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post 1547214491 03-23-2018, 11:35 AM
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Originally Posted By canonhope
I can see and agree with all these things although in terms of career there are plenty parents establishing themselves. Mastering hobbies, building a physique, building stronger relationships with people can be done with children. These are probably type A personalities though, and normal people may not handle it all.

Deadhead, your idea is centered with not being tied down/freedom. That's a very valid reason to put off children.

However, "enjoying your youth" if you're over 25....
Why does everyone keep bringing up "youth"? Continuous development and experience is what separates the wise from the young and unexperienced. Having a kid will limit the professional experiences in life and while you may learn some things about yourself though parenthood, you still have to consider your kids through any decision you make.
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i don't know, i kind of let my nuts hang after i had kids.

self employed, taking on big risk contracts, hustling much harder than i would if my expenses were a room in a 3 bedroom apt and beer money.

kind of forces you to grow up and become a man; and then after that, it's on you what kind of man you want to be. wage earning man is nothing to be ashamed of, regardless of what misc tells you. the mentality of "why work when you can put $20 in bitcoin and be a millionaire in 3.5 weeks" or "just be an entrepeneur bro" are words of someone who hasn't lived life yet.

remember, if it was fun, it wouldn't be called work. very few of us on this planet can get paid for doing things we enjoy doing. the rest of us have to grind it out on the planet. keep your daughters off the stripper pole and pay your mortgage. don't be an ******* and live a little. that's all there is.
post 1547214601 03-23-2018, 11:36 AM
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Originally Posted By deadhead6391
You still havent clarified how he is in any way a parasite.
Was I asked to clarify how OP is a parasite? Or are you just pulling strings to make it seem less like you're having autistic spurts dissociated from all previous context?
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post 1547214691 03-23-2018, 11:36 AM
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Originally Posted By cobhc
Definitely not saying that people who choose not to have kids are immature or social/economic parasites.

I'm saying, within the context of this thread, that OP, who thinks kids will stop him from peaking, wants to:

1. get yucky wit da boiz in vegas @ 35
2. ride a motorcycle

is an immature parasite.
Because doing those things makes you immature? By who’s authority? Yours? Fuking lmao. Like being a chitty parent makes you any more mature.

Just go dude, your arguments literally have no basis. I am:

In a great and lucrative career and will reach heights that most of you *******s will never sniff in the next 4 years
Have my own place and am financially indepent
Lift and take care of myself
Have a good friend group and good relationship with my parents
Get drunk and go out most weekends
Have an active and healthy sexual life


But by your logic I’m immature becuase I should be trying to settle down and have a kid before i’m ready for it instead of drinking snd having fun because i’m no longer a teenager and should grow up.

Just lmfao
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having children is how people cope with 9-5
how else are you supposed to justify sitting at a desk for 60% of your life?

also lol@ how people say having kids makes you an adult

there are scumbags on council estates that can raise healthy, functioning human beings
thats not a fuking achievement
post 1547214941 03-23-2018, 11:39 AM
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Originally Posted By ssilv
Why does everyone keep bringing up "youth"? Continuous development and experience is what separates the wise from the young and unexperienced. Having a kid will limit the professional experiences in life and while you may learn some things about yourself though parenthood, you still have to consider your kids through any decision you make.
I don't know why youth is brought up either. I quoted Deadhead.
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Originally Posted By cobhc
Definitely not saying that people who choose not to have kids are immature or social/economic parasites.

I'm saying, within the context of this thread, that OP, who thinks kids will stop him from peaking, wants to:

1. get yucky wit da boiz in vegas @ 35
2. ride a motorcycle

is an immature parasite.
1. I already have been to vegas multiple times u mad?
2. I already have a motorcycle and get yucky on itagain, u mad?

And lmao if you think calling me immature means anything when you don't even look like you lift
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Originally Posted By cobhc
Was I asked to clarify how OP is a parasite? Or are you just pulling strings to make it seem less like you're having autistic spurts dissociated from all previous context?
Well lets hear it then. You called him a parasite, how is he a parasite? Thats seriously the dumbest thing ive heard all day.
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever
Because doing those things makes you immature? By who’s authority? Yours? Fuking lmao. Like being a chitty parent makes you any more mature.

Just go dude, your arguments literally have no basis. I am:

In a great and lucrative career and will reach heights that most of you *******s will never sniff in the next 4 years
Have my own place and am financially indepent
Lift and take care of myself
Have a good friend group and good relationship with my parents
Get drunk and go out most weekends
Have an active and healthy sexual life


But by your logic I’m immature becuase I should be trying to settle down and have a kid before i’m ready for it.

Just lmfao
Dude, you're 24 years old and you're repping chemical engineering and financing when you just started interning a week ago.

That's not my logic... you're just retarded.
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post 1547215151 03-23-2018, 11:41 AM
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Originally Posted By ssilv
1. I already have been to vegas multiple times u mad?
2. I already have a motorcycle and get yucky on itagain, u mad?

And lmao if you think calling me immature means anything when you don't even look like you lift
Fuarkkk, that cut deep bro.
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post 1547215371 03-23-2018, 11:43 AM
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Fuk me youre a bunch of depressing kunts
post 1547215841 03-23-2018, 11:49 AM
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Originally Posted By cobhc
Dude, you're 24 years old and you're repping chemical engineering and financing when you just started interning a week ago.

That's not my logic... you're just retarded.
Interning? Lmao, this is the biggest cope I’ve ever seen.

24, have a chem eng degree from a top school. Writing l3 of the cfa exam this year and I work full time in equity research 60-80 hours a week and love my job.

Lmaoo what have you done with your life? Bet you’re a fuking tradie 😂
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Love my kids. Won't change it for nothing. But I've always wanted kids for some odd reason so idk. Maybe im just a outlier here in the misc.

One thing for sure that you learn from having kids is how to be selfless. Which a lot of you koonts here seem to lack from your comments.
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Originally Posted By Metalmank
Love my kids. Won't change it for nothing. But I've always wanted kids for some odd reason so idk. Maybe im just a outlier here in the misc.

One thing for sure that you learn from having kids is how to be selfless. Which a lot of you koonts here seem to lack from your comments.
Can you give me one solid point for how being selfless has actually worked in your favor? "It made me feel good about myself" logically doesn't count
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post 1547216471 03-23-2018, 11:55 AM
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever
Interning? Lmao, this is the biggest cope I’ve ever seen.

24, have a chem eng degree from a top school. Writing l3 of the cfa exam this year and I work full time in equity research 60-80 hours a week and love my job.

Lmaoo what have you done with your life? Bet you’re a fuking tradie
My work is referenced in AISC360-16 and AISC341-16.

Congratulations, you have a degree but at the moment you're inexperienced and I'm assuming have a long way to go from calling yourself a Chemical Engineer. I wish you the best in achieving that, it's a difficult field and from the looks of it, you're still a dumb *******.
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Originally Posted By ssilv
Can you give me one solid point for how being selfless has actually worked in your favor? "It made me feel good about myself" logically doesn't count
Having kids is not selfless, you get satisfaction from a child, or else they wouldnt have one, or would regret it, like many parents do.
Since parents sometimes regret having children because of the stress, how can you say its a selfless act?
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Originally Posted By cobhc
My work is referenced in AISC360-16 and AISC341-16.

Congratulations, you have a degree but at the moment you're inexperienced and I'm assuming have a long way to go from calling yourself a Chemical Engineer. I wish you the best in achieving that, it's a difficult field and from the looks of it, you're still a dumb *******.
he has a chemical engineering degree and a job in chemical engineering. How is that not considered a chemical engineer?
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Originally Posted By cobhc
My work is referenced in AISC360-16 and AISC341-16.

Congratulations, you have a degree but at the moment you're inexperienced and I'm assuming have a long way to go from calling yourself a Chemical Engineer. I wish you the best in achieving that, it's a difficult field and from the looks of it, you're still a dumb *******.
Lmaooooo, such a sad little man.

Already an E.I.T and i’ll have my P. Eng and , CFA in 3 years because my work experience counts towards both as we do techincal and financial work. Eat your heart out tradie ******* 😂😂😂
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it's not right for everyone

i have zero desire to do it

my life is so easy

on a whim i decided to spend thursday night out at the bars just raging

drank a bunch of water, went to sleep for 4 hours, feel great at work

gonna do it all again tonight

life is for living, not being enslaved to a wife and then kids

when all of these bubbles pop and the economy explodes in a year or so, it's gonna be so brutal for anyone needing to support other people
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Originally Posted By UglyMong
Having kids is not selfless, you get satisfaction from a child, or else they wouldnt have one, or would regret it, like many parents do.
Since parents sometimes regret having children because of the stress, how can you say its a selfless act?
> regret it

It's not like you can take it back. Also, that usually means they didn't have enough satisfaction in life beforehand so they needed to create another potential source of happiness
Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever
Lmaooooo, such a sad little man.

Already an E.I.T and i’ll have my P. Eng and , CFA in 3 years because my work experience counts towards both as we do techincal and financial work. Eat your heart out tradie *******
Lulz keep it up bro, trade****s can enjoy the dirty life while I'm in my office with a nice view and a slooty receptionist
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Originally Posted By deadhead6391
he has a chemical engineering degree and a job in chemical engineering. How is that not considered a chemical engineer?
Because he isn't licensed to practice it, retard.

A degree doesn't make you a doctor, engineer or a lawyer.
Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever
Lmaooooo, such a sad little man.

Already an E.I.T and i’ll have my P. Eng and , CFA in 3 years because my work experience counts towards both as we do techincal and financial work. Eat your heart out tradie ******* ���������������� �
E.I.T. stands for Engineer-In-Training.

You passed an FE. Congratulations?

Lol @ tradie.
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Originally Posted By cobhc
Because he isn't licensed to practice it, retard.



E.I.T. stands for Engineer-In-Training.

You passed an FE. Congratulations?
Are you that stupid? You aren’t even an engineer lmao. Do you not understand that the only thing keeping me from my P.Eng is time. Good for you for being older than me. Lmao, your logic continues to be ridiculous
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Originally Posted By cobhc
Because he isn't licensed to practice it, retard.



E.I.T. stands for Engineer-In-Training.

You passed an FE. Congratulations?

Lol @ tradie.
LOL you've been talking all this chit but we don't even know how old you are.
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever
Are you that stupid? You aren’t even an engineer lmao. Do you not understand that the only thing keeping me from my P.Eng is time. Good for you for being older than me. Lmao, your logic continues to be ridiculous
I just told you that my work is referenced in AISC360-16 and AISC341-16....

If you want me to spoon feed that to you: I am, in fact, a structural engineer.
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Originally Posted By cobhc
Man, you millennial folks are some narcissistic *******s.

By all means, live life only for yourself and never have kids. Never mind that your parents, grandparents, great grandparents, etc.. all had to sacrifice gettin' yucky wit da boyz, getting swole, banging 5/10s on tinder and becoming personal trainers for their kids.

I don't have any kids that I know of yet but if you think having children will inhibit your lifestyle, you're probably not even fit to be a father and will raise another school shooter.
its a bunch of fearmongering about losing out on gettin yucky with the boys.
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Originally Posted By ssilv
Why does everyone keep bringing up "youth"? Continuous development and experience is what separates the wise from the young and unexperienced. Having a kid will limit the professional experiences in life and while you may learn some things about yourself though parenthood, you still have to consider your kids through any decision you make.
How do kids limit your professional experience?
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Originally Posted By engj
How do kids limit your professional experience?
1. Pass up trips due to child needs
2. Limited involvement due to time and energy constraints
3... do you get the point?

Put someone with a kid and someone without a kid in the same position. The person without a kid will be more available, have more energy, and will ultimately be more focused due to any side chit not being there.
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Originally Posted By cobhc
I just told you that my work is referenced in AISC360-16 and AISC341-16....

If you want me to spoon feed that to you: I am, in fact, a structural engineer.
I waited to see how long before you had to lay it out. lol yeah, we got some real high flying 24 yo engineers up ITT.

the naivety. The misc keeps me young

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if anything, id peak harder if i had kids
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Originally Posted By Arkileon
this is a gross exaggeration but im still in the no kids crew
not in the least bit.

If you live in an HOA (where everyone has to mind their P's and Q's) or a neighborhood with mostly older liberal residents with nothing to do, you better believe they're snooping around looking for chit to write-up/report.
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