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Thread: Do women in their 30s play games like this?!

post 1547413151 03-25-2018, 07:48 PM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
I don't do drugs at all it was a joke. CHL/LTC carrier so I can't do any of that ish. This was like date 1/2 though. We were well past that.
Ahhhh I see. Well, maybe she didn't realize you were joking? It seems that something definitely happened to make her turn all of a sudden. Maybe not, but it's just such a change from how you said she acted prior to that last date.
Originally Posted By sword_⏩
Got another date later today.

Doctor unmatched me on Bumble.Maybe just clearing her queue for more dickor she noticed that we hang out within close proximity of one another (less than 3 miles away).

Also some 24 year old was trying to have sex with me this weekend but I totally wasn't into her. She slept at my place but SUPER ANNOYING. Threatened to kick her out lol.
I'm sorry Sword, I'm really not trying to be on your case, but this just seems so hypocritical. You were on Bumble at the same time you noticed her on there. You really can't fault her for doing the same thing you're doing.

I hope your date today went well.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Ahhhh I see. Well, maybe she didn't realize you were joking? It seems that something definitely happened to make her turn all of a sudden. Maybe not, but it's just such a change from how you said she acted prior to that last date.



I'm sorry Sword, I'm really not trying to be on your case, but this just seems so hypocritical. You were on Bumble at the same time you noticed her on there. You really can't fault her for doing the same thing you're doing.

I hope your date today went well.
There's Bumble Bizz for business connects. I could also be looking at her profile. I wasn't hunting for pussy but sure she was hunting for dick lmao.

I seriously don't know why she was off. I'm pretty straight edge, work out, etc. Probably out of my control too TBH
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post 1547414671 03-25-2018, 08:08 PM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
There's Bumble Bizz for business connects. I could also be looking at her profile. I wasn't hunting for pussy but sure she was hunting for dick lmao.

I seriously don't know why she was off. I'm pretty straight edge, work out, etc. Probably out of my control too TBH
Well, you say you were on there for above board reasons, so you really can't just assume she wasn't as well.

Yeah, sadly, you'll prob never know. I hate that never knowing and always wondering feeling. It's the worst. Which is why I never ghost people, even when it's no fun telling someone you're not interested.
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Originally Posted By kel_varnsen⏩
She reminds me of some women I'm friends with. These are the type of women that are fun to hang out with, but who are soul crushing to date. Women in their 30s, who still look good, have a good job, and who has dated a ton of guys in the past. Not necessarily slept around, but who has met and dated loads of guys. And now they're conflicted between settling down and finding someone who is good enough for them (princess syndrome).

These types of women are damaged goods. They have had too many options in the past, and have jumped from guy to guy, while "focusing on their career".
Absolute truth right here.

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Originally Posted By bluegold04⏩
Absolute truth right here.

On spread, will get you later.
Ya the damaged thing is writing on the walls which is ****ing with me. Cuddling one day and withdrawing the next...it's not logical. So yeah if I whine about it ITT I'm trying to wrap my head around it lol.

Got some dates lined up this week but feeling off. Usually it takes me a day or two with casual dates but I'm not feeling 100%
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Originally Posted By kel_varnsen⏩
She reminds me of some women I'm friends with. These are the type of women that are fun to hang out with, but who are soul crushing to date. Women in their 30s, who still look good, have a good job, and who has dated a ton of guys in the past. Not necessarily slept around, but who has met and dated loads of guys.And now they're conflicted between settling down and finding someone who is good enough for them (princess syndrome).

These types of women are damaged goods. They have had too many options in the past, and have jumped from guy to guy, while "focusing on their career".
I've said this a million times. a womens' threshold for whom she is innately attracted to adjusts based on her past partners, irregardless of her own value, and stays elevated. men don't behave this way.


I know women like this too. decently attractive, intelligent, fun, established in their careers. because of their attractiveness and career exposures in their twenties/early thirties, they are used to being desired by wealthy businessmen. hot shot lawyers. doctors. associates. men wearing blazers driving teslas that make 500k+ a year on the regular. dating them. phuckking them. men in their absolute prime. They can't hold them down.

now imagine the feeling of utter, utter disappointment in having to "settle" for some mid grade sales analyst making ONLY 100K a year that drives a honda accord. princess syndrome all the way.
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Originally Posted By psychosylocibin⏩
now imagine the feeling of utter, utter disappointment in having to "settle" for some mid grade sales analyst making ONLY 100K a year that drives a honda accord. princess syndrome all the way.
LOL'd yeah dude I'm gonna clear $120 - 125K with my total package by the end of the year but there are the .01% of women like in my case the doc that I will have low success with outside of flings.
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Should have taken my advice and hid some jolly ranchers on your gooch....she must have felt less special when she reached down there over and over to find nothing but sweat.
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
LOL'd yeah dude I'm gonna clear $120 - 125K with my total package by the end of the year but there are the .01% of women like in my case the doc that I will have low success with outside of flings.
nice mang! dat financial freedom.

yeah, it reminded me of the time where a friend tried to set up me up with a project manager at phukking target that probably made around 150k+ a year who was my age. I told her I had a house, but it was in an inner ring suburb that wasnt super duper "trendy" and she seemed to lose intererest. not joking. thing is, she was fat and I wouldn't even smash her if she offered it up for free.
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Originally Posted By devin45k⏩
Should have taken my advice and hid some jolly ranchers on your gooch....she must have felt less special when she reached down there over and over to find nothing but sweat.
Shoulda got her to eat my ass SMH.
Originally Posted By psychosylocibin⏩
nice mang! dat financial freedom.

yeah, it reminded me of the time where a friend tried to set up me up with a project manager at phukking target that probably made around 150k+ a year who was my age. I told her I had a house, but it was in an inner ring suburb that wasnt super duper "trendy" and she seemed to lose intererest. not joking. thing is, she was fat and I wouldn't even smash her if she offered it up for free.
Tech is lucrative. I have companies hit me up on LI all the time but obviously tech range is much lower than doctors obviously which make $250K+.

That's wild though. Honestly I dunno why I'm sprung on this chick. She isn't the most attractive I've been with. Maybe because of the sex and she reminds me of an ex of mine :-/ Plus never been ghosted before like this lmao.
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
That's wild though. Honestly I dunno why I'm sprung on this chick. She isn't the most attractive I've been with. Maybe because of the sex and she reminds me of an ex of mine :-/ Plus never been ghosted before like this lmao.
Feels bro. Had a very similar thing happen this Xmas/New Years season. Had me come over on Xmas day to meet her parents, all over me cuddling and stuff, sex was on point, introduced me to her best friend, blah blah blah. Then, out of nowhere she is 'busy' and just fades away.

What messed with me the most I think is that you always hear "watch their actions, don't listen to their words." All her actions pointed to this being a real thing. Then poof. The irrationality of it really threw me for a while. And the sting to the ego to boot lol.

Oh well, life goes on. You're gonna make it man.
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Originally Posted By bluegold04⏩
Feels bro. Had a very similar thing happen this Xmas/New Years season. Had me come over on Xmas day to meet her parents, all over me cuddling and stuff, sex was on point, introduced me to her best friend, blah blah blah. Then, out of nowhere she is 'busy' and just fades away.

What messed with me the most I think is that you always hear "watch their actions, don't listen to their words." All her actions pointed to this being a real thing. Then poof. The irrationality of it really threw me for a while. And the sting to the ego to boot lol.

Oh well, life goes on. You're gonna make it man.
I think what is screwing with you and the OP the most is the fact that the woman preemptively put an end date on your interactions without 1) disclosing this to you and/or 2) telling you otherwise & making false promises. If you really think this through & what they are trying to accomplish itsrelativelyeasy to screen for these kinds of things, both vocal and non-vocal.
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Originally Posted By sanblz33⏩
I think what is screwing with you and the OP the most is the fact that the woman preemptively put an end date on your interactions without 1) disclosing this to you and/or 2) telling you otherwise & making false promises. If you really think this through & what they are trying to accomplish itsrelativelyeasy to screen for these kinds of things, both vocal and non-vocal.
I saw the non-verbal queues and eventually verbal but it was night and day.
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Originally Posted By psychosylocibin⏩
I've said this a million times. a womens' threshold for whom she is innately attracted to adjusts based on her past partners, irregardless of her own value, and stays elevated. men don't behave this way.


I know women like this too. decently attractive, intelligent, fun, established in their careers. because of their attractiveness and career exposures in their twenties/early thirties, they are used to being desired by wealthy businessmen. hot shot lawyers. doctors. associates. men wearing blazers driving teslas that make 500k+ a year on the regular. dating them. phuckking them. men in their absolute prime. They can't hold them down.

now imagine the feeling of utter, utter disappointment in having to "settle" for some mid grade sales analyst making ONLY 100K a year that drives a honda accord. princess syndrome all the way.
This right here is what must drive successful women crazy. No wonder they end up going further into their careers then realising they don't have so many options. I feel bad for them though, I mean, if you are that high up, that means even less men are suitable.... and well we men don't give so many ****s.

That being said I couldn't be with someone who doesn't have ambition... they would be too alien to me.
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Originally Posted By kel_varnsen⏩
She reminds me of some women I'm friends with. These are the type of women that are fun to hang out with, but who are soul crushing to date. Women in their 30s, who still look good, have a good job, and who has dated a ton of guys in the past. Not necessarily slept around, but who has met and dated loads of guys. And now they're conflicted between settling down and finding someone who is good enough for them (princess syndrome).

These types of women are damaged goods. They have had too many options in the past, and have jumped from guy to guy, while "focusing on their career".
Furk this hit me real hard cause I know many women like this. A few of them have even shown clear interest in me but deep down inside I know I will never be able to satisfy them knowing how they are and the type of guys they have been with. It sucks because I am sooo attracted to this types of girls.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
But generally yes a career does not help in attracting men and it might even be a detriment in many cases.
Career doesn't matter to some men, but yet most want a lady that works and has a little ambition. When I was on the app, I was very ambiguous with what I do (finance). This one time I was talking with a a guy, very average looking. He started to ask what I do and then we got deeper into the conversation. Out of the blue he unmatched me. I hate to say it, but a lot of men are insecure when it comes to a woman making more than them. Just LOL.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes true for many career women. Not all though, I also know female doctors and lawyers etc who married an equally high earning man and those types of marriages are really high income.

But generally yes a career does not help in attracting men and it might even be a detriment in many cases.
true. men are not really attracted to power the way women are. therefore career doesn't make a difference. in some ways, it can make a women appear more "masculine" if she is higher up in the chain and more aggressive/etc, which is actually a turn off for many men.
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
I hate to say it, but a lot of men are insecure when it comes to a woman making more than them. Just LOL.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
But generally yes a career does not help in attracting men and it might even be a detriment in many cases.
It may be a detriment if the man has a chit career himself.

I do decent, so I fully expect my partner to do half decent as well. Otherwise GTFO. Anybody with a head on their shoulders and similar to my age should be doing decent or else they've failed in life and or lack ambition, especially if you from North America where there is ample opportunity to become somebody. My childhood reminds me of how chit it is to live in a low income household. I would feel like a failure if my children suffered the same fate. I wont get into how I like to live the good life which takes cake.

The last 2/3 gf's i've had made more money than me and it certainly has it benefits. Infact, if I discover she makes more than me, it raises her value in my eyes lol. I suppose you could say I am a mild gold digger, tee hee.

Any man that is intimidated by a woman who makes more than he does is lacking elsewhere as well.
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
I hate to say it, but a lot of men are insecure when it comes to a woman making more than them. Just LOL.
Maybe he's just smart enough to know you'll have less innate attraction to him if he earns less.

I think it depends on the differential. If both are high earners, then it matters less. If the guy is making $35k and the woman $120k, then it's more of a problem imo.
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
Career doesn't matter to some men, but yet most want a lady that works and has a little ambition. When I was on the app, I was very ambiguous with what I do (finance). This one time I was talking with a a guy, very average looking. He started to ask what I do and then we got deeper into the conversation. Out of the blue he unmatched me. I hate to say it, but a lot of men are insecure when it comes to a woman making more than them. Just LOL.
You can laugh all you want, but it is women who have created this atmosphere of insecurity. Look up the divorce statistics within marriages where the woman earns more than the man, or even worse if she works and he stays at home. Further, given that around 70% of divorces are initiated by the woman and the family court system is firmly gynocentric, many worthwhile men are understandably super cautious about the situation you so flippantly mock.

"I hate to say it, but a lot of women are insecure when it comes to a man not making more than them. Just LOL."

You can either choose to be a part of the problem or the solution. I don't know you, so I will assume you do want to be part of the solution and your dismissive mockery is a result of ignorance on the matter. Women have it rough in this life, and so do men.
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
Any man that is intimidated by a woman who makes more than he does is lacking elsewhere as well.
Haha, I'm intimidated by a sow grizzly with her cubs, does that mean I'm lacking or that I possess a healthy awareness of potential consequences?

It's not that the woman makes more, disposable income can be super fun. Rather, it is the significance it could potentially have on the relationship, including a man's emotional and physical well-being. And boy oh boy some of those statistics are brutal.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes true for many career women. Not all though, I also know female doctors and lawyers etc who married an equally high earning man and those types of marriages are really high income.

But generally yes a career does not help in attracting men and it might even be a detriment in many cases.
Yeah this woman mentioned her and her friends would lie about their professions (say they are teachers) to talk to men because many were intimidated. She also told me most male doctors are not good partners apparently.

I hardly if ever brought up age or the fact that she makes twice as much as I did lol.
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Originally Posted By bluegold04⏩
It's not that the woman makes more, disposable income can be super fun. Rather, it is the significance it could potentially have on the relationship, including a man's emotional and physical well-being. And boy oh boy some of those statistics are brutal.
Ya with beta men who have no spine which unfortunately represents the overwhelming majority of men we see today. The problem sometimes is that some of these women are in a position of power (manager at work, etc) so they may bring that home with them as they are accustomed to giving direction and being bossy. I just simply wouldn't tolerate that and I am dominant from the start so there is no surprises. If she doesn't want to run the house hold proportional to our salaries, it also won't work out.
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
Ya with beta men who have no spine which unfortunately represents the overwhelming majority of men we see today. The problem sometimes is that some of these women are in a position of power (manager at work, etc) so they may bring that home with them as they are accustomed to giving direction and being bossy. I just simply wouldn't tolerate that and I am dominant from the start so there is no surprises. If she doesn't want to run the house hold proportional to our salaries, it also won't work out.
My aunt is in her late 50s and single. She talked to men that were going through divorces (just happened that way) and dated some but never settled down. This woman is assertive and worked as a Federal Agent for 26 years. She told me she could have gotten some good men but for some reason she didn't want them.
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
Ya with beta men who have no spine which unfortunately represents the overwhelming majority of men we see today. The problem sometimes is that some of these women are in a position of power (manager at work, etc) so they may bring that home with them as they are accustomed to giving direction and being bossy. I just simply wouldn't tolerate that and I am dominant from the start so there is no surprises. If she doesn't want to run the house hold proportional to our salaries, it also won't work out.
Yep. Plus, harsh reality: hypergamy still holds true for professional women: Women in general seek to settle up, not settle down. Them being career women just moves the goalpost even higher.

They never, ever expect to be the breadwinners in the family. In time they'll develop utter contempt for their partner if they cannot provide and either leave them or fuk around behind their back. Chances of divorce rise exponentially when men either lose their job or end up making lesser income than their partner UNLESS it has potential for better earning in the short-term (like starting a business).
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Originally Posted By bluegold04⏩
You can laugh all you want, but it is women who have created this atmosphere of insecurity. Look up the divorce statistics within marriages where the woman earns more than the man, or even worse if she works and he stays at home. Further, given that around 70% of divorces are initiated by the woman and the family court system is firmly gynocentric, many worthwhile men are understandably super cautious about the situation you so flippantly mock.

"I hate to say it, but a lot of women are insecure when it comes to a man not making more than them. Just LOL."

You can either choose to be a part of the problem or the solution. I don't know you, so I will assume you do want to be part of the solution and your dismissive mockery is a result of ignorance on the matter. Women have it rough in this life, and so do men.
I am in no way of a feminist, but with inflation today woman has to work to provide for the family. Back in the 60's the man could work in a factory on $5 per hour wage and the wife stayed at home. Those days are long gone unless a man makes a chit ton of money. Blaming women for a man's insecurity is not the solution.
post 1547644601 03-28-2018, 11:38 AM
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Originally Posted By Drakken682⏩
Yep. Plus, harsh reality: hypergamy still holds true for professional women: Women in general seek to settle up, not settle down. Them being career women just moves the goalpost even higher.

They never, ever expect to be the breadwinners in the family. In time they'll develop utter contempt for their partner if they cannot provide and either leave them or fuk around behind their back. Chances of divorce rise exponentially when men either lose their job or end up making lesser income than their partner UNLESS it has potential for better earning in the short-term (like starting a business).
There's a level of hypergamy for sure. I don't even think it's a conscious decision though. Both men and women tend to want to date in similar social, educational, and economic statuses.

A woman pulling six figures and wanting to date someone within their age will have a hard time if they expect to settle up. The dating pool gets smaller.

But yeah divorce rates are higher (and initiated by the women) when the male partner earns less or is less educated, but the education part can be countered by pay, but even then there are a lot of women earning more than men.
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post 1547644661 03-28-2018, 11:38 AM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
My aunt is in her late 50s and single. She talked to men that were going through divorces (just happened that way) and dated some but never settled down. This woman is assertive and worked as a Federal Agent for 26 years. She told me she could have gotten some good men but for some reason she didn't want them.
Your aunt probably needs a hyper alpha man.
post 1547644821 03-28-2018, 11:40 AM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
I am in no way of a feminist, but with inflation today woman has to work to provide for the family. Back in the 60's the man could work in a factory on $5 per hour wage and the wife stayed at home. Those days are long gone unless a man makes a chit ton of money. Blaming women for a man's insecurity is not the solution.
Yeah, no. Blaming women is indeed part of the solution, because part of the whole issue is your own fault. Time to spare women's fee-feelz is over: You girls cooked this broth, now eat it.

Women need to work more to provide for the family. Guess what, so do men in a ever-increasing competitive and cutthroat employment market. Plus, now they have to keep their eyes behind their back if they do not want to get metoo-ed into losing their careers on a woman's whim, for a yes or for a no or for wanting the guy's job.
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