally understood that any woman you talk to on a regular basis that has even just one quality you like, you will want to fucck her.
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
Of course not. I always thought it was universally understood that any woman you talk to on a regular basis that has even just one quality you like, you will want to fucck her.
Das it mane
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Originally Posted By DirtyDon123⏩
Das it mane
Indeed my good chap. Pip pip cheerio and all that good buddy!
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